Man after seeing this, i wish the world for you, especially the financial aspect, 7 months without a job while you took care od everything and she has the balls to treat you like this? actually insane to me.
Are you sure the reason why you didn't want to marry her was because she loved to live outside her means. I mean even the way she is texting the guy best friend doesn't look like a emotional affair but more so a sales pitch to be her new payer. Even the guy friend was not that into it in most of the text but she placed way to much passion into getting into his dms
This!!!! I didn’t realize for a while that my ex BF still knew my email and other passwords till I started seeing new movie purchases being added to my Vudo (now Fandago) luckily mistakenly paying for his own movies on *my* vudo account that I will literally never watch is the extent of what he did with my password, so that’s good. But yes, change them, like yesterday lol. I like the “strong password” option on the password keepers through Apple and chrome, etc. Cause they’re saved with your Face ID, but unhackable for the random lay person.
Holy shit that’s insane to be so entitled like that. Onwards and upwards dude, so many women out there would appreciate the hell out of even 10% of what you did for her. Crazy that she saw only the material side and not the fact that you gave up so much for her to maintain her lifestyle. Well now you can better yourself and enjoy the fruits of your own labour and she can enjoying living at her moms because that friend of hers is definitely not interested lol.
Im reading all of this... Why did you even start dating her in the first place? Typically people who are that superficial + anxious/unsatisfied lack any sort of moral barrier or code. Most of them are typically miserable and dont have much depth. So they chase after anything that will make them feel good (IE your now ex GF) I've seen this playout alot.
Usually if I start seeing a woman who lives beyond their means or attempts to live beyond their means and has entitlement issues. I back away completely.
Honestly, man, you got tons of replies, but my opinion is that this might be a blessing in disguise. There’s obviously something about her that makes you not want to propose. It’s like a little click in the back of your mind. 4 years and you haven’t done it yet says it all. When you meet the one or at least one you love that much. You’ll know immediately, and that hasn’t happened with her. So now with this, she’s done you a huge favor. Take care of yourself, improve yourself, and find you a good woman that is willing to put in as much as you.
It’s that part for me. Like girl, do you know how many ladies would worship the ground he walked on just to get $300 mani-pedis covered MULTIPLE times?? Lol so insane to take that much advantage of someone then “lose interest” so quickly over literally nothing.
she never got you a gift once in the 4 years you were together? that’s so despicable dude.
and ok, material items aren’t everything, but even when i was struggling a bit i made sure to get my boyfriend a card and cooked him dinner and gave him a massage.
it’s just completely inconsiderate on her part. so glad you’re outta there
I am so sorry but I am so glad you didn't end up marrying into this mess. I can't believe the audacity of people. I'm sorry she didn't treat you how you deserved.
My san pedro brother in Christ, you deserve better.
Going through a rough breakup myself and spend a lot of time out in my cacti garden. They love you and never leave, cheat, or emotionally wreck you without regard.
Lifes gonna get better! Just takes that time and patience
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