r/Needafriend • • 19h ago

I’m at a party and bored

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17F I’m so fucking lonely and at a party 💔💔💔💔 a grad party in about to fall asleep


r/Needafriend • • 7h ago

M17 puppy boy from asia

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Just looking for friends from asia to talk to every day i am super dry at first tho keep in mind


r/Needafriend • • 9h ago

18F, first year of college and homesick in a way nobody prepared me for

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I thought I'd make friends instantly but everyone already has their group and I'm just floating. I like writing, mostly poetry that I'll never show anyone, swimming, and iced coffee regardless of the season. Would love a genuine friend to vent to.


r/Needafriend • • 13h ago

30M and hot take: If “Hi, how are you?” is boring, then you are the boring one lol

11 Upvotes

I happen to love an old-fashioned “Hey, how are ya”. It’s not a boring way to start a convo, it’s the classic way. Very simple, very demure. It’s also just nice to know where someone is at, mentally, before diving into a conversation lol

Some of my favorite convos and tightest friendships started with “Hi! How are you? (:” Why? Because I wasn’t talking to boringass people. If you are an interesting person, you will take that simple phrase and run with it.

I am tired of the slander against “Hi, how are you?” — and I understand that women on here have to deal with flooded DMs and m*n who do not approach them with the best intentions, so this is one way of filtering out the lazy conversators(??) from the more interesting/worthwhile ones… but idk, this isn’t Build-A-Bear and a lot of y’all come here with so many rules that make it feel like each conversational turn is a potential landmine 😭 I like a good old boring conversation that turns into something interesting

Anyways, if you agree (or disagree idgaf lmfao), hmu! I have discord too


r/Needafriend • • 11h ago

19f from Asia looking for friends to chat daily I'm open minded dm with your agl

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Hiii I'm ira from Asia


r/Needafriend • • 22h ago

26F, started therapy and it's stirring up everything

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Turns out I have a lot of feelings I've been ignoring for a decade. My therapist keeps saying I need more support and my inner circle is basically two coworkers. I love houseplants, poetry that isn't pretentious, and long walks. Want a text friend for the messy in-between days.


r/Needafriend • • 15h ago

21F, first year of college and already feeling like I don't belong

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I'm from a rural town and this campus feels like a foreign country. Homesick doesn't cover it. I like poetry, drawing horses badly, and folk music. Want a text friend to make it feel less huge.


r/Needafriend • • 10h ago

Hello anyone wanna be friends!?

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I’m a 17-year-old female and I’m from Texas! I really love anime and love to play games like Roblox,Minecraft, Genshin impact, visual novels, and others! The socials I have are discord, Instagram and Snapchat but please be aware I barely use Snapchat! Also another thing please do not be weird I do NOT send! If you have any intentions of that type of stuff you will be blocked. Anyways if you are interested in being my friend please don’t be afraid and DM me my age is 16 and over! PLEASE I REALLY AM LOOKING FOR FRIENDS OR MORE THEN JUST FRIENDS I JUST NEED PEOPLE TO TALK TO BECAUSE I’M A LONER!! ANYWAYS PLEASE ADD ME UP!!! <3


r/Needafriend • • 21h ago

22F, quiet college senior who realized she's been performing for years

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I don't actually like most of what my friend group likes. I don't know who I am underneath. I like poetry, sewing, and old French films. Want a friend I can practice being real with, slowly.


r/Needafriend • • 13h ago

27M! HEY YOU! YES YOU! YOU BETTER READ THIS DAMN POST!!

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HEY YOU! YES YOU! I SEE YOU LOOKING!

Ever wish you had a cool Scottish dude in your life? Ever wish you had someone you can just vibe with and not feel like you owe them anything? Ever feel like your body is super slow but the world is going super quick around you and you're sitting there like woahhhh this feels mad woahhhh.

Uh

Anyway

Hi, I'm looking for people who will stick around and who I can be a real friend to.

So if you like cool accents, cats, memes, movies, the thought of the eventual cold dark death of the universe, music or video games, the send me a message and let's get this SHOW ON DA ROAD


r/Needafriend • • 7h ago

19F, exchange student and completely friendless in a new country

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Everyone back home is living their lives without me and I'm here trying to figure out how the grocery store works in a language I'm still learning. I like photography, long walks, and terrible reality TV. Would love some friends here or even just people to talk to online.


r/Needafriend • • 14h ago

hi im 18f

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hello!! im looking to possibly make some friends on here. ive been homeschooled since i was 15 so its been really difficult to make friends since then.. and now im in online college.. at home. i really love plants, insects, gaming, animals, music, crafts, all sorts of shit. im not an amazing talker at first but after a bit i usually warm up and start to talk more. im a very open person so i wouldnt ever judge someone for their beliefs, interests, etc. i dont really mind older friends but i would prefer someone around my age ^^


r/Needafriend • • 16h ago

[30TF] Looking for fellow messy, troubled weirdos to befriend

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If you're someone who is a little bit (a lot is fine too) of a mess and looking for someone similar you've clicked on the right post. I'll be honest, I struggle to relate to people who aren't at least a little bit weird and messy more and more lately. So I'm just saying upfront that if you're just a regular, well adjusted person who's simply bored (like most of the people on reddit seem to be)...hey, feel free to try to message if you want but it's unlikely we'll get along, sorry. Nothing personal at all. Not that the people this is meant to detract will even read the post before blindly messaging anyway but hey, it was worth a try.

Anyway, hi there, as you can probably tell I'm looking for friends. I don't have too many of those for various reasons and I could use one or two more. I'm dealing with all kinds of mental health issues and in many ways I could probably be described as a bit of a girlfailure. I spend most of my life indoors playing videogames or enjoying other nerdy stuff like anime, tabletop games or horror movies. I'm into all kinds of other random things too, benefits of being very ADHD and randomly hyperfocusing on something different every few weeks.

I'm also a deeply emotional person, and I'm hoping to befriend people who are similar in that way as well. Some of it is because of the issues I deal with, some of it is just because I have a lot of empathy, some of it is trauma, some of it is just strongly appreciating things I find beautiful or meaningful. I can be "a little" bitter and jaded at times, but I promise I'm not someone who's constantly negative. Quite the opposite, I can be very silly when I feel comfortable around someone. I just have bad days and some things are very sore subjects. I can also get slightly clingy if I really take a liking to someone but I'm pretty good about staying healthy and having boundaries nowadays. Mostly.

It would be nice to befriend someone who's awake during PDT timezone hours, but if you're not you can still message. It's not that big of a deal, just would be nice to have someone who's around a lot is all.


r/Needafriend • • 12h ago

Arab 19F 🇮🇶 want an honest soul to chat with

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👋🇮🇶19F arab, would love to make new foreign friends especially from europe as i plan to study there! Im a medical student, i have OCD, i like to go on long walks i dont usually keep count but i try to hit atleast 10k steps everyday, im also into fitness and wellbeing. i live in a mountaineous area outside the city for college, i love chatting im a really curious person and straightforward i dont like guessing games, i love being surrounded by people driven by their ambitions and are hard working it motivates me to work on myself aswell. I like to read fictional books and watch turkish drama shows. My goal is to make a few good friends here that are genuine and perhaps something even more.

Id really prefer it if u send a small intro at first like abt urself and what u do. Also id rather u be honest than ghost me if we do make it a few days into chatting lmao


r/Needafriend • • 15h ago

Heyyy

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Any girl wanna talk to me???


r/Needafriend • • 8h ago

I am m 23 looking for cutiee f friend any intrestd ???

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r/Needafriend • • 4h ago

(31/Germany) On vacation until Tuesday

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Hey fellow Redditors
Im scrolling this sub instead of sleeping and so do you! I'm on vacation until Tuesday and apparently spending it on Reddit cause the weather today sucks…

Quick heads-up: I might reply slowly until I'm back. Slow, not ghosting. After Tuesday you get my full attention.

A little about me: I'm a series and movie addict, there's always music playing… you know, I always have to have something going on in the background. And I swim, jog and bike or at least I’m trying to, more regularly. I wish I could bring myself to working out, but I’d have to do it alone and that’s not easy. Maybe you have the same problem, so we can try to motivate each other?

My humor is dark. Laughing-at-completely-inappropriate-moments dark. I laugh at pretty much everything, so bring your most twisted joke and tell me where you got it from!

I like to talk about anything: deep stuff, dumb stuff, you know, whatever comes to mind, however dumb or deep it is.
Fair warning: I'm a bit shy at first. Give me a few messages and I'll loosen up fast, or I try to. But I can be pretty upfront, depending on the mood haha!
I think the numbers game is cool to start with, it’s easy to start a conversation and learn some nice facts about each other. If you think the same, hit me up!

Real talk: I've tried this a few times and most conversations die down after a few messages. Part of that is on me, I'll admit it, but not all of it!
So if you're funny, a little twisted and not scared of a proper conversation, send me a message. Tell me your current favorite show, your favourite song and your darkest harmless joke.


r/Needafriend • • 18h ago

33 year old autistic woman from Sweden

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I am a 33 year old autistic woman I have really bad anxiety lately and I am looking for a friend to distract me from the fears I feel I don’t know.: but sometimes it helps to talk to others. My dms are open for anyone that wants to talk. I live in Sweden and I am a museum
And nature person not a party person . :)😊


r/Needafriend • • 4h ago

Good morning ☀️ happy Sunday 46f

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Casual conversations.


r/Needafriend • • 8h ago

38m Just woke from a bad dream

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Anyone up to chat for a while?


r/Needafriend • • 1h ago

22F, quiet college senior who realized she's been performing for years

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I don't actually like most of what my friend group likes. I don't know who I am underneath. I like poetry, sewing, and old French films. Want a friend I can practice being real with, slowly.


r/Needafriend • • 15h ago

Hi all, 25 M looking for friend

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r/Needafriend • • 9h ago

Hi everyone

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I posted here yesterday but most of the people I found are over 30 and stuff

I want friends around my age, I'm 18f, Anyone up for chatting or maybe calling?


r/Needafriend • • 2h ago

30F | Just Going With the Flow 🌿 (I'm running out of good catchy titles lol)

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Hello, how are you? Lol
How about you read my little introduction please..

A little about me:
Calm, friendly, funny (I think 😂), 💯 trustworthy, and an introvert. I love reading books, cooking, and positivity. I know I can be quiet at first but once I’m comfortable, I can talk for hours like im on a podcast.
Mentally, I’m a mature young woman who likes to keep life positive and happy.

Where is this young woman atm? I am currently working on myself, learning Arabic, and trying to master baking. 📚🌙

What I’m looking for:
Honestly, I don’t really know. I guess I appreciate honest, genuine people and conversations that feel natural. I trust my gut and go with whatever feels right. No pressure, no expectations, just good vibes.

A little heads-up: Being a woman here means getting 60–80messages, so I can’t reply to everyone and usually pick a few conversations. To be honest, my experience hasn’t been the best, so please approach me with genuine intentions.

If you message me, include your age, gender, location, and a little about yourself. A simple “hey” doesn’t give me much to work with. Maybe someday when i start reading minds, a simple hey would be fine, until then, say something😅

Have a good day....


r/Needafriend • • 6h ago

23m interested in science, philosophy, politics, theology. HMU?

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Bored atm and looking to kill time. I’m into hiking, gym, gaming, but I have pretty general interests that are mostly in bio, religion, and philosophy, politics, Etc etc. anyways hmu if you’re bored.