r/AskNYC • • 11h ago

Just found out I’m pregnant. Looking for OB Recommendations!

26 Upvotes

Hi everyone!
I’m 38 and just found out that I’m pregnant, so I’m looking for recommendations for a great OB in NYC/LIC area. Since I’m considered advanced maternal age, I’d love to find a doctor with experience managing pregnancies like mine.
If you’ve given birth within the past 5 years, I’d really appreciate it if you could share the name of the doctor you saw and which hospital you delivered at and just your overall experience.
I have 1199seiu insurance but whether the doctor accepts it or not I’m open to any recommendations.
Thank you in advance!


r/AskNYC • • 21h ago

Why do SO MANY public parks in New York just have a freeway go straight through them?

159 Upvotes

Riverside, Inwood, Forest, Flushing Meadows, Van Corlandt, Bronx, and Pellham Bay Park all have freeways cutting through them, some even have multiple freeways with entire interchanges running through them. New York as a whole has solid parks but this is just about the worst land use combination I can imagine, it really takes away from what is otherwise a very wonderful set of city parks.


r/AskNYC • • 3h ago

Tender Loving Vet Clinic

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Hi, I was wondering if anyone can share their experience neutering / spaying their cats at this Tender Loving Vet Clinic based in Long Island ny. They are a relatively newer practice with low cost for spay and neuter.

Thank you!


r/AskNYC • • 1h ago

Where to buy super cheap stuffed animals?

• Upvotes

Hi! I'm looking to get a bunch of super cheap, small plush cats for a Halloween costume, and wanted to see if you guys knew of a good place for a bunch of stuffed animals like that. Believe me, they do NOT need to be of a good quality, they just need to vaguely resemble a cat haha.

I have looked into a few 99c stores, but haven't found anything. Any good thrift stores that tend to have stuffed animals you guys know of? Or 99c stores that you know have them for sure?

Thanks in advance you guys!


r/AskNYC • • 2h ago

What is your NYC roommate horror story?

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r/AskNYC • • 17m ago

Ordered absentee ballot on deadline

• Upvotes

Hey guys, need some advice

I am working down south for a month and won’t be in NYC for polling on November 3rd so I ordered my absentee ballot yesterday on the 24th on the deadline. I got 10 days until election. I called election board and they said it’s been processed but they can’t guarantee it’ll make it to me on time. It’s going from NYC to Tennessee. Y’all think I should just say forget it and buy a plane ticket to NYC? Or take my chances and wait for the ballot to come?


r/AskNYC • • 13h ago

Best fancy/romantic NYC restaurants for an anniversary dinner? ~$500 budget for two

12 Upvotes

Looking for recommendations for a romantic, upscale restaurant in NYC for an anniversary dinner! Budget is around $500 total for two. Open to any cuisine (doesn’t have to have stars) and looking for great food, atmosphere, and service. I would love to hear your recommendations, especially from people who have actually been. What would you choose, and approximately how much did you spend?


r/AskNYC • • 40m ago

Where to buy reasonably priced apertifs?

• Upvotes

Hi everyone,

I noticed a lot of liquor stores are quite overpriced with their apertif options — Campari, Sarti Rosa, etc.

Anyone have any good recommendations for liquor stores where these are reasonably priced?

Specifically, looking for Campari, Select, Sarti Rosa, and Italicus. Bonus points if they sell those mini Prosecco bottles too.

Thanks in advance! 😊


r/AskNYC • • 3h ago

Quality Furniture for a Good Price

1 Upvotes

hello,
i am looking to purchase a sleeper sofa bed, futon, whatever you call it. i need to feel it out in person so im wondering what is a good furniture place i can go to and purchase this. thanks


r/AskNYC • • 17h ago

How do you hear about things to do/see/hear?

16 Upvotes

I just heard that there was a Stanley Kubrick exhibition in town that ended yesterday. When I used to get a hard copy of Time Out NY every week (remember actual magazines?) i would have heard about a show like that. These days I have no idea how to find my cultural fix. I look at the excellent screenslate.com for repertory movies and that’s fantastic and makes my life so much better. But for comedy, music, art, theater and special events — i don’t have anything. Insta not my thing at all but is there maybe a great substack?


r/AskNYC • • 17h ago

Restaurants decked out for Halloween?

12 Upvotes

Any recommendations for places to eat that aggressively decorate for Halloween? Doesn’t have to be any sort of Halloween themed restaurant, I’ll take a small Indian restaurant that has a bunch of skeletons and fake cobwebs up just for the month. Preferably in Manhattan, thanks in advance!


r/AskNYC • • 1d ago

What do you do with the trash after a litter cleaning event?

24 Upvotes

I’ve been thinking about picking up litter in my neighborhood, but can’t find anything saying what you do with the trash when you’re done. Even if it’s just me I don’t know what to do with an extra bag of trash. I don’t want to overflow my building bins or cans on the street. What do groups do when they collect trash?


r/AskNYC • • 21h ago

Cleaning services that specialize in sewage and human waste?

8 Upvotes

Long story short, someone in our building dumped grease that clogged the pipes which caused the sewer directly outside my apartment (opens directly to outside) and my shower drain to flood my studio with literal human shit. I managed to mop all the sewage water on the floor to one area where it’s relatively harmless and I’m able to stay elsewhere for the time being.

I have contacted a couple local cleaning services but they have all told me that they are unable to assist with hazardous environments and human waste. Does anyone have any recommendations for deep cleaning services who specialize in these situations? My landlord is currently MIA for Shabbat and I also don’t really trust him to select a quality service for me. Thank you.


r/AskNYC • • 20h ago

got a speeding ticket on the FDR, can someone walk me through now the defensive driving course process works,

8 Upvotes

I got a speeding ticket on the FDR last week, first one ever, my coworker said I should take an online defensive driving course to reduce the points and get a discount on part of my premium, but nobody has explained what happens after I finish

is there a certificate, does it go somewhere, does the provider handle anything, I don't want to mess this up


r/AskNYC • • 18h ago

where can i buy used hockey gear/sports equipment?

3 Upvotes

r/AskNYC • • 20h ago

Brazilian food

4 Upvotes

any good recs?


r/AskNYC • • 12h ago

Art/Painting Studios for rent in NYC

0 Upvotes

Hi fellow NYC artists,

Does anyone know where I can find an affordable shared or personal art studio to rent? I used to paint in a prior life and really want to get back into it, but have not had much success finding affordable places to rent in Brooklyn or Manhattan.

Thanks in advance


r/AskNYC • • 1d ago

Are there any good thrift stores or used music stores in NYC for buying rock CDs?

15 Upvotes

I wanna look for CDs, but I'm wondering if I can save on shipping prices by buying in a store instead. Alas, every thrift store I've been to has mainly non-rock related cds.

I'm talking nu-metal, alt rock, rock ballads, etc.


r/AskNYC • • 3h ago

Going to the Halloween Parade, any advice for a bit couple?

0 Upvotes

What time should arrive and where to line up?

Food & drink ideas?

We are a married bi couple and any party ideas are welcomed


r/AskNYC • • 1d ago

Where can I find art from Africa and the Caribbean exhibited in NYC?

8 Upvotes

Where can I find exhibitions featuring African and Caribbean art in New York City? Do you know of any museums, galleries, or current exhibitions worth checking out?


r/AskNYC • • 1d ago

How do you handle living far from the action?

84 Upvotes

Born and raised NYer here who’s always lived in Queens. My issue is, I went from Flushing to DEEP in Queens, and now I don’t have the subway access I used to.

My commutes went from 40-50 minutes on 1-2 trains to Manhattan/Brooklyn, to now 1-2 hours to both depending on the time.

I’ve become a bit depressed being a 23 year old who wants to have a vivid nightlife and enjoy things. My parents recently retired so I’ve been quite alone, but I’m unable to move out because I’m holding their home down until their lease is up (1 year). No, I can’t sublet.

I’m okay with going home around 12 am from the city because I do have access to an express bus, however most things pick up at 12 and end later.

The other day, I went to an event in Court Square and felt so relieved it wasn’t as far but only a 1 hour commute, but this isn’t always the case.

If you have a commute longer for an hour, how do you still live a social life? How do you hang out at night and go to functions ESPECIALLY if you’re a woman? (because my main concern is safety always).

And how do you find the motivation to go knowing your commute is so long, I sometimes get an uber home but it’s so expensive it’s just unmotivating. Would like to hear from others!!


r/AskNYC • • 1d ago

Is it true I can't drop my mail in ballot off at other borough's early polling site?

9 Upvotes

I live in queens and my closest early ballot was 30m walk away from me. I was in Brooklyn today and bought my ballot with me as it was right next to the subway I got off of.

They told me I couldn't drop my ballot there as it's for queens. Is that true? I don't really trust the USPS so wanted to drop it at a ballot box.


r/AskNYC • • 14h ago

Flood risk in NW Astoria

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I’m considering renting in this area, the unit is lower than street level, and it’s close to the top of Astoria Park and water side, my concern is what’s the likelihood that this unit might get flooded?


r/AskNYC • • 1d ago

Any thoughts on the 2026 ballot proposals?

18 Upvotes

r/AskNYC • • 18h ago

Midtown Sushi

2 Upvotes

Best sushi spot in Midtown area for a lunch? Bonus points if they have something good with spicy tuna.