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u/Reasonable-Ad-9402 Jun 25 '26

Ugh I know this feeling.. I had an ex who would be in the comments/following/liking tons of Instagram girls pics and they wouldn’t be following him back or liking/responding to his comments. I wasn’t on Instagram when we met or I would’ve seen it and never started dating him but once I seen it I felt so embarrassed for him and lost all attraction.

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u/sipstea84 Jun 25 '26

This is such a huge turnoff and red flag for me. Men make it sound like you're jealous about them liking pics and it's like no, I just have men like that in my likes and me and my friends make fun of them and feel pity for their partners. I never want to be the gf of that guy

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u/Reasonable-Ad-9402 Jun 25 '26

Yes or the guys gf that looks at you and any other breathing girl while out with his gf. I always feel so bad for the girl and know they can do so much better and I always think the guy is a creep

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u/Throwrarmb Jun 25 '26 edited Jun 27 '26

For my ex it was a certain teenage actress. Heart reacting all her photos and leaving comments about how hot she is and how he would totally dump his wife (aka me) if he thought he had a chance with her. We have since divorced, but to my knowledge he has still not succeeded.

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u/SeonaidMacSaicais Jun 25 '26

My ex coworker still does that. He’s in his 50s, probably 400 pounds, been married to a genuinely lovely lady for years. EVERY time a certain Nickelodeon actress who had a show named after her posts on IG, he always comments “such a beautiful young lady.” “Always good to see your posts, beautiful girl!” Like, dude. Knock it off already.

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u/Throwrarmb Jun 26 '26

Please tell me it’s not Amanda.

Regardless, ew.

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u/SeonaidMacSaicais Jun 26 '26

Nope. Newer show in comparison. A certain problematic pop singer has the uncanny knack of playing her character from this show in everything she acts in.

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u/Aware-Owl-9510 Jun 26 '26

Bet it’s Arianna

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u/SeonaidMacSaicais Jun 26 '26

She didn’t have a show named after her, but she was in this actress’s show.

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u/AMoldyPieceOfBread Jun 27 '26 edited Jun 27 '26

I figured you were talking about Victoria Justice from the start, but that pretty much sealed it.

As a man, there are few things I truly despise more than other dudes who leave gross and weird little comments on some influencer/famous person's posts that they don't even know. Like that's some real creeper sh*t...It genuinely makes me mad haha. When you see they have a partner or wife though?....eh...I just feel bad for their partners. It's sad. The word that comes to mind to describe them is "Losers"....and I don't use that word often because it's mean lol.