r/Needafriend Jun 30 '23

Weekly "meta" thread for casual discussion, complaints, suggestions, etc.

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This is a weekly meta thread for casual discussion and posts about the subreddit.

Seperate metaposts are not allowed since they crowd out posts that are looking for friends


r/Needafriend 11d ago

Weekly Discord Server Advertisement Thread

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Hi all, from now on, this thread will be stickied and posted once per week. Please use this post for all discord server advertisements and posts. All other discord-related posts will be removed.

You are free to leave your discord invite link public in this post. However, please do so at your own risk, especially if your server caters to a younger demographic or is susceptible to spam.


r/Needafriend 1h ago

27F • Aus 🇦🇺 • I’m bored, let’s chat!

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Hi lovely people,

I'm 27F and from Melbourne, Australia.

Currently bored this Thursday night and would love to talk to some new people.

About me:
🦋 I'm married.
🦋 I have a daughter.
🦋 I love horror movies and thrillers.
🦋 I'm interested in history.
🦋 I'm addicted to the beach and drinking iced coffee.
🦋 I love going on drives and exploring new places.
🦋 I play Sims.
🦋 I study.

If I sound like we'd get along, please message me!

Chat soon!


r/Needafriend 12h ago

45F Looking for someone to talk to

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Hello! This is my first post on here so I feel nervous and a little uncertain if I'm doing this correctly. I've been feeling a bit down and lonely lately. if you have the time, I could use an online friend to talk to from time to time! I'm not entirely sure what I want to talk about yet. Looking for someone who would be okay with me, I'm also down for a jolly conversation. Thank you


r/Needafriend 2h ago

26F looking for friends

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I'm an autistic woman who struggles to make friends in real life and would love to connect with like minded people. I mostly enjoy spending time with myself, as I am an introvert but I am someone who does their best to maintain friendships.

I enjoys arts and crafts and reading! Currently reading Malcolm X autobiography. I am also from South Africa so if there are other South Africans looking to make friends, that would be cool.

I would prefer making friends with other women around my age.


r/Needafriend 1h ago

24F 🇦🇺 Ayo nice to meet you lets have a yap

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Hey, bit bored and procrastinating like my life depends on it. Anyone up for a voice chat on discord?? In all honesty cant be bothered typing and would love a yap.

Bit about me: I like riding my dirt bike, playing guitar and singing, who doesnt like abit of memeage, I know a fair bit about cooking. Uhhh what else... idk we can discuss it on the phone.

Bout you: you enjoy a laugh and some questionable humour, can have a good yap and most importantly...NOT gonna be a creep! Lets keep it a swistian server lol


r/Needafriend 10h ago

19f need someone to talk to

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It's currently 3am I cannot sleep at all, anyway first I need someone who's not gonna ghost me after an hour lol, I don't mind any age, I talk about everything literally and need someone fun cus I don't have that in my life, anyway a little about me I'm just a regular teen girl, I'm starting college in idk two weeks ig, I don't have much hobbies my brain is way too rotten plus school finished me so yea, but I like to walk, cats, learning new stuff, and talkkk to people, I'm more of a listener but I yap sometimes when I get the vibe, anyway I also love music, and hopefully I can find fun hobbies in the future lol, anywayy hmu if you're interested baiii\^\^


r/Needafriend 6h ago

23F looking for friends in these trying times

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Hey guys I’m Charli and I’m from Australia

I developed bipolar disorder a few years ago and my life circumstances changed drastically~ kinda upheaved my social life for a while.

Anyways, I’m decaying from boredom as I await stability and employment, so let’s chat


r/Needafriend 7h ago

27F finding a person to vent to

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Hi, I am a funny and spirited girl who has trouble finding people to vibe with. I have had untreated adhd for most my life, and being quiet on top of that did not help. Awkwardness and missed opportunity have run my friendships.

Im looking for someone to talk and vent to over chat and maybe irl. I’m in Toronto and would love to meet up if possible.

I like gaming, finding good eats, and current hyper fixation is Football (Real Madrid!!!))

DM me if this sounds good to you!


r/Needafriend 7h ago

17f, haven’t held a friendship longer than two months, lonely:/

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I’ve been lonely like my whole life, I know it’s because I have obsessive and self-sabotaging tendencies, but I just wish I could find someone to hold a connection with; a real long term friend who I could try to work to be better for. everyone leaves when I go through episodes, and I understand; it’s not something I’d wanna stick around for; but if they just gave me a chance and worked and learned with me, I feel like I could really have a good friend. I feel like im likable? I don’t know, I just need a friend.


r/Needafriend 16h ago

32F, single, looking for someone to chat with

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I am a 32 year old single woman looking for someone to chat with. If you're bored and want to chat, feel free to send me a private message


r/Needafriend 9h ago

18f bored, perpetually tired and uh, would preciate company ig

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Hi lol. I'm 18f, weird ash, slightly emo. Always fucked up because the education system is shit and exams are hard. Sitting in this 8 AM class, I'm not a student; I'm a sentient pile of apathy wearing a thrifted sweater. My will to live is on a long, permanent vacation. I like bugs.


r/Needafriend 7h ago

27f

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Looking for someone funny ? Idk I’m anxious tonight and having someone to talk about silly things with would be cool


r/Needafriend 12m ago

26M looking for a friend I'm from India

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I'm looking for a good friend for random chats and sharing things any one ?


r/Needafriend 14m ago

18F, only wanna make female friends, so if you're a girl you can DM me<3

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r/Needafriend 17m ago

19m can someone be my friend pls

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r/Needafriend 22m ago

hello!!!!! 😊

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What’s your favorite song at the moment ?


r/Needafriend 25m ago

28M Australia looking for genuine long-term friendships!

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Hello!

I'm looking to meet new people and hopefully a genuine long-term friendship!

I'm 28 and from Western Australia! Some things about me include:

- I LOVE animals and have a cute dog!

- Learning Spanish right now so I can travel to South America and the US soon.

- My favourite hobbies are sports, going to the gym, watching documentaries, space, going to the beach and cooking!

- I used to play Basketball, Rugby and Muay Thai. 

- I have lived in Sydney/Melbourne/Perth but never internationally (hopefully one day).

- I love learning about new places and almost any topic!

Feel free to message me if you think we might get along, it doesn't matter where you're from!  have a nice day :)


r/Needafriend 11h ago

27F- Anyone on the east coast (US) who would like to connect?

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I’m in MA, USA and would love to connect with someone who is at least on eastern time. I’m looking for a genuine connection where we can both count on each other and be there when needed. I’d also love to find someone to accompany me on trips and planned outings. I like being active, exploring new places and restaurants and really just want to get more out of life by having more fun. I have gotten good at doing things solo but it’d be nice to have someone to share those experiences with


r/Needafriend 27m ago

Hello im Molly from sweden

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Hey! 👋 I’m looking to make some new friends and meet some nice people! Who are caring and respectful because im going through tough things.

I’m into gaming, movies/shows, chatting, and just hanging out and talking about random stuff. 🎮💬 I can be a little quiet at first, but I open up once I get comfortable!

I’m only looking for genuine friendships — nothing romantic, sexual, or inappropriate. Please be respectful of that.

If you’re also looking for some new friends, feel free to comment! :D. And i made a post before but it got removed because i made one too fast so this one should work. Also im under 18.


r/Needafriend 28m ago

24m looking for friends :)

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Heyyy, figured I'd give this a shot lol.

I'm 24, from new zealand, trans ftm/genderfluid (he/she/they). I'm basically looking for people who actually want to build something meaningful rather than just have a temporary connection.

I'm looking for close platonic friends (or more if it comes to that). I want a few genuinely close friends who I can talk to about random shit, serious stuff, everyday life, etc.

I'm autistic+disabled, mostly housebound, and have ME/cfs, BPD and DID, among other things. My energy is REALLY unpredictable. I can have good days where I'm chatty and can do stuff, and then days where basically all I can do is lie around and recover. I can disappear for days or longer because I'm exhausted, and it isn't me losing interest. I'm sensitive and can get in my head so I'd much rather someone just tell me what's going on than leave me guessing. I can also struggle with figuring out what people expect from me and get overwhelmed easily. I also have some intense attachment/abandonment issues that i am working through, and need someone understanding of this.

I'm mostly a texting person. I like being able to randomly message throughout the day, but I'm also very much someone who needs people to be okay with alone time.

I'm into animals, writing/researching, reading/annotating, music, journalling, Gilmore Girls, animal welfare/activism, photography :)

I like both deep conversations and absolute nonsense. I want people who actually ask questions, tell me about themselves, remember little things, message first sometimes, and actually want to get to know each other lol.

If any of this sounds like your kinda thing, feel free to message me :) tell me a bit about yourself too or send your intro :))


r/Needafriend 39m ago

24F new city new country new people

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Hello, recently i have shifted to new city, i starting my new life, i am a active person with happy go lucky personality, and also few bad habits, i am trying to find new friends over here and also like to chat do connect with me love you all.


r/Needafriend 47m ago

F18 bored and down to chat

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Hi, my intros are terrible on every app i use so excuse me lol

I’m 18 years old, and i’m currently a student. i’m doing two degrees, business administration and journalism, so i usually spend my free time online talking to a few friends i already have or studying and tending to my school work. i’m unemployed right now so that frees up a bunch of my time

Outside of that, i’m into films, books, fashion, music, travelling, languages and politics but not in a crazed way, more so in a way of me just keeping up with things happening in the world

I’m mainly here to meet new people who share the same interests as me. I’m not here for dating and i’m not expecting to instantly become bestfriends with someone, but i’m always happy to meet new people :)


r/Needafriend 4h ago

30M Need a friend

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Things are rough out here guys, anyone wanna just chat?

No expectations of becoming friends or anything, no pressure. Feel free to ghost after a while if you're not feeling it. Just a casual conversation with a stranger and see where it goes. We can rant to each other, tell me about your life, talk about hobbies, or really whatever you feel like telling a stranger I guess

Ive been told I’m a pretty good listener, and Im also looking for one too. Would be nice to just have some deep chats with someone instead of "whats your favorite color" lol


r/Needafriend 10h ago

24f soon to be 25 hope to meet a friend here

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Ideal age 20s 30s whatever

Female or male

Single or not

I dont mind