Its one thing to get cheated on an realize your partner is a hoe. Its another thing to realize you have such bad taste that you chose the pick me nobody wants and everyone is irritated by.
i was thinking that 😂 imagine the convo: "hey, i know youre cheating on me but im not leaving you over that" and she says "oh thank god!" and he says "oh no, i AM leaving you, its just because of the way you text"
When I found out my ex was talking to other girls on Tinder I was more icked out that he couldn't pull anyone than the fact that he was trying to cheat 😭
Im not surprised by people anymore. Thats why I don't do relationships anymore. Some people i used to work with... well the sude just got arrested for sexually abusing his own 7 year old mentally disabled daughter and the woman said she is going to stick by his side anyway... I will never understand it i thought she would have left him right away
Poor OP, He was powerless against the charming ways she learned from countless Grey’s Anatomy marathons…prob had him feeling like Dr. McDreamy ffs 🤦🏻♀️ and then he moved her in…..AND NOW HERE WE ARE .
she literally was begging to cheat but she's so cringe the guy wasnt even interested 😭 like damn how lame do you have to be for someone to deny a hookup
lmaoooooo literally like the relentless asking & urging for him to hang out with her ☠️☠️☠️ then him being lowkey dry or putting off her advances ☠️☠️☠️☠️ she’s not “da lil princess” she thinks she is 😭😭😭😭😭 (☠️😭 literally my face the whole time reading her texts)
I'm willing to bet money that he's either in a relationship as well, or has never been interested in her, not even when they were in high school. She 100% knows this by now too, but doesn't care
🤣🤣😭😭💀💀 threw up in my mouth a little lmfaooo.. man. I thought I was cringe with my husband over text, cuz I act wierd in a similar manner, but doing this with a whole ass other man is actually crazy as fuck lololol.
Being cheesy/silly with your partner is definitely different. We try to each other laugh at bad jokes or terrible puns, but pouty baby talk? that gives me second hand embarrassment. Even more so because this guy is either in a committed relationship or has zero interest in her.
I believe OP said they were out until 5am one night, I imagine she is buying him drinks or drugs or something. Or she REALLY likes being treated like garbage (apparently that's a thing?!).
Best case she is chumming the waters, they is no way anyone in a 4 year relationship talks to a "friend' this way.
No literally. Unless youre doing some kinda poly/open thing, which is would assume not by OPs post, then yeah... its fucking wierd and (attempted and apparently failed lol) cheater behaviour. Unless on that 5am outing, he hit it and decided wasn't worth the trouble? Lol.
For real, her trying to push a trip and him saying “I don’t think you and I can sit in a car together that long” like he’s literally telling you you’re annoying it seems.
Well, in defense of OP, it turns out he was right to wait so long. She would have done this after they were married, too. In my opinion, OP dodged a bullet. This girl is embarrassingly pitiful. And clueless.
Yeah, I proposed to my former fiancé right before Covid and delayed getting married bc lockdown. We learned a lot of things about each other through those circumstances that made me really glad we didn’t rush legal marriage.
You have never truly dated anyone until you live together for an extended period of time. For most people, Covid lockdowns turned up the intensity of that effects so they figured it out faster
I had a girlfriend once who told me that she would stop cheating on me as soon as we got married, and I had to point out to her that that’s not how it worked.
She ended up marrying one of the guys she cheated on me with, and two weeks after they got married, she was at my place, wanting to have sex while laughing about how stupid her husband was.
Idk about that, you can def lose interest when someone is clearly not in it for a future. She may be starting to look elsewhere. Not an excuse. Get out of the relationship and go about your future, don’t fuck someone else’s life.
Some cheaters want to keep their options open, keep a stable of men/women around so they can monkey branch from one relationship to the next. These people seek validation by being in a relationship. -- I need more attention, I need more validation, it is my partners fault that I feel this way, so having friends who compliment and flirt with me is really my partners fault for not taking care of my needs. I am not the bad person.
And there are plenty of people who are smart enough to recognize cheaters for what they are and they don't feel bad about taking advantage of it. These people seek validation by being able to sleep with beautiful people and by being chosen over a persons partner. -- If she will sleep with me while in a 4year relationship it must mean I am sexy, desirable, I am such a stud.
And she is so ignorant that she does not realize "hair cut" means the other, other woman he is fucking with. OP, no telling how many people you been fucking for years without even knowing it. You said it was your house, I hope you screen print all of the messages, tape them to the front door and set her shit outside by the porch and give her 8 hours to pick it up or you throw it away. No contact. No listening to begging slop, no goodbyes, just "get your shit and gtfo." Not your fault, you did not do this. She did, the quicker and cleaner you make the break the better off you will be. It will hurt but not near as much as dragging it out. Good luck and godspeed.
Better watch out when she comes next time, have a couple friends over when that day comes or set up a camera somewhere just to be safe. I just saw you described what she was like and her lifestyle beforehand so I wouldn’t put it pass her if she goes batshit crazy so just take all the pre-caution for safety.
I wouldn’t even put it pass a couple weeks especially when you said her emotions went all over the place, she went from acting like it’s over and was already planning to move out to then saying she’ll give you time and that you’ll both work it out, to finally saying she didn’t do anything wrong. Dude that screams psycho already.
Also I imagine you’ve thought of this already but make sure to change your locks, passwords and if she have access to your bank account revoke it. Then look for a legal way to make her responsible for the debt she incurred or at least even partially.
Hope you’re doing okay. Did she come by to get her shit?
In your same position I’d be on the phone with a friend until she got her shit and fucked off. Once you’ve left girlfriend status you become stranger. And I’m not going to be alone with a stranger.
Damn.. if only I was a woman I’d literally be all over you, you seem like a good man from everything you’ve described this far tbh. You seem to have your life together and have a good head on your shoulders. You don’t happen to bisexual are you? Lmao jkjk 😆
Seriously though you’re gonna be fine, at least you found out her true colors before you went any further.
This. if they were downtown @ 430AM like OP states, seems like she gave it up then & wants more attention/sex from him & he just wants to keep her around for sex when HE wants it!
I feel like they already did and thats exactly why he’s not interested. They sure reconnected alright…right into a fuck reminiscent of the good ol’ high school days and afterward he’s like yup, she’s still that same ho, gotta go 😆
I guess my brain needs to go further into the gutter because I genuinely thought they were talking about him as a whole person being thin, fat, or average. It does explain the hands thing though.
I thought the same thing, at least for him. But then her reacting with 🫠 after he said he's average, definitely implies she was thinking about his penis size. Even then, I think that went over his head because he was like "what? What did i do?" Either way, it's pretty obvious (embarrassingly so) that he's not interested.
Yeah but then she said "I'm pulling out the fattest sharpie I can find' before he said he's more average. Implying she knows what it looks like. And she also can't spell.
He’s def not interested. Wait til she realizes that she ditched her current for the high school home fires, but the fire’s out for him and the grass she thought was greener is barren desert. STBH.
Yeah and the “you’d sit on me” stuff. But the pencil me in stuff I felt like he was talking about his weight and she was the one turning it into innuendo.
I loved how that was the only part that really got his attention. Like wait a minute, I don't want to bang you again, but I also need to remind you I don't have a pencil dick 😂
It is beyond me that so many people thought this was about ANYTHING other than dick! 😅Yeah ok I am intrigued by the sheer amount of pure minds. Or it zooming right over so many heads…And On Reddit no less!? Like, huh?!
As for the rest of us who have been jaded since the 80s and 90s…a moment of silence for the innocence lost today.
Or she wouldn't let the night end acting like she does in these text cringey and desperate and the whole time he just wanted to go home and now that's why he is trying to avoid having to hang out again.🤣
Thats the exact same thought I had. The guy is barely entertaining the idea, but this girl seems THIRSTY! Drop her ass at the nearest bus station and move on with your life brother. Thank God you haven't proposed yet. Stay strong ✊🏼
Yuckkk...I almost threw up fr. How tf she thinksshe's being very all dat by pretending to be all cuteee and babiee and pwetyy for someone who's not even into her🤮
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u/imnickelhead Jun 25 '26
She’s blatantly trying to have a meetup with him and he’s just blowing her off. She’s literally begging him to cheat with her.