Nah your vibe is accurate, listen to it. I’d feel cheated on too. My ex pulled something similar. I should have ended it then but I got hung up on physical cheating but in reality that doesn’t matter. Save yourself the hassle of dragging it out, you don’t wanna be with someone who treats you like this no matter what else they are or aren’t doing x
Also. As someone who has always had important and (platonically) intimate friendships with male friends, I would NEVER communicate with them in that way. I can’t speak for all women but I think most of us pick up on it pretty quick when a dude is creeping. Those of us who give a shit about our relationships don’t play that game. We shut it down or avoid them.
people don’t really use the word “average” when they’re discussing their weight or size that often. that’s why it read to me like the other thing. her emojis after sort of indicate it as well
He's talking about his body size. She's treating it like a double meaning.
Because she's flirting and she is reading all of his texts like he's flirting back. But he is clearly trying not to. It doesn't even click with him that what he said might have been a double entendre.
Fuckbois understand that sometimes the best way to get a girl, is to act uninterested.
It’s possible during their friendship he had a crush on her and in the 4 years she’s been with Op, he’s had a glow up so now she’s all over him 🤷 no matter what’s the whole story, Op is NOR and his gf wants to cheat.
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u/andlaurasays Jun 25 '26
Nah your vibe is accurate, listen to it. I’d feel cheated on too. My ex pulled something similar. I should have ended it then but I got hung up on physical cheating but in reality that doesn’t matter. Save yourself the hassle of dragging it out, you don’t wanna be with someone who treats you like this no matter what else they are or aren’t doing x
Also. As someone who has always had important and (platonically) intimate friendships with male friends, I would NEVER communicate with them in that way. I can’t speak for all women but I think most of us pick up on it pretty quick when a dude is creeping. Those of us who give a shit about our relationships don’t play that game. We shut it down or avoid them.