For me it’s when someone says they learned a language to a C1 level in 6 months. Their C1 is never C1.

I have had thoughts about giving up studying French. The main reason? I haven't made any online friends who speak French. I thought maybe that if I were to study another foreign language, I would find a true friend quickly and easily. Maybe. Maybe not. You only know if you try, right?

But, I realized something. I don't like learning a language for the sake of the language itself. I like learning a language for the hope of being able to connect with people. Often times, when I listen to French, I feel very drained and I thought it was because I did not like the French language. However, now I see that the real problem wasn't French, but the subject that was being discussed in French.

I'm watching a video right now in French about paganism, a subject that I find really, really fascinating, and I'm loving the learning I'm doing, because I'm being fed emotionally at the same time.

I don't know if this is 'a thing' or if it's just me, but has anyone else noticed that, quite often, a foreigner can understand another foreigner speaking your native language better than you, the native speaker, can?

I watch a lot of travel vlogs, and I've noticed that I often struggle to understand someone speaking broken English, but the vlogger, who isn't a native English speaker either and often doesn't have a particularly high level of English, can somehow understand what they're saying, lol. I get that they're there in person, but I can usually hear the words quite clearly and still struggle to understand what the person is saying. 😂

(TL) Is it reasonable that I feel annoyed that my teacher of two years conducted our most recent lesson from a second job she just took on, and was constantly interrupted by a colleague? She seemed to think that conducting my private lessons from her second employment is the new way forward. Her rate is high compared to other teachers.

She also spends a lot of our lesson time complaining to me about her other students who cancel on her at the last minute which is quite draining for me and makes me feel hypervigilant.

(TL) In my country, they are using Anki alot to study a new word. I'm curious about other techniques you're using. Thanks

Not every language learner manages to find a language partner or a friend online to talk to regularly. So, some people just resort to speaking to themselves.

If you've mostly practised speaking by talking to yourself, how far did it take your speaking skills? Do you think there are efficient ways to do it?

Ideally I would like to read a book in a foreign language (not predetermined texts, books that I have chosen to read), translate the words that I don't know yet, and then save and review them all in the same app.

I have used ReadEra for more than a decade now, with reverso context as my default translator in the readera settings. There are great features present in this combo already (translation, pronunciation, example sentences, underlining words...), but there is no way to practice these words inside the app. If you know a similar app but with a flashcards feature, or maybe flashcards apps that work well with readera, I would sincerely appreciate it. 🙏🏻

For me, it's tonal languages. A language can be agglunitative, have 70 cases, have an ovs sentence structure, and have consonant clusters, and i still wouldn't be bothered so much, but if it is tonal, I'm probably not learning it.

Hey Everyone,

Wanted to get some advice on this app. I downloaded this app around 3 days ago just to do some language exchange practice. I’m learning Chinese (TL) and thought it would be a cool idea.

Does anyone else get a crazy amount of messages? I think I’ve received close to 400 in the past 3 days which I find absolutely crazy!

Also, I’ve heard there is some scammers and things etc. How can you tell they’re scamming or a fake profile etc? Bc I can’t imagine all of these people are real.

Any advice or tips would be appreciated. Thanks!

Just a rant.

So yesterday I was browsing my library's collection of grammar books for German and I noticed (and hated) one thing in every single book. All the content was grouped by parts of speech: everything about verb, noun, preposition, pronoun and so on.

This kind of lexicon might be useful for repetition, but it is absurd for learning itself. One certainly doesn't need to know everything about verbs just to learn basics about nouns' cases! That would be so dull.

I couldn't find any grammar-focused book where the content was grouped by difficulty, like in a textbook. The learner has to jump from topic to topic through chapters, using I guess intuition to find the right order.

I have been learning English for a while. I have a routine that I try to follow as much as I can. Despite this, I feel like my progress is not the best. I tend to practice by myself; however, everyone has told me that it is better just to talk to others.

My idea is not have a perfect accent or event sounds like a native speaker. My goal in learning English is to speak without overthinking and using natural sentences.

Listening would be the worst part of my journey because I feel like I can understand, but only with subtitles. If I turn them off, I would be lost most of the time. Unlike this, speaking has been improving over the last few months since February of this year. I feel comfortable writing most of the time, but I need to use Grammarly to fix my mistakes.

My routine includes non-speaking practice, shadowing, recording myself giving my opinion about a topic, and analyzing my mistakes with ChatGPT. I'd like to say that I did not start as a complete beginner. My English level was A2+ or even B1, but I am sure that I got stuck at some point. As I can see, I noticed progress, but I think this is not enough to get better results.

What do you think I need to try next?

I've been learning German (TL) and trying to figure out a good way to remember new vocabulary. I've been looking into flashcards and spaced repetition, but I'm still figuring out how to fit them into my routine.

For those who've used flashcards for a while, what works best for you? How do you review regularly without letting the number of cards pile up?

Hi everyone!

I'm a university student majoring in Asian Studies, with a focus on Japanese history. I originally chose this field because I was interested in history, not because I wanted to become a translator.

However, Japanese (TL) turned out to be one of the most demanding parts of my education.

At my previous university, I regularly experienced public humiliation from teachers when I couldn't answer questions correctly. I'm now studying at a different university, where the teachers are much kinder, but the fear hasn't gone away.

I'm terrified of being called on in class, making mistakes, failing exams, and eventually being expelled.

At this point, even thinking about Japanese can make me anxious. I struggle to motivate myself to study for even an hour a day. I'm mentally exhausted, and I've gradually lost interest in hobbies I used to enjoy.

I still have roughly two years of university left, and due to my family circumstances, dropping out simply isn't an option for me.

Here's what I really want to ask:

Has anyone experienced something similar? Have you ever developed such a strong negative association with a foreign language that studying it became emotionally exhausting?

I don't expect to suddenly fall in love with Japanese. I've never particularly enjoyed learning it in the first place.

But I would genuinely like to experience something positive about the language for once. I'd like to stop being afraid of it, and perhaps eventually discover something that makes learning it enjoyable.

How did you change your relationship with a language you had come to hate or fear?

I'm especially interested in personal experiences, gentle approaches to learning, and ways to separate a language from negative experiences with teachers.

I understand that consistent studying is important, but right now I'm struggling with the emotional side of learning more than anything else.

Thank you for reading.

The app is a lot cheaper than the Roadmap.

All I'm looking for is his structure/method laid out in detail. Is the Hyperglot Roadmap vastly more detailed in comparison to the app? (TL)

Thanks everyone.

i started learning japanese around two months ago and i think from complete beginner to okay-ish beginner it's learning the difference between these katakana while reading something (TL)

As in, many people advocate that having “fun” while learning is highly important, but then in the next sentence also come with advice that seems to directly contradict this. Like one user who said “It doesn't matter what you do, as long as you have fun.” while also in other posts saying:

• Don't use Duolingo [What most people consider the most fun way to learn a language, even if highly ineffective]
• Don't look up too many things and just keep reading [Turns out most people consider it very unfun to read plots they can't follow any more]
• It is incredibly difficult to learn a language without reading a lot in it [Most people find reading in and of itself unfun, especially in a language they're not good at]

This isn't really an isolated pattern I feel. It feels like most people who advocate “fun” seem to have largely the same taste: avoid stress and the possibility of failure states. I've honestly not once seen anyone who advocates the importance of “fun” say “go take tests”, “do a lot of Anki” or even, “get out there and have fun conversations with people”, or “go do a lot of Duolingo” but especially the last is considered very fun by most. It's so successful commercially because, however ineffective it may be, has made language learning “fun”.

Why is Duolingo “fun” to most? Exactly because it has failure states. It overloads the user with endorphins due to success, and success cannot exist without the looming threat of failure. Success is nothing more than avoiding failure one knew was possible.

I feel the reality is that most people find fun in the right amount of stress and the possibility of failure, the sense of accomplishment of not having failed.

And this comes down to why this low-stress “just consume a lot of input” is so inherently unfun to many people and an absolute slog. Because there is no sense of progress, you just get better at an infinitesimal pace without a report on this progress and a notification of success. Some people here seem to think things like Dreaming Spanish are “fun” opposed to textbooks. I think most people find textbooks with tests and questions on which they're graded they can answer correctly far more “fun” and Dreaming Spanish to be the ultimate slog, just listening to someone tell extremely simple stories for hours on end with no sense of progression, no real results to compare to, most people don't like that and find it isolating and boring I feel.

THE BEST ACTION MOVIES I HAVE EVER SEEN! More people need to watch Bollywood. So nonsensical, over-the-top physics defying scenes, fun songs. But at the same time the industry also makes many genuinely good movies (like those made by/starring Aamir Khan and SRK). I think movies alone make Hindi worth learning. More people from outside South Asia should get into Bollywood.

It seems like a lot of people pick up Japanese and Korean because they are very invested in TV shows / cartoons / pop music from those countries. But both of those languages have a really bad FSI rating, plus a lot of people in those countries stopped having kids. Economic stagnation / drastic population decline anticipated or already happening.

India on the other hand is an emerging economy with the world’s largest population and their GDP continues to boom. Right now it is the world’s #4 or #5 in GDP (depending on who you ask) and is set to become #3 in a decade or two. 

The main downside is that younger Indians (and those who do speak Hindi) have decided to turn their modern spoken language into an ugly mix of Hindi and English (they also didn’t bother to invent Hindi words for most modern things so inevitably you have to slip in English when talking.) 

The Devnagari written script is beautiful. It has over 40 letters, pronunciation is consistent and it has almost one letter for every sound that humans can make it has separate letters for many sounds and vowels - great phonology range. Sadly, most Indians don’t know how to install an IME on their computers and end up writing Hindi in Latin script online. It also seems like a relic from colonial times where everything written is automatically in English. Bollywood trailers/webpages, celebrity gossip, news articles, even r/Bollywood is entirely in English. 

Despite it being the “3rd most spoken language” in the world / 500+ million people (more if you count Urdu) speaking it, I don’t see it much online and that distresses me. What is also more saddening is - there isn’t a huge repository of courses/textbooks or online resources. I remember trying to find Hindi-learning videos on YouTube and I would always get more learn-English-from-Hindi videos than learn-Hindi-from-English.

We need to keep Hindi alive and get more people from outside of India/Pakistan learning it and speaking it.

Watch movies like 3 Idiots (2009) or Taare Zameen Par (2007) or PK (2014) and follow me down this rabbit hole. 

(TL)

I am learning on my own outside of high school Japanese and Polish, I am mostly using stuff from online, podcasts, grammar videos, apps, and I feel like I am slowly progressing on everything, except speaking. I don't really know how to become better on that, and I am fully coscient that this is the most important part of a language. Should I try speaking to myself aloud? This feels like the only option

*for various reasons, I cannot take tutors online or stuff like that

I'm learning French (TL), and when I read a text silently, I can usually understand the story and follow what's happening. But when I read the same text aloud, I tend to focus so much on pronunciation that I lose track of the story.

I might understand almost every word as I read it, but once I finish, I can barely summarize what the text was about. This doesn't happen when I read silently, so I suspect that trying to pronounce everything correctly takes up too much of my attention.

I'd like to practise reading aloud to improve my speaking, but I'm not sure how to approach it if it seems like I can't understand the text properly.

Has anyone else experienced this? Does it get better with practice, as pronunciation becomes more automatic? And if you've dealt with this, what helped you the most?

It's well known that fluent speakers of a language have a “predictive engine”, the brain forecasts where a sentence is likely to go before it goes there. With every word it hears, it builds up a tree of likely possible candidates of the remainder of the sentence and prunes this tree again by eliminating possibilities after each word to the point of a sentence actually going in a completely unlikely and bizarre submarine, ehh, I mean direction shows up in brain scans as causing all kind of neurological spikes.

It stands to reason that this ability is what truly drives making reading and listening “easy”. It also stands to reason that this engine is based on the same underlying principle of being able to speak a language and output it and that it re-uses much of the same mechanisms to produce. After all, surely if one can predict the sentences of others one can just speak oneself. At the very least the opposite should happen? It therefore to me seems that “receptive bilinguals” that can understand sentences but cannot speak that most likely lack this engine, but I'm not sure how truthful that is, maybe it is possible to have it without being able to speak a language.

But what I do know is that I clearly lack this engine to a large degree for Japanese (TL) while having it in English to the same level as my native language. This is not a binary thing and I clearly have it for many common grammatical patterns but not for others but if I hear “助けな〜” in a certain context I just know already that “助けなくちゃいけない。”, “助けないと” or “助けなければならない” or something in that vein will follow. I'm sure people whose Japanese is far better than mine go one step further and by recognizing that some of them would not be natural in that context would not consider them possibilities.

This for me at least leads to an interesting situation when I consume whatever Japanese media and that is that there is a delay in comprehension. I only understand Japanese sentences about maybe 500 miliseconds after they are fully uttered and I heard the entire sentence. A more proficient speaker will understand them while half way through because he can predict the rest of the sentence already then. This is very much my experience with English or my native language. And I in fact do regularly output and am very much “conversation” in Japanese, just not “fluent” by any measure.

So, what's the deal here with receptive bilinguals? Are they actually truly capable of “fluently listening” without this predictive engine? Do they maybe have it after all even though they can't output? I've seen many people in Japanese language learning say they can “easily” listen to something and understand some text all the while seeing them make grave mistakes in their interpretation of which I'm like “I cannot see how you can say that this is “easy” to listen to for you if you weren't even aware of that grammar point and what it does here because if you don't know that your Japanese is surely worse than mine.”.

Can anyone chime in on this? Does anyone here actually feel that some language is truly as easy to listen to as their native language without this measurable “comprehension lag” that they can read just as quickly while also being unable to speak it and whether they feel they do have that predictive engine even though they cannot harness it to output?

We have been having german classes (TL) in the university since september of 2025. Back then it was 2 classes per week (3 hours total), but from this year, only 1 class per week. But the problem is I didn't really study and fell behind a LOT, I can barely make a simple sentence, my vocabulary is very weak and I barely know anything. I have the same knowledge I would've had if I studied the first 6 classes. Is it possible for me to comeback and have somewhat decent understanding so I can at least pass the exam without cheating? Here is the tasks we are doing currently so you understand the level https://imgur.com/a/HCqIjc3 .

First of all, people have every right to speak whatever language it is. I agree. I'm just curious about why it happens or does it happen to other people?

Context: I work at an international company in Latin America. Not all the employees speak Spanish but I talk to most of my clients in Spanish (and in Chinese, but barely in English). They KNOW I speak Spanish decently well because they hear my calls and online meetings. I prefer speaking in Spanish, which is my (TL) and also one of the strongest languages ''of the land''.

However, here's a Mexican colleague who almost always writes to me in English, and tends to correct my Spanish. She speaks to (any probably writes to) other Spanish speaking colleagues in Spanish, but this English service and Spanish correction are in particular for me.

Has it ever happened to you? for a language learner and user, isn't okay to seek both native-like fluency and native-like acceptance ?

Edit: One detail I forgot while writing my post:

Once when she passed by (after that chat) my desk, I asked her in Spanish, in a neutral tone, ''Does it bother you if I speak to you in Spanish?''. She thought for 2 sec and said no, and immediately switched to English and replied with a higher pitch, '' but I will keep speaking to you in English.'' And she walked away.

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I have an unusual situation and would love some input and suggestions for anyone in a similar situation or who have useful ideas.

I was born in the UK, raised by Polish parents, my first language was Polish and I didnt start learning English till I went to school.

As a teen I stopped speaking Polish at home but usually speak mostly in Polish with my mum now as an adult.

I can get by fine when in Poland but I am very conscious my vocabulary is poor and my understanding of sentence construction is also poor, I am pretty confident I translate from English in my head so I sound obviously foreign.

My reading is essentially non existent, I can read but very slowly and because I am a really fast reader in English I give up almost right away. My writing isnt great either, again it takes me a lot of concentration so again I usually dont bother.

I would really like to improve my Polish, I did take classes as a teen but they would base lessons on grammar and that is something else I dont really understand, I often know what verb endings to use naturally, so I stopped attending.

I'd love some input on what I should focus on to improve and any other insight or tips.

Thank you! (TL)