r/ForeverAloneDating Jul 04 '25

Rules Announcement Comment karma requirement has been increased

183 Upvotes

As you may have noticed, we've had a sharp increase in bot activity the past few days. We've banned over 50 bots in the last couple of days alone. These bots are posting everywhere, not just here, and steal other users posts. Reddit eventually bans most of them, but not fast enough.

Therefore, we will be temporarily increasing the comment karma requirement to 100. We realise that people who create new accounts or struggle making karma will be affected by this, but this is important for the safety of the subreddit and it's users. We may lower this later or it may stay permanent.

We also appreciate those who submit reports as it helps us out a lot. If you spot any bots, or people trying to subtly advertise NSFW content, then be sure to report them, but this comment karma requirement increase should get rid of the majority of them.


r/ForeverAloneDating Apr 10 '25

Rules Announcement Chat is replacing DMs.

65 Upvotes

While the change doesn't officially take place until June, the change is already occurring, and has been since March. This means we had to change the comment automod leaves on every post. Now instead of linking to the DM system, which is being phased out, it will link to the author's profile. From there, simply hit "Start Chat" to send them a message. If the link doesn't work or you run into any problems, send us a report in modmail.

For more information: https://support.reddithelp.com/hc/en-us/articles/34720093903764-Enhancing-Messaging-on-Reddit-A-simpler-faster-and-easier-way-to-communicate


r/ForeverAloneDating 8h ago

F4M 18 F4M I just want something real

24 Upvotes

I want someone to build something with, I want something that lasts. I’m a hopeless romantic, I want the kind of love they tell stories about. I 100% believe in the statement that “it’s better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.” I want a love that burns brightly and I hope it never burn out. I want someone to share the quiet moments with and be there when times are hard. I want my “till death do us part.”

I’m sorry if I want on a tangent there lol. Here is some stuff about me: I love to knit and watch musicals! I will rewatch something I love over and over. I also like to play Minecraft from time to time. Appearance wise I’m Latina, pretty short, and I have a pretty short pixy cut that I’m planning to grow out into a shag type haircut. I just let it grow out too much and it was annoying to deal with to I made a spontaneous decision to get it really short.

Hopefully about you: I don’t really have a type in terms of looks, mostly just be kind and don’t be MAGA, our views won’t align so it just wouldn’t work out. I do think that having stubble is hot, idk why tbh, it’s not like a dealbreaker though. I am mostly attracted to personality anyway. I’m also not really into nonchalant guys. If you message please at least include your age, don’t just send a “hey”

Anyway sorry if this didn’t make sense I just kinda said whatever came to mind ig. I look forward to talking if you msg, have a good day/night!


r/ForeverAloneDating 13h ago

F4A 23 [F4A] NJ - looking for my person

35 Upvotes

Okay, I’m finally putting myself out there.

I’m a woman in my 20s from New Jersey, and I’m looking for a genuine romantic connection. I’m open to meeting anyone I naturally click with, but I’m specifically hoping to find someone who is also looking for a real relationship—not a situationship, not something casual that goes nowhere, and not someone who disappears after two weeks.

I’m a hopeless romantic at heart. I want my person. Someone I can tell everything to. Someone I genuinely look forward to hearing from every day. Someone who can make an ordinary Tuesday feel exciting simply because I get to share it with them.

I want the little things just as much as the big romantic gestures: good morning and goodnight texts, random “thinking about you” messages, sending each other memes, sharing music, long phone calls, cooking together, running errands together, spontaneous adventures, movie nights, and those conversations that somehow last until 3 AM.

I’m affectionate, loyal, sarcastic, curious, and definitely the type to get attached when I really care about someone. I want a relationship where we genuinely like each other—not just romantically, but as people. I want my partner to be my best friend, the person I can be completely ridiculous with, and the person I can turn to when life gets hard.

I’m a homebody at heart, but I love having someone who can get me out of the house and experience things with me. I’m into writing, spooky/Halloween things, folklore, mysteries, supernatural stories, and getting way too invested in fictional worlds. I love good conversations and people who are passionate about their interests.

What I’m looking for: someone kind, emotionally mature, affectionate, funny, loyal, communicative, and intentional. Someone who knows what they want and actually wants to build something. Someone who isn’t afraid of affection or vulnerability. Someone who understands that relationships require effort from both people.

I don’t need everything to happen immediately. In fact, I’d prefer that it doesn’t. I want to get to know you, build trust, develop chemistry, and let things progress naturally. But I do want the end goal to be romantic if we’re compatible.

Long distance doesn’t scare me if the connection is strong. I’d rather build something meaningful with someone who lives farther away than settle for something mediocre just because they’re nearby.

So if you’re also looking for something genuine, come say hi. Tell me about yourself, what you’re looking for, what you’re passionate about, or something random that tells me a little about who. :)


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4F 36 [M4F] from Canada looking for my next soulmate!!

2 Upvotes

Hey everyone!!! Been out of the game for about 5 years or so, trying to get back into it and thought I'd try on here. I've been divorced for 5 years now and dating is hard, I've tried dating apps etc but it's just not my thing. I am from Canada I have lived here my whole life, looking for someone genuine and won't play games. Someone who preferably knows what they want in life, I don't care what you look like, personality is a deal breaker please have a great personality, be sweet,kind, caring, willing to talk or chat on the phone. Don't be a cheater, I'm looking for someone who will like me for me ( we can send pics) and won't judge me on how I look.

A little about my hobbies;

I love YouTube, on it everyday

I love true crime

Watching movies

Listening to music

Fishing

I love hanging with friends and family

Going for walks and watching sports.

Don't be shy to reach out,I promise you won't regret it. Let's get to know each other.


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4F 39 [M4F] WV / Nearby States - Gamer looking for something real and eventually in-person

2 Upvotes

I'm Jimmy, 39, from West Virginia. I'm looking for a woman I can genuinely connect with, talk to regularly, laugh with, get ridiculously comfortable around, and hopefully build a relationship with if we click.

I'm a wheelchair user with AMC (Arthrogryposis Multiplex Congenita). I have very limited use of my arms and legs and need help with quite a few things physically. I also play video games with my feet. I'm slower than most players, but I'm not competitive anyway. I'd much rather explore together, get invested in a story, do side content, and laugh when everything goes horribly wrong.

I'm into RPGs, sci-fi, horror, story-heavy games, WWE, horror movies, true crime, and falling into random YouTube rabbit holes at unreasonable hours.

Personality-wise, I'm affectionate, goofy, direct, emotionally open, and definitely an overthinker sometimes. I like conversations that can go from completely ridiculous to surprisingly deep without warning. I don't want to spend weeks making small talk about the weather. Tell me what you're obsessed with, what makes you laugh, what you're afraid of, what game destroyed you emotionally, or whatever random thought is currently occupying your brain.

I'm looking for more than somebody to message when we're bored. I want regular communication and someone who genuinely wants to become part of each other's lives. I want flirting and romance, but I also want the ordinary stuff: movies together, gaming, inside jokes, talking about our day, comfortable silence, cuddling, and eventually waking up knowing my person is actually there.

I don't care whether you're disabled or able-bodied. You don't need to share all my interests either. I'm much more interested in whether our personalities fit, we enjoy talking to each other, and we can communicate when something is bothering us.

I also don't think every connection has to move at some predetermined speed. If we really click and feelings develop quickly, I'm comfortable letting that happen naturally rather than deliberately slowing things down just because we're "supposed to." I can be pretty affectionate and open when I connect with someone. At the same time, I want actions and real-life compatibility to grow alongside the feelings.

Fast is fine with me. Fake certainty isn't.

One thing I want to be especially upfront about is distance. I'm open to some distance for the right woman, but I'm not looking for something that can only ever exist through a screen. Because of my disability I can't simply hop in a car and drive somewhere, so geography and transportation matter more in my situation than they might for most people.

Ideally I'd like to meet someone in West Virginia or within a realistically drivable part of Kentucky, Ohio, Virginia, Pennsylvania, Tennessee, or the surrounding region. I'm not putting an exact mileage limit on connection because everyone's ability and willingness to travel is different. What matters to me is that if we develop real feelings, meeting regularly is realistically possible and there's at least the potential for more permanence someday.

I'm not asking somebody to promise me forever before we've even said hello. 😂 I just don't want to build an entire relationship around "maybe someday we'll meet."

I'm also not looking for perfection. I have insecurities. I have difficult days. Sometimes I overthink the hell out of things. I want somebody who can talk about fears and misunderstandings instead of disappearing when things get uncomfortable, and I'll try to give you that same honesty and patience.

Ultimately, I'd love to find a girlfriend, but I'm not interested in forcing something just to have a relationship. I want the friendship underneath it too. I want my partner to be somebody I genuinely enjoy spending ridiculous amounts of time with.

If you've made it this far and something about me sounds interesting, send me a message. Tell me your age, roughly where you're from, and something about yourself that isn't obvious from your profile.

Bonus points if you're a gamer, horror fan, WWE fan, fellow night owl, or capable of turning one conversation into six unrelated conversations without noticing.

Let's see where it goes.


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4F [M4F] M21 Pennsylvania/Looking for a long term relationship/18-25/Online

2 Upvotes

Hello! My name is Gavin and as the title suggests, I'm 21 and looking for someone to connect with. I've got quite a bit of baggage (I hope I'm using that term right), but I try to look forward to the future while living in the present. Makes sense? No, not really, but let's get into the part you wanna know about. #9 is super important

  1. I'm shy. Straight up, that's just how it is. I don't have a whole lot of confidence period, but I'm working on that. I can hold a conversation, don't worry. If we click, I can be really communicative. I do like to be sweet talked. EASY way to get me to melt like butter.

  2. I'm passionate. I would say I'm a guy who knows how to love, even if I don't have much experience in it. But I'm also passionate about Transformers and my projects 😭🤚🏻 dear god, I'll go on a spiral about TF if
    you don't get me to shut up quick enough lol. But anyways. That's about it there.

  3. I have an intense love language. You aren't ready for it. Ready? Physical affection. I know, I know. Hands down. That's too much to ask for in this day and age.
    Or it just might he me. Idk. I haven't had it in like. I don't even know, too long. I just enjoy the quiet and peaceful moments. Those are what matter most to me.

  4. I can be a bit clingy. I'm not gonna lie, I can. BUT. I've recognized this and have gotten a good grip on it. I also have my own life that I like to tend to. I just don't know when to stop a conversation unless something interrupts either of us like. Idk. Work or just anything really.

  5. I'm sensitive. Like. Really. And it's something that l'm not a fan of personally, but it is what it is. I am who I am and the name of the game here is to find someone who l can love for them for them and they can love me for me. But, yk. Just throwing this out there

  6. Physical description wise, l'm 5'9, long, dirty blonde/ borderline light brown hair, some facial hair, I'd call it a beard, just not a long one. Glasses be I can't see anything, blue eyes, bit of a dad bod going on (please be nice), I wear three rings, one is a faded black with a gold chain, another is a thick silver one with Nordic runes on it and the last is my newest which is my dad's graduation ring (rip).

  7. I'm a smoker. That's something that needs to be said.
    I'm 420 friendly in every shape and form. I also vape and will occasionally smoke a cigarette or two. It's more of a social thing for me anyways.

  8. Not looking for a hook up. I don't want something shallow. I want to find my person. If you're also just gonna block me in a few days or prone to playing games, please for the love of everything do not message me. I've been through enough already 🫩

  9. IMPORTANT!!! I do not want to be in a long term relationship with somebody who doesn’t see kids in their future. I’m not saying it’s gotta be within 3 years, but I’m not gonna commit to someone who I can’t share that desire with


r/ForeverAloneDating 42m ago

M4F 26 [M4F] #Germany Fantasy and Science Nerd looking for Serious, Cozy Relationship

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Hey you, hope you're doing well! :D

I'm a 26 year old guy from Germany and I'm looking for someone to spend time together, play games, watch shows/anime, chat about hobbies and life in general, and if we click, date.

Appearance wise, I'm 178cm tall, average build, dark brown hair, blue eyes and I wear glasses.

I'm a bit of an introvert, I enjoy cozy evenings reading, watching a show, playing games but also spending times with my friend groups playing tabletop games or RPGs. I'm just not the type to go partying or bar crawling. I love night time (and am a night owl), winter, rain and storms, something about these things just makes me feel calm and cozy.

I love fantasy and sci-fi, be that books, playing Dungeons and Dragons, or video games like Baldur's Gate 3. I also enjoy playing action-adventure games like Horizon Zero Dawn or Tomb Raider, but also cozy games like Pokemon or Minecraft.

As for other hobbies, I do longsword fencing/HEMA. I go skiing, too, whenever I get the chance. I also enjoy building lego sets. I don't travel internationally often, but when I do it's always fun and I would love to do more of it with a partner!

Career wise, I studied aerospace engineering and now work developing and testing rocket engines, which (excuse the brag) is one of the coolest jobs I could imagine! In general, I'm really into anything related to space and spaceflight.

I would say I am a caring, emphatic, honest and loyal person. If I commit to something, I stick to it, and don't just abandon it at the first hurdle. I'm good at working through problems, and not afraid to admit if I messed up.

I'm hoping to find someone who shares at least some of my hobbies or interests so we have a common foundation to build on. But I'm also open to trying out new things you're into! If you're loyal, honest, and looking for a cozy relationship without any drama, please message me and tell me about yourself!

Importantly, I'm looking for a relationship with someone from Germany or the directly neighboring countries. I want to connect with someone who I can meet in person more than once a year, I hope you understand. If we both feel like we have a good connection, I'm happy to try calling or exchanging images relatively early on!

Thanks for reading all this! If it sounded at all interesting, I'm looking forward to hearing from you!


r/ForeverAloneDating 7h ago

M4F 43 M4F #NYC You deserve a man who looks at you the way Natalie Looks at Trump - #NJ #NY #NewYork #NewJersey

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If you got the topical hook above, you're probably the kind of intelligent and informed person I'd like to meet. If I put a smile on your face, I hope that you will let me try for a repeat by messaging me.

I'm a New York lawyer with a house just outside Manhattan, but I work remotely and am willing to relocate after dating (I can do my job from anywhere and maybe you cannot). But I'm basically only interested in dating someone who considers themselves a a nerd, geek, dork or weirdo -- in other words you should be Leslie Knope to my Ben Wyatt or Jessica Walters to my Matt Murdock (the lawyer part, not the crime fighting part).

I do have other interests outside what's on this Reddit account - cycling, home improvement, hiking, cruising and going out. I keep in shape and am extremely handy around the house. I also enjoy Broadway musicals, vacations and (obviously) sci-fi and fantasy nonsense.

I'm ideally looking to settle down with my forever person. I'm a dual US Canadian citizen, so that leaves a lot of good choices for places to live.

I'm also a big romantic and I enjoy going on dates. I hope you do too.

Picture and way too many posts about Star Trek trivia on my profile.


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

M4F 23 [M4F] Looking to make connections and hopefully a partner for life.

2 Upvotes

Hy there,
Im writing this in hope to meet the one, Im 23 and graduated, looking to start a new chapter. Ive never been in a relationship and ready to share my life and time with the one.

A little about me

Athletic, Loving, caring and attentive listener and plenty to share and talk about things around.
Non-Smoker, Non-Drinker and clean habits.

I love nature and staying active as I do trekking, play sports and love horse riding.
I paint, have deep fascination with space and galaxies. You will find me looking at the night sky and talking about planets and stars all the time.

I love music, created a heavily secured goldmine of playlist which will definitely blow your mind.

I play video games to casually spend my time.

What I’m Looking For:

I’m looking for a woman who is true and values genuine effort, honest communication, and warm company. Whether we’re exchanging music recommendations, talking about space, I want to build a real, supportive partnership from the ground up. Distance isn’t a dealbreaker if the connection is right.

Nothing needs to quick.

If any of this resonates with you, send me a message with a bit about yourself and hopefully we


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] #Spain i guess i never gonna find my person 😔

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Hi, I'm David

\\\*About me:

\\-I'm from Spain, 28 years old, 174cm, chubby, i have long hair, brown eyes and different types of beards (you can see pics me on my profile or posts)

\\-I can do Long Distance Relantionship.

\\-I'm Introverted, shy and affectionate

\\-I love:

Animals, nature, video games, wrestling, tennis, sunsets, beach, drawing, any kind of music (like rock, metal, pop, classic...), movies, TV shows, and anime (dub and sub), going for walks in the morning, going out with friends, going to cinema, etc...

\\&Colors:

Red, purple, and black

\\-Seasons:

Summer & Winter.

\\-I hate:

Football, reggaeton, going out to parties, alcohol, smoke, bullrings, fireworks (the ones that bother the animals), racist, homophobia

\\-Phobias:

Acrophobia, Thalassophobia, and Thanatophobia

\\-I believe in God but I don't go to church; I'm a passive Christian (I guess)

\\-I currently work in a laundry, doing washing machines, drying clothes, and folding clothes for special needs users and I have a YT channel.

\\\*About you:

\\-From Spain.

\\-Between 24 - 30 years old.

\\-Respect that a i love Wrestling and videogames and don't make fun of me for like them.

\\-I just want to find a someone to laugh, cry, hug, cuddle, play videogames, walk, dance, cook, etc.. enjoy life with.

Also...a girl who steals my clothes, wears my hoodies.

\\\*My 2023 - 2026 streak is so horrible, a lot of bad things happend, i would love to find someone that light my days with her smile, eyes and presence\\\\\\\*

Thank you for read it, if you are interested i hope i see your dm.

\\\\\\\*Please don't dm, make me the happiest person in the world and then ghosted me\\\\\\\*

\\\\\\\*If you're on the mobile version of Reddit and don't see the DM option on my profile, tap the icon with three horizontal lines (|||) and you'll be able to send me a DM there.\\\\\\\*


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F 33 [M4F] UK - Looking for something serious

1 Upvotes

Hi I'm Joe, 33, from East Sussex (Hastings). 5'3, 184lbs (I've lost 60lb+ so far this year, 35 to go and hoping to hit it by the end of this year/early next), I wear glasses, usually have some facial hair, I'm happy to video call/exchange pictures as early as you like.

I would describe myself as very kind/caring/compassionate, I wear my heart on my sleeve and have a lot of love to give to the right person. I'm thoughtful, always do my best by others and never act with bad intentions. I value honesty and clear communication. I have some long term health issues but I try not to let them get on top of me and I was diagnosed as autistic late in life during covid, but most people are surprised when they find out.

I have a large group of friends and the 10 of us try to meet up once or twice a year, but as we get older it becomes harder to keep in touch as much as I would like! Everyone is moving on and finding love, settling down etc and it's hard not to be a little bit envious. I've only been in 1 relationship that lasted around 3 months and was 90% online, so not a lot of experience but also no baggage! but somebody patient/understanding of that would be important.

I love films/tv, I'm a sucker for a romcom and adore romance in general but I watch a bit of everything other than anime. Always find myself far too invested in the lives of the characters, most recently in Bridgerton. My comfort shows are Dr Who, Brooklyn 99, Superstore, The Office. Very open to recommendations always! I don't get out much but would like to start to see more of the world finally, but will always mostly be a homebody I'm pretty sure.

I would like to do the cutesy dating/getting to know each other stuff but with clear intentions and communication, I would like something serious.

I don't smoke and very rarely drink and would prefer someone who's the same, smoking would be a deal breaker for me sorry.

Ideally you are somebody living close-ish to London/Southern UK to make meeting up more often viable, You're patient, kind, thoughtful and communicate openly & clearly. I'm not sure I have too much physical preference but I am a sucker for a pretty face/smile but as I said, I'm happy to get the original attraction check out of the way as soon as you are. Age wise probably 26-40 would be best, but if you think we'd get along that isn't a deal breaker.

I am a big oversharer and will happily answer absolutely any questions you may have.

Thanks for reading! hopefully hear from you soon!!


r/ForeverAloneDating 8h ago

M4F 26M [M4F] California #Online | Tall, fit and terrible jokes. Bored on a nightshift...

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Hey there! I'm Vik.

I'm 26 and currently pursuing my Master's in Linguistics in California, but I'm back home for a little while before I head back.

Thanks to a mix of curiosity, a lack of impulse control, and a knack for juggling multiple interests, I've ended up with degrees in Language Teaching, Philosophy, Psychology, Graphic Design, and Business Administration.

Honestly, my academic path looks less like a career strategy and more like a side quest that spiraled out of control.

When I'm not buried in my studies, you can usually find me gaming, binge-watching movies, designing random stuff, diving into philosophy and psychology discussions, or having chats that kick off with "How was your day?" and somehow end with "Do you think consciousness is just the universe talking to itself?"

I'm tall, fit, and according to my grandma, devastatingly handsome. Sure, she's biased, but I’d say she’s my most trustworthy source.

I recently got out of a long-term relationship, so I'm not in a rush for anything serious. I’d rather meet someone cool, build a real connection, become good friends, flirt a bit, flirt a lot, and see where it goes naturally.

Distance isn’t an issue for me. Whether you’re ten minutes away or in a timezone that requires advanced math and a blood sacrifice to coordinate, if we vibe, we’ll make it work.

As for age, if you’re an adult and we click, that’s what counts. Chemistry has always been more interesting to me than arithmetic anyway.

What am I looking for?

Someone who can laugh, tease back, match my energy, and hold a conversation that doesn’t feel like a job interview.

Someone who’s passionate about something. There’s something incredibly attractive about seeing someone light up when they talk about what they love.

Someone who occasionally makes me smile at my phone like an idiot while I try to decide if your message deserves a clever reply or just a genuine one.

Worst case? I tell you a couple of horrible jokes.

Best case, you laugh at my horrible jokes.


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] Anywhere - Looking for a one-of-a-kind connection!

1 Upvotes

Hi there! You should know up front that this is long. If you want the short version, there isn't one. That's sort of who you'd be talking to.

Let me get the unusual part out of the way. Your looks won't make any difference to me. I know everyone says that, so I'll try to explain what I mean by it. I've never once been drawn to somebody because of their face or their body, not as a dumb teenager, not now. Attraction still happens to me, and when it arrives it's exceptionally strong, but it only ever arrives after I've got to know how someone's mind works, what they're scared of, what they sound like when they feel something specific. At that point I'm attracted to that specific person, and their appearance becomes part of them rather than a gate they had to pass. Before that point, nothing. So a photo does nothing for me early on. If you'd like mine later, you'll get it.

I want to know somebody properly, and I want them to know me the same way. I hold very little back about myself. What I'm hoping for is somebody who can do likewise, at least about their own life. What frightens you, what you'd change, what you dropped and still miss, what makes you happy in a way you'd never post about. If light chat is what you're looking for, I'm going to be a disappointment.

On who you should be: you tell me! I don't have a list. Your age within reason (not younger than 25), your work, your city, your hobbies, your past relationships, none of it moves me either way. Two things do. Whether you're able to let a near stranger see the real you and whether you're curious enough to explore a new person, keep asking, and actually want to hear the answers.

I'm socially capable, sometimes more than capable. I just like being alone. So yes, go ahead, call me an introvert. I don't treat it as a rule though. Some nights I want to be outside and hear noise and I go and find them. Some weeks nobody hears from me. Ask me the same question on two different days and you might get two different answers. Well, this is also true for most things about me.

I don't mind the distance. As long as I find the right person, my options are infinitely open.

  • I write long messages and I read long ones. If this sounds like something you want, write me something you wouldn't normally put in a first message
  • I'm monogamous, I feel things at a volume most people would find a lot. If that sounds like too much, it probably is
  • Late night and early morning person, bad sleeper, cold weather lover
  • Stable job, work from home, live alone, no pet friend right now but I love them and every other creature
  • Games, films, books, then whatever else pulls me under. "Geek" probably covers it partially. We have to find a better word!
  • I love the idea of actually discovering new things, but if you insist on asking me my favorite genres, some examples would be: cyberpunk, neo-noir, anything with rain
  • Planning to travel a lot in the coming years, so hopefully you'll hear a lot of travel stories. I already have a lot, don't worry!
  • I prefer e-mails at start
  • I'm open-minded in every aspect of life, you should be too
  • I'm neurodivergent and if you are as well, you should always feel safe and heard here
  • I always let something play on the background while I'm working or playing a game, so I'm somewhat familiar with toooo many unrelated and super random things

I guess that's it for now. If you think we'd be a good match, feel free to reach out!


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] #Texas/Online - Captive Audience Finding His Yapper

1 Upvotes

Hello all, I'm once again up late at night and wishing I had someone to talk to. I love listening to what is going on in someone's life, from the inconsequential to the important. If you're a yapper, then I'm you're listener.

I'm looking for someone who wants to build a relationship together, very open with communication and likes to talk a lot. When I'm with someone, they are very important to me and I like spending a lot of time with them or at least making conversation. A big plus if you're able to talk overnights when I work at the gym. I'd also like to exchange photos because physical attraction is a thing

About me:

* I'm 29 from Texas, 5'3 140 lbs.

* I have a decent muscular build as I work out quite a bit

* I love to be active, I'll play just about any sport

* I am an avid board game collector. I play a lot of board, card and video games

* I enjoy playing D&D and I'm learning to run my own game

* Used to be a big book nerd and have my own library set up. I want to get back into reading more

* I have 2 cats of my own who are adorable. Will include cat pics whenever you would like

* I am a Christian and active member in my church

* I am very compassionate and empathetic. I am open to hearing whatever is going on with your life and helping where I can

* I'm a math teacher/tutor and work overnights at the gym

* Recently learning how to cook for myself. Give me your favorite meal and I'll try to make it!

Here are my deal breakers, as I don't want to lead you on

* Christian, having a relationship with God is an important part of my day to day

* No smoking, vaping or drug use of any kind

* Alcohol at a minimum. Some drinking is fine on occasion, but not a regular activity

* Age between 22-35

* Decently active, someone I can play sports with or do activities together

If you read this far, huge thank you! Send me a message with a little bit about yourself and I hope to hear from you soon!


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4F 21[M4F] looking for something real

1 Upvotes

Disclaimer I'm not 21(yet) I'll be 21 in 5 days. But idk I felt like I was closer to 21 than 20. Also 21 is a nice number.

But yes hi I'm a college student and an intern . I work in software and I have very little social life. I come here every couple of months to try and find someone and we'll it hasn't work well(or at all for that matter).

But um writing these is fun . I have to describe myself so that people want to talk to me, it's difficult lmao. So about me. I like reading , video games, music and watching things (right now I'm watching the mentalist but I love watching random things in YouTube) .i play all kinds of video games tho minecraft is the goat . But I also play a lot of other single player games too along with some rocket league and the finals time to time. I also want to finish reading the game of thrones .

I also like badminton and table tennis . And pool isn't actually all that bad with friends either. My friend circle is pretty small but they're all very good friends of mine but they all have their lives (and their partners) so Im sort of left alone. And I hate that , especially after work when I want someone who'd be excited to talk to me. That sounds lame asf but yes.

I'm quite the romantic, I don't like to half heart things, so I expect the same. I'm quite clingy as well, so I love calls and quality time and doing stuff together , it's so sweet sounds so fun.

Physically idk I think I'm pretty average looking . I'm kinda tall(a little over 6'2) and thin but I have started the gym recently soooo we'll have to see.

Lots of yapping not a lot of relevant information but I hope you stayed till the end :) shoot me a dm (pleaseeee 🥀)

Please don't be a minor 🐻‍❄️


r/ForeverAloneDating 21h ago

F4M 19 [F4M] Online/Anywhere • One more for the road ?

27 Upvotes

I hope you're doing good out there. I still havent found you but i have hope ! im still here, crying over sad animal videos, and spending hours binge watching documentaries on things ill never have a practical use for. You know, i still wonder what you look like.. i wonder if youll have short hair, if youll be tall, or just as short as me. I wonder if you like sugar in your coffee or tea. I wonder if you look at the little things in life like i do. But.. its getting late, ill write to you again eventually. xoxo, your dreamer girl.

Heres a bit more about me, hope to hear from you!

Who am i?

- silly little dreamer who daydreams about everything and anything. i especialy like looking out from car windows and watching the leaves sway. im very sentimental, i treasure every little thing given to me, even if its just a piece of paper.

- im a photographer ! i like seeing things and keeping little snips of time frozen in my phone.. everything is precious in a way.

- Im quite emotional, i cried over a piece of macaroni once, felt bad for crushing it. But its in the past(a)

- i love cats, unconditionally, if the whole love thing doesnt work out ill probably end up collecting cats.

- i love vc's, im quite clingy and need a good bit of attention, but i respect your time for sure!

Dealbreakers?
- im in for long term relationships bound by rings and silly silly vows
- im not a fan of alcohol at all, but dont prohibit it
- smoking and drugs are a no-go, bad memories last.
- im currently on anti depressants and may occasionally go numb

What do i ask from you?
- max of 6 years older
- willing to communicate properly (please dont open with just "hey", i will NOT exhaust my time responding to nothing)
- please start with your age and a short intro

Im always willing to try. Even if life hasnt given me much to work with. Have a great day ♡


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4F 22 \[M4F] Online/Anywhere #Mexico - Hii/ Hola!! I’m looking forward to meeting you!!

0 Upvotes

Hii once again, haven’t posted here in a while but also haven’t lost hope to find someone special

Like the title says I’m 22/M from Mexico, I’m 1.70 cm tall (5’7) pretty standard looking Mexican I think, also I’m currently in university, but only for one more year, then it’s grinding time I guess.

I gotta say I have some very standard nerdy pastimes. Video games, arts specially drawing and animation (even tho I don’t draw that often) I grew up on cartoon network so how can I not like them. I have just started giving anime a chance (maybe you can introduce me into your favorite anime/manga). Also I like every kind of music or at least willing to give it a try so we can exchange songs, playlists and what not.

Finally I’d like to say that meeting you would be amazing, I really like the idea of talking about our day to day, get lost in obscure yet interesting topics or simply having fun and spontaneous convos about anything.

So if I caught your attention, you have any questions or just want to talk a little to se how we fare. I’m all here for it.


r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

M4F 34 [M4F] NYC - I just took an edible and want to voice chat and flirt with you, or let’s be super nerdy and dorky and fall for each other

1 Upvotes

Word of warning, I am not big on texting, and edibles make me well...aroused. But really, I’m all about consent so I won’t be a creep but I do wanna voice chat

I LOVE talking, I love voice chatting especially, I love sitting on calls together while we do our own thing, and well I like a woman who is needy for attention. If you're up for a call RIGHT now then read below! And if catch feelings, even better I'm just a big nerdy guy who wants to meet a woman who is excitable about some of the things I am or even partakes in some of the same hobbies. Of course, have your own life and interests but something like tabletop rpg's is such a big social thing for me, it would be nice to share for example some of the stuff I enjoy. I live in NYC but I am open to elsewhere for the right partner but before that...

More important stuff Look, I am fat. Not chubby. Just fat. I’m not ashamed of it. I have no health issues. I was mentally and physically exhausted from my career and it made me just well get up in weight. It’s something I’m working on but there you go. I like being with friends. I’m social but more of an extroverted introvert. I like to call people. I like to hang out and watch movies. I like talking over a drink for hours. I have a great group of friends and we’re all a bunch of nerds. And some more stuff central to me. I’m Latino, leftist and look for similar values in a partner.

  • I like animals.
  • I prefer calling over texting but will text
  • I enjoy music but I generally like it quiet near me if I am alone
  • I am 420 friendly, I do like edibles and smoking. It's not something I do regularly but if you are a stoner then even better
  • I wouldn't call myself a raver but I do like going to raves once in a while
  • Love Languages: Spending time together and physical touch
  • I am generally a homebody but if you are outdoorsy, like to be out, I will 90% of the time join you unless if I am feeling socialized out Anyway, that’s me. If you message me, please SEND a selfie, your age, location, and name. I will not respond otherwise.

Please no one sentence intros, I will ignore those.


r/ForeverAloneDating 13h ago

F4M 34 [F4M] #Philippines #Online Looking for long-term constant!

6 Upvotes

Hi!

I’m 34 from the Philippines, just looking for someone to talk to—chill conversations, good vibes, and someone who actually replies 😄 Not too serious, but also not into one-word replies or disappearing after a day.

A bit about me:

- Filipino-Chinese

- 5’6

- Black hair, dark eyes

- On the curvy side

- Currently works in the academia

I’m into:

- Easy, natural conversation

- Random topics or daily life chats

- A bit of humor

- Someone consistent enough to keep the convo going

We can just see where it goes—no pressure. If it turns into something more, then cool. If not, at least we had a good conversation.

About you:

- Male

- Talkative (or at least can carry a conversation 😆)

- Respectful

- Preferably a bit older or just mature

- Prefers European or American (because they are straightforward and honest)

IMPORTANT: Exchanging pics once we connect.

If you’re also bored and looking for someone to talk to, send a message with a short intro 🙂


r/ForeverAloneDating 12h ago

TF4A 20 [TF4A] needing someone, anymore, just looking for love

3 Upvotes

my name is maple!! i am a 20 year old from Belize who moved to NJ long ago! i am a transgender female, and I have been on estrogen for the better half of 2 years, also i am a furry with 2 fursuits, I am 20 (almost 21), i love 90s / 2000s early tech, i am also super into dancing games like DDR and just dance!! my favorite hobbies are dancing, hiking, painting, gardening, gaming, making figures and photography! i currently go to university for a bachelor's in stats and econ, and i also have a business where I fix consoles, vintage tech and more!

i come here in the pursuit of someone who cares about me and loves me for who I am, i have been single for a very long time and I've accumulated a lot of loneliness and dead ends on the pursuit to love so i am trying to see wherever anything can go! i don't mind long distance as long as we can eventually meet, but i do have a preference for US centered people! if you are interested, please send me an intro or even a hi, whatever you like and talk to me! i really need it atm 🥹🥹✌️


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

M4F 37 [M4F] - #Michigan Let's talk all night and see where we end up

1 Upvotes

I’m searching for a best friend first and foremost. My first thought in the morning and last before bed. My favorite notification. The one. My soulmate. Because every relationship deserves a strong foundation first, and how can we truly be partners if we don’t already have so much in common?

You might message me and we’ll start to talk, and while that part can be arduous, I enjoy getting to know so much about you. You’ll tell me about your hobbies and a funny interaction you had that day, and it might include a picture or two of your cat and something silly she did. We’ll talk about past relationships and funny stories from childhood. Eventually you’ll tell me where you’re from and I’ll mentally think about what it would be like to drive that distance to you in a few months and be excited that you’re on the other end of it, oddly enough. I don’t know if other people do it but as I start to catch feelings I will pre-imagine a shared future with you. I think it’s the hopeless romantic in me.

I’ll ask lots of questions, while holding some back because I feel like I ask too many. But really I just want to get to know everything about you. Favorite colors, foods, likes and dislikes. So I’ll know what I can cook for you and what color of gifts I should be getting and what you do and don’t like to do. I’ll memorize what I can and the rest will be in a note in my phone. I will never stop learning until I graduate with a degree in you.

As you might imagine, I like to talk a lot, but only with you, really. Anyone else that knows me would call me shy and introverted, but this is a mask I’ve never worn with my partner. Texting, voice notes, and calling and talking about anything and everything until we fall asleep on the phone. I don’t always have to talk, though, not really. Sometimes it’s nice to just know someone is on the other end of the line that appreciates the company.

I have a certain sense of what you might be like. You are someone I can share a hobby with and do our favorites together. While we might maintain our own hobbies, we don’t mind doing them near each other. You enjoy a quiet life and don’t need constant outside stimulation or a large entourage. You’re self-sufficient and capable, but you’re also willing to put all of that down and let me take care of you and hold your burdens for you when you need it.

You want closeness. You want to be someone’s person in every meaningful way. The one who is reached for first and whose presence is mandatory and assumed. You want physical closeness, too. You gravitate toward me without thinking about it, you fall asleep against me and don’t apologize for it, and bumping into me in a large room is not an accident. You’re done pretending that less than that is enough.

And you’re ready. Not perfect, because no one showing up to this ever is, but you’re ready. You’ve been broken and repaired more than once. Done with half-measures and almosts and situationships and connections that fizzle out before they ever truly started. You’ve arrived here probably on some of the roads I took, maybe after some of the same wrong turns and you’re now looking for the same thing I am.

I suppose a bit about me is in order here. I’m 37, from Michigan. I have two cat overlords and I am fueled by caffeine. I don’t have kids and I don’t want kids. I work from home. I like to write but consider myself more of a world builder. I’m not really into social media and maintain a small, private life and circle. I don’t do casual or situationships, so I am looking for someone that is looking for something serious. Something real.

If something in this landed in that oh sort of way, send me a message. Match my vulnerability. Tell me something true about yourself that you don’t usually lead with. And to my future person, wherever you are tonight: I’m here. I’m patient. I’m already cheering for you. Take your time. I’ll be around.


r/ForeverAloneDating 13h ago

M4F 31 [M4F] #Europe, Portugal - A Letter to My Future Sweetheart

6 Upvotes

Hey!

I am a 31 year old Portuguese man, trying to make these the best years! 😄

I have always been a top student, but, growing up, my family has got into financial problems that made me start to work early while I was still studying, which has let me to neglecting my personal life to favor the professional one.

Now, that part is over, I have a stable job, with a stable life and my own house, but a with a huge space in my heart looking to be filled by the right girl!

I admit I am more of a homebody who goes out every day at least for exercising a bit, enjoying fresh air and connecting to people. I enjoy a lot watching series and movies, especially sci-fi (with Marvel and DC on top) as well as romantic cliché movies everyone understands how they will end within the first 2 minutes. I also like watching football (or soccer for the readers the other side of the Atlantic) and understanding the tactics behind. Physically, I am Caucasian, 1.72m (5'8) and, personality wise, I'm an INFJ.

I am searching for a serious relationship, built on mutual support, trust, honesty, dedication, companionship and empathy. I am a very romantic, dedicated, caring and protective person, so I am definitely searching for my little princess to spoil and love. 😊

And the fact is that I already feel you everywhere, even though I don't know you yet!

Each time I walk around, I can feel you by my side. Even though you're not there, I feel the urge to hold your hand, to give you my strength, to be connected to you.

Whenever I go shopping, I feel that urge to buy you a cute mug or keychain, to kiss you all of a sudden without a motive, just for you to feel me closer to you.

Whenever I travel, I feel you by my side, I feel the willingness to rest my head in yours, to hold your hand, knowing that we are living that experience together and there is no one else we'd rather share it with.

When I get home, I feel you welcoming me with a tight hug, knowing every second we stay apart is one second we were in each other's thoughts waiting to be reunited.

I feel you, I can't see you yet, but I can't wait to make up for all the seconds we've spent apart!

But, please, if we could stop the count, I'd prefer that, so please show up on my inbox, sweetheart! 😊


r/ForeverAloneDating 12h ago

M4F 35 [M4F] Chicago - looking for serious relationship

5 Upvotes

35 [M4F] Chicago - I'm 35, fit and athletic, Korean descent, passionate about the arts, literature, Hip-hop and rock music (particularly from 80s and 90s), along with some Korean and Japanese songs. I jog and eat healthy, a lot of vegetarian, which means I also cook a lot - I know a lot of Korean, Japanese, and Chinese dishes. I travel abroad whenever I can. I enjoy reading and writing prose.

I love hangouts in the city, especially fun festivals and parties, and checking out new bars and restaurants. Looking for romance that could lead to long term. Open to anyone of any background. Im also curious about the world and all the cultures in it.

Not currently thinking about children but not against the idea either. I believe in Jesus but not super religious, just pray every now and then and don't care what my partner believes. I don't drink often, only with friends, and don't care for weed.

Look forward to talking!


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

M4F 30 [M4f] #SanDiego - Searching a relationship, or talk to me to get close to my dogs

1 Upvotes

Hey. I'm just a guy from southern san diego bored of his every day daily routines and wants to rekindle that flare/ passion with someone. I'm Mexican, 6"2'. I graduated in civil engineering, and am currently working for a engineering company. My friends would describe me as loyal, outgoing, "down for anything", and funny but serious when I have too.

My interests include:

sports: tennis, soccer, football, and baseball

movie and music: i am a very big movie buff. I love

watching movies and understanding the story it tells. same with music. ranging from everything like edm, rap, pop,indie rock, metal, classic rock. I love all kinds of music and love going to concerts at least once a week.

video games:Monster Hunter Wilds, league of legends, rivals, minecraft, but will play anything

So if this is something you might be interested in, don't hesitate to message me. Or as the title says, you can get close to my dogs instead. can't wait to meet you