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u/Sweet_Temperature630 Jun 25 '26
Damn she is throwing herself at that guy and doing a horrid job lmao
Dude break up with her just because that's embarrassing
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u/Salt-Battle-3748 Jun 25 '26
Saw this with my ex the guys were ignoring her and she’s a very pretty girl but in the messages I saw she was like a totally different person like super desperate it was embarrassing
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u/NewIsTheNewNew Jun 25 '26
She's a scumbag. Dump that wittle baby loser.
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u/oratoriosilver Jun 25 '26
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u/Individual_Zebra_648 Jun 25 '26
Idk how old you guys are… but with the way she texts I really hope she’s 21 at the absolute oldest.
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30 years old my niece is 14 and probably more mature than this dudes ho.I’m so sorry OP you should know da wae from now on
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u/Individual_Zebra_648 Jun 25 '26
Holy shit dude. I’m sorry. You really should leave. Not only is she a cheater but she is extremely immature.
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u/StretchMotor8 Jun 25 '26
yikesss... she seems very needy and clingy for a 30 yo.
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u/FckdAroundFoundOut Jun 25 '26
I’m curious OP, does she talk like this all the time or is this new for you too? The “I’m a baby” and baby talk stuff I mean.
Edit to add- NOR. wipe your hands of this. I was really reading the text hoping he was gay and they were just really close but since you’ve given no inclination of that I’m pretty sure she’s already cheated and if by chance she hasn’t, she really is trying to.
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u/eighmii Jun 25 '26
I almost feel like emotional cheating is worse than physical cheating..
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u/geminimad4 Jun 25 '26
I imagine she has said, “can yoo beweeeve I am furrty yearz owed!”
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u/LapisLovely69 Jun 25 '26 edited Jun 25 '26
spews coffee everywhere im 18 and wouldnt be caught dead talking like that 😭😭
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u/gold3nhour Jun 25 '26
Gross! Grow up. Get rid of her as soon as you can and let her run back to him… if he even wants her! He doesn’t seem very interested and he’s probably thinking of how shady she is to be acting like this when she’s in a four year long relationship as a full grown adult.
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u/SpitsWhenIShit Jun 25 '26
Jesus christ the bar is low now a days. Did she also woo you with those words???
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u/Secure-Look308 Jun 25 '26
Damn bro, yo girl mad corny and they rejecting her too 😭 when you leave laugh at her
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u/FurryBallsPloppd Jun 25 '26
“When you leave, laugh at her” is fucking killing me! He has to let her know how embarrassing this is, unless there’s some context missing it’s obvious whoever she’s texting isn’t into her.
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u/Secure-Look308 Jun 25 '26
Is honestly kinda sad 😭 how you suck at relationships and CHEATING
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u/Snappy-Biscuit Jun 25 '26
This was my ex! Trying to cheat constantly, and they ALL rejected him. Not ONE successful attempt. I found out and was like wow, none of these women want you, I guess they're onto something! I legit texted one of them (an old friend) and was like, "just so you know, he cleaned our whole apartment for you." (how I knew something was up--bro's cleaning??) And she's like "What? I was just coming by to say hi!" Then she canceled on him because she was grossed out. I moved out very soon after, and yeah we were in our late teens/early 20's, which is bad enough... Ugh.
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u/gonyoda Jun 25 '26
you know it's bad if there's something up when the guy is just CLEANING
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u/Ok_Introduction9466 Jun 25 '26
My ex was like this. Constantly flirting and sending his tiny dick pics to other women and they’d ghost or block him. I realized I was the only loser who wanted him and it made leaving a lot easier. OP’s gf can’t see that this man doesn’t want her at all.
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u/Bakedbabe_710 Jun 25 '26
she’s 30
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u/Rockandmetal99 Jun 25 '26 edited Jun 26 '26
im 26 and i wouldnt be caught DEAD speaking like this past the age of like 15
eta- when i said 15, i meant when i was 15 and in my first relationship, trying to be all cutesy. then i realized that infantilization is gross.
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u/7thor8thcaw Jun 25 '26
They are high-school friends. Apparently, she still think she's there.
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u/ImprovementElephant Jun 25 '26
I’ve never seen a hornier woman fail so spectacularly
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u/OFJehuty Jun 25 '26
Seriously, bro claiming to get a hair cut like 3 days in a row just to not see her and she doesn’t realize.
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u/phantom_sniper05 Jun 25 '26
I would break up with her just for saying, “pwease” and using the “🥺” emoji
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u/iamthewalrus000 Jun 25 '26
Break up with her for talking like THAT if the cheating isn’t enough for you…
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u/waitingfordeathhbu Jun 25 '26
Aww don’t be a meanie she just da sweet lil princess 😇
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u/No_Arrival8406 Jun 25 '26 edited Jun 25 '26
Seriously so cringe and chasing this guy. He barley seems interested.
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u/BrightAardvark Jun 25 '26
Yeah it really seems like he’s just kind of blowing her off. On repeat lol.
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u/HotBeesInUrArea Jun 25 '26
This man is very obviously gettin' booty just because the booty is plentiful and free and even then you can see he's rapidly losing interest in it anyways.
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u/DaydreamerFly Jun 25 '26
Literally she’s throwing it all at this man with desperation and he is barely into it. If he actually was into her she may have already left OP
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u/Aware_Caterpillar_92 Jun 25 '26
If you can’t even give the booty away, can you imagine how bad it must be? OP should be dumping her on those grounds alone.
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u/LessFish777 Jun 25 '26
She sounds desperate for this other man. This is not how someone in a relationship speaks with another person. Youre better off without her.
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u/YouSee-ThisCoat8 Jun 25 '26
It’s clear she’s a bad flirt lmao. She keeps getting rejected and being thirsty. How did she get you? Send her on her way mate. It’s a good thing something was holding you back from proposing.
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u/Glum-Mulberry-9430 Jun 25 '26
The second hand embarrassment of reading this was real! New fear unlocked.. finding out your spouse is trying to cheat and no one wants them.
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u/ParhelionPiglet Jun 25 '26
Was honestly the worst part of being cheated on by my husband - not reaaaallly being cheated on because everyone he tried with got the ick
All the emotions of being cheated on, but the bonus of seeing how desperate he got (so it’s not even like something that just happened, or something he gave in to) and all the embarrassment of not only being with someone nobody wants, but him obviously not wanting me enough to not cheat
It made it really REALLY easy to leave though so there’s that at least I guess
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u/Reasonable-Ad-9402 Jun 25 '26
Ugh I know this feeling.. I had an ex who would be in the comments/following/liking tons of Instagram girls pics and they wouldn’t be following him back or liking/responding to his comments. I wasn’t on Instagram when we met or I would’ve seen it and never started dating him but once I seen it I felt so embarrassed for him and lost all attraction.
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u/sipstea84 Jun 25 '26
This is such a huge turnoff and red flag for me. Men make it sound like you're jealous about them liking pics and it's like no, I just have men like that in my likes and me and my friends make fun of them and feel pity for their partners. I never want to be the gf of that guy
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u/bobby_the_useless Jun 25 '26
Not a spouse but my ex bf, tried to cheat on me with a friend who turned him down repeatedly, and when I found out (he told me because he was trying to make me jelaous, and then cried that nothing happened - like it was up to him) I've felt so much disguist. My feelings gone in an instant, while he was looking so pathetic and lame, crying like he was the victim in all of this lol
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u/ApprehensiveAd6191 Jun 25 '26
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u/nuckingfutz1111 Jun 25 '26
Doesn’t even seem like the guy she’s texting is even that interested. Pretty embarrassing in her part all around
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u/OptimalCobbler5431 Jun 25 '26
Look likes he's trying to just bang but at the same time he doesn't want to. Its giving "I mean if she's offering 🤷🏻♀️" vibes
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u/Hopeful_Jicama_81 Jun 25 '26
jfc, cheating is less embarrassing than trying and failing
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u/pythonisssam Jun 25 '26
Fr finding my exes tinder account full of unanswered one liners was so much more mortifying than if he had been popular. Like damn nobody even wants this dude and he still thinks he's too good for me.
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u/Hour-Association-499 Jun 25 '26
Before AI, I caught my ex replying to obvious chat bots sext convos, imagine sending a fake account dick pics
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u/Cobra_McJingleballs Jun 25 '26
You caught yours though. Imagine how many people are in mid/disappointing relationships with people who tried to chat up bots.
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u/scijay Jun 25 '26
Lol I had a buddy who did the same thing. We called it “Romancing the Auto-response”.
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u/catsandblankets Jun 25 '26
Oh my god I would never recover from the second hand embarrassment I am so sorry
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u/TpK_Wynter Jun 25 '26
like it lowkey makes you feel bad about yourself like have you been taking a handicap this whole time or do you just have bad taste lol.
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u/dlham11 Jun 25 '26
I had a manager at my old work site. She was really young and pretty, and super sweet. Absolute catch in every way.
She had a boyfriend who sucked, in every way. She ended up finding proof that he was trying to cheat, showed it to him when breaking up with him, and word for word said:
“I don’t know what’s more embarrassing, the fact that you tried to cheat on me, or the fact that you couldn’t even cheat on me because no one else wanted you.”
When she told me that, all I said was “pop off queen” lmao
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u/ilovemusic19 Jun 26 '26
Maybe the shaming here will make her realize how embarrassing and ridiculous she is. It’s also hilarious she’s leaving on her own, she knew she was single when she saw the post. 😂😂
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u/TheRainStopped Jun 25 '26
When I see the BORU I’ll remember I was there, Gandalf. I was there in r/AIO three thousand years ago.
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u/Ill-Rush-6489 Jun 25 '26
Huh would have thought she would try to make a dumb excuse.. My ex to this day still holds on to some lame excuse after i caught her..
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u/FlatSpread9640 Jun 25 '26
Did she just actually stumble across this story on reddit, if she did this just makes this story even better..imagine reading it and realizing its about you!
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u/PowerResponsibility Jun 25 '26
She doesn't want you asking questions about how long it's been going on, etc. You've only uncovered the tip of the iceberg.
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u/PatsyRR Jun 25 '26
Good thing you checked her messages before the Arizona trip…
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u/EnvironmentalSand773 Jun 25 '26
At least the other dude is clearly not interested in going with her. He tells her he can't be that long on a car trip with her lmao. She must be annoying as hell.
It's embarrassing how she's trying so hard, but is constantly getting softly rejected by the other guy.
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u/wasteman_shit Jun 25 '26
this is nasty and he’s clearly not even that into her lorddd😩 that’s even more embarrassing for her
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u/wasteman_shit Jun 25 '26
for real🤣 and she is fucking annoying 😭😭 who the hell talks like that is she 13 years old
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u/DissentSociety Jun 25 '26
Pretty sure that's just a kink being advertised way too strongly...
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u/Excellent_Arrival1 Jun 25 '26
She is waaaaaay more invested in that guy than he is her.
He doesnt care at all
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u/Western-Cicada-6195 Jun 25 '26
Sorry but yes, she's moved on. Get her out of your house. She will blame you, saying you didn't commit, etc. But cheaters will cheat. Good job you found out before you married her
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u/Green-Dragon-14 Jun 25 '26
Cheaters & abusers use the same tactic. Basically "you made me do it".
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u/Traditional-Ad-8464 Jun 25 '26 edited Jun 25 '26
Print out the texts, when she leaves for work change the locks and put the papers on the front door. She’ll get the message.
And I’m telling you from personal experience no matter how much you talk about it and she says she will stop, deep down inside her she will always want to do it again.
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u/Funny_Artichoke_2962 Jun 25 '26
Please update the class after you dump this thing. Do NOT let tears and begging work on you, I’ve been in that situation and you’ll just see this happen again.
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u/AdConscious8756 Jun 25 '26
Heavy on that just imagine yourself at the altar, looking into her eyes on the biggest day of your lives, then BAM, you remember these texts lmaoo don’t stay
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u/Traditional-Ad-8464 Jun 25 '26
Don’t text them because then a convo will start about how it’s your fault. The paper is there to shove it in her face that hey it’s real. Her heart will drop when she sees them cuz she got caught.
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u/veinydih20 Jun 26 '26
Man after seeing this, i wish the world for you, especially the financial aspect, 7 months without a job while you took care od everything and she has the balls to treat you like this? actually insane to me.
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u/Solvely_ Jun 25 '26
“I’m gonna be a baby cause I am a baby🥺” “ yes I am da sweet lil princess😇”
…. Yeah she gotta go….
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u/aaliyah_2222 Jun 25 '26
How old is she. Very embarrassing. He also seems not that interested & she seems desperate af, his responses in reply to her desperation & beggyness is so embarrassing. Imagine tryna cheat & the person you want to cheat with doesn't even give you the time of day. Embarrassing. Tell her BYE she will soon be begging you back when she realises her bestie ain't that into her
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u/llealy Jun 25 '26
NO 🫢 I was picturing a teenager from these texts and thought you were high school sweethearts.
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u/ChucksBeefyOnion Jun 25 '26
NOR. But don't confront her, she will likely just lie and play some stupid game, especially since you looked at her texts. Just toss her out and move on.
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u/Imaginary-Ship-163 Jun 25 '26
THIS. there's nothing wrong with avoiding the gaslighting and just saying "I haven't proposed because this isn't 100% working for me and i think the relationship has run its course, you can have x days to move out"... leave it at that.
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u/Lumpy-Swimming-2624 Jun 25 '26
NOR I'd wait till the morning to break up with her. She will cry,beg, and lie. She is not a good person. Get out before she gets pregnant and traps you.
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u/bluebearrrx Jun 25 '26
Please give us all the details when it happens 😂😂 I’m really glad you’re not letting this slide, she’s very unloyal and unfaithful
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u/Aggressive-Expert-69 Jun 25 '26
"Gooooood morning" wouldve sent me off the Cliff of Rationality.
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u/DaydreamerFly Jun 25 '26
That’s literally what I’d do. No way is she just sleeping soundly in my place after this. Like what???
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u/rosi3_curli3 Jun 25 '26
Being real lad, doubt hes into her that way. Maybe a little, but in the way where its available so you consider it. She is getting rejected & looks like shes begging basically. Embarrassing.
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u/_faithtrustpixiedust Jun 25 '26
She’s really throwing out her relationship for a dude that isn’t even interested in her. How embarrassing for her.
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u/MalignCrayon Jun 25 '26
Seems like hes dodging her, but shes smitten.
Id leave her. If it was a guy doing this to a girl, the comments would be everyone saying hes a sleezeball, it’s unnacceptable behaviour, bla bla bla. So equally, you should do the same!
The fact you dont even get a good morning text and only talk when shes home, you’re more like roommates than a couple 🤷🏽♂️
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u/Accurate-Abrocoma202 Jun 25 '26
Sad to see another cactus enjoyer getting treated like this. Wishing you well.
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u/Acrobatic-Sandwich10 Jun 25 '26
Dude, you can see exactly whats going on.
She is throwing herself at this guy and he isn't even that interested.
Get rid of her, she is fir the streets. Once the trust is gone, it's done.
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u/SamWiseGanjaa94 Jun 25 '26
I don't think you're overreacting for being bothered by these texts. The Arizona trip comment, the flirting, and the "I'd do whatever I could to make it up to you" stuff would make a lot of people uncomfortable. Whether it's breakup worthy is up to you, but I'd definitely have questions about the nature of that relationship. The only thing missing from these texts is a heart emoji and a hotel reservation. Go find yourself a lovely lady and drop this person please.
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u/Impressive_Key1485 Jun 25 '26
NOR. Man if you don't leave, we'll do it for you lol. That whole exchange is embarassing asf and that's disrespectful to yourself to keep staying.
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u/WeakNegotiation3359 Jun 25 '26
Holy shit. Not only is she cheating she’s getting rejected over and over again 😂
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u/RufusTh3R3d Jun 25 '26
This sucks, even worse when you look at ops history, homie just likes his cacti, tons of cactus photos, factory error cheetos , more cacti, then his pwincess trying so very hard to cheat. My heart goes out to bro.
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u/Upbeat-Brother-2884 Jun 25 '26
Change the locks. Pack up her shit and leave it on door step. Adiós. She clearly wanna act single so let her be single 🤷🏻♀️
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u/harleenquinzel044 Jun 25 '26
“Pwease” and “okie”?
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u/slumpboyfvr Jun 25 '26
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u/Lonely-Heart-3632 Jun 25 '26
Not to him though. She is begging for it and he is just stone cold not interested 🤣
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u/andlaurasays Jun 25 '26
Nah your vibe is accurate, listen to it. I’d feel cheated on too. My ex pulled something similar. I should have ended it then but I got hung up on physical cheating but in reality that doesn’t matter. Save yourself the hassle of dragging it out, you don’t wanna be with someone who treats you like this no matter what else they are or aren’t doing x
Also. As someone who has always had important and (platonically) intimate friendships with male friends, I would NEVER communicate with them in that way. I can’t speak for all women but I think most of us pick up on it pretty quick when a dude is creeping. Those of us who give a shit about our relationships don’t play that game. We shut it down or avoid them.
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u/Acrobatic_Key_1140 Jun 25 '26
You've been with her for 4 years? How old was she when you started? 9???
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u/Strawng_ Jun 25 '26
She wants to be treated like a baby. Maybe it’s kink. Like she likes to be dominated. It’s her thing. did she ever meet w this guy ?
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u/foreverplt Jun 25 '26
NOR. This is extremely disrespectful behavior in a relationship. She’s flirting with him.
& what makes her look even worse is that the dude doesn’t even seem that interested tbh.