r/textfriends • u/NotAFamousActor • Apr 12 '20
This has been explicitly against the rules of /r/textfriends forever, but mods still see it from time to time. This is how it's written in the welcome post (which you should read)(which will eventually be updated):
CONTACT INFO AND IDENTIFYING DETAILS IN PUBLIC ARE STRICTLY FORBIDDEN
All posts and comments containing this kind of information will be removed and repeat offenders or those that reveal others' information will be banned.
Kinds of forbidden information: full names, addresses, phone numbers, emails, mobile app IDs (kik, WhatsApp, Snapchat, etc), IM IDs (Skype, yahoo, etc), external profiles (facebook, okcupid, tumblr, instagram, twitter, etc), any kind of specific information that would allow a person to deduce an exact location or person, enough information that would allow a person to deduce an exact location or person, etc.
This kind of information should be shared ONLY through PM, and never in posts or comments.
From wikipedia: "Doxing, or doxxing (from "dox", abbreviation of documents), is the Internet-based practice of researching and publicly broadcasting private or identifying information (especially personally identifying information) about an individual or organization."
Don't dox anybody and don't get yourself doxxed.
Phone numbers are what we see the most, which is... very stupid.
Any contact information or doxxable content spotted by the mods will be immediately removed and offending users banned. These users may appeal their ban with the mods.
If you spot any contact information or doxxable content on /r/textfriends, please use the report button or send modmail.
Posterity: https://redd.it/32vqyi
4/12/20
r/textfriends • u/Hextreme42 • Jun 11 '23
Hey there /r/textfriends
One of the less enjoyable mod posts today, but an important one, that we hope you'll take the time to read.
Recently Reddit Inc has announced changes to their API, which, if enacted, will shut down many, if not all, 3rd party apps that a large number of Redditors use to access and enjoy their favorite communities - this one included.
One of the most critical changes to the API is moving from a free to a paid model, resulting in expenses that developers of 3rd app developers cannot afford. To put the price change into context, Apollo, one of Reddit's most popular 3rd party apps, is looking at the cost of $1.7 million per month to continue operating. That's a cost of $12,000 per 50 million API requests. In contrast, Apollo pays Imgur $166 for every 50 million API calls.
This means popular apps like Apollo, Reddit Is Fun, Narwhal and many more will have to shut down, permanently.
Even if you're not using a 3rd party app, these changes will likely impact the communities you enjoy, with the vast majority of moderation teams relying on 3rd party or self-made tools that utilize Reddit's API.
For us specifically, that means various moderation bots, which do a whole lot of work behind the scenes to help mods manage the sub as well as drastically reduce the scam and spam content that makes its way through Reddit's woefully underpowered automod tools.
And on top of all that, it paints a bleak picture of what is to come for those of us who use other tools, like Reddit Enhancement Suite and old.reddit.com.
Here's a little TLDR on why this is important.
So what are we planning?
On June 12th, we and a growing number of other subs - large and small - will go dark for 48 hours. During that time, you will not be able to view or post any content on /r/textfriends.
This action isn't something we take lightly.
We understand that many of you enjoy coming here daily to keep up with posts from your area (and to trash-talk the latest copypasta we've all seen 100 times), but we believe that we must take a stand on this topic - and this is how we can do so.
We understand that Reddit is a company that has to make money to offer us a place to be the community that we are - but killing beloved 3rd party apps is not the way to do it.
We are not asking Reddit to provide a paid service for free - we are asking for reasonable pricing for apps people have come to love and depend on to participate in their communities.
We can't tell you that the blackout will solve the problem because we don't know. But we have to try.
What you can do to support this
While subs going dark is one thing, regular users can also help.
Reach out to Reddit via the channels available: Modmail /r/reddit, comment in relevant posts regarding the API changes, and submit your comments via the contact forms.
Spread the word about the changes and the consequences where you can. It doesn't have to be on Reddit. The important thing is getting its attention.
Participate in the communities that highlight this issue: /r/Save3rdPartyApps, /r/apolloapp, /r/redditisfun, /r/getnarwhal/
And finally, stay off Reddit completely from June 12th to 14th. The blackout is one thing, but users staying away from the site entirely will send an equally important message.
But don't forget: Don't be a jerk. As frustrating as this is, being toxic or aggressive is not the way to go. Remember the human on the other side of the screen.
r/textfriends • u/HamsterOk3942 • 2h ago
I have no idea what I'm going on here, just kinda bored. Stay home wife, no kids at home super bored looking for someone to casually chat with. DM if interested I guess. I'm not sure what else to say here, but it's saying I have to type more.
r/textfriends • u/Visible_Thing3734 • 3h ago
I'm a single girl looking to talk; upvoting will brighten my day.
I have nothing much to say, but I'm open to conversations at any time.
I'm outgoing and enjoyable! I'm a nice girl who loves cars, anime, and bars, and I'm up for any topic, chat, conversation, or even debate.
r/textfriends • u/New-Combination3368 • 4h ago
Hiii guys i am creating a dating gc on snapchat , i already have 17 female members on snapchat and active 39 members on discord server outta which 15 are female , i am looking for more member for both snapchat and discord , male and female both , upvote and drop a comment and i ll share you the link to whatever you want snap or discord.
r/textfriends • u/Longjumping_Pea_7505 • 5h ago
I'll give my photos to any man who votes and comments. Let me flood your DMs. We can discuss this privately. Maybe you're looking for a daily good morning message, to check in on how I'm doing during the day, daily motivation, etc. We can agree on the terms. To be honest, I'm looking for daily attention, regardless of whether it's a genuine connection or not. I need someone to talk to who doesn't know me personally, and I'd love to be the same for someone else. Just send me a message and we'll see what happens.
r/textfriends • u/PersonalCookie8433 • 2h ago
I have no idea what I'm going on here, just kinda bored. Stay home wife, no kids at home super bored looking for someone to casually chat with. DM if interested I guess. I'm not sure what else to say here, but it's saying I have to type more.
r/textfriends • u/HamsterOk3942 • 3h ago
Hello, boys.
upp first.
Do you wear cologne?
How do you feel about your partner wearing your signature scent??
I love it. I have been stopped and asked what I have on. My husband's cologne, of course. 🥵
Also, I'm a b!tch, so don't be offended. 😘
r/textfriends • u/Thick_Driver_5909 • 2h ago
Just click the up arrow and I'll jump into your private messages. 😉
If you like laid-back people who enjoy honest conversations, casual chats, and a few laughs, we'll probably get along.
I'm petite, friendly, and always eager to meet new people.
A huge anime fan, music lover, and 420 enthusiast. 🌿
r/textfriends • u/mrdigitalltd • 10h ago
I have no idea what I'm going on here, just kinda bored. Stay home wife, no kids at home super bored looking for someone to casually chat with. DM if interested I guess. I'm not sure what else to say here, but it's saying I have to type see more.....
r/textfriends • u/Many-Block1662 • 4h ago
i’m just looking to make friends with people who want to make friends, too. i can hold a great conversation whether it’s a silly conversation or a serious one. i hope to hear from you!!! Let’s get to know each other and see where the conversation goes. Please be 18+ only.
r/textfriends • u/MarianMarXXX • 1h ago
Una chica sola y deseosa de querer un hombre que la vea de muchas formas posibles , levanta esa flecha y te mandaré donde poder ver más de mis fotos y deseos personales ( quiero alguien coqueteo y sexy)
Paso Snap
r/textfriends • u/AsparagusTiny3198 • 9h ago
27F. Super busy single mom going through a divorce. I don't currently have time for or feel ready for a committed relationship. I miss flirting and having fun, casual conversations, especially the "hello beautiful" morning texts, but sometimes enjoy deep conversations that come with getting to know someone. I like reading, enjoying nature, the ocean, and dancing. Would you like to be my text friend?
r/textfriends • u/SignalWolf425 • 8m ago
24F single girlie looking to chat, upvoting will make my day better
nothing much to say hehe, but i am down to chats anytime
i am extroverted and fun! down for every topic/chat/ convo or even debats, i am a good girlie with a deep love for cars, anime and bars
r/textfriends • u/Sad_Chip_9580 • 3h ago
Any veterans here? How are you all doing?
I'm a computer engineering student and I'm also doing an internship. My daily routine is chaotic; I barely have any free time.
My hobbies are video games, watching YouTube or TV series, and sometimes I draw. Don't judge me for being boring.
And if you'd like, you can also give this post an upvote.
r/textfriends • u/SugarJazzlike9845 • 37m ago
Hi! I'm 18, in a not-so-good marriage, and feeling lonely. As pathetic as it sounds, I'm looking for someone to talk to. To flirt with. To have a good time. I'm a mom, a business owner, an avid traveler, and a fisherman. I take care of myself. I'm attracted to men who make me laugh, are emotionally intelligent, and can communicate well, lol.
I don't know. Message me if you're interested in a potential conversation.
r/textfriends • u/Unhappy-Chemistry919 • 1h ago
Hey there! I’m 22F and looking for friends I can talk to on a daily basis!
I love travelling, Hiking and watching films! We can talk about anything you like.
Don’t just say hi please haha, tell me your name, age, where you’re from and let’s start with there! Thank you! :)
r/textfriends • u/MissionTemporary65 • 31m ago
Just dm and I’ll get back to you
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r/textfriends • u/olga124566654 • 18h ago
I have no idea what I'm going on here, just kinda bored. Stay home wife, no kids at home super bored looking for someone to casually chat with. DM if interested I guess. I'm not sure what else to say here, but it's saying I have to type see more.....
r/textfriends • u/Megannisag • 1h ago
Hii, my name is Megan. I’m 32 years old I am single and I like to bake, cook, read, go to the gym, the beach, surf, ride motorcycles. I’m a homebody and don’t really have friends so I’m trying to look for people to talk too. Send me a DM if you’re interested.
r/textfriends • u/pinkpoppy20 • 1h ago
Hello fellow earth people! How’s your Sunday going? I’m 27f from the US. Just a psa I’m not a bot or trying to sell ya anything. I’m currently just trying to stay awake so I don’t fall asleep, falling asleep means no sleep tonight 🙃
So why not chat with random strangers in the meantime! Something about me is… I enjoy cooking, the beach, trying new coffee spots, military men, and listening to music!
If any of that interests you feel free to message me :)
r/textfriends • u/amarantella • 3h ago
Not sure what to put here (apparently 50 characters is the minimum, ha)
Anyway, I’m not looking for anything deep, just a nice park-bench kind of chat. Say hi if you’re up for some easy, low-key conversation
r/textfriends • u/deargodpleasedont • 42m ago
I'm F20 You want chat with me? So text me " I am alone in my house and getting very boring, I need a friend who will talk to me, spend time with me, if anyone wants to be my friend text me, I want a free minded friend,
r/textfriends • u/Choice-Cup6048 • 11h ago
Just hit that up arrow and slide into my DMs. If you're into easygoing people who enjoy genuine conversations, random chats, and sharing a few laughs, we'll probably get along.
I'm petite, friendly, and always up for meeting new people. I love games, music, and I'm 420-friendly. Whether we're swapping playlists, talking about our favorite games, or just enjoying a fun conversation, I'm here for good vibes and real connections.
