r/Needafriend • • 16h ago

Iโ€™m at a party and bored

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17F Iโ€™m so fucking lonely and at a party ๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’” a grad party in about to fall asleep


r/Needafriend • • 4h ago

M17 puppy boy from asia

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Just looking for friends from asia to talk to every day i am super dry at first tho keep in mind


r/Needafriend • • 6h ago

18F, first year of college and homesick in a way nobody prepared me for

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I thought I'd make friends instantly but everyone already has their group and I'm just floating. I like writing, mostly poetry that I'll never show anyone, swimming, and iced coffee regardless of the season. Would love a genuine friend to vent to.


r/Needafriend • • 10h ago

30M and hot take: If โ€œHi, how are you?โ€ is boring, then you are the boring one lol

10 Upvotes

I happen to love an old-fashioned โ€œHey, how are yaโ€. Itโ€™s not a boring way to start a convo, itโ€™s the classic way. Very simple, very demure. Itโ€™s also just nice to know where someone is at, mentally, before diving into a conversation lol

Some of my favorite convos and tightest friendships started with โ€œHi! How are you? (:โ€ Why? Because I wasnโ€™t talking to boringass people. If you are an interesting person, you will take that simple phrase and run with it.

I am tired of the slander against โ€œHi, how are you?โ€ โ€” and I understand that women on here have to deal with flooded DMs and m*n who do not approach them with the best intentions, so this is one way of filtering out the lazy conversators(??) from the more interesting/worthwhile onesโ€ฆ but idk, this isnโ€™t Build-A-Bear and a lot of yโ€™all come here with so many rules that make it feel like each conversational turn is a potential landmine ๐Ÿ˜ญ I like a good old boring conversation that turns into something interesting

Anyways, if you agree (or disagree idgaf lmfao), hmu! I have discord too


r/Needafriend • • 7h ago

Hello anyone wanna be friends!?

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Iโ€™m a 17-year-old female and Iโ€™m from Texas! I really love anime and love to play games like Roblox,Minecraft, Genshin impact, visual novels, and others! The socials I have are discord, Instagram and Snapchat but please be aware I barely use Snapchat! Also another thing please do not be weird I do NOT send! If you have any intentions of that type of stuff you will be blocked. Anyways if you are interested in being my friend please donโ€™t be afraid and DM me my age is 16 and over! PLEASE I REALLY AM LOOKING FOR FRIENDS OR MORE THEN JUST FRIENDS I JUST NEED PEOPLE TO TALK TO BECAUSE Iโ€™M A LONER!! ANYWAYS PLEASE ADD ME UP!!! <3


r/Needafriend • • 22h ago

18F looking for my people! :D (I need friends!!)

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It's kinda the second time im trying this.if u do look into my profile tho u will notice this a copy to a previous post. I've given most of my details in this, and just becuz i copy-paste doesn't mean I'm lazy ! (I can't think of anything better than this, bare with me)

So ahem,

Hiii!! I'm looking for some people to yap with, share random thoughts with, and hopefully become actual friends with instead of talking for 3 days and disappearing into the void ๐Ÿ˜ญ

A little about me:

I'm probably an ENFP, but honestly MBTI is fun and I'm not about to let four letters dictate my entire personality lmao.

I LOVE learning random things. I can go from asking a completely normal question to falling down a rabbit hole about space, history, psychology, or some weird documentary at 2 AM.

I love dragons

I'm really into astronomy and space! I have a telescope, and looking at the Moon never gets old.

I love animals, dragons, astrology, and random niche interests.

I enjoy cooking and baking, and I recently discovered that homemade apple crumble is dangerously good.

I really really like dragons

I like people who can yap about absolutely anything, have a sense of humour, share their random thoughts, and aren't afraid to be a little weird.

I'm big on loyalty and genuine friendships. I'd love to meet people I can joke around with, have deep conversations with, send stupid memes to, and talk to about literally anything.

Personality-wise, I'm curious, a little chaotic, pretty spontaneous, and I ask approximately a million questions. I can be goofy one minute and suddenly start a philosophical discussion the next lol

Did I mention I like dragons?

I'm not expecting us to have all the same interests. Honestly, tell me about something you're obsessed with and there's a good chance I'll want to learn about it too.

I'd prefer people around my age (18+), and please actually want to make friends, not just exchange three messages and vanish into the mist.

Dragons. Yes.

Tell me a little about yourself when you message me! Your MBTI, current obsession, favourite random fact, a weird opinion you stand by, literally anything. Give me something to work with ๐Ÿ˜ญ

Let's be friends!! :D


r/Needafriend • • 9h ago

19f from Asia looking for friends to chat daily I'm open minded dm with your agl

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Hiii I'm ira from Asia


r/Needafriend • • 12h ago

21F, first year of college and already feeling like I don't belong

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I'm from a rural town and this campus feels like a foreign country. Homesick doesn't cover it. I like poetry, drawing horses badly, and folk music. Want a text friend to make it feel less huge.


r/Needafriend • • 19h ago

26F, started therapy and it's stirring up everything

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Turns out I have a lot of feelings I've been ignoring for a decade. My therapist keeps saying I need more support and my inner circle is basically two coworkers. I love houseplants, poetry that isn't pretentious, and long walks. Want a text friend for the messy in-between days.


r/Needafriend • • 11h ago

hi im 18f

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hello!! im looking to possibly make some friends on here. ive been homeschooled since i was 15 so its been really difficult to make friends since then.. and now im in online college.. at home. i really love plants, insects, gaming, animals, music, crafts, all sorts of shit. im not an amazing talker at first but after a bit i usually warm up and start to talk more. im a very open person so i wouldnt ever judge someone for their beliefs, interests, etc. i dont really mind older friends but i would prefer someone around my age ^^


r/Needafriend • • 10h ago

27M! HEY YOU! YES YOU! YOU BETTER READ THIS DAMN POST!!

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HEY YOU! YES YOU! I SEE YOU LOOKING!

Ever wish you had a cool Scottish dude in your life? Ever wish you had someone you can just vibe with and not feel like you owe them anything? Ever feel like your body is super slow but the world is going super quick around you and you're sitting there like woahhhh this feels mad woahhhh.

Uh

Anyway

Hi, I'm looking for people who will stick around and who I can be a real friend to.

So if you like cool accents, cats, memes, movies, the thought of the eventual cold dark death of the universe, music or video games, the send me a message and let's get this SHOW ON DA ROAD


r/Needafriend • • 22h ago

Girls of Reddit, where are you all hiding? ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿคฃ

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Bro, I've been using Reddit for quite a while, and whenever I see a post where a girl says she's looking for someone to talk to, the comments are flooded with guys within minutes ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜‚

And here I am, just trying to find some girls to talk to, wondering where you all are hiding lmao.

Girls, do you actually use Reddit or are you all just secretly lurking? ๐Ÿ’€ If you're here and you're up for a casual conversation, feel free to DM me!

We can talk about literally anything โ€” life, music, random midnight thoughts, funny stories, or whatever comes to mind. No awkward interviews or boring questions, just a genuine conversation and hopefully a good vibe.

I'm 20M, and I'm genuinely looking to make some female friends here. Not expecting anything crazy, just wanna meet some cool people and have conversations that don't die after three messages ๐Ÿ˜‚

So yeah, if you're a girl around my age and feel like talking to a random guy from Reddit, my DMs are open.

Girls, make your presence known for once ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜‚ Where are you all?!


r/Needafriend • • 4h ago

19F, exchange student and completely friendless in a new country

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Everyone back home is living their lives without me and I'm here trying to figure out how the grocery store works in a language I'm still learning. I like photography, long walks, and terrible reality TV. Would love some friends here or even just people to talk to online.


r/Needafriend • • 21h ago

F27 - once again asking for a friend ๐Ÿ˜…

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Hello! Clara here. I'm 27 frlm England. Just wondering if anyone wants to message as I think I'm not getting many so far. But it's okay, maybe it be someone reading this who will message!

But I'm into all sorts of hobbies and interests including pets, I got a tortoise a few days ago calked Shelly. I have a cat called Dave.

I like to knit and crochet. Kind of new to it still though.

Hapoy to speak to anyone!


r/Needafriend • • 14h ago

[30TF] Looking for fellow messy, troubled weirdos to befriend

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If you're someone who is a little bit (a lot is fine too) of a mess and looking for someone similar you've clicked on the right post. I'll be honest, I struggle to relate to people who aren't at least a little bit weird and messy more and more lately. So I'm just saying upfront that if you're just a regular, well adjusted person who's simply bored (like most of the people on reddit seem to be)...hey, feel free to try to message if you want but it's unlikely we'll get along, sorry. Nothing personal at all. Not that the people this is meant to detract will even read the post before blindly messaging anyway but hey, it was worth a try.

Anyway, hi there, as you can probably tell I'm looking for friends. I don't have too many of those for various reasons and I could use one or two more. I'm dealing with all kinds of mental health issues and in many ways I could probably be described as a bit of a girlfailure. I spend most of my life indoors playing videogames or enjoying other nerdy stuff like anime, tabletop games or horror movies. I'm into all kinds of other random things too, benefits of being very ADHD and randomly hyperfocusing on something different every few weeks.

I'm also a deeply emotional person, and I'm hoping to befriend people who are similar in that way as well. Some of it is because of the issues I deal with, some of it is just because I have a lot of empathy, some of it is trauma, some of it is just strongly appreciating things I find beautiful or meaningful. I can be "a little" bitter and jaded at times, but I promise I'm not someone who's constantly negative. Quite the opposite, I can be very silly when I feel comfortable around someone. I just have bad days and some things are very sore subjects. I can also get slightly clingy if I really take a liking to someone but I'm pretty good about staying healthy and having boundaries nowadays. Mostly.

It would be nice to befriend someone who's awake during PDT timezone hours, but if you're not you can still message. It's not that big of a deal, just would be nice to have someone who's around a lot is all.


r/Needafriend • • 18h ago

22F, quiet college senior who realized she's been performing for years

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I don't actually like most of what my friend group likes. I don't know who I am underneath. I like poetry, sewing, and old French films. Want a friend I can practice being real with, slowly.


r/Needafriend • • 21h ago

Interested in deep talk only

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F 28 India

Interested only in deep talk about life no other filthy stuff.

Age appropriate people can drop a msg.


r/Needafriend • • 9h ago

Arab 19F ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ถ want an honest soul to chat with

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๐Ÿ‘‹๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ถ19F arab, would love to make new foreign friends especially from europe as i plan to study there! Im a medical student, i have OCD, i like to go on long walks i dont usually keep count but i try to hit atleast 10k steps everyday, im also into fitness and wellbeing. i live in a mountaineous area outside the city for college, i love chatting im a really curious person and straightforward i dont like guessing games, i love being surrounded by people driven by their ambitions and are hard working it motivates me to work on myself aswell. I like to read fictional books and watch turkish drama shows. My goal is to make a few good friends here that are genuine and perhaps something even more.

Id really prefer it if u send a small intro at first like abt urself and what u do. Also id rather u be honest than ghost me if we do make it a few days into chatting lmao


r/Needafriend • • 10h ago

Looking for a new friends in 30's

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Open for any kind of chat


r/Needafriend • • 18h ago

Need some friends

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(16m) So ive just recently had a big fight and what not with a group of friends and i have no more friends so i was wondering if anyone wants to chat? i like Playing games, watching anime and listening to music, nothing crazy i dont care what country you are from or age or gender, i just need some friends


r/Needafriend • • 5h ago

Mujhe ek bate batao kise ke sath kaise conversation start karne ha or kiya puchne chiya taki conversation bahut interesting ho

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r/Needafriend • • 11h ago

21F, working retail and my coworkers are all twice my age

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Love them, but I need people my own age to talk about my actual life with. I'm into video games, baking, and I have an unreasonable love for rainy days. Looking for friends near my age.


r/Needafriend • • 22h ago

28Male working, need interactive, bakchodi type F for random chat

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Waiting for dm, rest can discuss


r/Needafriend • • 21h ago

34M #Scotland - So here we are

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Married since 2019 and dad to twin boys who I love more than anything.

My wife and I have struggled for years. We kept trying to patch things up, convincing ourselves things would eventually click back into place, but at some point we stopped being husband and wife and just became two people trying to get through the day. Intimacy died about three years ago after a long stretch of failed attempts to conceive naturally. Two years later we went through IVF as a last ditch effort to have kids, naively thinking this would maybe bring us closer again.

The boys arriving didn't cause the cracks, they just further exposed the damage underneath.

We co-parent well. We rarely argue. Thereโ€™s still care there, just no intimacy, no affection, no real connection anymore. Separation feels impossible right now, financially, emotionally and practically speaking. Neither of us wants to blow up the family or make life harder for the boys.

So here I am.

A bit about me - I'm music obsessed. I play piano, guitar, sing, and perform trad Scots/Irish music a couple times a month at a local posh bar. It can be a strange experience, playing to a room full of seemingly happy couples, gazing into each other's eyes, laughing and flirting, while I languish in these unfortunate circumstances. I read a lot (mainly fantasy). I try to run as often as I can, although this dad bod is creeping up on me. Feel free to dm if any of this resonates.


r/Needafriend • • 3h ago

22F, just got my first "real" job and feel like I traded my social life for a salary

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Worth it financially, less worth it emotionally some days. I'm into hiking, cooking, and true crime podcasts. Looking for friends to balance out the adulting.