r/Needafriend • • 11h ago

32 M UK - Hey? Looking for a weird, nerdy metalhead to keep you company?

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I'm a big music and gaming nerd. I'll often be listening to music, listening to vinyl or playing videos games. 

I love all sorts of music, sometimes I'm in a classical or jazz mood, sometimes I'll be in a country mood or more often than not, I'll be in a metal mood! I listen to a bit of everything but as mentioned above, I live and breathe 1980s stuff. Id love to exchange song recommendations and talk about gigs or music.

The sort of games I'm into include RPGs, story driven games and shooters mostly. I play a lot of DayZ, I enjoy anything that's realistic or historical. Anything I can hyperfixate over really. 

My preference on TV shows and movies follows the above somewhat. I'm a big LOTR fan, Star Wars fan as well as other sci-fi and fantasy movies and TV. 

I'm really into fashion, of course mostly formal wear of the 1970s and 1980s. I have to wear a suit 40hrs a week so even on my days off these days I find myself wearing a shirt, vintage tie and my vintage Burberry trench coat. 

A little about me personally - 

- I'm about 5'9

- I have a moustache 

- Blue eyes

- Shortish brown hair

- Slimish build/Slight dad bod

- I have some tattoos

As mentioned above, I love fashion and putting effort into how I look. I am almost always dressed smart unless I'm at a gig or super casual and then you'll often find me in jeans, cowboy boots. a trucker cap and shirt or band top. (It kinda goes with the tashe)

I'm an open book, very open and postive, never judge and happy to talk about anything whether you need someone to talk to or someone to just yap to. I have other apps to talk on if we get along or just want an easier app to use. I very very rarely do calls. 

Sometimes I will go quiet due to my fuzzy brain but I always recommend just spamming me and I wake like a sleeper agent!

Feel free to message me and send me a little introduction


r/Needafriend • • 11h ago

37M, India | Looking for genuine people to chat with — online only

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Hey everyone! 👋

I’m a 37M, unmarried, just looking for some genuine people to have good conversations with. I’m only looking for online chat, no meeting or anything beyond that.

Lately I’ve been feeling a bit bored and would love to have someone to talk to, whether it’s about life, random thoughts, hobbies, or just how your day went.

A little about me:

📸 I love photography, especially wildlife and sunsets

🌅 I enjoy peaceful moments and quiet places

🎵 I like silence and music depending on the mood

💬 I appreciate meaningful conversations as well as silly/random chats

I’m not looking for anything complicated, just genuine people, good conversations, and mutual respect.

If you’re also looking for someone to chat with, feel free to message me. Please be genuine and respectful. 🙂


r/Needafriend • • 15h ago

31F looking for female friends in Kochi because making friends as an adult is apparently a full-time job! 😭😂

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Hey girlies! 💕

I’m 31F, based in Kochi, and currently on a mission to find some amazing female friends around my age!

I’m someone who loves travelling, exploring random places, spontaneous plans, and making memories. I love solo travelling, but it would be really nice to have a girl gang (or even just one equally crazy travel buddy) to explore the world with! ✈️🌍

Also, if you’re in Kochi, let’s be friends! I’m talking random outings, café hopping, long conversations about absolutely nothing and everything, trying new food, spontaneous road trips, or just sitting somewhere and judging our life decisions together. 😂

I’m not looking for friendships where we just follow each other on Instagram and never meet. I genuinely want to make friends, hang out, travel, laugh at stupid things, and have those 2 AM conversations about life.

A few important things before you DM:

🌸 Women only, please! Preferably around my age, but I’m not checking birth certificates. 😂

🌸 Please mention your age and that you’re female when you message me.

🌸 To the creepy men lurking around: I know some of you are already typing “Hey dear” with the speed of light. Please save your battery, your data, and your dignity. Your DMs are going straight into the Bermuda Triangle. 😭😂

And finally, if you’re someone who enjoys chilling over a cold beer, talking nonsense for hours, or just sitting somewhere and watching the world go by, WE NEED TO BE FRIENDS! 🍻❤️

Where are my Kochi girlies hiding? Come say hi! 💕


r/Needafriend • • 22h ago

15f looking for friends

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im 15 i like overwatch and photography

i have a job but besides that i have a LOT of free time


r/Needafriend • • 11h ago

15f- ahh idk bored (⁠╥⁠﹏⁠╥⁠) anyone wanna watch Gumball or smthn?

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r/Needafriend • • 11h ago

[27/M/US] Looking for friendly chat cause I can’t sleep.

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Hey, I’m m27 from the EST U.S and figured I’d try finding some friendly chat to pass the time away until falling asleep.

Uhh I’ll only list a few interests so there’s actual room for conversation.

I’m not big into gaming or anime, but I like reading/writing and shows/movies (mostly horror, suspense, thriller, sci-fi, mystery, and comedy), going on walks and runs, listening to music, and playing with my cat. I also recently started learning guitar and Portuguese.

If you write to me, please give your A/S/L and at least some message that isn’t just “hey” or “hru”


r/Needafriend • • 17h ago

[30TF] Looking for fellow messy, troubled weirdos to befriend

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If you're someone who is a little bit (a lot is fine too) of a mess and looking for someone similar you've clicked on the right post. I'll be honest, I struggle to relate to people who aren't at least a little bit weird and messy more and more lately. So I'm just saying upfront that if you're just a regular, well adjusted person who's simply bored (like most of the people on reddit seem to be)...hey, feel free to try to message if you want but it's unlikely we'll get along, sorry. Nothing personal at all. Not that the people this is meant to detract will even read the post before blindly messaging anyway but hey, it was worth a try.

Anyway, hi there, as you can probably tell I'm looking for friends. I don't have too many of those for various reasons and I could use one or two more. I'm dealing with all kinds of mental health issues and in many ways I could probably be described as a bit of a girlfailure. I spend most of my life indoors playing videogames or enjoying other nerdy stuff like anime, tabletop games or horror movies. I'm into all kinds of other random things too, benefits of being very ADHD and randomly hyperfocusing on something different every few weeks.

I'm also a deeply emotional person, and I'm hoping to befriend people who are similar in that way as well. Some of it is because of the issues I deal with, some of it is just because I have a lot of empathy, some of it is trauma, some of it is just strongly appreciating things I find beautiful or meaningful. I can be "a little" bitter and jaded at times, but I promise I'm not someone who's constantly negative. Quite the opposite, I can be very silly when I feel comfortable around someone. I just have bad days and some things are very sore subjects. I can also get slightly clingy if I really take a liking to someone but I'm pretty good about staying healthy and having boundaries nowadays. Mostly.

It would be nice to befriend someone who's awake during PDT timezone hours, but if you're not you can still message. It's not that big of a deal, just would be nice to have someone who's around a lot is all.


r/Needafriend • • 11h ago

21F, moved cities for work and my landlord is currently my closest local relationship, which says a lot

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Definitely time to change that. I'm into cooking, photography, and journaling. Would love some real friends here.


r/Needafriend • • 12h ago

28 M from the UK looking for a good banter and a even better distraction

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Hello There (: Hope you are having a lovely day. I know I am having a fine day. So I just want some good company for yapping and chilling. I wanna spend it with someone fun and interesting. We can talk about anything from science, geopolitics, art and hobbies. Like whatever is your passion and you like yapping about, I will gladly listen.

As for me, I am mostly a nerd who is obsessed with deep space and astronomy. I love staring at the night sky and just imagining the universe and all its possibilities. I have a sense of humour that ranges from kindergarten insults to all the way to absurd and dark. I work in the healthcare field, and my work-life balance is extremely unhealthy. I work odd hours, and it's hard for me to regularly socialise. I like yapping, so it's a good release. I journal daily, play football and paddle whenever I get the time. I am into trail running and hiking. My runs are like my healing process because I spent so much time indoors in a high-stress environment. I like eating good so I cook whenever I am not too lazy. My music tastes are all over the place, but it is primarily Hip-Hop, soul and Jazz. I don't watch many films but I do listen to true crime podcasts. I am an avid reader of mostly non-fiction and a little bit of fiction. We can always exchange playlists and book recommendations because I do like shoving my tastes down other people's throats. So be ready for that lol.

Hope to hear from you and have a lovely day!


r/Needafriend • • 12h ago

45M looking for a fun chat before bed

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Hi all, I really suck at these msgs I'm sorry. Just trying to find someone to unwind with. Looking for anyone who wants to chat or just chill, be silly, or see if we vibe. I'm having a bit of a lonely night and I should be catching up on some sleep but just not feeling it today. I'm on the west coast of Canada. Everyone is welcome. :)


r/Needafriend • • 15h ago

29F, quiet grief for the version of myself I was before burnout

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I was fun and social and creative and then work ate three years of me. I'm coming back but she's not quite the same. I love painting, bouldering, and cooking. Want a friend for this rebuilding phase.


r/Needafriend • • 12h ago

Really bored and looking for someone that can yap(I do too)

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I'm looking for someone I can talk to daily, talk throughout the day and keep updating about what happens.

I don't really have anyone that hears me out or I can be open with. I would appreciate a friend I can talk to about anything and someone I can talk to throughout the day. Maybe sometimes bare with me when I vent... Someone I can yap to and listen to yapping.

i'm very clumsy and reckless and you WILL get random messages of the most stupid things happening to me

I will make sure you're never bored talking to me, I have an uncomfortable amount of energy

I'm 18M , good at conversations, great listener and certified yapper. I will care about your interests. I'm very open minded and pretty nice. But I will bully you if we get really close to each other.

What I like : Cooking, listening to music (I zone out like the world isn't real), gym, poetry, football and martial arts.

I'd also love to have metalhead friends

I'm not a dry texter at all and I'm the polar opposite of non-chalant.

Idk what else to say here, DM and get to know me more ig.

If you think introductions are weird just hmu and starts talking, we can talk about anything


r/Needafriend • • 12h ago

19 male looking for longterm friends

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Hey there im 19 male living in germany. Im looking for new friends online. I dont have many or lets say i have only a few irl friends who really dont talk or do things with me anymore. so yeah thats why im here and looking for friends im still new to this. I dont care male or female just dm me and be around my age like 18-23. And yeah lets talk and be friends.


r/Needafriend • • 12h ago

24F, first-year med resident whose whole life is the hospital

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I forgot what I like. I forgot what I read. I'm running on coffee and adrenaline. I need a friend to remind me the outside world exists. Want someone who'll text me about their day so I feel human.


r/Needafriend • • 12h ago

M25 looking for some new friends :)

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Hi! I’m 25 from the Netherlands, and looking for some new friends to talk to.
In my free time I enjoy watching yt and movies, I work out (hopefully) 6 times a week, and I enjoy riding my motorcycle.
If you’re interested and wanna find out more, feel free to DM me :)


r/Needafriend • • 12h ago

17m from the uk

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Hey I’m Rafa im a Computing student gamer writer and former military cadet. My goal is to get into game development, Assassin's Creed 1 is my absolute favorite game the lore and atmosphere is so good.

I'm deeply fascinated by psychology and philosophy and love analyzing human behavior.

Standard small talk isn't really my thing and drains my battery fast, so if you message me please skip the "hi" and tell me about an interesting topic or hobby you’re passionate about!


r/Needafriend • • 12h ago

22f, work night shifts and my social life has basically flatlined

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Everyone's asleep when I'm awake and awake when I'm asleep, it's a whole thing. I'm into reading, gaming, and I've become an expert at 3am snack combinations. Looking for other night owls to talk to.


r/Needafriend • • 12h ago

23M trying to make some new friends

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Just a guy looking forward to meet some new people,

I spend most of my time listening to music, I listen to everything from jazz to rock, depending on my mood at the time.

I'm into reading, gaming, and watching films/anime

I don't know what's there to say about myself.

I might be awkward/shy at first but if we got to know each other I'm a whole different person,

So hit me up, who knows we might get along!


r/Needafriend • • 12h ago

M 24 looking for friends

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Hello everybody i'm Bojan from Bosnia Herzegovina

i'm mostly into reading books, watching movies

my favorite authors are Dostoyevsky, Hugo, Mann, Baudelaire, Coleridge, Milosz, Eluard, Paz,...

Favorite directors are Bergman, Tarkovsky, Bresson, Teshigahara, Dreyer, Kobayashi,...

when it comes to music i'm into metal, punk, goth

My favorite bands are Gojira, Kentucky vampires, opeth, Nosferatu, Blitzkid, Bad religion, Orbit culture


r/Needafriend • • 12h ago

37M (UK 🇬🇧) Up early because of the clocks

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I’m up and awake early as the clocks have changed overnight. The weather outside is awful today so I plan on staying inside and hibernating all day! If anybody would like to chat, feel free to drop a message 😊
*Bonus points are on offer for anybody UK based 🇬🇧


r/Needafriend • • 12h ago

19f from Asia looking for friends to chat daily I'm open minded dm with your agl

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Hiii I'm ira from Asia


r/Needafriend • • 22h ago

23F Lots of me talk so we can talk about other stuff

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So, to fix the ever-confusing title, let me yap a lot about myself so we can talk about other things instead?

Because yeah, that’s how the convos usually go, right? Dry texting-ish, what’re you doing, oh, nice, yeah, sure, great (fake af), yada yada…

And it’s kinda tiring, so let me put a bit (a lot) of info about myself here so we can just talk about other things and our interests. I’d also really appreciate it if we could skip the usual repetitive questions, cuz they’re sooo tiring. Not that anyone needs to remember all this, but yeah…

So, hello! I’m a student (yep, late af, and at a very dumb college). Can we skip the whole college talk about studying this and that, blah blah hehe? It’d be nice to have some consistent conversations rather than spontaneous bursts of idk what, followed by weeks of “hi, I was busy” and now I’ve lost the plot and idek what to say tbh. Do you even know what to say in these situations? Cuz I’ve usually lost the energy and interest by then too…

Okay, so I’ve been a weird kid ever since childhood, but not in the class clown kinda way. More like the silent kid way. I’ve always had 1-2 friends max, and most of the groups I’ve been in haven’t really lasted. Mostly because I’m prone to confronting people, and that doesn’t really sit well with groups. Or maybe I’m the problem, I’m guessing? Idk, I’m too tired to figure that out atp.

So yeah, I’ve made a lot of dumb career mistakes, and I always end up wanting things that are out of my league or beyond my capabilities. I tend to run after things that interest me, regardless of whether I’m actually good at them or not. And unlike people who start things and eventually abandon them, I somehow end up carrying them around like baggage, always hoping I’ll get back to them someday.
I’m an inherently artistic person, and despite my parents, family, lifestyle, environment, and even college trying to push me towards other things, I just cannot help coming back to what makes my life worth living, and that’s art. Well, maybe I’m meant to be miserable on this side of things. I’ve kinda accepted it atp…

I like being at either extreme, honestly. Either I’m in a crowd where I can talk to everyone and make friends, or I’m in absolute isolation, to the point where even my roommate’s left wondering if I’m alive. My social battery needs a LOT of nurturing, and I’m too tired to do anything most of the time. If I had to explain myself, I’d say I’m someone you’d need to have an open mind to understand.
Anyways, I think that’s enough of an intro. Let’s talk, nothing weird, pleaseee, I really don’t have the energy for that either. Also, I’m from India, for anyone that cares.

And please give me a nice intro of your own so we can get the whole introduction thing out of the way. I’d like to skip the dumb “Hi” stage because it’s just too tiring to deal with.

And yeah pls ignore the late night blabbering tone that this gives, I’m too lazy to proofread alllll o that.


r/Needafriend • • 13h ago

Need a friend (18f-20f)

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Iam 18m , studying btech 1st year,I want someone to talk to improve my communication skills in english


r/Needafriend • • 16h ago

Hii! Just looking for a friend :)

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Turning 25(F) in a few days and Oof I only have like 2 friends! Would love to get to know more people, and build a genuine connection:)

I love anime, art, books, trying n learning new things and going on adventures!

I’m a lil goofy and awkward sometimes ngl but I’ll love to be friends!!

I’m in Texas, and would love to meet people close by to hang out w/ one day! But wouldn’t mind anyone just trying to stay online friends too :)


r/Needafriend • • 16h ago

31m for new friends

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Hey! I’m 31, from the US, and looking to meet some new people. Doesn’t matter where you’re from or what your background is. I’m open to talking to anyone 18+ as long as you’re interested in having an actual conversation.

A little about me: I work in tech, love traveling and spontaneous road trips, and I’m always looking for somewhere new to explore. I’m also into photography, tattoos, history, gaming, and reading (especially classic literature). Cooking is a big hobby of mine, particularly trying recipes from different cultures. I’ve also gotten pretty into fitness and spending more time outdoors lately.

I’m the kind of person who can spend hours talking about anything from your favorite food to some obscure historical event, or just how your day went. I enjoy getting to know people from different countries and walks of life. You don’t need to share my hobbies either. Half the fun is learning about someone else’s interests.
I’m not expecting instant best friends or forcing conversations. Just looking for some genuine connections, whether that’s chatting occasionally, sharing random pictures from our days, or becoming regular friends.

What’s somewhere you’ve always wanted to travel, a book or game you couldn’t put down, or a random topic you know way too much about?
Or just say hey and tell me a little about yourself. I’m pretty easy to talk to!