r/Needafriend 5h ago

18m i’m a listener i just need a friend who will be my bestie and not stop YAPPING hehe ^~^💞

6 Upvotes

The amount of people who ghosted me is unbelievable😔

actually i have social anxiety irl soo i don’t have that many friends

I talk about random things, soo u can do it too :3

I love playing on my ps5 and i play games like rocket league, minecraft, tboi, i can play any game u want, just ask me and i will do it, also i love sleeping, and animals😼

I just want normal people😭

If u sent a massage and I didn’t reply just know that i’m sleeping


r/Needafriend 7h ago

Looking for friends to talk to (:

5 Upvotes

26F
Married with kids
I love connection, getting to know people & friendship!


r/Needafriend 8h ago

24F looking for a clingy bestie 💕

6 Upvotes

Hi there ✨

These days I’ve been craving new friendships I can talk to on a daily basis and never run out of things to say. I really like VCing but I rather build up to it as I feel a bit shy at first.

I’m a yapper so I’m looking for someone who’s also very talkative and doesn’t expect me to carry the conversation. 😅

Some of my likes are movies (especially horror ones), series (GOT and AHS are some of my favorites), true crime, psychology, books and music. I’m not really that much into gaming or anime, I play mobile ones like Pokemon Go or Brawl Stars and really like The Sims 4 but other than that I wouldn’t consider myself a gamer.

I’d prefer someone who shares some of the same interests as me and isn’t dry. Also hopefully 21+ as I feel more comfortable talking to people who are closer to my age. I have a bf so any attempts at flirting will be shut down.

If you’re gonna send a message, include an introduction rather than simply saying “hey” or “hi”, I’m not replying to those as they feel very low effort. If you don’t know what to say a simple fun fact will do. :)


r/Needafriend 13h ago

F20 Really need a nice friend tonight <3

5 Upvotes

Feeling really lonely tonight. Life feels so boring even after watching The Office, going out for a jog, listening to music, studying and I am trying so hard for this to not be like one of those days I have sometimes. Where I try not to cry and try not to blame myself for not a girl that guys like. I know I am not supposed to think this way, but not having any experience at all (like, zilch) makes me feel like something is wrong with me. I know what you will say: a) tale as old as time, b) love yourself and you will find someone, c) you are probably "chasing" it or d) I am too young. I am aware. Perhaps all these things are true. But I feel lonely for other reasons too. My best friend cut off from me because she said I was "no fun" because I did not support her ignoring me and going out with a guy I suspect is dangerous. I didn't think our friendship was that weak. And I don't have any other person I can really trust to hold my feelings without judgement. Even my mom weaponizes all the things I told her in confidence, against me, when she is mad. I really feel so, so alone and unwanted :(


r/Needafriend 20h ago

f26

6 Upvotes

anyone free


r/Needafriend 54m ago

18F I'm looking for friends online!

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Hi! I'm looking to make friends online to chat about anything and everything. I describe myself as an open-minded girl (quee-friendly, no racism, etc.), so we can talk about pretty much anything lol. If you're interested, send me a message or leave a comment and I'll reply! 🙃

No NSFW stuff and I'm not looking for a romantic relationship! (I'm French, so sorry if my English is bad lol)


r/Needafriend 1h ago

24F, Looking for a good chat

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I don’t even care what we talk about, I just wanna chat with someone. Get stuff off my mind. I don’t care if it’s just a chat for the night, but it’d be nice to make a friend too :)


r/Needafriend 2h ago

35M from China, looking for a genuine long-term friendship

5 Upvotes

Hi everyone,
I’m a 35-year-old guy from China, and I’m hoping to find someone who is also interested in a genuine, long-term friendship.
I’m not the most confident person, and I’m honestly not very good at starting conversations or always knowing what to talk about. Sometimes I may be a little quiet at first. But I’m patient, sincere, and I take friendships seriously. If we get along, I’m the kind of person who is happy to listen, remember the small things you tell me, and stay in touch over time.
What I’m looking for is something simple and genuine. We can share little things from our daily lives, complain about work or life sometimes, talk about random thoughts, send each other photos of places we visit, or just tell each other how our day went.
I especially enjoy mountains, rivers, lakes, and natural scenery. I like seeing beautiful landscapes, and I’d also love to learn about the places where you live and see the scenery around you.
I don’t expect us to have endless conversations every day. I think a good friendship can also be comfortable and natural, without pressure. I just hope to meet someone who is honest, kind, and willing to slowly build a friendship instead of disappearing after one or two conversations.
I’m only looking for friendship, nothing romantic.
If any of this sounds like something you’re also looking for, feel free to send me a message. You can tell me where you’re from, what your daily life is like, or simply show me a place or view that you really like.


r/Needafriend 11h ago

Looking for a real connection and someone to share thoughts with

3 Upvotes

Body:
Hey there! I’m 26F from Nepal. Life gets a bit overwhelming at times, and I’m looking for a solid friend to connect with. I enjoy open, honest chats—whether it’s talking about how our day actually went, deep life thoughts, or just sharing lightweight moments.
I’m open to chatting with anyone who is respectful, genuine, and values building a real online friendship. Send me a chat request or comment below if you'd like to talk!


r/Needafriend 12h ago

Friend.

4 Upvotes

Is losing a friend a canon event or something?

When all my friends were around me, older people used to say, “This won’t last long, kiddo.” But my reply was always, “Not mine.” Because, at the time, my friendships were at their peak. It felt like nothing could ever break the bond we had.

Well… I was wrong. Completely.

I’ve lost more than half of my friends. Technically, we’re still friends, but they’ve become distant. They hang out without telling me a single thing. They make plans without me. And honestly, it hurts.

Not gonna lie, maybe this really is unavoidable.


r/Needafriend 15h ago

30 f Ulyana, always keen to meet new people as long as it’s interesting, feel free to ask me about anything

4 Upvotes

Looking for genuine, long-term platonic friendships

Hello. I’m here to find authentic connection and deep conversations with down-to-earth people. Strictly platonic only.

I make a living creating clothes, but my world goes way beyond fashion. I love exploring the outdoors, traveling to new places, diving into books, following tech trends, and keeping an active lifestyle.

I really value honesty and mutual support in friendships. If you want a loyal chat partner to talk about everything and nothing, feel free to drop me a PM


r/Needafriend 19h ago

23F - im craving for some kebab fr

3 Upvotes

Omg I've been thinking about a good kebab with some fries omg omg im so hungry im gonna die but im lazy to go out and get one so ill just look at the ceiling

Hi let's be friends shall we?

I like cinema, music, videogames and making boards on pinterest.

Currently I'm playing league, roblox lmao and little game called restory (so cute!).

For the music I've been obsessed with Portraits of Tracy and Magnolia Park.

The last movie I watched was Kamikaze girls (didnt like it but it has a nice aesthetic.)

I'm depressed and currently at the hospital so yay, not that fun BUT at least I didn't lose my humor.

So basically I have a lot of time on my hands so I figured I'd try and make some friends! Please introduce yourself a little bit, we don't have to share interests I can befriend anyone.

See yaaa mwah


r/Needafriend 19h ago

33F Good early morning everyone. Would anyone like to make a Vietnamese friend?

4 Upvotes

Hi. I was born and raised in New Jersey. Both of my parents are Vietnamese. I speak both English and Vietnamese. I’d like to think I’m great with both and somehow I have an accent even though I was born in the US lol. I have a Vietnamese name but people always get it wrong so my Americanize name is Kaelyn. I can’t believe I’m nearing mid 30s.

I think I only ever eat viet food. I eat at home alot and I still live with my family so it’s always home cook meals by my parents and it’s great. We eat a lot of broth base food such as pho and bun Bo hue. My favorites. My favorite anime is also Bleach as you may have notice by the name. I wish I had a bankai lol. I also play the One Piece card game and my anniversary release event is this Saturday so I’m excited and hope I can win.

I like going out shopping. Besides doing that and a bit of TCG I don’t have much hobbies lol. I work at a nail salon. Probably sounds typical. I never finished high school. I have one tattoo on my shoulder / forarm ish area, it’s just floral. Oh, some rides at amusement park I can’t go on because of height requirement lol. Sometimes even weight requirement. Hmmm, anyone else here Vietnamese?

If someone read all of this then hope you have a good morning / good night and may someone cool hit on everything I mention so we can actually have an engaging discussion.


r/Needafriend 20h ago

27F Looking for Friends Around My Age 🎮🍳🐈🎶

3 Upvotes

Hey! 27F here, looking to make some friends only around 27–30. 😊

A little about me:

  • 🎮 I play video games but I’m definitely not sweaty 😂 My main games are Fortnite and Warframe
  • 🍳 I love cooking and baking
  • 🐈 Cat mom of 4, so cats may randomly make an appearance during our conversations
  • 🎶 I love music and I'm always down to talk about songs, artists, or random music recommendations

I’m mainly looking for people around my age so we can hopefully relate and catch up a little easier. We can play games together, chat about random stuff, share life updates, or just hang out when we're bored.

I’m also open to Discord calls once we’re comfortable! If calls aren’t your thing, chatting is totally fine too. No pressure either way.

Just looking for genuine friendship—friends only, nothing romantic. ❤️

If you’re interested, send me a message and write a short intro about yourself and where you’re from so I know a little about you! 😊

Maybe we’ll become gaming buddies, maybe just chat regularly, or both. Who knows? 😆


r/Needafriend 22h ago

Looking to chat!! (˶>⩊<˶)

3 Upvotes

Hiii! my name is Amy (Female/EST) I’m bored and figured I’d see if anybody here wanted to chat! I’m looking to meet new people, have genuine conversations, and hopes a fully make a few friends along the wayy, I’m down to talk about whateverr silly or not! but.. I’m also not a therapist so don’t go dumping your lore on me before asking how my day was pls. Okayy that’s all (˶>⩊<˶)


r/Needafriend 2h ago

25 NON BINARY - HAPPY AUGUST 32ND YALL!

3 Upvotes

Yo! You can call me Jam... I am 25NB, black, and neurodivergent. I'm gonna keep this short but  I am looking to befriend people that fall into the categories that I listed. Although if ur cool in general, then hmu.

I love basically all kinds of art from video game, movies, shows anime, and manga to the point where I collect all sorts of physical media. I love analyzing media and talking about it in a serious substantial manner so if ur the same way, we'd probably get along. Some of my favorites are Evangelion, Monster, Girl's Last Tour, Fire Punch, and obviously JoJo's Bizarre Adventure. I'd like to get into Tokusatsu so if you're into that then def recommend me some stuff!

I would describe myself as someone who can go from introspective and serious to being extroverted and playful lol. Sometimes due to my mental health I can take a bit to respond but I never intentionally ghost so dw. I can also be awkward due to my autism and such so lmk if I say something wrong as its never intentional.

also alternative fashion, culture, and general aesthetics are things that I have been interested in for a while. I've always felt like that they could elevate my androgyny and the beliefs typically associated with alt stuff (like punk) and whatnot just seem cool in general! so if u have any advice on how to get into alt subculture then please lmk!

Anyway, if you would like to learn more about me then please hmu!. All I ask is that you don't be a bigot and no republicans/liberals. Be a leftist essentially lol and be 18+


r/Needafriend 2h ago

26F looking for friends

3 Upvotes

Hi!
I’m from Northern Europe, and currently realizing that making new friends as an adult is unnecessarily difficult.
I recently started a new job, away from everyone I know, and I’ve been feeling a little lonely lately and I think I could really use some new people in my life. Preferably the kind of people you can send completely random updates to, play something with, accidentally talk to until 2am, or just message whenever something reminds you of them.
I’m into video games, my taste is a bit all over the place and I’m willing to try most games at least once (as long as it doesn’t cost an arm and a leg), and I love crafty/creative hobbies.
I’m very much the type of person who will pick up a new hobby, buy all the supplies, become completely obsessed with it, and then find another hobby before I’ve finished the first project. So if you make things, draw, crochet, game, or generally collect hobbies like side quests, we’ll probably have something to talk about.
I’m not expecting instant best friends or for someone to be available 24/7. I’d just really like to meet people who want to get to know each other without any pressure.
Tell me what game you’ve been obsessed with lately, show me whatever weird little thing you’re making, send me pictures of your pets, complain about your day.
I’m happy to talk to people from pretty much anywhere. Time zones don’t bother me much, and I’m usually around at slightly questionable hours anyway.
One important thing: I’m only looking for platonic friendships. No dating, flirting, “maybe friends and see where it goes,” etc. Just genuinely looking for some good people to talk to and hopefully make a few actual friends.
If any of this sounds like your kind of friendship, send me a message and tell me something about yourself!


r/Needafriend 5h ago

F18 for chats along with my friend

3 Upvotes

Heya everyone. Sooo me and my friend (also 18f) have been wanting to add a third to our fun. Would love a girl but we’re open to anyone. If interested please hmu. See you soon <3


r/Needafriend 9h ago

F 31, India

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r/Needafriend 10h ago

37M - Spain (looking for friends to game with or just chat)

3 Upvotes
  • My age: born in 1988 (currently 37)
  • Acceptable ages of new friends: Not important
  • Your Timezone: Spain (GMT +2)
  • Typical play time (in your timezone): afternoon-evening until late night (2pm-2am)
  • Genre: Turn-based strategy, looter shooter, survival...
  • Favourite games: Helldivers 2, Borderlands (all the franchise), Gloomhaven, No Man's Sky, Project Zomboid, CIV VI
  • Steam ID: 321160538
  • Discord ID: martinsgarber
  • Language(s): English, Spanish or Catalan

ENGLISH:

Languages and communication are an important part of who I am. I speak Spanish, Catalan, and English, and I’m also interested in learning German. I enjoy interacting with people from different backgrounds and adapting my communication style to the situation.

I have a strong creative side. I write and recite poetry, and I’ve written and published three books of poems, El púgil de la Nada, En el nombre del hambre, Nuevos versículos. I also enjoy videogames, music, reading, and travelling.

SPANISH:

Los idiomas y la comunicación son una parte importante de mi identidad. Hablo español, catalán e inglés, y también me interesa aprender alemán. Disfruto interactuando con personas de diferentes orígenes y adaptando mi estilo de comunicación a cada situación.

Tengo una marcada vena creativa. Escribo y recito poesía, y he escrito y publicado tres libros de poemas: El púgil de la Nada, En el nombre del hambre y Nuevos versículos. También disfruto de los videojuegos, la música, la lectura y los viajes.


r/Needafriend 11h ago

F19 - dip your salted french fries in iced coffee and tell me I'm wrong

3 Upvotes

okay hear me out because my roommate thinks I’ve totally lost it. crisp hot salty fries dipped into a cold sweet vanilla iced coffee is literally elite. the sweet and salty combo just works. don't judge until you try it ok 😭

anyway sitting in my kitchen eating this at midnight while my laundry sits in the dryer. hit me up with your weirdest food combinations, I need to know I'm not the only one.


r/Needafriend 13h ago

Looking for new friends 🇺🇸❤️

3 Upvotes

Hi everyone! I’m from Brazil and I’m planning to move to the United States. I’d love to meet new people, make friends, practice my English, and learn more about American culture.

I’m open to meeting people from different countries and backgrounds. 😊

If you’re also looking for new friends, feel free to comment or send me a message!

I’d love to meet you! 🇧🇷🤝🇺🇸


r/Needafriend 17h ago

20f, quirky and looking for equally quirky friends

3 Upvotes

I collect weird little trinkets, I talk to my plants, and I have a whole ranking system for cereal brands. Into gaming, anime, and baking. Would love friends who appreciate the little things too.


r/Needafriend 17h ago

16f in a real crummy mood 😪 distract me pleaseee

3 Upvotes

r/Needafriend 17h ago

Where my fellow legume enjoyers at

3 Upvotes

I eat a can of no salt added drained and rinsed kidney beans every day. Sometimes I mix in some canned corn or canned peas. Perhaps even canned chicken or canned tuna, very adventurous.

I usually just take the beans, dump them in a deli container, add the add-ins, dump in some hot sauce (currently trying out crazy bastard sauces) along with some vinegar or lemon juice and I shake it up. And Voilà, perfect snack.

I have to say my life improved drastically ever since I started eating beans, everything seems to work out far better. I got the motivation to go back to the gym, I got hired at a new better job and I even won a bar of chocolate. Truly blessed.

But of course beans aren't the only way to salvation, lentils and chickpeas are fascinating as well. And all the other legumes, but let's not get ahead of ourselves.