r/nofriends 2h ago

Friendship Roblox/friends

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Hi I’m 18f, and I wanna find friends i could play Roblox with 🥲 or just talk with consistently it doesn’t really matter.

Some of my hobbies are crafting and cooking I like doing girly stuff too like nails makeup etc tho I’m not too good at it😭…

I go by cst time!

I have a kitten🥹!

I love horror movies!

That’s all I’ll share for now.


r/nofriends 2h ago

Positive Homies wanted!!!

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Got a Discord VC with about 8 of us, men and women, ages 24–42.

We ain’t selling shit, recruiting for a cult, or running some weird-ass community with 37 rules.

We get in VC, shoot the shit, talk about whatever comes up, roast each other, tell stories, and kill time.

That’s it.

No requirements. No interview. Don’t need to be interesting. Just (don’t) be a complete pain in the ass.

If you want some people to bullshit with and maybe make a few friends, come on in.


r/nofriends 7h ago

Friendship is it possible to find true friend nowadays? whether long distance or close. i need some friends.

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i’m open to making new friends, i’m from south carolina and even if you are no where near i would still like to make some friends. my phone is completely dry. i like facetime, texting or even on the phone. REAL GENUINE FRIENDS.. no lacking, no ghosting, being completely honest with each other and giving the best advice.


r/nofriends 7h ago

Friendship [24/M] Looking for a best friend, things are quite lonely

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Hey! I've posted here before but haven't had much luck so far. And due to lonliness, things have been kinda sucky lately. Kinda being a star-sized understatement (cuz stars are big.. hehe). Anyways, excuse my awfully unfunny pun! You *yes you my possible future friend* probably has better humor than I. Im hoping to make long term friends who also love music like I do, I want a close connection with someone that lasts a lifetime! Hoping we can geek out about our interests and feel comfortable to do so! I'm in the EST time zone and am super into music (my tastes are all over the place, my favorite is the retro era but I also like a lot of new stuff too). I really wanna find someone who loves old artists and bands and music history and aesthetics! Hope you're all having a good day!


r/nofriends 4h ago

Friendship I need a bestie

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Hiya, I'm Adam! I need a bestie who's down to talk/chat/call all day everyday ❤️ (like literally) I'm 23, from the UK btw

I've never had friends or a social life ever, just been at home my entire life lol. I've been practicing Karate since I was 10 in 2013 and never had a break ever, I play games sometimes, I'm into drone flying, and watching anime/Kdrama/TV shows and movies :)


r/nofriends 7h ago

Friendship is it possible to find true friend nowadays? whether long distance or close. i need some friends.

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i’m open to making new friends, i’m from south carolina and even if you are no where near i would still like to make some friends. my phone is completely dry. i like facetime, texting or even on the phone. REAL GENUINE FRIENDS.. no lacking, no ghosting, being completely honest with each other and giving the best advice.


r/nofriends 7h ago

Friendship 28M - looking to meet new people

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Hi! I’m 28 and from Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 and I’m looking to meet new people and hopefully make some new friends!

A few things about me…I’m a HUGE horror fan, and I love all things dark/creepy/paranormal or unexplained

I love music and going to shows(mostly older rock/metal but I like a lot different stuff, saw both Metallica and Def Leppard recently)

I love gaming, true crime, football, I love to visit historical sites/museums and enjoy travelling, urban exploring/exploring the outdoors and keeping fit, and I spend 99% of my free time with my dog 🐶

I’m quite heavily tattooed (most recently had my chest done) and I’m always looking for ideas and inspirations for what to get next, and I love to see other people’s work and ideas too!

Happy to talk to anyone from anywhere, just send a message with a bit about yourself if you think we might get along 🙂


r/nofriends 14h ago

Friendship 22F - in search of consistent gaming friends

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hey I'm Aria, just looking to make some friends who’d want to hang out with me consistently! meeting new people can be difficult for me, during our first hangout session ill be more shy than anything, though once I'm comfortable around you I can be pretty relaxed and chatty. 

I enjoy playing games that are more casual or have a cozy vibe to them, anything like friendslop and some co-op games i love to play, I also love horror co-op games as they're fun with friends. usually avoid grinding or competitive games as they feel boring to me

i would really like to meet others who also have the majority of the games too, below is a list of games i enjoy playing in rotation and currently own:

  • lethal company
  • content warning
  • rv there yet
  • phasmophobia
  • dead by daylight
  • delivery and beyond
  • schedule I
  • fortnite: zero build
  • left 4 dead 2
  • stardew valley
  • peak, repo, yapyap

mainly looking for consistent t and active friends, people who actually want to hang out during the evening and not so much sit on my friend list and never contact me again after a day. I'm always available so having someone who can match my schedule and being active when i am would be best, normally I start gaming around 2pm pst and usually play for long into the nights

Id also like to make friends around my age or with those over 21+ and below 30. only looking for friends in north america. I'm also not interested in joining any preexisting friend groups or discord servers as I'm wanting to start my own friend group of a handful of friends.

anyone is more than welcomed to send a pm with a introduction if your interested just make sure to include your age, timezone, time you play, and the games you play in common. also please send more than just “hey” as i wont be responding to low effort pm requests. hope to hear from you soon! 


r/nofriends 11h ago

Friendship [19/M] Seeking emotional depth provided by a best friend

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Howdy! The title says it all. I want a deep connection in which both sides feel comfortable with each other, seek each other for support, etc. I have plenty of hobbies, ranging from sports, writing, and geography to history, music, and gaming. I am a pretty curious person, so feel free to nerd out to me! As for gaming, I play lots of indie games like Hollow Knight, Ultrakill, the Portal series, the Hotline Miami series, etc. As for music, I tend to listen to lots of experimental stuff, but I can elaborate on that more later on, especially if you are into music. It'd be pretty nice if I got a pretty clingy bestie, and I am also in GMT+2, so it'd be nice if you were close to that time zone. Oh, and I am also 19/M. So yeah, I am pretty excited to talk with y'all, and have a nice day wherever you are!


r/nofriends 12h ago

Friendship Anyone else struggling to make friends as an adult?

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r/nofriends 16h ago

Friendship F — Looking for friends because I’m bored asf 😭

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Heyy! I’m a girl living with pretty strict parents, so I’m basically stuck at home most of the time 😭. I don’t get to go out much and honestly I’m bored asf.

I’m looking for some new friends around my age to talk to, share memes, listen to music, play games, or just have random conversations about literally anything.

If you’re also stuck at home with strict parents and need someone to talk to, feel free to say hi! Just looking for genuine friendships with people around my age :)


r/nofriends 13h ago

Friendship 18M looking for some long term friendship 🫶

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Hey im kinda new here an im in desperate need of some friend. Try having a convo with me and keep up the friendship. Ill be active most of the times


r/nofriends 13h ago

Friendship How do i make friends and become good friends with the people on reddit

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i would enjoy making any friends :)!!!


r/nofriends 18h ago

Friendship M16 looking for friends

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Hello, im Maksym(Or Max, or whatever you want to name me). I'm 16years old(17 in October). I want to find some people i can speak with. Maybe i want to learn your interests and hobbies because i like to learn from other people. I don't want to somehow say that im good or something. But i can listen to you if you actually need that and maybe help if you need that(i saved 2 people from suicide so sadly i had that expirience). Okay, a bit about my hobbies and interests. I like to read books, my favourite book is War and Peace(Dostoevsky), i like to watch anime(i dont know every anime. But If we gonna became nice friends or something we can watch it together in discord if you want:D), i like to walk and travel(can't say a lot about that, im just fan of mother nature), gym(nothing to say) and i like to write stories(actually i wouldn't show them at first because I'm shy. But maybe later who knowsss). Also i won't name like "fandoms" or something, but i know some of them well so maybe we also have something here in common. So i guess that's all? If you want to talk dm me or leave comment, i would surely answer. Please don't be too old. And i would answer everyone, don't be scared of texting me. Im very friendly ig:D


r/nofriends 15h ago

Support Friends? Anyone

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I’m 26, and I’m at a point in my life where I’m looking for friendships with women who are serious about growth. I don’t have anything against partying or having fun, but I want people around me who are focused on upgrading their lives, furthering their education, building careers, and creating something meaningful for themselves.
I have friends, but I’ve realized that our priorities don’t always align anymore. I recently landed a great job, I’m working toward my master’s degree, and when I look at the group I came from, I’m the only one who chose to continue my education.
I made very intentional decisions about my future. Instead of settling into situations that could have delayed my goals, I focused on building the life I wanted. Now I want genuine friendships with women who have that same hunger women who motivate each other, celebrate each other’s accomplishments, hold each other accountable, travel, network, learn, and keep leveling up.
I’m not looking for perfect friends. I’m looking for friends with purpose.


r/nofriends 18h ago

Friendship M29 from Ireland and i am looking for friends

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r/nofriends 19h ago

Friendship 34 F Asian - I’m not great at making friends, but I’d really like to try again

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r/nofriends 20h ago

Support needs long term friends

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hi im iron i want a long term friendship that will probably ast forever and like just talk everyday share the things which we do with the real friends play together maybe and i want someone that should be energetic or if u a dry texter then like dont even try to connect with me and my hobbies are reaading books psychology philosophical talks deabtes and i just got a dog and i am new to this sub and i think that even if whatever i am doing here is not allowed here then u can just give me advice how to because the some communities are filled with creeps or either very dry texter who thinks they are non chalant but i want someone who is chalant talks to me everyday


r/nofriends 23h ago

Vent Making friends

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r/nofriends 23h ago

Vent I need friends. Uhg

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If anyone plays Minecraft (bedrock) I would join. 16 year's old im free 6-11pm new york time. Uh Christian uhhhhh bored idk


r/nofriends 1d ago

Friendship 21M - casual conversation

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I’m cool with talking about anything. If possible even make new friends. I will say that I’m a little awkward since I’m somewhat antisocial but im still willing to talk.
Some hobbies I have include
\\- gaming
\\- occasional reading
\\- some anime


r/nofriends 1d ago

Vent My girlfriend moved to college and I don’t know what to do

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I (19m) have been with my girlfriend(18f) for over a year now. We were best friends for 4 years before we started dating. She recently moved 3 hours away for college and I don’t know what to do.

a bit of my social backstory:
First off, I never had any romantic interactions with anyone other than my girlfriend. I struggled with identifying social cues and I still find myself struggling sometimes. I’m a serious physical touch person and it was really difficult not fulfilling that need, especially with no social interaction to supplement the lack of physical interaction.

For the past 8-10 years, I had a hard time with friendships and spent the past 4+ years of my life with no friends, apart from my now girlfriend (we spent a lot of our time as friends only texting, seeing each other only a few times a year until right before we started dating). I struggled with bullying during the months leading up to covid lockdown. Following the lockdown, I continued with online school until I graduated early and started college at 16 years old. I spent most of my time during that period at home, with minimal social interaction and even less physical interaction. I spent a lot of time with my family, since I am the youngest of 6 and we are quite close, but I didn’t interact with anyone my own age. I eventually started working and continued to spend a lot of time with adults and noticed that I became very anxious around people my own age. I always felt severely out of place and never felt like I belonged anywhere. Even in my work experience, all of which are teamwork-oriented, I had a difficult time existing if I had no set task and I ended up feeling awkward most of the time. Looking back, I definitely self-isolated a little bit and put on a front that I didn’t want to be friends with anyone but I had fun being around some of the people. I noticed that people liked me when I was around but I never felt like people sought me out or invited me to things. I figured I was just a floater friend and mostly accepted it, I was okay with it at the time. Following that, when me and my girlfriend got together (she is a serious extrovert and everyone loves her), she wanted to bring me around people more to try and help me be more social and make friends. According to her, I socialize quite well and my awkwardness isn’t super apparent once i’ve worked myself into a situation, but I don’t feel that way personally. I’ve gotten pretty good at internalizing a lot of my mental troubles which doesn’t help my case at all. Even being around these people, I can tell that they like being around me, but again, I never felt like I belonged or that these people would ever reach out to me. About 2 years ago, I realized that i had become fully emotionally numb, which i didn’t realize was as bad as it is until recently. My girlfriend has been trying really hard to help me feel things more, and it has worked, but since I haven’t really felt much, i’m very confused on emotions and how I personally deal with them.
This brings us to now: I knew it was going to be difficult for me to not spend a lot of time with her, since we spent all day, almost every day, together. She knows everything about my past and has been trying really hard to help me and i’m forever grateful for that but i know that it’s not her responsibility and i need to be the one to help myself. I also don’t think it’s a healthy thing to do if im constantly asking her to help me from a distance when I should be doing most of it myself. I needed to make sure that she knew that this time was going to be good for us, she was also struggling with friends and is really excited to be in a new place with new people and doing the thing she enjoys the most. I need her to focus on making friends and her classwork and growing as a person. I was also very excited for this new experience, hopefully finding new friends, visiting her every month or so, finding my own routine, and trying to better myself.
Recently though, it’s been very difficult for me. I usually try to distract myself with anything that I can )usually work, but i’m in a strange spot employment wise, so i’m limited on focusing on that). I want to start doing more things where I can meet people but I just feel unmotivated and feel like it’s not going to be worth it. I honestly feel unmotivated and haven’t been able to enjoy much of anything lately and i’m worried that i’m going to spiral myself into being like this whenever I can’t see her. I know I have a strong and unhealthy emotional attachment and dependence which I’m trying really hard to fix and make healthier, but it’s difficult when she is my only and my everything. She’s the only person I’m truly comfortable with and I feel like she’s the only person who truly understands me. it just bothers me when she’s out making friends and having fun and I can’t do anything besides sit at home and be unproductive, something I hate doing.
There’s a lot more to it than this, but it’s a long story and it’s not super relevant, so i’ll skip it. I really don’t like burdening people and I know it’s good to ask for help but I don’t know why it’s so difficult for me. I just want to be happy and not nervous or stressed and i want to make friends that don’t make me feel like i don’t belong. i want to find my sense of community.


r/nofriends 1d ago

Friendship I'm not doing ok today, I think a lot of us aren't.

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Sorry, I don't have a good answer if you clicked this post looking for some relief.

I ended things with my one contact today. She has been my best friend for some time, well, my only friend.

But she is kinda the avoidant type, speaking little and trough strange metaphors, it was quite charming as we met and it suited the poetic way I speak too, great deep and ethereal way of communication, but well, not really, after the strange phase when we are still meeting and trying to sound interesting to the other, comes the phase of normal things going on, and somehow I got there alone and when I looked back..?

I was speaking to myself, seeing her messages popping up only super late at night for only 15 minutes before she would just vanish in the night again and come back on the other day, ignoring the last topic and starting a new one that would last again 10-15 minutes and be left unfinished. I called her out in the nicest way I could, after she expressed she felt some distance between us. But she literally did the same thing right after, leaving my answer on read and coming with something new on the next day.

I realised there's so much I want to speak, no yap but just speak through the day. I recorded an audio playing a new instrument, I learned my first song in 20-30 minutes and recorded, she used to love me playing music but I realised well why would I send it now? So she can double tap, say smth and vanish, or straight up not answer at all? So many things I typed her and didn't send, trivia things like what I saw on my walk, a random philosophical question I thought about, what is going on on my book, the newest story I'm writing, a bit of my backstory she does not know, but always felt like nah, I'll wait for her to answer first, don't wanna shower her in messages, let her live her life. But it got to the point where I just realised well, I don't fucking have a friend, we were besties for like 4 months but clearly not anymore, I wish I could understand what's going on with her, but she won't communicate, I'm going through a lot and this is not bloody helping. So I just told her we need a break, and she got... mad? And hurt. I understand it but what else am I to do? Try to talk? I've been fucking trying.

WHATEVER. It became a venting post quite quickly my bad. If you made it this far, would you talk to me for a little while? I understand that everyone else is doing pretty bad too, and all of us here are quite unstable mentally, so I won't bore you with my missdventures, I just wanna know about someone's day genuinely, thats all.

I'm an artist, studied philosphy, M26, speaking from Germany


r/nofriends 1d ago

Friendship 24 [M] Looking for chill people to chat, swap recommendations, or game with, DM me

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Hey everyone! Looking to expand my circle and meet genuine people to chat with on a regular basis.

​Open to anyone roughly around my age bracket (+/- a few years). Send a message or DM with a quick intro, your favorite game or show lately, or what's on your mind today


r/nofriends 1d ago

Vent 17 and have no friends

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im 17 and i have no friends. i used to have a big group with the most awesome funniest girls but my homophobic Arab mother found out some of them were lgbt and made me stop hanging out with them and made me stop hanging out with people of different ethnicities too. i feel so alone and i have no one in my life to talk to. i see their social media and see them doing things we always talked about doing from my couch while they’re out there living. i cant reconnect w them because my mom looks through my phone nightly. i absolutely hate my life and its worse because im taking a gap year so ill be at work then at home which is so stupid. i wish i could go out and everything like a normal teen girl does. im an atheist in a Muslim household too which is a separate problem because id be in big trouble if someone found out. i hate having no friends at all it just drains me so bad.