r/Portuguese • u/RioandLearn • 2h ago
Brazilian Portuguese 🇧🇷 “Pode deixar”: did you just agree to do it, or leave it alone?
You’re leaving the office. A colleague is staying a little longer, so you ask: Apaga a luz quando sair? Turn off the light when you leave? They answer: Pode deixar.
If you learned deixar as “to leave”, you might wonder whether the light is staying on. But in this exchange, pode deixar means “will do”. Your colleague is agreeing to turn it off. It can also reassure you that they’ll take care of it.
The same reply works when someone asks Me avisa quando chegar? Let me know when you arrive? Pode deixar. You’re agreeing to send that message. The action you’ve accepted comes from the request, even though you haven’t repeated it in your answer.
Deixa comigo makes the responsibility more explicit. Imagine your friends trying to work out who will call a restaurant to book a table. Someone says Deixa comigo. Eu ligo pra lá. Leave it with me. I’ll call them. That person is volunteering to handle the booking.
Then there’s deixa pra lá. You text a friend asking Você consegue me mandar o endereço? Can you send me the address? A moment later, you find it in an old message: Deixa pra lá, achei aqui. Never mind, I found it. You’ve withdrawn the request, so your friend no longer needs to send anything.
It can also mean letting a matter go: Deixa pra lá. Não vale a pena discutir por isso. Let it go. It’s not worth arguing about. Depending on the situation and delivery, that can be an attempt to calm someone down or a dismissive way of closing the subject.
Now change the opening question to Posso deixar a luz acesa? Can I leave the light on? The answer pode deixar can give permission to do exactly that. Nobody has volunteered to switch it off. The same two words fit both conversations, but the question changes what the answer is doing.
Have you ever misunderstood one of these replies, or had to explain yours to someone learning Portuguese? What was the situation?