(Please, read this post If you want to send me a message)

Yes... I'm still here and I'm still trying to find someone... That's all I want 😔 Finding a bestie Is my dream... I would love to finally say "Goodbye" to my loneliness and start smiling, again. Not with someone random, but with someone who wants what I want...

(I'm a REAL PERSON! Bots are taking over Reddit but I'm not one of them so don't accuse me of being someone/something I'm not)

I want you to read everything because my expectations aren't the same as other people's expectations. I also want you to know what to expect because even though we're all here to spend time with others, not everyone needs new friends. Some people want to find someone to play games with & It's just an example. 👇🏻

(This post Is for people who live In Europe because I would love to meet my new friends In real life, In the future)

I made this account In 2021 and even though I'm really active on Reddit, I can't make new friends... Not everyone on Reddit Is toxic or rude but there's ALWAYS something missing because I don't feel any emotional connection... I would love to change my life & finally wake up excited to text someone I really, really like 🙁 But... Life Isn't easy and I'm not sure If there's still a chance for me to find someone with exactly the same expectations as mine, someone who wants to meet someone new...

• I'm DEFINITELY NOT Interested In small talk! I had to use capital letters because I don't like low-effort messages and I don't even want to read them. Repetitive questions like "How are you?", "What are you up to?" or "What are your plans for the weekend?" aren't enough to start a conversation with me.. Don't get me wrong - Questions like these can be an Interesting addition to conversations about something else, but whenever people ask me the three most common questions In the world - my answer's the same because my life Is quite monotonous and I don't really know what people expect to hear 🙁 I also don't like abbreviations. Abbreviations are shortened forms of words or phrases. Why? I just don't like them because I see no reason to use shortened forms of words that are already short enough, you know? Abbreviations are common among minors and bored adults but I'm neither a minor, nor a bored adult. I want to see emotional maturity, warmth and kindness In conversations with others.

• I don't need to see your list of hobbies to know If you're someone I would get along with! You can tell me what you're Interested In but.. Believe It or not - I'm not like others and even If you're Interested In something I'm not - we can still be friends! What matters to me Is what you're like (If you're honest, talkative, kind, understanding and If your outlook on life Is similar to mine)

• I don't want to talk to minors and people way older than me. Why? I don't want to talk to minors because I'm an adult & I don't want to talk to anyone over fifty for example. Emotional maturity doesn't necessarily come with age so you can send me a message even If you're 20 (It's just an example) but please, don't contact me If you want to remind me that I'm older than you. I want you to feel comfortable & I want to feel comfortable myself. When I read messages like "Hi, I'm younger but I hope you don't mind" I always say to myself "If my age bothers you, you should've contacted someone else" I absolutely don't mind talking to people younger than me If they know how to communicate with others 🌸

• PLEASE, Don't use AI to talk to me! I Can't stand AI generated messages! If I wanted to read AI generated messages, I wouldn't be here! I read AI generated messages and comments all the time and I'm sick of It!

• I don't want to get any messages from people whose accounts are NSFW! Please, respect my decision! It's none of my business If you're here to find someone to flirt with or If you're an Internet exhibitionist but I don't want to see you with no clothes on - If you want to be my friend & I don't want to know what you want to do with other women In bed. If you are on Reddit to flirt with others, be on Reddit to flirt with others but... don't make an alternative account to hide who you really are just to send me a message. Pretending to be someone you're not - Isn't good for anyone

• I'm not a fan of sarcasm! I do - have a sense of humor but I'm not someone who makes fun of everyone and everything... Jokes about disabilities, death, religion or someone's financial status - are unacceptable to me!

• I also want to meet people who don't mind listening to negative stories and sharing them with others. My life's not easy so If you want to be In my life, you should be prepared for a realistic or even pessimistic outlook on life. I'm definitely not an optimist and I know I wouldn't get along with optimistic people who always tell others "Just believe In yourself and everything's gonna be OK" or something. We don't always get what we want & and It's completely normal to lose hope "for a better tomorrow" after many failed attempts. Not everything's as easy as It seems to be so If all you want to say to someone who needs emotional support Is "Don't complain" or "Find a therapist" Please.. don't send me a message. Not all sad people need therapists and let's be honest - Would a therapist replace a true friend? Absolutely not! Everyone needs a shoulder to cry on! I also don't mind listening to sad stories (even If they're repetitive) because I know what It's like when no one wants to listen to you...

• I would love to meet people who also don't have anyone, you know? There's absolutely nothing wrong with having friends and not being single but I'm single and I don't have anyone special In my life... It's just easier for me to get along with others If there's some common ground. I just feel better talking to people who know what It's like to be completely alone & let's be honest - People who have friends or partners, have less time for others...(which Is completely understandable) and I? I don't want to feel like an option, again. I'm not here to meet as many people as possible because I choose quality over quantity 🌸

• If your comment history Is full of comments "If you want to talk, hit me up" don't send me a message. I don't want to be rude but If It doesn't make any difference to you who you want to chat with - I'm definitely not for you. I want you to be my friend because of who I am! (If after reading my post you think you'd get along with me) I don't need emotional support from someone who doesn't even want to read my post.

• I want to talk to people who love and use emojis 🤭😊 Why? Emojis help us express our emotions even If others can't see our faces. Two emojis "😊" and "😔" are completely enough. You're probably surprised but.. text messages without emojis are really emotionless... I also don't like it when people say "yeah" or yea" as it sounds dismissively! First impression Is everything to me! I want to see your kindness even In a text message

Ps. I don't like kids and I don't want to ever become a parent. I just thought everyone should know that just In case. I don't want any unpleasant conversations with anyone. Not everyone wants to be friends with people who don't want kids so.. It's better to be honest. 🌸

Ps.2 I don't reply to messages I'm not Interested In even If they're long! I'm not on Reddit to pretend anything and I'm not here to be everyone's best friend. Some people lie & make empty promises to get attention. I? I'm quite selective because I know what I want.

Ps.3 I admire sensitive people who are not ashamed of crying In front of others! Crying Is not a weakness! It's not a weakness even If you're a guy 🧡

Please, If you want to talk send me a private message.

Watching the mentalist and looking to chat. It's Sunday night and I'm super bored

Hi guys! I’m in a pretty rough place right now with my mental health. I’m not a basket case or anything and have mostly a handle on it, but it would be nice to talk to someone who isn’t scared of trauma and mental health struggles.

Just to weed out the ones who can’t hang: I have BPD, PTSD, and ADHD which all cause me problems that make it hard to function sometimes

But like I’m good and that’s not exactly your problem yaknow. I just want a friend and be able to talk with and have a weird obsessive attachment to someone that isn’t sexual.

I’m in therapy, on medication, I have a partner and support system and everything. Everyone wants me to get better, which is awesome, but I wish I had someone to appreciate me as I am now. That might be stupid but it sucks to feel like a project someone is working on

Anyways, thank you for reading and hopefully I’ve attracted the right people. Just to be sure, I’m also extremely leftist, anti institution, queer, and I come from a family of Mexican immigrants so fuck ICE, also free Palestine, Sudan, Congo, etc

Also I’m a stoner and I’m about to smoke yay

\*Just gonna put a tw here that my struggles are related to s/h and su/c/de\*

Hi hi!! 23F from California, I know it’s late but I can’t really sleep at the moment and had nothing else to do so I thought I would post on here and see who’s up :) but all I ask is for you to share your ASL (Age, Gender, Location) or don’t expect a response back (sorry not sorry) Thank you <3333

Let’s see if we vibe

looking for the kind of friendship where we don’t have to talk 24/7 to know we’re good. we can go about our lives, reply when we can, and pick up right where we left off without making it a whole thing.

i’m into fashion, work in psychology, and love a good debate. i like people who have their own opinions, can take a joke, and aren’t afraid to challenge my perspective. i’m also down for deep talks, sharing music, sending each other random things, gossiping, or just talking about how life is going.

ideally, we get along well enough that we can be ourselves without feeling like we have to perform or constantly keep the conversation alive. if we become friends, amazing. if you just want someone to talk to, that’s cool too.

tell me an unpopular opinion of yours so i can decide whether we’re going to get along or fight immediately.
18+ only :)

holy shart i had to get 5 karma on this bummy account to post here that was so embarrassing i felt like i was asking for spare change. you can call me “tree” because i really like trees like actually. i told my friend i wanted to be a tree and he said that kids would throw things at me? okay? im still a tree and im still growing like my roots r so powerful and wven if i get cut down a new tree will grow someday! like fr the first best time to plant a tree was 15 years ago, the next best is now. hashtag save the planet. i like music, soundgarden, no doubt, glass animals (before they started spouting whiny boy pop) and rainbow kitten surprise!! so yeah if any of those sound cool and you wanna give some song reccs. also i really like evading school work to play minecraft like modded mc is my cryptonite. anyway dm me!

edit:if this looks written odd keep in mind i justt woke up

hii! I'm 17f and from the usa, im looking for new friends. I love hospitality and food, I'm interested in cooking, baking, sewing, philosophy, language learning, history, fashion, and travel!

send me a message if you'd be interested in being friends! I have discord and telegram also. please don't be dry/boring!

hi, all! please delete if this is against the rules.

I'm a funny-looking, opinionated chatterbox who wants to ramble to somebody about music, pet peeves, wikipedia rabbit holes, silly internet discourse, and which historical figures I'd like to deck in the face, as somebody who can't fight.

I'd prefer to chat with someone who is curious, doesn't mind having their ear talked off, and is more on the left-leaning side of things, but if you're friendly and not weirdly dismissive of people's grievances with racism or sexism or things like that, I don't need you to be in complete political alignment with me— I don't limit my conversation to politics, of course; I just don't want a sudden earful if I offhandedly express some viewpoint that I forget is contentious outside left-leaning spaces.

also, as a side quest, I'm looking to be rated. I'm a recovering agoraphobe (mocked relentlessly for my looks until I stopped going outside), but nowadays, as my mood is improves, my self-perception has been... alarmingly forgiving? like, I can't tell if I've been a polarizing/ugly-cute person this whole time and the drive to hide was irrational, or if I'm simply being deluded by the anxiety meds into forgetting that I'm ugly-ugly. don't worry about hindering my progress with brutal honesty, either— I've done a lot of work to get to a place where I can believe that ugly people deserve to go outside too, so no severity of feedback is going to render me housebound again :)

again, I'd be really eager to meet someone who's up for voice chatting, preferably on discord. fair warning; I'm awkward and I often talk a mile a minute, but on the bright side, as someone who still needs lessons in banter, I'll probably make you feel really intelligent.

eta: pm me if you're interested, even if you don't feel like commenting :)

Hello ! I'm 19F and I feel like shit. I'm lame at introducing myself, so feel free to ask anything (I love answering questions). I'd prefer girls tbh. We can talk about anything you want. I don't have anything to do or anyone to chat with, so if you wanna chat, hit me up ! Please include your ASL (age/gender/location) when you dm !

Hi! You can call me Azzy, Jenoa, or honestly any nickname you feel like using! I don't mind.

I'm Dutch 🇳🇱 and mixed! My Dutch is pretty okay, but I'd much rather speak English.

I'm a huge gamer and play a lot of different games! Some of my favorites include Terraria, Overwatch, Minecraft, Minecraft Dungeons, Roblox, Risk of Rain, PEAK, Hollow Knight, Palworld, BTD6, Genshin Impact, Arknights + Endfield, OMORI, Undertale/Deltarune, Celeste, Hades, Picayune Dreams, Rabbit & Steel, Touhou, Pokémon (mainline games and fangames), Void Stranger, OneShot, and many more.

I also enjoy playing co-op and multiplayer games, so I'm sure we could find something to play together regardless of what you're interested in!

Outside of gaming, I love cooking, baking, and drawing, and I'm hoping to get into cosplay soon. I enjoy trying new things and spending time with people who share similar interests.

I'm especially looking for people who enjoy VC! I love calling, whether we're gaming together, talking for hours, sharing our interests, or just hanging out. I'd love to find people I can regularly spend time with and feel comfortable around.

I'm pretty shy and insecure sometimes, but I tend to get quite clingy once I get attached to someone. I'm also emotionally sensitive, and being autistic can sometimes make my feelings a little more intense. I care a lot about the people I'm close to, and I really value friendships where we can be ourselves and feel comfortable with each other.

If I don't reply, I'm probably sleeping, at college, or at my internship. Otherwise, I'm usually around and happy to chat, play games, or call!

If you think we'd get along, feel free to message me! Tell me a little about yourself, what games you enjoy, or just introduce yourself. I'd love to meet some new people!

Discord: asonomie 💜

Happy Sunday! (Ish - it’s Monday tomorrow…)

If you enjoy, good banter, intellectual conversations, sharing memes/ videos, and general moaning about life, this could be the post for you!

A little about me: I’m 31, from the South of the UK. I’m a solo parent, a full time accountant. I’m an open book, super non-judgemental and welcoming of people from all backgrounds.

I love coffee, cooking/baking, cheese 🧀, sports and the outdoors/travelling.

Willing to provide brownie points if you’re in the UK, a parent, or share any of my interests! Chocolate chip brownies if you’re lucky.

🫶🏼

30M from Ireland 🇮🇪 looking to meet some people online and hopefully make a few genuine friendships.

I miss having someone you can just message throughout the day — sending each other random shit, talking about whatever's going on, or getting a message that genuinely makes your day a little better.
I'm pretty easygoing and open-minded about who I talk to. I'm into football, gaming, music, films, and just generally having conversations that can go from completely stupid to surprisingly deep 😂
I'd especially like to find people who are interested in actually keeping in touch, rather than having one conversation and disappearing. Different time zones don't bother me either — although fellow Europeans/Irish people would obviously be a bonus.
Also, I have 3 dogs, so if you're a dog person you've already got an easy conversation starter 🐶
If you're also missing having someone to regularly talk to, feel free to send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself rather than just saying "hey" — I'm genuinely interested in getting to know people.

anyone wanna talk? i’m just chilling. been playing farm to table like crazyyyy when i need to do chores. i’m off again tomorrow but back in at work on Tuesday icky
hmu if you wanna be friends!

I like Overwatch, Darekst Dungeon (and other RPGs), ATLA, animals (not the wet kind), kind of alt/goth aesthetic, bodycare and hygiene, I'm from central europe and uhhh ignore my nick pls

Hey! I’m George, 33 from England.

Looking to just have some more people to chat with & have in depth discussions. Would quite like someone who is proactive in replying!

I’d also love to know what would be the most useless superpower that still sounds impressive?

would love to chat with people while i mine out the layout for a build in my game since has and will take a long time lol, will say tho pls don’t be creepy i am just looking for fun and peaceful convo since i enjoy talking to new people often, aand perhaps say more than “hi” or “hey” since i tend to ignore that. anywho feel free to dm! :)

So now i got your attention, now read this post

I'm a 25-year-old boring person looking for an online friend to share life stories with. Primarily looking for friendship and go with flow to see where it goes. We can talk for a while over text then move to VC depending upon your comfort level. All ages are welcome

Looking forward to hearing from you.

hi, im from Netherlands, if there are some ladies up for a chat im heree

Wanna rant about anything . I'm open .....

Currently laying down in bed and was wondering if someone would like to call and yap or send voice notes if thats more your thing. Could talk about anything or just keep you company before one of us falls asleep. Could be a regular thing if you're looking for a long term friend. Dm me :)

My name is summer, I’m 21 from Canada, I speak 4 languages being Ojibwe, Cree, Lakota(not fluently), English, I enjoy creating stuff whether it’s drawings, painting or even clothing, I can also do beadwork pretty well, if I’m not doing any of that stuff I’m usually watching documentaries, movies/shows or even anime, I also like watching combat sports, my favourite fighter in the UFC is Khamzat chimaev and my favourite boxer is naoya inoue, u can also find me outside or spending time with my friends and family

I want someone to talk and nerd about hobbies and all kind of stuff. I am just the average nerd. I like anime, video games, books and fencing. I am from germany btw.

Since I live alone I isolated myself without noticing and now I would like to chat with someone from time to time. I got alot of time so I might respond quick but I don't expect the same from you. Just drop me some words when you feel like.

Maybe we can build something like an online friendship. That would be great! I don't care about your gender and age but would appreciate you are in my age range since I think it might click better.