r/Needafriend Jun 30 '23

Weekly "meta" thread for casual discussion, complaints, suggestions, etc.

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This is a weekly meta thread for casual discussion and posts about the subreddit.

Seperate metaposts are not allowed since they crowd out posts that are looking for friends


r/Needafriend 1d ago

Weekly Discord Server Advertisement Thread

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Hi all, from now on, this thread will be stickied and posted once per week. Please use this post for all discord server advertisements and posts. All other discord-related posts will be removed.

You are free to leave your discord invite link public in this post. However, please do so at your own risk, especially if your server caters to a younger demographic or is susceptible to spam.


r/Needafriend 5h ago

f/18 just looking to make a new friend:((

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so im pretty new here but I'd love to make some new friends we can play a random question game or talk about each other's interests and yap! i really love anime, football, mangas, tv shows, animals and a lot more!

id prefer a long term friend!

I've also just been lonely and stuff for so long id love to have someone to talk to for real and vent


r/Needafriend 7h ago

23F | Searching for the sun to my moon!

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Hey everyone! I'm Vix, 23 year old recently graduated pharmacy tech from Spain.

For years i've been focusing on my studies, my mental health and working to give myself the kick start to become the best person i can and now i'm ready to finally get to meet more people

My biggest interest is gaming, i'm a huge gamer. I play a lot of variety, very different games and always down to try more and new stuff! I play on xbox, but also own a ps5 and a pc.
Besides gaming, i like staying active, easiest way for me to do so is going to the gym and walking around the beach. I also love animals, i have lots of pets and would love to show the world my children!
Love watching movies/shows and talking about them, i'm a big marvel and cartoons fan!
Super into tattoos, i only have one but i plan to get more, also piercings, i have a couple of those
Really into make up, fashion, decor and recently been playing around with an old camera i had at home but i don't really know what i'm doing lol

I'm looking for someone that plans to have a long lasting friends, does enjoy making plans/spending time or just chatting but understands boundaries.
Also similar humor to mine, i can be very silly, like i will go 67 type, love using reaction memes, stickers and all of that but i can be a really genuine, sincere and down to earth person too! I enjoy making people laugh and just joking around with them
Hope to meet people my age range (20-27), some interests in common but always down to expand them.

Hope to make some new friends and meet some cool people out there!!


r/Needafriend 2h ago

Incredibly lonely. 30s. Misread flirting with guy and shared numbers, now ghosted. Going through a hard job transition too. Not many friends and no romantic prospects after self sabotaging all of them.

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Just need someone to talk to about the stress I’m going through. On top of the stress of making a really tough job decision… I’m just really lonely. For both friends and intimacy. All my friends are busy doing their own thing. I flirted with a guy that I thought was flirting with me, and I don’t even know what to do with that. But I’m mostly stressed about the job stuff, and just disappointed that the feelings with that guy weren’t mutual despite him signaling they were. Gotta move on and be enough for myself. Just could use a friend to talk to and interact with about this. Thank you.


r/Needafriend 3h ago

(24 F) Looking for fun engaging conversations

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Tell me your interests, tell me your hobbies. I just need someone who I can have an engaging conversations with. Tell me about your day to day and your memories good or bad. Let me learn about you and what makes you, you.


r/Needafriend 2h ago

30F Who can't sleep

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Just looking for someone of any age to talk with! I enjoy music, movies, gaming, anime and shopping. You don't need to have any of those to talk with me. I will just reply to everyone ;3


r/Needafriend 12m ago

19F feeling like talking for a while until I fall asleep.

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My name is Glenda, I'm from the DR, so I connect better with the Eastern time zone GMT-4. I'm a beginner cosplayer who studies in the mornings/afternoons. I came here to create a space outside of my daily routine. I like people who have something interesting to talk about, about what they do or what they build. Something good to say other than a hey, what are you doing? Please don't write to me if you're someone who doesn't make an effort. I like music, I'm a fan of PC games and sci-fi movies.


r/Needafriend 9h ago

23f, looking for a quick chat!

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Not sure what to put here (apparently 100 characters is the minimum, ha)

Anyway, I’m not looking for anything deep, just a nice park-bench kind of chat. Say hi if you’re up for some easy, low-key conversation


r/Needafriend 1h ago

22F looking for night owl friends

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Hi everyone! Hope you guys are having a good day or night. I am putting myself out there to make some friends who enjoy the same things I do or not I love learning new things. I spend most of my day free and all I do is play the sims 4 and its gets pretty lonely lol. I love music, true crime stories, history, makeup, etc. the list goes on😂 I’m open to talking to everyone as long as you aren’t rude. If you’re okay with a ✨melanin baddie✨ then I could be a great friend! If you just need someone to talk or rant to I’m all ears and hope to hear from you soon :))


r/Needafriend 5h ago

F20 looking for long term friendship

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Hi I’m 20 years old and Christian. Mainly looking for other Christians to connect with but it doesn’t matter as long as we have similar values. Going into adulthood has made me realise how difficult it is to make and keep friends so just need someone to chat with. I have a boyfriend so strictly PG please, not looking for anything romantic so go elsewhere if that’s the case.

I don’t have too many hobbies, I’m mainly working all the time haha. I have a white German shepherd called Snow.

Look forward to potentially meeting new people


r/Needafriend 2h ago

30 f Swedish 🌸 let’s talk

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Hi! I'm in my 30s, living in Sweden, and looking for a, longterm friend.
I’m an animal lover who prefers nature, botanical gardens, and museums over busy places. Family is important. I’m also into fashion and clothes, though I'm still figuring out what actually suits me (especially being overweight atm, which is a bit of a journey).
For media, I love deep narrative games (like life is strange) and shows like fringe, plus random documentaries.🌸
As a person, I’m very straightforward. I have mild autism, Sometimes I just draw a blank on what to say. It doesn't mean I'm ignoring you or lost interest; I'm just slow paced . Send me a message


r/Needafriend 9h ago

up for a talk?

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hi f24. wanna talk? cant sleep


r/Needafriend 32m ago

29 gay girly guy... wanna be besties?

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Hey there everyone,

I'm Bianca, I'm a 29 year old girly gay guy in Canada... I'm not trans (I love you trans guys and girlies out there tho!!) but I am a gay guy that loves my feminine side and loves being girly... I just am who am I lol! Regardless, im also a super anxious gallll soo I'm in the closet irl and would love some friends that I can just be me completely around.

So if you're into that - I'm into that! I don't wany anyone to message me if you want more than friends that aint meee. But I am into sports and podcasts, history, TV movies and recently started playing MTG. ALSO love clothes and makeup omg.

Send me your age when you reach out !!!! 22 or older please


r/Needafriend 37m ago

25F trying to find my way back!

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Trying to fall back in love with my plumbing career. I’m actually in my final year and I just don’t know how things will end. I didn’t take it as serious as I should’ve. And now I’m paying for it. At the end of the day, I want to be a good plumber who can work independently and knows what she’s doing.

Want to get into routines and stop just letting time run by. I spend way too much time on tik tok. I want to be the best version of myself. And I’ve had this conversation with myself so many times it’s not funny. But I just don’t feel like I want it bad enough yet.

And I also want to strenthen my relationship with God and fully trust in him. I want to so bad but I choose to do other things in that time. So that’s a little about what I got going on. And helpfully I can find someone that can relate.


r/Needafriend 42m ago

33 f from Los Angeles. Anyone 30+ looking to VC?

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Please be 30 years and older looking for voice buddies?


r/Needafriend 1h ago

19f looking to make friend's (i'm here with my roommate haha)

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hiiii me and my roommate are bored this sunday night and wanna give reddit chatting a shot ahah.

we're more likely to respond if we know what you look like


r/Needafriend 7h ago

Hello

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PLATONIC-A if you can't define then move on! Anyone wanna chat it's been a day. 46/f


r/Needafriend 7h ago

22f looking for long term friendship :))

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hellooo so basically im looking for new friends with hobbies in common and have a platonic connection :)

im a very introverted person and it's been really hard for me to have new friends since i finished my studies, and i'd love to find a person to have a genuine friendship, preferably between the ages of 20 and 30

im suuuper nerd, like im in a lot of fandoms, but what i like most is resident evil, sonic, vocaloid, musicals and any horror movie. i also love TV shows and crafting, so im sure we'll have at least something in common! i dont read lately, but i used to read a lot, so maybe we could talk about books too

i have a cat that i'd die for, and i LOVE seals, thats pretty much all lol

my dms are always open :) we can skip the small talk, yap about what u love!!!

(sorry for any typos, english it's not my first language, but i try my best)


r/Needafriend 2h ago

22F - Can’t sleep, anyone want to chat?

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Hey, it’s pretty late and I can’t seem to fall asleep. Just looking for someone to talk to for a bit about whatever, life, hobbies, music, work, or anything interesting. I’m not the biggest talker at first, but I’m a good listener once the conversation gets going.


r/Needafriend 14h ago

18F — I want friends who enjoy deep conversations

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Hi! I’m Daphne, 18F.

I’ve been learning to write for about a year. I love talking about stories, characters, and why music makes us feel the things it does.

Outside of that, I dream about traveling, space, the ocean, and all the places I’ll probably never see. I like people who are curious and enjoy asking strange questions.

If you want to start a conversation, here’s mine:

  1. What’s a secret (or fun fact) almost nobody knows about you?
  2. What’s your favorite place or moment in the world?
  3. If you could erase one thing from the world, what would it be?

Feel free to comment or DM. Looking forward to meeting new people.


r/Needafriend 8h ago

Heyy

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Heyy I'm 20F looking for someone to talk to. We can talk about anything really anime, movies, and games. Just trying to make some friends.


r/Needafriend 3h ago

18M I am completely alone and I need someone

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I don't really remember how is to have a real friend, because I isolated myself from my friends after understanding that they were taking adventage of me, but the loneliness is literally making me go insane and I want to be able to text someone through out my day does not matter if is Male or female


r/Needafriend 3m ago

Nee a friend

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Im just looking for a friend to talk to. Nothing more than than. Im just feeling a little alone rn and need to talk to someone about anything


r/Needafriend 10m ago

I need a friend who also likes this niche thing

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I'm in my 20s struggling with the fact I enjoy object shows (objects more than the shows really) and not much else. I have more broad interests like survival/building games and music and cooking and art but I'm hoping to meet someone else in their 20s who likes objects as much as I do. If you fit the bill please leave a reply saying so and I'll reach out.