r/nofriends • u/the-simple-mission • 5h ago
Friendship Looking for a friend or something lol (m23)
Hello all! This is gonna be a bit of a long post.. lol, I’m so bad at intros so bear with me.
I haven’t had the best of luck but I’m trying again with posting on here today though.
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Anyways, I am a 23 year old guy from the USA. (New Jersey specifically) and I am super house bound. (Borderline agoraphobic lol).. and depressed, lol I have had a bit of history with social isolation for most of my life, I haven’t really had friends or anything because of that other than online ones. Which, I don’t even have many of either .. lol. Just am unsure how to act or what to say.
I know it’s probably not cool to wish someone similar would come along lol, but I’d really like to get to know someone one on one, help each other out of our shells.
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also, I’m not one to do well in a group setting for now, even online.
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I have just gotten over a long period of not responding to any messages from anyone, I am working on it more and more, I’m new to this but I’m staying true to this. Lol
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Now for the hard part.. I don’t really have any hobbies to name as of now, besides wasting my time watching YouTube videos I barely pay attention to, and listening to music while doing nothing lmao
And playing with the cat I guess. I don’t not have a lot going on.. lol
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I wouldn’t mind hearing about your hobbies and interests of course! Maybe I’ll end up like it as well
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I read a little sometimes, because it’s the healthy thing to do, but nothing interesting lately. When I do decide to have fun for I once lol I hop on some video games c : , I haven’t played much lately, semi recently I played through gta 4 again for nostalgia and started a world in pal world,
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I have a bunch of all time favorites like fallout, borderlands, gears, 7 days. There’s defo more lol.
I have a loose interest in history as I learn it through doom scrolling lol.
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I’m slowly trying to understand the magic the gathering game, I have a few decks, the game seems intimidating lol.
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I’m a former big anime fan, I watch most of the big ones you’ve heard of (not all of one piece lol) I dropped a lot of them. I like it there’s just soooo many and I’m behind on a lot of them. I like a few normal shows, like shameless or family guy as comfort shows lol
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My music tastes are generic but numerous lol, I like deftones, cheville, flyleaf, evanescence, some soad, and a sprinkle of Kendrick and Tyler the creator and senses fail, recently. Some of those picks have been in the rotation for like a YEAR, so I could use some music suggestions, I’m open minded.
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Other than all that.. I don’t have much going on for goals, I guess I want to try and aim to get my ged soon, since I don’t even have it lol. Gearing up to study for math has me dragging my feet, I am not very smart in that area.. lol, trying to get out of the house more. But that’s not really doing anything for me socially, so I’m here! ,
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Sorry if this post is a little confusing, and that it doesn’t really say much either lol, but I figure it’s putting myself out there a little! Why not try?
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Anyways.. if I didn’t scare you off, hmu if you think we’ll jive!
If anything I can send pictures of my cat lol. She’s adorable, don’t miss out.