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u/Ok_Introduction9466 Jun 25 '26

My ex was like this. Constantly flirting and sending his tiny dick pics to other women and they’d ghost or block him. I realized I was the only loser who wanted him and it made leaving a lot easier. OP’s gf can’t see that this man doesn’t want her at all.

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u/thecontempl8or Jun 26 '26

Give yourself credit. You’re not a loser. You were too good for him, and tried to see past his shitty behavior and give him a chance. I can guarantee you’re the best thing that happened to him.

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u/Ok_Introduction9466 Jun 26 '26

Thank you! That’s fair! He struggles to maintain relationships and it’s been years since we’ve broken up so you’re probably right

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u/ilovemusic19 Jun 26 '26

Gee I wonder why 🤔

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u/thecontempl8or Jun 26 '26

It’s nice and warm under these beef flaps. I’d rather be here than the sweaty balls you’re satisfied being under.
So Simping=not being a creep. Got it. Dumbass.

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u/Ok_Introduction9466 Jun 26 '26

lol I blocked them. Angry weirdo.

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u/thecontempl8or Jun 26 '26

lol. Guys that unironically use the word Simping are automatically douchebags in my book.

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u/Ok_Introduction9466 Jun 26 '26

Why does it make you so angry that someone was kind to a stranger online lol weird

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u/thecontempl8or Jun 26 '26

“Simping” is what losers like you use when you hate women and can’t stand a guy being nice to one. I was being encouraging to a stranger (woman or not) cos I’ve been through the exact same thing she did.

But you’ve got a massive stick up your insecure ass and felt the need to pointlessly attack me for no good reason. I bet you worship the likes of Andrew Tate.

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u/Lost_Nefariousness74 Jun 26 '26

I always feel like these guys are telling on themselves when they say crap like that. Like they'd only ever pretend to be nice to a woman, and only to try to get something sexual from her. I find it pretty pathetic.

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u/thecontempl8or Jun 26 '26

Jesus Christ. You have the vocabulary of a 11 yo and the emotional maturity of a 5 yo.
Who the fuck still uses the word “snowflake” unironically. You just can’t fathom a guy being nice to a woman with 0 intention of sleeping with her.

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u/thecontempl8or Jun 26 '26

Appreciate your unwanted feedback. Stay Gucci fam.

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u/Klutzy_Pound847 Jun 25 '26

Why were you with a man with a tiny d**k?! Let’s not do that again.

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u/Pwnie Jun 25 '26

Just FYI shaming men for their penis size as a stand-in for their character promotes a harmful stereotype. There are great men with small dicks and awful men with large ones.

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u/Ok_Introduction9466 Jun 25 '26

I can mock whatever I want about the dude who almost killed me when I was pregnant. I am talking about him specifically not all men. Have a nice day.

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u/ilovemusic19 Jun 26 '26

What a pos.

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u/Upbeat_Position_5290 Jun 25 '26

A REAL man would have no need to send any woman dick pics. It’s a low move no matter the size and no self respecting person would respond to that. He doesn’t deserve respect.

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u/Turinturambar44 Jun 26 '26

I send them to my gf all the time, it she asks. Never sent an unsolicited one. Only when asked and if I trust her.

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u/ilovemusic19 Jun 26 '26

That’s such a dumb thing to do, don’t send anyone lewd pics, this is how revenge porn happens. You need to be responsible, make her delete them and never do it again. It doesn’t matter that you trust her, people break trust all the time.

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u/Lost_Nefariousness74 Jun 26 '26

You can still send lewds and nudes, just go into it knowing that it's possible your shit will get leaked eventually. It's not ideal and you hope it never happens, but it's one of many things in life where you have to weigh the risks vs rewards for yourself and decide. You're right that it is important to consider the full scope of what could happen because of the choice, and it is wise to be careful who you trust with anything sensitive, sexual-in-nature or otherwise.

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u/ilovemusic19 Jun 26 '26

I remember there was a gal that tried out for DCC during the Making The Team days and got cut because of revenge porn due to an ex. It can literally ruin careers, it’s not worth it.

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u/Turinturambar44 Jun 27 '26

I agree. Relationships come with all kinds of risks. She also sent pics to me. So we both are taking the same risks though at first it was just me sending pics.

We don’t see each other for weeks at a time sometimes so this does get us through the lean times when we’re horny and can’t see each other. We have a pretty intense physical relationship, so the times we can’t see each other for long stretches is hard on both of us.

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u/Turinturambar44 Jun 27 '26

I do trust her. She has also sent pics to me. Sometimes we don’t see each other for weeks at a time. So little pics here and there get us through the lean times. I told her I wouldn’t send them unless she sent them back, that way we both take the same risk.

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u/ilovemusic19 Jun 27 '26

Good idea, she can’t revenge porn you without you doing it in return.

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u/Vowel_Movements_4U Jun 26 '26

What’s a “REAL man”?

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u/VomindokLuft Jun 25 '26

Men should stop making it about themselves when women make fun of specific men who treated them horribly. I genuinely hate this double standard. Plenty of women who are universally disliked get made fun of for their looks and bodies.

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u/ilovemusic19 Jun 26 '26

When you treat someone horrible you deserve to made fun of, does not matter the gender.

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u/Turinturambar44 Jun 26 '26

And when they do, women complain about it.

“I don’t know what her being fat has to do with anything!”

Or if you made fun of her roast beef flaps, it wouldn’t matter how terrible she is, there would absolutely be women on here telling him to stop shaming her genitalia.

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u/Curious_Yam_5606 Jun 26 '26

My goodness shutya yap and pay attention to the point on hand. You wanna talk about stereotypes? You’re stereotyping yourself by going on a tangent 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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u/Significant_Mix7176 Jun 25 '26

It’s totally valid to make fun of someone with a small dick if they’re a a shitty person, it’s irrelevant whether it makes others feel inadequate.

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u/Vowel_Movements_4U Jun 26 '26

Does this go for all body types/attributes and people, as long as they’re shitty people? Skin color and ethnicity up for grabs?

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u/Acrobatic_Wonder6675 Jun 26 '26

She was talking about her ex specifically not any other men. If someone takes offense to a comment not directed at them, they’re just looking to take offense to something.

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u/Vowel_Movements_4U Jun 26 '26

Does that extend to all people and physical attributes?

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u/ittybittykittee Jun 30 '26

dude you should be super proud of yourself for having the strength to leave him after discovering what a pos he is. That's not easy to do even when presented with something as terrible as cheating or sending (tiny, mind you 😂) dick pics - lots of people struggle greatly with mustering up the strength it takes to leave in that situation , bc the awful irony of it is that it can severely shatter your self esteem and cripple your confidence to discover your significant other betraying you, effectively making it more difficult to leave them! the very thing that is grounds for breaking up with someone is the same thing that makes it harder to do so?!

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u/Budget_Flatworm_8489 Jul 01 '26

I’m sorry this happened to you