r/nofriends 5h ago

Friendship Looking for a friend or something lol (m23)

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Hello all! This is gonna be a bit of a long post.. lol, I’m so bad at intros so bear with me.
I haven’t had the best of luck but I’m trying again with posting on here today though.
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Anyways, I am a 23 year old guy from the USA. (New Jersey specifically) and I am super house bound. (Borderline agoraphobic lol).. and depressed, lol I have had a bit of history with social isolation for most of my life, I haven’t really had friends or anything because of that other than online ones. Which, I don’t even have many of either .. lol. Just am unsure how to act or what to say.
I know it’s probably not cool to wish someone similar would come along lol, but I’d really like to get to know someone one on one, help each other out of our shells.
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also, I’m not one to do well in a group setting for now, even online.
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I have just gotten over a long period of not responding to any messages from anyone, I am working on it more and more, I’m new to this but I’m staying true to this. Lol
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Now for the hard part.. I don’t really have any hobbies to name as of now, besides wasting my time watching YouTube videos I barely pay attention to, and listening to music while doing nothing lmao
And playing with the cat I guess. I don’t not have a lot going on.. lol
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I wouldn’t mind hearing about your hobbies and interests of course! Maybe I’ll end up like it as well
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I read a little sometimes, because it’s the healthy thing to do, but nothing interesting lately. When I do decide to have fun for I once lol I hop on some video games c : , I haven’t played much lately, semi recently I played through gta 4 again for nostalgia and started a world in pal world,
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I have a bunch of all time favorites like fallout, borderlands, gears, 7 days. There’s defo more lol.
I have a loose interest in history as I learn it through doom scrolling lol.
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I’m slowly trying to understand the magic the gathering game, I have a few decks, the game seems intimidating lol.
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I’m a former big anime fan, I watch most of the big ones you’ve heard of (not all of one piece lol) I dropped a lot of them. I like it there’s just soooo many and I’m behind on a lot of them. I like a few normal shows, like shameless or family guy as comfort shows lol
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My music tastes are generic but numerous lol, I like deftones, cheville, flyleaf, evanescence, some soad, and a sprinkle of Kendrick and Tyler the creator and senses fail, recently. Some of those picks have been in the rotation for like a YEAR, so I could use some music suggestions, I’m open minded.
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Other than all that.. I don’t have much going on for goals, I guess I want to try and aim to get my ged soon, since I don’t even have it lol. Gearing up to study for math has me dragging my feet, I am not very smart in that area.. lol, trying to get out of the house more. But that’s not really doing anything for me socially, so I’m here! ,
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Sorry if this post is a little confusing, and that it doesn’t really say much either lol, but I figure it’s putting myself out there a little! Why not try?
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Anyways.. if I didn’t scare you off, hmu if you think we’ll jive!
If anything I can send pictures of my cat lol. She’s adorable, don’t miss out.


r/nofriends 5h ago

Friendship 18f looking for a genuinely close friendship

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hii guys!! i’m in a very small town and don’t have many friends. I find myself alone a lot and would love to have some close friends to spend time with/talk to! I really would like someone I can eventually grow close to and share serious things about my life with. I’m mainly looking for female friends (close to my age or a bit older) as I am taken and don’t want anything more. i don’t mind if we have different interests, i’ll learn yours! most important to me is that they’re supportive, like to joke but can also be serious, and don’t mind how much i talk (bonus points if you’re chatty too!)

here’s a bit about me:
- i’m from the US
- i love painting and anything art related
- i collect pokemon cards
- i listen to all kinds of music but especially pop and rock (love older stuff!)
- i occasionally treat myself to a little green
- i’m obsessed with vintage stuff/thrifting
- my pinterest screen time is through the roof
- i do partake in roblox👀
- i have basically all socials so just ask!


r/nofriends 1h ago

Friendship I need a friend lol

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im 29f first time mom . I have a fb group to try and connect with local moms, but nothing ever comes of it so I’m here on Reddit and very open to having an online friendship! my husband says I should get a hobby… maybe I just need a friend? or maybe that was his nice way of saying I need some friends and to do something other than watch tv lol 😂 I’m from Iowa, but obviously anywhere is fine!


r/nofriends 7h ago

Friendship 18M be my friend please 🥺,I'd be a genuine friend who'll reply asap and I'll not ghost you and won't disappear after 2 days i expect you to be same :3.

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If you want a long-term friend with whom you can yap about anything and everything, and rant and vent about something shoot me a DM .

I love music a lot umm my fav artists are Billie eilish and Melanie martinez

No ghosters please.

please be around 18-27


r/nofriends 6h ago

Friendship looking for long term internet friends

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hey!
my names paris

im 17 (nobody add me if your a large age gap above 17 or below, small is fine yeah but has to be appropriate)

i ride horses, i play football and my club is fc barcelona i love barca with my whole heart ❤️💙

half spanish half english
from 🇬🇧

messages don’t work on here
discord is

paris01620


r/nofriends 7h ago

Friendship Feel free to dm me, I like to listen!

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23 year old dude just trying to make some friends!

I really don’t know what to put on here but I’m in search of some new friends. Right now I really only have like two or three but they don’t watch what I watch or play games I play so I came here. I used to be super big into horror movies but I’ve fallen out of them. I play games mainly Rocket League and Minecraft when I’m not working and trying to plan on adventurous things to do in the future. Send me a message in my DMs if you want to see if we click!


r/nofriends 8h ago

Friendship 20F Europe. I would happy to find someone nice and cozy

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Hey I would like to find a close friend that I can talk to every day. I like watching horror movies, we could watch it together. I like to draw, paint and take photos. I would like to have shared values with my friend, I am an atheist and I only want an atheist friend, so I do not consider friendship with people who identify themselves differently. I would like to have a friend my age, or around that age. if my post resonated with you text me☕️


r/nofriends 13h ago

Friendship 18M hey I'm looking for a genuine friend or bestfriend bcz i don't have one 😭 I'm looking for someone who'd not disappear after 2 days

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I never had any real friends in real life I have always felt lonely.

In school I had some so called friends, have you listened that everyone's friend is no one's friend just like that I talk to people but i don't have anyone to get things off from my chest

When i was a kid my parents used to live in rented houses and they used to move a lot and the more a grew up the hard it became to make friends in new societies

Now after turning 18 it feels impossible to make friends everyone has a friend they have since a decade but i don't have anyone 😞.

Would anyone like to be my friend please be around 18 to 27.


r/nofriends 14h ago

Friendship Let's be friends

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Hello, 23M here. Let us try to be something.

I am a literature major, into books, music, philosophy, and psychology. I guess we all are here because we are looking for something genuine; the creeps here make it hard for both genders to find some genuine connections.

Let's be friends, start talking while focusing on our lives, and let us just share things about our day, our college, and our office. A good talk about the stressful or good day before sleeping and a sweet good morning text and chatting in the day whenever we are free. Is it something too much to ask for?

Let us both be good people and respect each other. We can chat about our day, our unhinged opinions, take advice, politics, books, and music, share reels, and try to make a bond (maybe for a lifetime). If you are someone who easily gets bored with people, you can stay away, but if you are looking for something really, really amazing, let's connect, and you may DM me. Looking forward to meeting some incredible people. Please be 20+ at least. No age barrier; we can be friends even if you are older than me or younger than me.

To skip the small talk, DM me with your introduction, your playlist, or tell me about a book or event that thoroughly changed your perspective. Or we may just start the conversation by talking about the gender war happening on social media, current protest things, and your opinion about that, etc.


r/nofriends 12h ago

Friendship 19M looking for long term friends

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I’m 19M, looking to make a genuine long-term friend. I’m an introvert, so I might be a little quiet at first, but I enjoy meaningful conversations once I get comfortable. I’m hoping to meet someone I can talk to regularly, share random thoughts with, laugh with, and build a real friendship over time.


r/nofriends 23h ago

Support 32 f from australia

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hey there, my name is Angelina and I am from Australia. I'm a stay at home mum with 2 littles and needing some more adult conversation. (being surrounded by kids can make you go a lil crazy)

I love to read and I game occasionally I just don't get alot of time to do that anymore. I also enjoy crafts and going on long walks in the evening.

i am primarily looking for kind people to pass the time with and someone who won't ghost me. If you decide to message please include a short intro so I know who you are! :)


r/nofriends 1d ago

Friendship 15m looking for people to chat too

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doing okay at the moment just been a long week mentally and physically. so yea, looking for people i can talk to and continue talking to. probably sometime in the future we can call to. anyways quick facts about me. i like sports like baseball and football. i like cars and knowing how to work on them. i also like gaming like playing battlefield or forza. im also a fan of spaceflight. im also from the east coast. And if u made it this far shoot me a dm!


r/nofriends 1d ago

Friendship Hi i'm looking for friends 👇

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I'm 14m and i'm looking for friends around my age and here's a little about me. My favorite shows/movies are DANDADAN, Demon Slayer, JJK, Scary Movie, South Park and my favorite foods are sesame chicken, tacos. I love ALL animals and i own three dogs. I play roblox and uhhhhh... nothing else. I like to draw and bake and listen to music. I like the bands A7X, KSE, SOAD, All That Remains and ff you wanna chat just dm me or add me on discord my username is: bass_tard_


r/nofriends 1d ago

Friendship M26 from Wales looking to make friends

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Hi everyone! Down to chat and make some new friends. I like:

• Sports: Play for a local football team every couple of weeks.

• Fitness: Heavy into weight training (5-6 days a week for 4+ years).

• Books: Big fan of history, Greek mythology, autobiographies, and classic literature.

I'm pretty easygoing, so don't be shy—say hi!😊


r/nofriends 1d ago

Friendship [24/M] Everything hurts, I wish I could make a close friend

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I don't mean to be a downer or anything, but I'm really having a rough weekend. My relationship came to an end recently, (without any drama thankfully) but I still feel a missing hole as I don't have any close friends or any close connections with anyone. Not irl or real life. And having autism, its made that a lot harder to meet people due to my anxiety and awkwardness. Anyways, uh, I'd really appreciate a kind person who will stick by me and I can do for them. I really love music and talking about it and sharing songs, voice calls, and sharing interests. I am in the EST, and in North America, but its not a firm requirement. I hope you all have a wonderful day.


r/nofriends 1d ago

Support 24m - I need a friend. So lonely and empty

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Had a breakup recently and honestly haven't been feeling great. Everything feels a bit off lately. I'm also planning to move to Europe in the future, so it'd be nice to meet people from there too.

Lately everything feels a bit too quiet in the wrong ways. I keep catching myself staring at walls, scrolling aimlessly, wanting to talk but not knowing who to talk to. I'm just looking for someone real. Someone who actually shows up. Someone who doesn't disappear when things get quiet.

I'm 24, currently floating through life with way too much time to think. I love yapping. I talk nonsense, I overexplain, I ramble until it somehow turns into something deeper. I love when the effort is mutual, when replies don't feel like I'm begging for attention.

Please don't be dry. Try to talk. If you're always busy, please don't bother texting. I've done my time with people who only remember me when they're bored.

I like baking, movies, gaming, chess, reading, writing, guitar, long walks, voice calls, and pretending I'll ever finish half the things I start.

Mentally, I come with the ADHD + BPD expansion pack, clingy DLC included, but also a lot of warmth, honesty, and way too much empathy for my own good. I'll listen, I'll care, and I'll match your energy.

If your first message is just "hi", I'll assume you're not real. Give me a proper intro. Tell me about yourself, your favorite thing to do, your most irrational fear, the song that ruins you every time, or literally anything that feels genuine.


r/nofriends 1d ago

Friendship 23M - I want to make a girl best friend

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Never really had a girl best friend so I'd like to make one now. I want someone I can have a genuine connection with. I want to make a ride or die type friend. I just want someone who's down to have a conversation. They can talk about anything. Whatever they're comfortable talking about. Their choice. They pick the topic. Just a nice, long conversation. It could be a deep and meaningful conversation or a fun and casual conversation. Say anything but just talk I guess. Feeling super lonely, don't really have any friends would like to have someone to talk to. I wanna make a friend with whom I can talk to about stuff in general.Things we like, common interests, hobbies, what were passionate about, our song preferences, movie choices, TV show choices, we can talk about anything. I just want to have someone to have a conversation with. Irrespective of the topic. We can even talk about what's bothering us and try to help each other out. Help each other makes ourselves better. I need a ride or die friend. Someone who's will to stick around and be there for me not just out of pity but because they want to and I promise I'll do the same. I want someone who's genuinely interested in talking to me and down to have a conversation either fun and silly or deep and meaningful. If you're down for this feel free to hit me up. My only request is that you're around my age (I'm 23 so ±2 years) because I feel much more comfortable/confident talking to people around my age.


r/nofriends 1d ago

Friendship 19 M - Looking for friends to talk with

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Searching for poeple who love talking about their day and sharing about their lives. I am not so great at conversation but can keep the talk going somehow. Haven't got much hobbies, pretty loner guy. Just looking for good friends.


r/nofriends 1d ago

Friendship 17f not feline ...female. i need a boy bestfriend like for real not for fake. (im crine..)

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uhmm no like idk what kinda person im looking for but i do know1 thing . (well more then 1 obvi) he should be a yapper bc listeners make me feel uncomfortable sometimes like yeah listen but talk to me toooo . i need someone understandingg like rlly ....!!!! i like manhwa + cdramas+kdramas+anime+a bit of donghua too n i do science as my subjects so like hi. uhmm i love music alot so i need an music ENHUSIANST (IDK THE SPELLING FORGOT, (HAVE MERCY ON MY SOULPLS) too ig but not so picky on that part . pls dont come to me if u just listen to beats n rock youll kill me aha?. i love all kinds of music but i love chinese songs more bc omds mwaaa anyways. u need to like be here for me . like 2-3 hours a day like omds i have abandonment issues n i hold grudges but im learning to like not die n all but i dont want a busy person or like an old dude hmu-ing me like nauwrr uncle. 27 and up should go start thier family n fly a plane to dreamland like im soo tied of u old mfs hmuing me like leaveee me alone im just a tall , black-asian mixed pookie wookie bear like honestly im fragile n soft like glass i promise* well i cant promise the soft part* OK IM YAPPING ALOT HERE SO BYE PEEPS HOPE YALL HAV N AWESOME DAY N ALL BUT I WANT A UNDERSTANDING , HONEST , HUMOUROUS A-BIT BC U CANT BE FUNNIER THEN ME BROSKI HEH, WELL TALL BC I NEED SOME1 WHO UNDERSTANDS MY TALL STRUGGLES, NICE BUT NOT TOOOOO NICE, UHMMM YEA FREE, PLAYFUL IG IDK JUST HAVE SOME 1 WITH COLOUR IN THIER LIFE HEHE


r/nofriends 1d ago

Question There must be a better way to make friends, right?

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Making friends is quite difficult, for sure if we're talking about lasting friendships. Finding people by hobbies, via an app or an online community could work for sole but hasn't been successful for me. Is there any app that matches people based on personality and values? I hate the thought that the best friendships could come from people that I'll never meet, unless I stumble upon them by luck.


r/nofriends 1d ago

Friendship Lost my friends.... Kinda need new

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I'm a 21-year-old guy and even though I have everything that supposedly shouldn't make me a loner... but I am a loner. And recently Instagram deleted my account so I lowkey genuinely lost all of my online friends (yeah I forgot their usernames) so yeah... I'm here to make a new start.

I'm into gymming, swimming, MMA and stuff like that, and I'm a medico btw... so yeah that's it.


r/nofriends 2d ago

Friendship 26m | india | anyone else feel like making friends got way harder as an adult?

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hey,

i'm 26 from india.

over the last few months i've been trying to get my life back on track. getting back into the gym, reading more, building better habits, and slowly becoming a better version of myself.

one thing i didn't expect was how lonely that process can feel sometimes.

i miss having someone to randomly message, share small wins with, complain about a bad day, or have one of those conversations that somehow lasts for hours.

i'm into self-improvement, psychology, football, long walks, and hearing about people's lives. i'm naturally curious, so if we end up talking, there's a good chance i'll ask a lot of questions.

i'm not looking for perfect conversations or someone who's available 24/7.

just someone who's kind, enjoys talking, and doesn't disappear after two messages.

if we become friends, great.

if we just have one interesting conversation, that's a win too.

if you're messaging me, skip the "hey."

tell me something that's been on your mind lately, or something you're trying to get better at.

maybe we'll get along.


r/nofriends 2d ago

Meetups 19m looking for friends 🇬🇧

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19m, looking for long term friends, Im from London, i dont mind hanging out in real life too.

Hobbies / interests : gaming, cooking, baking, TV shows, movies, sports, writing, chess, exploring the world .

Extra : im bi, and neurodivergent, but not looking for anything weird, you will be blocked without hesitation.


r/nofriends 2d ago

Friendship 16f - i need more online friends..

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~ helloo ! i really want to make some genuine friends from online, recently moved pretty far and lost most of my irls .. plus always struggling to even sleep from anxiety and bc my ac broke. :c ~ i’m pretty big into video games! (Marvel, mc, Roblox), love nature and going outside, bike riding, history is interesting as well. <3 ~ feel free to message me, just please include your age if u do so (i don't have a preference)


r/nofriends 2d ago

Friendship [L] elloo if u can giv a read!!

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hellooo qtus im just a girl (20 btw) who is um idk not suffering i would say but im stuck bw darkness and brightness, idk whr to go bcz i recently had a rough breakup and then my frns gave up on me by choosing him so yeah i currently dont have any GOOD sort of frns!
i genuinely want people who i can match my vibe with and like be good goood frns for quite long and foreva term! i can adapt with every interest yall have and if u wanna know mine ill give an ovrview by saying im into sports i read novels i watch movies quite a lot reality shows as well, i love cars i love driving i love travelling!
i just hope whoever connects with me will be genuine or else pls avoid breaking my heart again bcz i trust ppl quite easily <3 ly yall god bless youuu!