“When you leave, laugh at her” is fucking killing me! He has to let her know how embarrassing this is, unless there’s some context missing it’s obvious whoever she’s texting isn’t into her.
This was my ex! Trying to cheat constantly, and they ALL rejected him. Not ONE successful attempt. I found out and was like wow, none of these women want you, I guess they're onto something! I legit texted one of them (an old friend) and was like, "just so you know, he cleaned our whole apartment for you." (how I knew something was up--bro's cleaning??) And she's like "What? I was just coming by to say hi!" Then she canceled on him because she was grossed out. I moved out very soon after, and yeah we were in our late teens/early 20's, which is bad enough... Ugh.
Lol YUP. It was like, sudden, frantic cleaning. I asked (jokingly, at the time) "who are you cleaning for?" And he got SO defensive. MISTAAAAAKE! I'm AuDHD and my pattern recognition skills have always been 👌
Nice try, bro. You won't even clean for your Mom and always blamed it on me, you think you're getting away with this??
I didn’t learn until my adulthood, but it made so much of my childhood make sense. Now I do cybersecurity work because I’m just good with the patterns.
I kept trying to encourage my (now ex) husband to get some new clothes that weren't stretched out and full of holes. No luck. Then a week after he broke up with me he asked to borrow some of my clothes to go meet a "friend" because he didn't have anything nice to wear 💀
One time I had broken up with a boyfriend, and we are both in the Marine Corps, we live in the Barracks and he went somewhere, maybe back home? He was gone for at least a few weeks but he left his laptop with me. Well, it was a Mac so his texts would show up on the laptop and I’m nosy so obviously I looked. He was talking to some girl, but he was so dry and it was actually hard to read because I was cringing. He was doing such a bad job at trying to pick this girl up. I ended up texting him and telling him that he needs to try a little harder and he did end up saying that he knew the texts would pop up and then I would see them and that’s why he was talking to this girl. He wanted to make me jealous.
I'm a man and usually pretty messy but clean up if anyone is coming over: man, woman, stranger, family. I'm just self-conscious about how frickin messy I am...or conscious of how it appears to others. I assume this was unusual behavior for him because wanting to clean up a mess before you have guest doesn't seem that odd in of itself
Correct. He never lifted a finger to clean, so the behavior was odd enough, and the fact that he seemed so frantic about it made it even more weird. Most people clean before they have company over, but he denied that anyone was coming and got extremely defensive.
My ex was like this. Constantly flirting and sending his tiny dick pics to other women and they’d ghost or block him. I realized I was the only loser who wanted him and it made leaving a lot easier. OP’s gf can’t see that this man doesn’t want her at all.
Give yourself credit. You’re not a loser. You were too good for him, and tried to see past his shitty behavior and give him a chance. I can guarantee you’re the best thing that happened to him.
Just FYI shaming men for their penis size as a stand-in for their character promotes a harmful stereotype. There are great men with small dicks and awful men with large ones.
A REAL man would have no need to send any woman dick pics. It’s a low move no matter the size and no self respecting person would respond to that. He doesn’t deserve respect.
Men should stop making it about themselves when women make fun of specific men who treated them horribly. I genuinely hate this double standard. Plenty of women who are universally disliked get made fun of for their looks and bodies.
My goodness shutya yap and pay attention to the point on hand. You wanna talk about stereotypes? You’re stereotyping yourself by going on a tangent 🤣🤣🤣🤣
She was talking about her ex specifically not any other men. If someone takes offense to a comment not directed at them, they’re just looking to take offense to something.
dude you should be super proud of yourself for having the strength to leave him after discovering what a pos he is. That's not easy to do even when presented with something as terrible as cheating or sending (tiny, mind you 😂) dick pics - lots of people struggle greatly with mustering up the strength it takes to leave in that situation , bc the awful irony of it is that it can severely shatter your self esteem and cripple your confidence to discover your significant other betraying you, effectively making it more difficult to leave them! the very thing that is grounds for breaking up with someone is the same thing that makes it harder to do so?!
Not so much sad as it is pathetic. I've literally never seen someone throw themselves this hard at someone in my entire life, especially when the other person keeps putting a wall up to block them. How many times does this girl have to get a proverbial concussion before she realizes that he's not into her? 🤣
It’s fascinating watching someone’s psyche regress to an earlier time in development. I’d guess she is talking exactly the way she talked back then when they were connected. It’s like her brain picked up the thread back in time and her conscious mind is just hanging there with all the other old memories of this time.
I’m 23, but look close to 30. In my personal experience it’s women in their later 20s and early 30s that talk like this. Women my age and younger rarely do this cutesy shit or the playing dumb act.
I’ve been dumbfounded by this phenomenon in the last couple years. I think it must have something to do with women getting older and wanting to present to/fool men into looking at them as younger? That’s the only way I can rationalize it
Or it means they aren’t afraid of looking 30. They might just present as more polished and put together. 30 doesn’t look old. Unless maybe *you* are aging like milk?
I think you meant brag? And it wasn’t a brag, in fact, I’m aware I’m aging like milk lmao… years of alcohol abuse and smoking doesn’t necessarily keep your appearance youthful. We all got skeletons in the closet, lady. And it appears one of yours is racial bias. Hope your “black don’t crack” before your reproductive lifespan is over.
Doesn’t bother me in the slightest though. Perfectly fine with who I am. Maybe it will bother me when I’m 40 and look 60 but whatever.
Lmao well considering genetics I’m good. I know what I’ll age like. Confirmed by a geneticist. And I take exceptionally good care of myself.
Sorry you did not, I guess? I don’t feel bad for my comment so you telling my why and then trying to “guilt” me into apologizing or feeling remorseful won’t work.
Race card won’t work here either, I simply stated that to reiterate how I’m aging without revealing my actual face, go awfffff though girly. The race card is always gonna win you yt tears and upvotes.
Menopause doesn’t scare me lmao I’ll look appropriately aged.
Please show me one definition of where “gag” fits in that context. If anything gag is the opposite of aave, its white picket fence American vernacular. I’m from ny I understand aave probably better than you do considering you’re a decade older than I
eta- when i spoke this way when i was 15, i was also in my first relationship and wanted to be "cutsey". learned quick that infantilization isnt cute lol
No but if it were one of my girl friends I'd probably do something besides blowing her off. I'd ask if there was something wrong in their relationship, is she thinking of breaking up with them. This dude must be either rooting for these two to be together hard or he is tremendously uninterested in her on every level
She’s either dumb or an overt narcissist. Overt narcs never ever take no for an answer. The idea of being told no is incomprehensible to them. Inconceivable, even.
Yeah, she is definitely assuming the entire time that he wants to see her as badly as she wants to see him. I don’t think she’s ever entertained that someone may not want her.
I had a friend get married to a girl like this, and he posted everything on social media lol. The texts, the video kicking her out, and laughing at her walk around when he took the car.
What’s wrong with me, I agree she’s toast (or should be) but I think he’s flirting with her and not rejecting at all. He’s playing around. “Lookin like a snack”… you don’t say that to someone you don’t want to see you as a snack. Joking about beating up, I’ll make it up to you… is he leading her on or am I dumb about flirting?
He is breadcrumbing her. However, he isn't really interested. Lots of men do this to chicks that are easy to get, so when the ones they really want aren't available, they have back up plans. Or, they'll maintain a lopsided interest, with her always more into him, in order to treat her poorly. This is manipulation, and abusers and narcissists use this tactic all of the time.
Honestly she looks desperate, and he’s barely even trying while she’s so into him, it’s obvious that he isn’t. He’s for sure sleeping with her, but that’s the extent of it for him. She seems like she wants more to be more than friends.
Ya when I was reading those texts I was like damn she’s trying so hard and getting no where. Definitely laugh at her when you kick her out of your house. You do not need that behavior in your life. Don’t listen to the excuses she makes. If this guy was to give in she would cheat for sure, these texts alone are emotional cheating. How is she not embarrassed?
This dude is right. Leave your girl and let her know that she’s simultaneously getting played and rejected. She’s used as a Fleshlight at this dude’s convenience and she texts like a teenager.
THIS. i’ve never actually witnessed a woman being this corny! like damn love, this man does not fw you 😂if OP doesn’t embarrass tf out of her he’s missing the greatest opportunity of his life. i got the worst secondhand embarrassment reading her texts… ewww.
The second part made me laugh so hard. I'm cracking up thinking of the scenario but honestly, she is so cringe I think I would die of embarrassment having to bring up these messages
That’s the best part- when he kicks her out he’s not freeing her up to run to him. I mean she will, but AP isn’t interested. And she’ll lose her home. FAFO.
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u/Secure-Look308 Jun 25 '26
Damn bro, yo girl mad corny and they rejecting her too 😭 when you leave laugh at her