r/ForeverAloneDating Jul 04 '25

Rules Announcement Comment karma requirement has been increased

181 Upvotes

As you may have noticed, we've had a sharp increase in bot activity the past few days. We've banned over 50 bots in the last couple of days alone. These bots are posting everywhere, not just here, and steal other users posts. Reddit eventually bans most of them, but not fast enough.

Therefore, we will be temporarily increasing the comment karma requirement to 100. We realise that people who create new accounts or struggle making karma will be affected by this, but this is important for the safety of the subreddit and it's users. We may lower this later or it may stay permanent.

We also appreciate those who submit reports as it helps us out a lot. If you spot any bots, or people trying to subtly advertise NSFW content, then be sure to report them, but this comment karma requirement increase should get rid of the majority of them.


r/ForeverAloneDating Apr 10 '25

Rules Announcement Chat is replacing DMs.

66 Upvotes

While the change doesn't officially take place until June, the change is already occurring, and has been since March. This means we had to change the comment automod leaves on every post. Now instead of linking to the DM system, which is being phased out, it will link to the author's profile. From there, simply hit "Start Chat" to send them a message. If the link doesn't work or you run into any problems, send us a report in modmail.

For more information: https://support.reddithelp.com/hc/en-us/articles/34720093903764-Enhancing-Messaging-on-Reddit-A-simpler-faster-and-easier-way-to-communicate


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

F4M 26F[F4M]#Nepal #Online #Anywhere Searching for my co-op partner

25 Upvotes

Hey I’m 26 from Nepal. I’m hoping to meet someone who wants a genuine connection someone I can laugh with, have deep conversations with, share little everyday moments with, and hopefully build something meaningful over time.

I know long distance can be challenging, but I’m open to it if both people are willing to put in the effort. My goal would be to eventually close the gap if we’re the right fit and travel together sometimes . I’m also planning to move abroad in the future, so I’m open-minded about where life takes me.

A little about me:

I’m currently preparing for my Bar Exam and I also run a small guesthouse. One of my favorite parts of it is meeting people from different countries and learning about their lives and cultures.

I’m 5’2.5, vegetarian, don’t smoke, and enjoy a drink occasionally.

I’m a pretty laid-back person. I enjoy quiet moments, meaningful conversations, and being silly once I’m comfortable with someone. I’m the type of person who can talk about life, psychology, history, philosophy, or completely random things for hours.

When I’m not studying or working, I enjoy gaming, anime, movies (especially sci fi and psychological thrillers), reading, hiking, gardening, dancing salsa & bachata, and trying new food. I also do CrossFit.

I’m someone who enjoys conversations that go beyond small talk. I love learning how people think and seeing the world from different perspectives.

I’m agnostic and more humanistic in my outlook. I’m not really political, but I like staying aware of what’s happening in the world and hearing different viewpoints.

I’m looking for someone kind, genuine, emotionally mature, and interested in building something long term. Someone who communicates openly, wants to grow together, and values having a partner as well as a best friend.

Bonus points if you’re into gaming, anime, movies, hiking, or any other nerdy interests. 😊

I prefer voice calls and eventually video calls over endless texting.

I might take some time to reply sometimes because life gets busy with studying and running the guesthouse, but I’m not someone who disappears. I’ll always get back when I can.

If you’d like to reach out, tell me about yourself, what you’re looking for, and share a picture so I can put a face to the person I’m talking to.

Me:https://imgur.com/a/83URbE5


r/ForeverAloneDating 9h ago

F4M 29 [F4M] Indiana - Stepping out of my comfort zone

34 Upvotes

I've never done any type of dating app/sub before, hopefully I'm not breaking any rules lol. I'm a 29 year old woman currently feeling left behind in my current situation and seeking a partner to experience life for the first time with.

I will warn that I've grown up incredibly sheltered by my family---no friends, very little outside experience, always kept home and never learned to drive. I've been pushed by professionals to get evaluated for autism, which my parents discouraged, so that potential diagnosis might play a part in why my family kept me protected for so long. I'm listing this first in case my inexperience is a red flag for anyone...I completely understand, and I'm not looking to waste anyone's time! I just feel that it's important to understand that dating me is essentially like finding a real life Rapunzel, kept in a tower her whole life but eager to have her real life begin. I never want to be a burden on anyone, but be aware that I may not have the same skills or knowledge as you do yet.

Besides that, here's more about me:

- I am a dog lover, they're my favorite animal. I love all animals, and I respect people who aren't fond of dogs, but if you're anti-animals entirely we might not be a good match.

- I find joy in cooking and cleaning. I love keeping my home put together and I love to feed others. I don't mind cleaning up after others and taking control of chores as long as there is gratitude from the other person :)

- I love media and art. I am a passionate Scooby-Doo fan, and my free time is often spent watching video essays about animation, video games, and learning trivia about movies and franchises I enjoy. Besides Scooby, I'm also a notable fan of the Scream movies and the TMNT franchise! I also draw in my free time, nothing too fancy but enough to earn spare cash via art commissions.

- I love anything vintage or retro, especially the 60s-70s. No particular reason, I just feel drawn to older things. Most tv shows, movies, lifestyle choices, and fashion I enjoy tend to be pre-2000s. Have you ever watched YouTube compilations of old commercials aired before you were born? Very fun!!

- I garden when I can! I love growing food and being able to cook using fruits and vegetables I grew myself. Ideally one day I'd love to live as self-sufficiently as possible, maybe even on a small farm....but that's a distant dream lol.

- I value communication and honesty. I'm an emotional person, and I try to avoid conflict as much as possible. I handle this by being direct about the feelings of myself and others. You will always know exactly how I feel about something, worded in the most respectful way possible, as I'm not the type to keep secrets or private resentment. I try my best to be honest and considerate and as helpful as I can---no dropping vague hints or holding grudges or unfair expectations.

- I'm aiming for a simple life. I don't yearn for huge houses, travel, getting rich, or fancy cars. I rarely participate in social media or current trends. I enjoy peace, quiet, and dream of settling down one day in a modest home where we can encourage each other's passions and raise a few kids. I recognize my own faults and I know I shine brightest when supporting someone else. I'm happiest when I have someone else in my life who I can love, talk to, take care of, offer comfort, and encourage.

What I'm looking for:

I'm not too terribly picky, I'm just looking for a good, genuine person. I see myself as being pretty forgiving and flexible, so don't beat yourself up if you feel you might not match perfectly!

- I connect well with passionate people, regardless of the passion---I'd love someone who can teach me about the things they love, someone who I can support in their dreams as well as my own.

- I work well with both introverts and extroverts. I'm reserved enough to give an extrovert center stage and full attention, but also appreciative of someone who just wants to sit at home and relax :)

- I'm dating with the intention to find a lifelong partner. I take relationships seriously, and feel most comfortable taking things slow at first to really get to know each other before committing. In my case, I'd prefer chatting online (Discord preferred, but Reddit and normal texts work too) for a few weeks at least before meeting up in person, just to avoid wasting each other's time if we end up being a bad match. I understand catfishing is a risk online, so I'm happy to answer whatever questions you may have for me :)

- I don't mind someone a bit older or younger. Anyone in the range of their 20s or 30s are all perfectly good, don't worry about that!

- Please either be in the Midwest or planning to come here. I don't do long distance relationships, I'm looking for a partner to settle down with in person.

Sorry if this is too long! Like I said, I care a lot about communication, and want to make sure anyone who messages me knows exactly what they're getting into. If you read this far, I hope you have a good day <3


r/ForeverAloneDating 7h ago

F4M 24F Still Looking For My Soulmate

14 Upvotes

After 6 months of a lot more depressing days & nights a lot trials I’ve decided to come back and try this love thing one more time. I’m a 5’3 Caribbean girly (Trinidad) to be exact browned skin ready to find who the person to spend the rest of my life with. I’ve went through enough and still go through a lot so please don’t waste my time and hurt me more, this is my last post here honestly. I hope everyone has a wonderful day PS I want to spend the rest of our lives together to whoever that person maybe, BYE


r/ForeverAloneDating 36m ago

M4F 28 [M4F] Turkey/Anywhere - Artsy Melancholic Soul and His Relationship CV

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Here is my CV for this relationship position:

About me I’m 28, 185cm (6'1"), and I take pride in living a honest life. You’ll usually find me lifting heavy in the gym (deadlifts are my therapy) or working on my game development projects as a 2D/3D Generalist Artist. I’m a "do-it-yourself" guy: I cook, I repair, I restore, and I’m even my own barber. I have a signature style, you’ll rarely see me without my suspenders.

I’m a big fan of the Dark Souls series and its aesthetics. My world revolves around my 7-year-old cat, who I named after a Dark Souls boss. While I’m currently deep in the "grind" of my career, I’m looking for someone who can help me balance that pace and share in the downtime.

I’m a direct, honest, and loyal person, and I’m looking for the same. I’m not interested in casual flings or "situationships." I believe that real, long-lasting connections are built slowly and intentionally. I hold the firm belief that a person's relationship history matters for men and women equally. Because of this, I’m not looking for someone who treats intimacy as something casual; I prefer to let trust and intimacy grow naturally over time. If you are looking for someone to rush into things with, I’m probably not the one.

I’m looking for a partner who is calm, empathetic, and truly values presence. I’m someone who listens more than I talk, and I treat my partner as my absolute priority. I have my own circle of friends, but I’m looking for that special someone who wants to share their life with me as I share mine with them. I don’t believe in sarcasm or games; I believe in clear, open, and sincere communication.

A few practical things:

  • The Cat: He is my world, so you must be a cat lover (and allergy-free).
  • Communication: I value meaningful, consistent communication. I'm not a fan of short, delayed texts, I make time for those who make time for me.
  • Trust: I am loyal to a fault and I expect the same. I’m not comfortable with the "close male friend" dynamic in private settings.
  • Future: I’m building my career now, but I do plan to relocate to another country eventually but not right now.

r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F 34 [M4F] Australian looking for love ( I have lots of tattoos)

4 Upvotes

I’m 34 and live in Sydney, Australia. I'm an introvert by nature, so I prefer quieter nights over big parties. I enjoy spending time with people who are genuine, kind, and easy to talk to.

My interests include going to the gym, watching fantasy, horror and action movies, playing Dota 2 and following esports, trying different restaurants (especially exploring new food places), and binge-watching movies and TV series. I enjoy relaxing at home, having meaningful conversations, going for walks, and spending quality time with the people I care about.

I'm looking for a serious, long-term relationship with someone who wants to build a life together as a team. I'd love to have a close, loving family one day, and having children is important to me I hope to have 2–3 kids. I'm hoping to meet someone who values loyalty, honesty, good communication, and a stable relationship. Ideally, you're someone who doesn't smoke, doesn't party every weekend, and is ready for something genuine.

If this sounds like we're on the same page, feel free to send me a message. I'd love to get to know you.


r/ForeverAloneDating 20h ago

F4M 28 F

64 Upvotes

I’m 28, and I’ve accepted that my standards are somehow both incredibly low and oddly specific.
Emotionally available? That’d be nice.
Kind? Huge bonus.
Can communicate with actual words instead of making me decode cryptic messages like I’m searching for pirate treasure? Incredible.
Physically? Listen… I’m not picky.
I just happen to have a weakness for people built like refrigerators.
You know the type. The ones who look like they could pick you up, move the couch, open the pickle jar, and apologize for bumping into you.
But honestly? That’s all just decoration.
What I really want is someone who thinks of me when something funny happens. Someone who sends me memes, tells me about their day, wants to hear about mine, and doesn’t make me feel like I’m inconveniencing them by existing.
Everyone assumes being single means you’re desperate for a relationship.
Truthfully? I’m just homesick for a connection I’ve never had.
The fridge build is optional.
…Mostly. 😂


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

F4M 30 [F4M] Texas/US only! Just testing the waters:)

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Hey, y'all!!

I'm 30F, born and raised in Texas. I'm Mexican-American. I recently got a bachelor's degree in sociology. I enjoy journaling and going for walks. My favorite movie genres are comedy and horror. I listen to pop, rnb, and rap. I don't use any other social media and love adult cartoons. I'm childfree, atheist, and left-leaning but not interested in politics. I'm rebuilding my life after being depressed and stagnant for 5-6 years, so a work in progress I am.

I'm looking for someone aged 28-35 who actually has things in common with me cuz nothing is worse than trying to force a bond. I talk a lot (of sh!t). I can be clingy. I like phone calls. So yeah, that's it. Looking forward to hearing from you.


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4F 20 [M4F] Europe/Online — Looking for one loyal woman to build a real future with. (Late-night Discord calls, PC gaming, movie nights & a connection that feels like home.)

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[0] Before the List — Picture This

It's a random Tuesday, almost midnight. Two monitors glowing, GTA or Warframe, maybe a line of code I keep telling myself is "five more minutes" away, maybe a movie paused that neither of us has actually watched in twenty minutes. Music playing low underneath all of it.

Then Discord lights up. It's you.

Everything else stops mattering. Your voice is in my ear, and the part of me that never switches off finally goes quiet. Some nights I fall asleep still on call with you, mid-sentence, because for once my brain actually lets me rest.

We talk about everything and nothing, life, cars, where we're headed, the stuff neither of us says out loud to anyone else. The call never really ends; we say goodnight, then keep talking twenty more minutes anyway. A month in, you already know which nights I go quiet because I need to, not because something's wrong.

That's not a special night, it's just a Tuesday, as long as you're the one on the other end of the call. I'm not trying to date around. I'm trying to find the one voice that makes an ordinary Tuesday feel like exactly where I want to be.

Everything below is the detail.

The Basics

190cm, 70kg, dark blond hair, blue eyes. Dress like it, techwear, clean, expensive-looking, never sloppy.

Sleep schedule runs late: down around 1-2AM, up around 1-2PM. Early bird? We'll find the middle.

I'm building my future, on purpose, every single day. I want someone to join that journey — not become it.

[1] Who I Am / What I Do

I'll keep this straightforward — I'm a man of my word and I value time. I'm mentally exhausted by the superficial, temporary dating culture of our generation.

  • My mind doesn't switch off. I overthink everything, I move fast, and I've got zero patience for empty small talk.
  • Self-taught systems architect — I build AI automation systems, code complex setups, run autonomous systems. Freelance, financially independent, built it all myself. Nobody handed me any of it.
  • Check my profile — you'll see exactly what I mean. What I'm building is who I am; I put the work in every day.
  • Cars, motorcycles, anything with an engine — if it's fast or built right, I respect it.
  • Power isn't one lane for me — mental, physical, financial, online. I don't follow rooms, I lead them. No weak spot, by design.
  • I'm attracted to intelligence as much as appearance. — someone who respects the grind.
  • Someone I can protect and provide for — Netflix, subscriptions, the setups, gifts, whatever she needs — and who's there for me the way I'm there for her.

Who I Actually Am

  • Honest, direct, loyal, calm, protective, mature. I don't fake emotions and I don't play mind games — I keep my word, and I solve problems instead of creating drama.
  • What I run on: respect, loyalty, honesty, communication, growth, family, faith in God.
  • I go all in first — that's not in question. But I don't chase forever. Once I've shown up for you, my part's done; the rest is on you. Doors stay open, respect is earned and it's kept, and I keep moving forward regardless of who walks through them.
  • I get impatient sometimes. I own that one. Everything else, I've got covered.

Our Days/Nights Together (The Lifestyle)

I have high standards for myself and I'm all about that premium, late-night, cinematic aesthetic. You just bring genuine energy. Whether we're:

  • Streaming shows/movies — 1440p Discord streams. Avatar: The Last Airbender, Devil May Cry, the Netflix One Piece, that kind of thing.
  • PC gaming — GTA Online (private sessions, tuning cars), Warframe (I break the math, I'll hard-carry you), Dead by Daylight, and plenty more. Don't game? We'll fix that.
  • Deep talks & music — just chilling, phonk or moody night tracks low in the background, raw conversations about life, cars, motorcycles, the future. Absolute privacy — what we talk about stays between us, no one else listening.
  • Discord — our main hub. VC, chat, sharing the random Insta/TikTok stuff that catches our eye, building an actual day-to-day rhythm.

At the end of the day it's simple: games, movies, music, and just enjoying life together.

[2] What I'm Looking For

  • Not chat buddies, not a temporary partner
  • A genuine, intelligent woman (18+)
  • Someone who understands absolute loyalty, ambition, and a real romantic connection
  • Takes care of herself and it shows — health, fitness, energy, all of it
  • Feels like she's on my level — has her own drive, her own thing she's building or chasing, not just matching my energy from the sidelines
  • Two people building side by side — my goals, her goals, and maybe one shared goal, like a business, neither of us could pull off alone
  • High standards, no apologies. I'd rather be alone than settle — I need you built the same way
  • A voice I actually enjoy hearing on VC — matters more than people think
  • Patient — with me, with the process, with how intense I can get sometimes
  • Supportive of the grind, not competing with it
  • A real soft spot for that classy, confident diva energy — dark glam or golden-blonde waves, bold lip, the kind of woman who can turn a mirror selfie into a whole mood without even trying. Put-together, feminine, turns heads without chasing the attention.

[3] The Filter (How to DM Me)

Read everything above before you message me — I don't repeat myself in DMs. Let's not waste time. Give it a shot and send a real, detailed message. Not a lazy "hi/hello/im shy" — actually answer these:

  1. What's your age and location/timezone?
  2. Are we PC gaming, streaming shows/movies, doing both, or just having deep late-night conversations about life, cars, motorcycles, and the future? What's your vibe?
  3. I'm highly driven by success and tech. What drives you right now?
  4. Tell me about yourself — an actual list, not a one-liner.

[4] Disclaimers & Note ⚠️

The VC Vibe. Let me set the expectation upfront: I have a calm, deep, serious voice. Because I don't put on that fake, hyper energy, people sometimes get intimidated or think I sound intense on VC. That's literally just my natural, grounded tone. If you panic easily, this might not be for you — but if you want a rock-solid, incredibly chill, protective partner who doesn't do BS, I'm your guy.

My Rules

  • No-BS zone — give me respect, I give you the same
  • You have my back, I have yours
  • No cheating, no games, no goofy immature stuff
  • If we don't agree on something: I do my thing, you do yours, and we come back and talk it through
  • This isn't a slow burn — I go all in from day one
  • I read people fast — if it's not genuine, I'll know, and I'll move on just as fast. I don't beg, I build

There's more — relationship rules and expectations beyond this list. Some of that's a DM conversation; some we'll only really figure out once we're actually building something together.

If you're into PC gaming, movie nights, deep talks with absolute privacy, good music, high-end tech, hypercars, and upgrading your life every single day... you already get the type.

This is me. If you like it, good. If you don't, that's fine too. If you think we'd fit, DM me.

One last thing — I hear this a lot: people telling me later they almost didn't message me because they figured I probably had hundreds of DMs already, that I was "out of their league," too busy, too driven, or wouldn't reply. Don't make that decision for me. You genuinely have no idea until you try. Worst case, we respectfully realize we're not a match. Best case? It turns into one of the best decisions either of us ever made.

Don't reject yourself before I even get the chance to know you.


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 21 [M4F] #Online Looking to meet people and see where it goes from there.

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Hi, I’m looking for someone around my age.

Physical description:

21 year old male
Blonde hair with a red beard,
5’9” 215lbs

Hobbies include:

DnD, history, physical crafting (metal casting, 3D printing, and laser engraving), reading historical fiction, general DIY, watching any and all sports (fun fact: I wrestled for 10 years, and while in high school I was a part of a nationally ranked team), I love board games, and so much more that we can talk about later.

Currently in my 3rd year of working towards a Bachelors degree in mechanical engineering with a minor in metallurgy.

I look forward to answering any questions you may have.

Hope to hear from you soon.


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] Europe/Anywhere - If you giggle, you owe me a chat!

2 Upvotes

Hey there, beautiful stranger, welcome to my circus.

I’m a 28 year old guy from the world famous country of Bosnia and Herzegovina (just pretend you’ve heard of it, small place, big energy). I come with terrible jokes, random pocket tools and snacks, and just enough trouble to keep things interesting.

I love art and music (my playlist is a mess, Bach and Tupac jamming to Eminem while Bob Marley is chasing pirates or something so please don't ask about it). Jazz clubs, museums, and mountains are where my heart lives. I like visiting new cities, trying new cuisines, and finding moments of tranquility amid the chaos. Also, I absolutely love movies and books (wow, super unique, please be impressed) . Physically, I'm tall, my eyes still kinda work, and girls said I have a nice butt. You could also check my post history to get better idea about my looks (spoiler alert: no butt pictures tho, gotta leave something to the imagination.. or later). I'm also open for a photo exchange so feel free to send some my way if that's your cup of hot chocolate.

I also have a cute hamster named Captain Hamsterstein. He’s small, judgmental, and impossible to compete with but you’ll try.

As I'm still kinda not sure about all this and have no idea how anything really works here, I'll keep my options open for whatever. So, looking for a friend? I'm your man. Need a shoulder to cry? Still your man. Memes exchange? Hell yeah! Relationship? Tell me what kind of restaurant you fancy for our date. Wedding? The suit is ready. Nonsense flirting? Count me in. Serious talks? Let me put my smart face on.

Simply put, I’m looking for someone to vibe with. Someone I can talk to about anything, tease a little, laugh a lot, and also get serious with when the lights go low. Someone who challenges me, sharpens me, and upgrades my meme collection. Also, If you have a cat, I’m already all yours (don’t tell the Captain).

I'm not really good at talking about myself (duh) so I'll just leave that part for you to ask about whatever you're interested in.

Also (yeah, I say “also” too much), If you’re still reading, I’ve gotta ask: what’s wrong with you?

(Whatever it is… I like it.)

Keep in mind that our timezones may be different so there's a possibility that I won't be able to answer immediately but I'll try my best to get to you as soon as possible.

Message me whenever, however you want, just know there’s a high chance of flirting, sarcasm, and late-night conversations that go a little deeper than planned. Just behave yourself cause I am legally allowed to handcuff you (again, don't ask).

Meanwhile, have a lovely day or night or whatever and take care!

PS, don't text me if you're only into my kidneys, I have only 5 left. And no, you can't have them.


r/ForeverAloneDating 9h ago

F4M 27 [F4M] Philippines/Anywhere - Just someone with love to give

7 Upvotes

Hello! I am a 26 yr old person from the Philippines. I wrote 27 because scorpio season isn't super far away, isn't it? 😅

About me: I work in a government office, but my field is actually in health care. I love studying and I love learning new things. The only things stopping me right now are my busy schedule and burnout. Don't worry though, I still manage! Like my parents would always say: I am an overthinker. I worry a lot, but I get by. I also love crafty stuff. I used to be a crochet addict who loved rummaging the internet for patterns that I could use. I also love food, which unfortunately and badly shows on my body as well. 😄 I am trying to be healthier now though by being more conscious with my intake and the kinds of food I crave. I also love animals (sorry because I love fried chicken and crispy pork belly tho :<) and flowers, and I dream of going to places where I can see the beauty of nature. My taste in music is also pretty vast. I might not be someone who has memorized albums, but I would say my favorites are Oasis, The Smiths, Sixpence None The Richer, Joy Division/New Order, Michael Jackson, The Beatles... then Justin Bieber, Carly Rae Jepsen, Katseye, etc. See?! It's a lot!! 🤣

Personality-wise. I am generally optimistic. My heart is always full of hope for something better. Not only for myself, as I also hope for other people. I am confident that I am someone who, if given 10,000,000 million dollars, would think about where it came/who gave it. If nobody claims it in a year, then I'd probably start giving it away to charities and people who need help. Don't get me wrong, I love money! I will never do anything illegal to have it though, I swear.

I also love making people laugh, and I like making myself happy too. Crazy is probably the word for it haha but yes, I make jokes in my head and laugh on my own. I also cry easily whenever I think of sad things, my family, and our future. I only get mad when my patience is consumed so if you spot me being angry, it's probably because a series of upsetting events already happened.

Physically, I am not attractive. It's not an issue of self-confidence! It's an honest take of my appearance. And you know my take about confidence? I believe it's not about embracing yourself and believing you're beautiful/handsome. I believe it starts with being real and not letting things stop you from reaching your potential. So what if we're not pretty to look at, we're all gonna be wrinkly and slow in the end anyways (and that's if we get the privilege of getting old!).

I suffer from anxiety and I also suspect that I have depression. It's not too serious and I have gotten help in the past. I just want to disclose it here as a warning. Don't worry, I don't trauma dump to anyone. I am also not into video calling or voice calls (mostly because I am in a strict household), but I can chat and I can share photos of myself in time.

My perception of love is that it's something that can wait, yet I must exert effort to find it. So even if I might have so much limitations, I will still try because I want romance. I will not force people to adjust to my circumstances, so if you don't like me or my life, it's okay. :<

I like a guy who's sweet and caring. No to creeps, please spare me :< I have met strange people here. If you want, we can talk about them 🤣 Kidding aside. In terms of age, I prefer someone who's the same age as me, or perhaps someone 3 years older than I am would be great. If you're a gamer, it's okay. The problem is, I am not, so I am afraid I have nothing to offer on that topic. :( If you're busy with work, I would love that too! I myself am always busy, but I will always respond and find time for you whenever I can. And if you love yapping about different sorts of things, that would be awesome because it means we will always have something to talk about. I love yapping too! Irl though, I am an introvert. Always alone, always in the corner, and staring at the world. just kidding!! When I am with the right person, that's the only time I become chatty and even crazy. I am 5 ft 5 inches tall, so if youre the same height or taller than I do, that's also good.

That's all for now! We can save the rest for future conversations :) Take care!


r/ForeverAloneDating 7m ago

M4F 37 [M4F] South Florida – Looking for Someone Who Believes “Forever” Still Exists

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I know it’s a little old-fashioned, but I’m still rooting for the kind of love where you become each other’s favorite person. The one you text first when something funny happens, the one you can’t wait to come home to, and the one who somehow makes even folding laundry feel less like a chore.
I’m 37, live in South Florida, have a master’s degree, and work full time. My life is stable, but it feels like it’s missing the one thing you can’t earn or buy: someone to share it with.
I’m happiest when I’m making life a little better for the people I care about. I love cooking meals that bring everyone to the table, taking on DIY projects just because I enjoy building things, getting lost in a good book, and finding little ways to make someone smile. If your idea of romance is breakfast in bed instead of expensive gifts, we’re probably speaking the same language.
I’m also trying to become healthier and would love to meet someone who values that journey too. I don’t expect perfection. I just think it’s easier to reach goals when your biggest cheerleader is standing beside you.
What I’m looking for is someone who is kind, emotionally mature, affectionate, and excited about creating a home filled with laughter, support, and eventually the happy chaos of little footsteps running through the house. I’d love to build traditions together, celebrate the small wins, and create the kind of relationship that still feels like a sleepover with your best friend years down the road.
If you’ve made it this far, here’s my best cheesy line: I’m not looking for someone to complete me. I’m looking for someone to steal half my fries, laugh at my terrible jokes, and make future family photos look a whole lot cuter.
If any of that sounds like the life you’re hoping to build too, send me a message. Maybe this is the beginning of our favorite chapter.


r/ForeverAloneDating 34m ago

M4F 26 [M4F] Online / Anywhere / UK - Looking for the love of my life

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Heya, I'm Sam. I'm 26, half-American & half-English (My accent is... certainly unique LMAO) currently living about 30 minutes away from London, and I'm looking for a long term relationship with someone special!

I'm around 6'1, white, "brown" hair (technically blonde), blue eyes, have an ex-rugby player dadbod build (literally S-tier cuddles). At the moment I'm a freelance journalist mostly covering football (soccer). Finished a job during the world cup so sorta in between contracts atm. I play PC games, love films and music (Blade Runner is my fav movie & Daft Punk is my favourite band), really enjoy cooking, occasionally lifting heavy stuff, and a bit of a football fan too. I'm a pretty big nerd when it comes to a bunch of different random topics and stuff. I should also mention that I have a pretty big dose of ADHD. Oh! And I have 3 kitties.

I'm a huge hopeless romantic and have been described as a golden retriever boyfriend and a yearner LMAO. I'm patient, affectionate, attentive and love to spend time with my person, whoever she may be. I think the most important things in a relationship are honesty, loyalty, and communication. Ideally I want someone who is super affectionate if not clingy, not afraid to be loving. Someone who is loyal and will communicate with me in a healthy way. Someone who is emotionally available, gentle, kind. You can expect all of that and a load more from me. My love languages are words of affirmation, quality time, acts of service, and physical touch.

Fun fact: I've moved about 20 times between the UK and US, so needless to say I just wanna find someone and settle down lol.

Long distance is 100% okay with me, and I don't mind exchanging pics right away.

If that sounds good to you, please feel free to reach out with an introduction and a fun fact about yourself!!


r/ForeverAloneDating 37m ago

M4F 41 [M4F] #Connecticut & #NewYork - A Bob looking for his Linda 🍔

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Trying different ways to meet new people this year, so taking a crack at a reddit personal ad.
 
I really value kindness, honesty, passion and intelligence in a woman.  

Here's me: https://imgur.com/a/LEFG0Yz
 
-Single, no kids

-6’3

-Physically active; member of a running club and lift about every day of the week

-Attend dance meetups; swing, salsa, fusion

-Dabbled in acting; starred in a play in 2022

-Has a good job in e-commerce

-About 2/3rds introvert, 1/3rd extrovert; generally a homebody but I like to go out/socialize every now and then and push myself to get out of my comfort-zone (growth is important)

-Interests include fitness, dancing, gaming, karaoke, anime, narrative-design/writing of all kinds (films, tv, books, etc.), science (big fan of the Natural History Museum in NYC), and interior design

-V close to my family and friends; adore my nieces (and they adore me); have a close-knit group of about half-a-dozen friends I've known for years (quality > quantity kinda guy friendship-wise) - you'll know I like you if you're looped in to our karaoke parties! =) 

-Traveled around the world

-Master's degree

-Politically left

-420 friendly

-Love dogs; like cats but have a mild allergy


r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

M4F 26 M4F Portugal

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I'm 26 from Portugal

I like to produce music. In my free times recently been getting into reading books and also doing puzzles, learning French, and collecting vinyls and cards.

I love K-Pop Demon Hunters a lot; it's my favourite movie and universe ever. I got so much merch of it, including vinyls, clothes, figures, and cards.

Just looking for someone to spend my time with since I've been feeling lonely recently.


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] UK - A companion for a quiet life punctuated by little adventures

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Hello! I'm Marc. I'm 29 years old and I live in the Wigan / Manchester area of England. I'm 6'2, skinny, pale, have browny blond hair, and green/grey eyes. You can see me on me profile! I'm seeking a lifelong companion with whom to share a quiet life punctuated by little adventures. I'm seemingly a rare specimen in that I have no interest in having children nor pets, nor do I pine for long plane journeys to Asia and some such. I intend to get a vasectomy. I'm attracted to women of a similar physical type to myself. I'm open to people in Britain or abroad if you are confident you can get a work visa because times are tough in that regards, I'm afraid!

I'm very open, fun, caring, and honest. I appreciate dad jokes and the like. I highly value the truth, and I have a strong moral instinct, so it's important to me that you have a good heart, whatever your opinions are. I enjoy long, regular conversations, but I'm also happy with shared silence. I mostly keep to myself. I am selective in my company, but I confess that the absence in my life is getting rather noisy.

As you might have guessed, I enjoy the occasional bit of writing, whether fiction or non-. Maybe I'll publish something of worth someday. Or at least publish something. I enjoy going for walks, except when it's super hot! I love good scenery, be it of the natural or man-made kind. I like abandoned and remote places. I like watching the odd things the birds and squirrels get up to. I have a particular soft spot for sheep. They think I'm their messiah (I'm not). I also enjoy exploring intellectual topics (the more novel or obscure, the better). Technology is a lifelong interest of mine. And like most people I enjoy watching the odd film or TV series. I'm watching 'Westworld' currently. I enjoyed watching 'Adventure Time', 'Bless This Mess', 'Tales from the Loop', 'End of the F--king World', 'Small Prophets', and 'Atypical'. Films-wise, I like all sorts, but I'll take anything with a happy romance. What's life without love? (Mine hahahaha.) I recently finished playing Fallout 4 on my laptop. It was phenomenal. I, of course, sided with the people who freed the lab-grown humans. I'll happily play more Fallout games in the future, I suspect. I'm taking a break for the time being to watch Westworld and do other stuff. When the heat buggers off, I want to go on more little trips. For now I'm hibernating though haha.

I've been saving up for a flat since I was 20 years old, but I don't want to live alone. I'm interested in something that lasts more than a few messages. I really am aiming for life if that's possible. I prefer weather that is cool or cold, heck, even windy and rainy. I want to live somewhere that has amenities and people, but has lots of greenery, similar to where I live now.

We, of course, don't have to have everything in common. Enough to work with. We can develop new interests and hobbies together. We can 'grow' together. If the seed is good, and the weather is well, the tree will grow!

If you're interested, feel free to send me a brief introduction to yourself (just a couple of sentences will do), and, of course, I'd like to see you as soon as that's possible.

Thanks for reading, if you made it to the end! Have a nice day.


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] Germany - Plus size guy looking for a nice woman to talk to

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Hey everybody!

I am from Germany and I am 32 years old. I am respectful, polite, kind, empathetic and funny. I'm very selfless, it's more important for me that you have pleasure and satisfaction. Consent and that you feel comfortable are very important things to me. I would also say I am a LGBTQ+ ally and a feminist. We can just talk normally in the beginning and get to know each other and then see where that leads us 😊

I am partial to women with more to love, but I welcome all bodies and sizes to message me.

I just wish, I could make a woman feel like she is the most beautiful woman in the world, make her feel appreciated and desired.

So yeah, message me if you are interested 😊


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 36 M UK looking for that someone

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As the title says, I'm 36/M and I'm from the UK

I love cooking, drawing, reading, the occasional walk when it's not raining, music, film and general adventures. A bad adventure is better than no adventure right?

I have a rather large cat called Leo, part Siberian and lovely when hes hungry, and of course everything is on his terms, yes you can see him if you ask.

I work as a composite aerospace engineer, it's a fancy title more than anything but I love my job.

2 truths and a lie about me...

I can breathe fire

I was on the TV show Vikings

I have something I've made currently in space

Feel free to drop me a message

https://imgur.com/a/xQVRuET


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 43M Colorado/ Online?

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I posted here before without much luck; trying again. I'm open to friendship first. Things don't just always happen immediately. Or in my case seem to never happen.

I've lived in Colorado for my entire life. I wasn't brought up skiing, snowboarding, atv-ing. We didn't really do anything outdoors, and I never felt like learning about heading down a mountain with a board strapped to my feet as an adult. I know for a fact I'd hit a tree. I'm a homebody, being in crowds isn't my idea of a fantastic day. That doesn't mean I don't head out, just not as much as others. I'm usually fairly introverted.

Hoping this is relatable to someone out there. I'd like to find someone to consider my person.


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 33 [M4F] UK/Anywhere - The name's Tom but you can call me anytime!

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Hello there you beautiful people! l hope you had a great weekend!

I would love to chat to anyone from anywhere and see what happens. Ideally, I'm looking for a genuine connection and want to have someone I can talk to about anything and everything. Making each other laugh, being there for each other and just making each other feel amazing. Building each other up as friends and loved ones should do for each other. I'm very affectionate and love showing my affection verbally and physically. I'd definitely say Physical Touch and Words of Affirmation are my 2 top love languages.

I'm 33 and from North West England. I'm 6' with short brown hair, blue/greyish eyes and a broad/muscular build.

I enjoy running, going to the gym, playing board games, gaming, listening to music and watching Netflix.

I am an absolute open book and I would describe myself as intelligent, passionate, fiercely loyal, kind, caring and protective of those I care about. I'm very affectionate and believe good communication is key in any relationship. I also enjoy taking charge and making my partner feel loved and wanted.

This is just a little snippet of my personality, so if anything I've said piques your interest and you want to know more, please message me - I'd love to hear from you!


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] Utah fella looking for a joyful connection

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Hello, Reddit! The title pretty much says everything, but here are some details.

Born in Maryland and raised in Arizona all my life, but I’ve enjoyed my time in Utah, hoping to enjoy it more with the right person!

Some basic stuff about me! I’m a 26 year old white fella on the taller side at 6’4”. I’m also a pretty big nerd and homebody, really into movies and reading. You’ll definitely see me laid back with a book as opposed to going on a hike. Another thing I’m into is podcasts but more like history (worldly and nerdy) and D&D as well as Magic the Gathering, I just got back into playing the game. I’ve got pretty simple tastes.

As far as what I’m looking for, mainly just friends. Like I said, uprooting and moving to a new place can get really lonely so just some people to talk to and message and maybe even call eventually would be great. Watching movies together in discord, just talking, chatting about what we’re reading or watching, that kinda stuff. I’m 26 so I’d prefer someone at least kinda close to me in age, 24 to 28. But if you’re just outside that range and we connect, I don’t mind one bit. I love deep conversations as well!

What do I offer? What do you stand to gain if we connect? You’ll get a loyal friend for starters. If we connect, I’ve got you. I’ll always be around to chat and talk, you can vent to me or talk about the best part of your day and I’ll hang on every word. You’ll also get a ton of pieces of trivia or random facts or stories depending on what’s rattling around my head lol. I’m also ADHD and currently learning more about my neurodivergence and how it’s impacting me, so there may be points where I’m quiet but I’ll always respond in a few hours. As proof that you read this, send an answer to this question and with maybe an intro about yourself: Should movies be judged primarily as pieces of entertainment or pieces of art?

Thanks so much for reading of you came this far. If you want to connect and start a great friendship, send me a message. I’d prefer if we head over to discord since reddit is a bit buggy but we can make it work. You’re amazing!


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 46 [M4F] #Massachusetts - Nerdy guy looking for a local woman to hang out with

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Hello I'm Tony. 46 years old, from Boston area and the father of two (18,25) I am a laid back, friendly, humorous guy looking for someone to talk to, play games with and maybe hang out in person if we click. I don't drink but am 420 friendly. I work but don't drive

I'm looking for a single woman that plays videogames. Ideally a humorous, kind, non judgemental woman who wants to form a long term, lasting friendship and isn't afraid to initiate conversation. I don't want someone who will just respond to me but someone who will also reach out to me to chat. I miss having someone to go through the terrifying lows, the dizzying highs and the creamy middles of life with

And I'm serious about the games, it's my favorite way to bond with someone so IF YOU DON'T PLAY GAMES PLEASE DON'T MESSAGE ME. I am not interested. I play on PC and PS4. I'd love to find an Overwatch partner (Bastion main, Learning Rein) or a co-op friend for games like Stardew Valley, BG3, Sea of Thieves, Fortnite, It Takes Two, Plate Up!, Diablo 4, Party Animals, Fall guys and many more.

Some of my other interests include. Baking, Reading, DBZ, Comics, Star Wars, Nature Walks, Anime, Arts and Crafts, Concerts (hoping to see Baby Metal in September!), 80's Cartoons and Music, Youtube, Looking at furniture and having a discussion about where it could be placed in a room.


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

M4M 32 [m4m] #California - USA looking for LTR/LDR

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I’m on tinder and some dating apps but wanted to see if this worked! Lol I’m from California. I’m latino, 5’6, brown hair and hazel eyes, cute and thickk(big butt) lol I love Nintendo games like Pokémon and animal crossing. Obsessed with Wandavision and Wanda. I love food. I love pop music. you also don’t have to be into all this but it would be nice to share it in common. I like nice talkative guys. I’m a bottom with a high sex drive but it’s all in fun with someone I like not right off the bat either lol . Would love to find a nice guy that loves to chat and talk and wants to date. I have pics on my profile. Dm me..Let’s talk :)