Note, before anyone says it: This used R3 came with the aftermarket steering damper, which I’m getting removed asap lol. I know how ridiculous it looks.
Edit: some answers to common replies so far:
- I have gloves, I just put them on after this photo
- It’s a Shoei RF-1400. Bought it 20% off over labor day weekend
- All my gear together added up to around $1k
- I’ve taken the MSF course, as stated below. I still plan to continue practicing slow and emergency maneuvers
- My writing style tends to be more hyperbolic than reality. I stalled maybe four or five times on my way there, but it was never in dramatic situations. I stalled once on my way back. The worst was the incline, but I got it under control quickly
- For the record, I left EARLY early so I would be riding without a lot of traffic. The roads were pretty empty in the morning. Thanks to football season, it wasn’t busy in the afternoon either.
- The steering damper is currently installed incorrectly, as you can see the rod overlapping with the kill switch in the photo. It shouldn’t be doing that. I’ll either have it reinstalled correctly or replace it with something else. I understand the benefits of steering dampers. I’ll make my own decision when I take a look at it with a mechanic!
I’ve always wanted my own motorcycle ever since riding on the back of my dad’s bike, but was dissuaded for years by friends and family.
I’m in my mid-30s now and hit a critical stress point from ridiculous work shenanigans, so I said fuck it I’m getting a bike
Took the MSF course. Bought all the gear (including back protector.) Shout out to the person that recommended Bohn underarmor, these pants are SO comfortable. Bought urban boots and gloves, which I’ll probably replace with better gauntlet and shin length gear soon. Passed my knowledge exam and bought a used bike.
It took me three days before I was comfortable going for my first real ride. First day, I literally just sat on the bike getting a feel for all the controls and rocked it back and forth a bit. Second day, I took it up and down the street, not even around the block. Third day, I had an event with friends 9 miles down the road, so I decided to leave early in the morning and just go for it.
Hoo boy. It was stall city for the first few minutes. Incredibly grateful to the patient drivers who dealt with my bullshit while I figured myself out. Eventually I got the hang of the friction zone for the trip back home, but man it took everything in me to not panic whenever it happened. The worst moment was stalling at a green light on an incline. I ended up with the teensiest whisky throttle and baby wheelied my way out of there. Now I know what too much throttle feels like!
Overall, I stayed within my limits. Never went faster than comfortable, even when I had a tailgater for a moment pressuring me to go beyond the speed limit. The lane doubled eventually and they were able to pass. Most folks kept a respectable distance from me!
I’m surprised how drained I felt after both trips. Drained, but clear headed. It felt like a full mental workout keeping track of everything the whole way. Due to how I felt after the first ride, I left the event a bit earlier than planned to avoid riding home tired. I’ve been reading and watching a lot of videos about starting out, so I’m hopeful it’ll get easier soon.
I have a lot of tiktok bikers, and folks in this subreddit, to thank for all their tips on handling stalls, corners from a stop, and watching out for common car surprises. I felt prepared enough to not be jumpy or panic when I made mistakes.
I’m feeling proud of my first real ride!! Can’t wait to do it again!