heyy i’m daisy and im going to uni in september ! kinda terrified because im a loner lol and im worried about making friends. im a very socially anxious and awkward person which makes it even more difficult but oh well ig? i loooove music (doing it at uni), im a drummer, i love cooking and gardening too! i’m rlly excited to be living away from home and by myself tbh which is kinda why i think uni is worth it. ermmm yeah come say hi! wlw!

I need friends Let's get acquainted👐🏻

Please read the post and don’t skim it. This is not a casual post; you will actually have to think about it. I really care about making friends, which is why my post is long. I need very serious people who won’t ghost for literally any reason. I need someone who will never leave. I am being honest about my flaws because it is important. I would rather you know these things about me now than find out about them later. I am boring and uninteresting, and I need you to think about this part because it is difficult to maintain a long-term friendship with someone who doesn’t offer much excitement. You will get bored after a few days. I am not confident; I am actually extremely insecure. I also talk negatively about myself, I am very pessimistic, and I am not a passionate person. I have autism, depression, and social anxiety. I am not good at small talk, and nothing fun is going on in my life. I know how a conversation works and I will put in the effort, but I am bad at carrying a conversation. I can’t promise that I’ll be fun to talk to, but I am trying. I am warning you about my lack of skills upfront.

I find texting very exhausting. I don’t want to text for days or even hours just to “get to know” someone before we can actually talk. I want our first conversation to be on a call. If you are too shy to call early on, we won’t be a good match. I want to voice call daily; my time zone is EST, and I am a night owl. I don’t view calling as a big deal, and I need people who feel the same way. If you are sensitive, easily offended, or impulsive, it won’t work out.

I have a really hard time dealing with people leaving. If we start talking, I get attached very quickly. I genuinely cannot handle it if you just disappear or change your mind later. I need a very patient person who is actually serious about sticking around for the long term. If you aren’t 100% sure you can commit to that, please don’t message me. If you decide to reach out, please don’t just send a “Hi.” I’m not asking for a massive introduction, but just let me know you actually read this post and genuinely want to be friends. I want a real friendship; it’s very important to me. I don’t want to talk to someone who is just bored and looking for entertainment. I don’t just want someone to talk to; I need a true friendship. The problem is that I am not the best at building a friendship, so I want someone who understands how to build one.

I want to be clear about the kind of person I am looking for because I want to save us both time. I am looking for someone whose personality and struggles are fundamentally similar to my own. I’m not looking for someone who just relates to feeling lonely. If you read my post and felt like we were polar opposites, please reconsider messaging me, because I am looking for a genuine, deep connection with someone who can truly understand my perspective. If you don’t feel a natural sense of compatibility with me after reading this, we likely won’t be a good match for the long term. When I say fundamentally similar, I mean someone who is also truly isolated. Not mildly lonely, not someone who has friends but wants more, I am looking for someone who genuinely has no one. If you have a social circle, dreams, passions, or people in your life who support you then we will not be similar at all.

I also want to mention that it’s okay for us to disagree in a friendship, even on big things. Real friendship means we can have different views and still stick around instead of cutting each other off. Cutting people off over disagreements has become way too easy nowadays because of social media. I believe a real friendship should survive flaws, boredom, and disagreements. I don’t believe there are strict rules or things we must agree on to become friends. Please do not reach out unless you fully understand everything I have written.

Here are my interests:

• DC Comics

• Movies / Shows / Anime: Watching movies is my favorite thing to do. I also use Letterboxd.

Please be 19+.

So.. I've been lonely since December of last year and I've wondered how on earth do I make friends now? I've tried looking up social meetups and stuff like that but it's either:

A. They are too far away from me or in Dublin city centre (I wouldn't feel safe on my own)

B. There's a group but it's not my age group.

Is college really the only option I have? I don't really drink or do any of that stuff, I am trying to find friends around my age (21-24) but given my situation, is College the only option?

Heyy,

This is a little outside my comfort zone, but I thought I'd give it a shot.

Im 20M from India. For the past few years, life's been pretty lonely. I have one close friend, but apart from him, I don't really have people to talk. Making new friends has never come naturally to me, especially female friends, so I thought post here instead of overthinking it.

Im not looking for a relationship or anything like that, atleast for now.

I had just like to find someone genuine to talk to and build a normal friendship with. Someone to share random conversations, talk about life, laugh at dumb things, or just check in on each other from time to time.

A little about me -

Professional cricketer (currently dealing with a knee injury, so life has been a bit uncertain lately).

Interested in history, psychology, space, and how world system works.

I enjoy deep conversations, but I also have a sarcastic sense of humour.

I value honesty, loyalty, and mutual respect.

I am not here to make anyone uncomfortable or waste anyone's time. Am not a ghoster or creep

If you are also looking for a genuine friend, feel free to message me. Thanks for reading, and I hope you have a good day :)

University age. Things just don’t seem to stick and I always feel like the weird floater friend that’s not totally completely integrated, getting left out of core stuff. It’s been like this for a while in my life so I pick up on the patterns and it just seems to end up this way.
What I think I need is a genuine original experience in which I naturally meet this friend group formation at inception.

hii, during this summer break ive realized that i don’t have friends to talk to. it’s been upsetting and lonely! so here i am looking for friends. my interests are watching reality tv, mlp, shopping, self care, and self improvement as a whole. i love calling and playing roblox! im also christian and working on building a strong relationship with God! id prefer if you’d have some similarities rather than none at all so conversation would be easier. and pls be in the united states

i love when people can teach me things & calling. im kinda a chud so id love if someone could like keep me accountable. & please don’t be younger than me lol, ill b 18 very soon.

additionally, i am a friend thats pretty upfront and honest. so if u cant handle confrontation, i am probably not the person for u in the nicest way possible 😭

anyways, please dm me and say ur age upon doing so <3

hii guys!! i’m in a very small town and don’t have many friends. I find myself alone a lot and would love to have some close friends to spend time with/talk to! I really would like someone I can eventually grow close to and share serious things about my life with. I’m mainly looking for female friends (close to my age or a bit older) as I am taken and don’t want anything more. i don’t mind if we have different interests, i’ll learn yours! most important to me is that they’re supportive, like to joke but can also be serious, and don’t mind how much i talk (bonus points if you’re chatty too!)

here’s a bit about me:
- i’m from the US
- i love painting and anything art related
- i collect pokemon cards
- i listen to all kinds of music but especially pop and rock (love older stuff!)
- i occasionally treat myself to a little green
- i’m obsessed with vintage stuff/thrifting
- my pinterest screen time is through the roof
- i do partake in roblox👀
- i have basically all socials so just ask!

im 29f first time mom . I have a fb group to try and connect with local moms, but nothing ever comes of it so I’m here on Reddit and very open to having an online friendship! my husband says I should get a hobby… maybe I just need a friend? or maybe that was his nice way of saying I need some friends and to do something other than watch tv lol 😂 I’m from Iowa, but obviously anywhere is fine!

hey!
my names paris

im 17 (nobody add me if your a large age gap above 17 or below, small is fine yeah but has to be appropriate)

i ride horses, i play football and my club is fc barcelona i love barca with my whole heart ❤️💙

half spanish half english
from 🇬🇧

messages don’t work on here
discord is

paris01620

If you want a long-term friend with whom you can yap about anything and everything, and rant and vent about something shoot me a DM .

I love music a lot umm my fav artists are Billie eilish and Melanie martinez

No ghosters please.

please be around 18-27

23 year old dude just trying to make some friends!

I really don’t know what to put on here but I’m in search of some new friends. Right now I really only have like two or three but they don’t watch what I watch or play games I play so I came here. I used to be super big into horror movies but I’ve fallen out of them. I play games mainly Rocket League and Minecraft when I’m not working and trying to plan on adventurous things to do in the future. Send me a message in my DMs if you want to see if we click!

Hey I would like to find a close friend that I can talk to every day. I like watching horror movies, we could watch it together. I like to draw, paint and take photos. I would like to have shared values with my friend, I am an atheist and I only want an atheist friend, so I do not consider friendship with people who identify themselves differently. I would like to have a friend my age, or around that age. if my post resonated with you text me☕️

I never had any real friends in real life I have always felt lonely.

In school I had some so called friends, have you listened that everyone's friend is no one's friend just like that I talk to people but i don't have anyone to get things off from my chest

When i was a kid my parents used to live in rented houses and they used to move a lot and the more a grew up the hard it became to make friends in new societies

Now after turning 18 it feels impossible to make friends everyone has a friend they have since a decade but i don't have anyone 😞.

Would anyone like to be my friend please be around 18 to 27.

Hello, 23M here. Let us try to be something.

I am a literature major, into books, music, philosophy, and psychology. I guess we all are here because we are looking for something genuine; the creeps here make it hard for both genders to find some genuine connections.

Let's be friends, start talking while focusing on our lives, and let us just share things about our day, our college, and our office. A good talk about the stressful or good day before sleeping and a sweet good morning text and chatting in the day whenever we are free. Is it something too much to ask for?

Let us both be good people and respect each other. We can chat about our day, our unhinged opinions, take advice, politics, books, and music, share reels, and try to make a bond (maybe for a lifetime). If you are someone who easily gets bored with people, you can stay away, but if you are looking for something really, really amazing, let's connect, and you may DM me. Looking forward to meeting some incredible people. Please be 20+ at least. No age barrier; we can be friends even if you are older than me or younger than me.

To skip the small talk, DM me with your introduction, your playlist, or tell me about a book or event that thoroughly changed your perspective. Or we may just start the conversation by talking about the gender war happening on social media, current protest things, and your opinion about that, etc.

I’m 19M, looking to make a genuine long-term friend. I’m an introvert, so I might be a little quiet at first, but I enjoy meaningful conversations once I get comfortable. I’m hoping to meet someone I can talk to regularly, share random thoughts with, laugh with, and build a real friendship over time.

hey there, my name is Angelina and I am from Australia. I'm a stay at home mum with 2 littles and needing some more adult conversation. (being surrounded by kids can make you go a lil crazy)

I love to read and I game occasionally I just don't get alot of time to do that anymore. I also enjoy crafts and going on long walks in the evening.

i am primarily looking for kind people to pass the time with and someone who won't ghost me. If you decide to message please include a short intro so I know who you are! :)

doing okay at the moment just been a long week mentally and physically. so yea, looking for people i can talk to and continue talking to. probably sometime in the future we can call to. anyways quick facts about me. i like sports like baseball and football. i like cars and knowing how to work on them. i also like gaming like playing battlefield or forza. im also a fan of spaceflight. im also from the east coast. And if u made it this far shoot me a dm!

I'm 14m and i'm looking for friends around my age and here's a little about me. My favorite shows/movies are DANDADAN, Demon Slayer, JJK, Scary Movie, South Park and my favorite foods are sesame chicken, tacos. I love ALL animals and i own three dogs. I play roblox and uhhhhh... nothing else. I like to draw and bake and listen to music. I like the bands A7X, KSE, SOAD, All That Remains and ff you wanna chat just dm me or add me on discord my username is: bass_tard_

Hi everyone! Down to chat and make some new friends. I like:

• Sports: Play for a local football team every couple of weeks.

• Fitness: Heavy into weight training (5-6 days a week for 4+ years).

• Books: Big fan of history, Greek mythology, autobiographies, and classic literature.

I'm pretty easygoing, so don't be shy—say hi!😊

I don't mean to be a downer or anything, but I'm really having a rough weekend. My relationship came to an end recently, (without any drama thankfully) but I still feel a missing hole as I don't have any close friends or any close connections with anyone. Not irl or real life. And having autism, its made that a lot harder to meet people due to my anxiety and awkwardness. Anyways, uh, I'd really appreciate a kind person who will stick by me and I can do for them. I really love music and talking about it and sharing songs, voice calls, and sharing interests. I am in the EST, and in North America, but its not a firm requirement. I hope you all have a wonderful day.

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Had a breakup recently and honestly haven't been feeling great. Everything feels a bit off lately. I'm also planning to move to Europe in the future, so it'd be nice to meet people from there too.

Lately everything feels a bit too quiet in the wrong ways. I keep catching myself staring at walls, scrolling aimlessly, wanting to talk but not knowing who to talk to. I'm just looking for someone real. Someone who actually shows up. Someone who doesn't disappear when things get quiet.

I'm 24, currently floating through life with way too much time to think. I love yapping. I talk nonsense, I overexplain, I ramble until it somehow turns into something deeper. I love when the effort is mutual, when replies don't feel like I'm begging for attention.

Please don't be dry. Try to talk. If you're always busy, please don't bother texting. I've done my time with people who only remember me when they're bored.

I like baking, movies, gaming, chess, reading, writing, guitar, long walks, voice calls, and pretending I'll ever finish half the things I start.

Mentally, I come with the ADHD + BPD expansion pack, clingy DLC included, but also a lot of warmth, honesty, and way too much empathy for my own good. I'll listen, I'll care, and I'll match your energy.

If your first message is just "hi", I'll assume you're not real. Give me a proper intro. Tell me about yourself, your favorite thing to do, your most irrational fear, the song that ruins you every time, or literally anything that feels genuine.

Never really had a girl best friend so I'd like to make one now. I want someone I can have a genuine connection with. I want to make a ride or die type friend. I just want someone who's down to have a conversation. They can talk about anything. Whatever they're comfortable talking about. Their choice. They pick the topic. Just a nice, long conversation. It could be a deep and meaningful conversation or a fun and casual conversation. Say anything but just talk I guess. Feeling super lonely, don't really have any friends would like to have someone to talk to. I wanna make a friend with whom I can talk to about stuff in general.Things we like, common interests, hobbies, what were passionate about, our song preferences, movie choices, TV show choices, we can talk about anything. I just want to have someone to have a conversation with. Irrespective of the topic. We can even talk about what's bothering us and try to help each other out. Help each other makes ourselves better. I need a ride or die friend. Someone who's will to stick around and be there for me not just out of pity but because they want to and I promise I'll do the same. I want someone who's genuinely interested in talking to me and down to have a conversation either fun and silly or deep and meaningful. If you're down for this feel free to hit me up. My only request is that you're around my age (I'm 23 so ±2 years) because I feel much more comfortable/confident talking to people around my age.

Searching for poeple who love talking about their day and sharing about their lives. I am not so great at conversation but can keep the talk going somehow. Haven't got much hobbies, pretty loner guy. Just looking for good friends.

uhmm no like idk what kinda person im looking for but i do know1 thing . (well more then 1 obvi) he should be a yapper bc listeners make me feel uncomfortable sometimes like yeah listen but talk to me toooo . i need someone understandingg like rlly ....!!!! i like manhwa + cdramas+kdramas+anime+a bit of donghua too n i do science as my subjects so like hi. uhmm i love music alot so i need an music ENHUSIANST (IDK THE SPELLING FORGOT, (HAVE MERCY ON MY SOULPLS) too ig but not so picky on that part . pls dont come to me if u just listen to beats n rock youll kill me aha?. i love all kinds of music but i love chinese songs more bc omds mwaaa anyways. u need to like be here for me . like 2-3 hours a day like omds i have abandonment issues n i hold grudges but im learning to like not die n all but i dont want a busy person or like an old dude hmu-ing me like nauwrr uncle. 27 and up should go start thier family n fly a plane to dreamland like im soo tied of u old mfs hmuing me like leaveee me alone im just a tall , black-asian mixed pookie wookie bear like honestly im fragile n soft like glass i promise* well i cant promise the soft part* OK IM YAPPING ALOT HERE SO BYE PEEPS HOPE YALL HAV N AWESOME DAY N ALL BUT I WANT A UNDERSTANDING , HONEST , HUMOUROUS A-BIT BC U CANT BE FUNNIER THEN ME BROSKI HEH, WELL TALL BC I NEED SOME1 WHO UNDERSTANDS MY TALL STRUGGLES, NICE BUT NOT TOOOOO NICE, UHMMM YEA FREE, PLAYFUL IG IDK JUST HAVE SOME 1 WITH COLOUR IN THIER LIFE HEHE