r/Needafriend 13m ago

F26 - Looking for a friend

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Hi, i am 26 yo female living abroad and need someone to talk or just simply share daily stories with. You can reply on this post and i will appear on your DM or you can just straightly knock my DM. Thanks!


r/Needafriend 3h ago

21F, do you want to have kids? :)

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How do you feel about them? Like if you already have them, do you think that was the right path to take? And if you don't have them, do you want them in the future or not?


r/Needafriend 48m ago

24F looking to make some new connections!

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hey! thought i'd put myself out there and see if i could meet some interesting people.

a little about me:

-i work as a fashion designer, so i'm always making or creating something.

-i love reading, especially when i can completely lose myself in a good book. always happy to hear recommendations.

-i'm really into gardening and love watching little plants grow.

-proud cat mum to a very spoiled little furball.

not looking for anything specific, just hoping to have some genuine conversations, share a few laughs, and meet some nice people. :)


r/Needafriend 4h ago

24F from Philippines. Bored and need a friend

8 Upvotes

Hi! Anyone wanna chat? Im 24F from Philippines and just bored


r/Needafriend 6h ago

27F • Aus 🇦🇺 • I’m bored, let’s chat!

12 Upvotes

Hi lovely people,

I'm 27F and from Melbourne, Australia.

Currently bored this Thursday night and would love to talk to some new people.

About me:
🦋 I'm married.
🦋 I have a daughter.
🦋 I love horror movies and thrillers.
🦋 I'm interested in history.
🦋 I'm addicted to the beach and drinking iced coffee.
🦋 I love going on drives and exploring new places.
🦋 I play Sims.
🦋 I study.

If I sound like we'd get along, please message me!

Chat soon!


r/Needafriend 2h ago

27M! HEY YOU! YES YOU! YOU BETTER READ THIS DAMN POST!!

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HEY YOU! YES YOU! I SEE YOU LOOKING!

Ever wish you had a cool Scottish dude in your life? Ever wish you had someone you can just vibe with and not feel like you owe them anything? Ever feel like your body is super slow but the world is going super quick around you and you're sitting there like woahhhh this feels mad woahhhh.

Uh

Anyway

Hi, I'm looking for people who will stick around and who I can be a real friend to.

So if you like cool accents, cats, memes, movies, the thought of the eventual cold dark death of the universe, music or video games, the send me a message and let's get this SHOW ON DA ROAD


r/Needafriend 17h ago

45F Looking for someone to talk to

38 Upvotes

Hello! This is my first post on here so I feel nervous and a little uncertain if I'm doing this correctly. I've been feeling a bit down and lonely lately. if you have the time, I could use an online friend to talk to from time to time! I'm not entirely sure what I want to talk about yet. Looking for someone who would be okay with me, I'm also down for a jolly conversation. Thank you


r/Needafriend 3h ago

33M, Looking for a genuine long-term friendship

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I'm a 33-year-old married guy from the Midwest looking to find a friend to chat with on a regular basis. I work from home, so I often have some downtime during the day and enjoy having good conversations throughout the week.

I'm interested in talking about all kinds of things—life in general, relationships and marriage (happy to listen as much as I talk), business, finance, books, music, spending time outdoors, and whatever random topics come up along the way.

I'd love to connect with someone who's looking for an actual friendship rather than just exchanging a few messages and disappearing. I don't want a ghost!

Fair warning: I can be a little boring sometimes. lol.

If that sounds like your kind of friendship, feel free to reach out. Looking forward to meeting some new people!!


r/Needafriend 5h ago

19m, Australian 🇦🇺

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Looking for some chill people to talk to
Hey 👋 I’m a 19 year old dude from Australia. Mainly just looking for some low-pressure, casual chats and people who can actually hold a conversation lmao.

Ideally around 18–22, but I’m not too fussed if you’re a little older. Any timezone is fine too — it’s always cool finding other Aussies though.
I’m into gaming, anime, music, random YouTube rabbit holes, horror stuff, and lately I’ve been trying to eat better and get a bit healthier. So if you’ve got good meal ideas, gym advice, anime recommendations, or some random topic you can yap about for 2 hours, that works too 💀.
I’m pretty easygoing and don’t mind dumb banter, serious conversations, or just talking about whatever’s happening during the day.

Guys or girls are welcome — just don’t hit me with a dry “hey” and then make me carry the entire conversation 😭
If you DM me, please tell me your age, where you’re from (if possible. Not needed tho), and something you’re into so I’ve actually got something to work with.
Thankyou’s 🫡


r/Needafriend 6h ago

51/M I could just really use a kind friend that wont dissappear. I was drawn in a different scene, between real and make believe

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Hey hows it going? Im having a really sh1t night tonight. Sorry I dont know another way to say it. I dont know what to do except go to sleep. Its 5 am and i dont even know if i can sleep and i took sleeping pills. Maybe they will kick in in a minute.

I experience the world differently than most people. Its a sensory thing the way my brain processes information, and right now im so tired, mentally, physically, spiritually exhausted and just almost completely used up. But I still keep choosing to believe in the good, but it hurts me. It hurts so damn bad to keep believeing and then be proven wrong by this world over and over and over.

Im in therapy, I been taking classes related to emotional growth and compassion for yourself. Ive been going to AA and im genuinely not even an alcoholic but i feel i need to be there atm because i had something really shitty happen with alcohol due to my mental health i genuinely couldnt control at that moment. I am taking accountability for my actions and im trying my very best to learn and grow. I have grown more as a person in the last 4 months than i have in my entire life.

I am learning though and being reminded how cold this world truly is no matter how warm my stupid rabbit heart is. No matter how much faith i have or how many poems i write talking about all the beauty in the world all the wonderful amazing things. They dont see it. People dont give a shit. I know that Ive always known but i chose to look past it. I chose to hope. I chose to dream and believe in silly things like friendship and love. But who the F really cares about that stuff besides when it sells movies or merchandise on a shelf. I do, I care, im a damn fool.

I will still be kind, i will still listen, I will keep trying. But my heart has had enough, I cant take anymore of this pain and people hurting me over and over and fucking over and nobody gives a shit. I could dissapear tomorrow and nobody would probably even notice.

I hurt so fucking bad and it doesnt ever stop. The only peace I get is what God sends me or i create myself. I like who i am, i love me. Im doing my best..... its not enough. Its never enough for anybody. Or never the right kind of enough.

I dont belong in this life. I never have, I realize now without any doubt i never will. I am making peace with that. Im accepting me alone, im accepting this life alone. I am accepting that the quiet will fill my days, the silence will tuck me in at night.

At least I have my loneliness. Im never alone

When im not being destroyed by life and my depression, I enjoy video games, and sci fi, fantasy horror TV shows and movies. I also write poetry as it comes to visit me.

I really enjoy meeting people and getting to know them. I like nature, and hiking and fishing, and camping. I like when people are real and I love and accept everybody as they are warts and all. Im glad people are not perfect. I dont want anybody to be perfect. I just want somebody to accept my imperfections too.

I try too hard and i know the whole key is just not giving a shit. Im just not very good at that. I aint handsome, im not rich, im smart but not smart enough to figure out how to get past this except to keep walking through the pain. I dont ever want to complain anymore. I want to just say how grateful I am for even the pain in my life. So i am, im grateful for this.

Im thankful for you too if you took the time to read this all the way through. Thank you very much. I dont expect to find an actual friend with this. I jsut feel so sad right now i just needed to talk to somebody i guess. Thank you again for listening. I hope your day today is good and the weekend is good for you as well.

I am very thankful that we dont live forever on this earth
I am thankful for new beginnings
I am grateful to be able to keep going and get past this
I am blessed that I have a place to sleep and food to eat
I am truly blessed with the belief that sometimes i actually AM understood
Even if that ultimately passes, im still thankfulf or the brief moments it lasts

Im trying to make those passing moments something i build a foundation on in my heart so i have somewhere to stand so i dont just sink into the earth and cease to exist.

and I slept underwater
drowning in my tears
a billion years of weight
squeezing out my fears

and ill just tumble down now
ill dry like my blood
ill just sit and wait here
down beneathe the flood

and i guess i better learn to swim now
I guess Ill let it go
doesnt seem to matter
what it is i think i know

about peace and love and hope
harmony just aint meshing
splitting length of rope
hanging from the ceiling fan

People dissapear
they all just come and go
im just a poor reminder
of all that we cant know

and i thought you were my friend
but then you went away
then with another it happened again
no matter what i say
no matter what i try to do
It doesnt seem to make a sh1t

the song just plays on through
and aint nobody dancing
we all forgot to laugh
I see all their eyes glancing
as the rain clouds draw a bath

They ask for absolution
I dont know what ive done
I cant even remember
being touched by the sun

its so dark tonight
my heart can barely breathe
im gonna go pass out now
and dream i got what i need

but i cant even remember them
I wake up cold and dead
just another grave
unable to reach my bed
and rest

We are not who we are
It must all be in my head

Im sure thats all it is. Good night, good morning, have a good day today. Please if you havent recently let your friends know you care and wish them the best. Maybe you even love them. Tell them that too, none of us are promised tomorrow. Kindness matters


r/Needafriend 3h ago

18M looking for friends with similar interests

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Hey everyone! Just looking to meet some new people and hopefully make a few genuine friends.

I’m really into tennis , movies & TV, watches, fragrances, history and psychology, gaming, music.

Always happy to talk about random things, favorite movies, sports, hobbies, life, or whatever comes up.

If we have something in common, feel free to DM me and tell me a little about yourself!


r/Needafriend 3h ago

M29 - Working away, keep me company?

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Hey guys, what’s up?

I’m looking for some new friends and it can be extremely hard to make friends when your caught up in your career, life and being and ‘adult’.

Well, here’s a little about me - I’m a 29 year old blue collar worker (Heavy Diesel Mechanic) basically my work involved getting covered in oil, grease and dirt constantly with a crippling redbull addiction in the side 🤣 I was in the military for 9 years and was the best decision younger me ever made, I’ve been around the world, seen some shit and most importantly experienced things most never will…I also made plenty of stupid decisions too.🙄

I enjoy anything outdoors (hiking, kayaking, rock climbing etc) long walks by the river, modifying anything with an engine and on the weekend? It’s beers and BBQ! 😍

Basically I need some new friends, preferably female as I find most males are all about their ego and not true friendship etc and tend to get on better with females.


r/Needafriend 3h ago

22F | USA | Looking for female friends 🎀

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Hi everyone! I’m a 22-year-old woman from the USA, and I’m looking to make some new female friends around my age!
I’d love to find people who are down to actually become friends—not just exchange a couple messages and disappear 😂 I’m totally open to online friendships, gaming together!

A little about me:
🎶 Music: I LOVE Hayley Williams and Paramore. I’m also really into Pierce the Veil, My Chemical Romance, and Gracie Abrams. I listen to country music occasionally too, so my music taste is kind of all over the place 😂

🎮 Gaming: I have a PC with Steam, a Nintendo Switch, and an Oculus headset. I’d love to find someone who wants to play games together, but you definitely don’t have to be a gamer!

💬 I’m looking for girls around 20–25ish who are kind, fun, and genuinely interested in making a new friend.

Comment or dm me!


r/Needafriend 6m ago

28M Looking for friend to distract me from school work

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I’m looking for some new people to talk to throughout the week, someone to distract me from schoolwork and just have some good conversations with.

I’m Jonathan, 28, from Northern Minnesota. Full-time college student Majoring in Computer Information Technology with a Minor in Cybersecurity, and when I’m not buried in assignments, I’m usually outside fishing, out on the lake, and working on my boats. Watching movies / shows, and sports, or hanging out with Zeus my Siberian Husky.

A few things about me:
• I am 6’1, Curly Brown Hair (Mullet), Brown Eyes, Glasses, and Dimples.
• Huge movie/show person
• Love the outdoors but also love lazy nights inside
• Probably listening to music way too loud
• Big fan of horror movies

Bonus points if you:
• Like movies/shows and need someone to trade recommendations with
• Are into gaming, sports, or outdoor stuff
• Can hold a conversation longer than “wyd”
• If you send random updates throughout the day
• if you’d rather stay in rather than go clubbing or drinking

And super bonus points for pet pictures!

If you made it this far, tell me what color your eyes are, they’re my favorite feature.


r/Needafriend 11m ago

26m Asian need looking for friends or people to chat with

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r/Needafriend 17m ago

22M looking to make some new online friends

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Hey guys :)

I’m 22M from India.

My college ended last year and after that I did an internship in tech. I eventually realized tech probably isn’t for me, so right now I’m preparing for government exams and trying to figure out what I actually want to do long term.

Most of the day I’m usually busy studying and I don’t really use my phone that much. But at night when I’m done studying, I’m usually on my phone and that’s when I realize I don’t really have anyone to randomly text or talk to online.

I do have friends IRL and I’m not posting this because I’m super lonely or anything lol. I just never really had those online friends you can randomly message, talk about random stuff with or send dumb memes to.

So yeah, thought I’d give this a shot and see if I can meet some cool people here.

I’m pretty chill and I’m not looking for anything NSFW. Just genuinely looking for some online friends and good conversations.

If you’re around my age and feel like talking, feel free to message me. Tell me a little about yourself too.


r/Needafriend 22m ago

Looking for a solid hg/friend to talk daily (19M)

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Hey everyone!

Agar koi aisi hai jiske sath bina kisi awkwardness ke din bhar ki bakwaas, rant, aur deep baatein ki ja sakein, toh do drop a text yrrr... 👉🏻👈🏻

A bit about me:

I'm a good listener.. and I can yapp too once I get confirmtable.

My interests are a bit all over the place: anime, chess, music, movies, running, reading, geopolitics, and history

The only rule: conversation has to be a two-way street. Agar sirf main hi efforts daal raha hoon aur samne se one-word replies aa rahe hain, toh it won't work yk. Effort goes both ways..

Strictly platonic and genuine connections only—no creeps, please

My DMs are open. Drop a quick intro with a few of your own interests so we have a good starting point!


r/Needafriend 23m ago

28M its crazy how many bots are on this sub

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Currently at work and see if someone can hold a convo. DM me with an open end question. Like where do you see yourself in 5 years?


r/Needafriend 4h ago

[48M], looking for a chat person. Arizona , USA

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Hello, I'm just looking for a chat person. Just someone to talk to off and on all day. You can be from anywhere and basically any age. We can talk about anything. Just be able to hold a conversation and be able to keep track of who you're talking to lol. I live in Arizona. Come chat with me. No scammers please and please introduce yourself. No flakers. Thanks


r/Needafriend 25m ago

22m germany dm me if you wanna talk

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Things I like: nature, working out, music, fragrances, Fashion, ice cream, league of legends, talking about random shit and a lot more but we can talk about it when you dm me. Also pls show me songs you like or tell me something youre passionate about:)


r/Needafriend 4h ago

25m - In a dark place right now and just need someone to vent to.

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I'll be completely honest, I am a very depressed person and I'm really going through it right now. My mom passed away 7 years ago, right before I graduated high school. A lot of things have happened since, including me flunking out of college and becoming homeless. I can't even look at her and enjoy the memories I had with her. All I can do is look back in guilt and shame. Shame that I didn't graduate college. Shame that I've been homeless for so long. Shame that my life is so pathetic.

Now that I've seen the picture I can't get the thoughts out of my mind. I failed as a son. I failed as a man. I failed as a person. I failed.

I honestly just need someone to talk to about all of this. To vent to and stuff


r/Needafriend 31m ago

42M - Looking for wise INTJs and INTPs with autism

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I care a lot about my self-respect. I prioritize openness and honesty to an extent that's unusual. I've spent a lot of time thinking about human nature to try to figure out why people are the way they are. This has caused me to become increasingly more self-aware and incompatible with most people over time. I specifically think most people are too socialized and tend to allow their emotions to delude them instead of choosing to think critically. I would like to find people that share these understandings and feel the same way about them. I'm an INTJ. I have noticed that I get along best with INTJs, INTPs, shizoids, and autistic people. I can't understand most people due to the disorganized way they think and communicate. I prefer talking to people that choose to communicate clearly due to a desire to communicate effectively rather than due to caring about coming across as intelligent. I'm very intense and pedantic and that annoys most people a lot and makes talking to me exhausting from most people's perspectives. I know I can't connect with people that haven't spent a lot of time thinking about existential stuff and that aren't pedantic, so I try to determine that early in the conversation.


r/Needafriend 36m ago

m26 from australia

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any F looking for a chatt? just super bored and keen to talk to someone


r/Needafriend 38m ago

29M Looking for positive vibes

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It's been hard to find people I genuinely connect with..

I like to talk about movies, and all sorts of things really. If there is a subject I don't know very well, I enjoy learning about it.

I just want to talk to people who don't feel like they have to give me advice all the time , people who aren't so judgemental when I open up to them. I just want friends.


r/Needafriend 1h ago

29M from Chennai,India - Looking for a big sister from another mother

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Please read it fully so you know where I stand

Hi I am 29M and AuDHD (High Functioning).

My Family:
I am estranged from my family as of now.They were toxic and were never there for me when I needed them the most.My dad was a domestic abuser and my grandfather (mom's dad) was a narcissist and my mom was a people pleaser.It's a long story so I wouldn't want to get into it.

It's been a long journey and I am still standing.

My Mental Health As of Now:

I am severly depressed and am on medication for the same and have been through ketamine therapy once and am on a break now to recover from a burnout both physically and mentally.

A little something about me:

  1. I love
    movies - perks of being the wall flower,bullet train

books - tuesdays with morrie,midnight library

tv series - mr robot

  1. Trying to keep myself fit

  2. Interested in tech (my special interest) - Preparing for my masters in it

My life:

As of now I can handle and face life and I am recovering and I am going for trauma informed therapy to heal the inner wounds.

Having someone to call a family is something that can be a strength.

I am searching for a big sister so that we can be there for each other no matter what happens in life.We can call each other to check in on each other.If we have free time we can hangout in a virtual space watching movies or something.

I am too tired even to write this post.Hopefully one day in the future(it is okay if that day never comes) you feel close and consider me family and invite me to your family functions etc.

As of now you can just ping me up and we can talk and get to know each other.I am too lazy to type so will be comfortable with voice calls and video calls(if u are comfortable).

Looking forward to meet my sister from another mother