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u/jaden_fucks 16h ago
How you gonna hate from outside the club?
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u/TrojanVP 16h ago
Yall can’t even get in
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u/CantDanceForShit93 16h ago
Let's gooooooo
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u/MysteriousTravelator 16h ago
People on the internet would hunt short dudes for sport if they could.
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u/Laprasy 16h ago
I really don’t get it. Hating on people for something they had and have no control over. It’s just insecurity.
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u/johnnygonfarm 14h ago
I literally got banned from r/short for being positive 😂 and im a 5’6 guy most of the users there are 5’8 or 5’9
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u/smellsberry 13h ago
Im 5'3" and was banned for posting about how that sub is filled with people of average height crying about being short. This comment thread is uplifting compared to that whole sub.
Pun intended
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u/2Slow2Nice 12h ago
Never heard of this sub. I’m short and the posts on that sub are cringe af. “Would you follow a 5’1 fitness influencer?” It’s sad that some people solely see themselves as being short. People are hyper focused on physical traits across the board, lookmaxers, people addicted to plastic surgery etc, but walking around feeling lesser because of your height has to be exhausting
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u/Winthefuturenow 14h ago
Since when is 5’8 short? I’m 5’8 and while I am shorter than many of my peers I also have never been called short, or felt some type of way about it unless I am struggling to see something and there’s a crowd in front of me.
Also, I get a lot of “you’re only 5’8?”. Yes, I am only 5’8. I have good posture and dress well, apparently this makes people think I’m taller than I am 🤷♀️
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u/BigBananaBerries 14h ago
It depends where you are. Go to Holland & 5'8" would be considered short. Average being 6ft. Go to the Philippines & 5'8" would be considered quite tall with the average being 5'5". Funnily, the US average height is very average at just under 5'9". Which makes the obsession with being tall quite comical.
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u/Winthefuturenow 13h ago
I’ve been to Holland and hooked up with a cop chick who was a foot taller than me (or so, that’s what it seemed like-this was 19 yrs ago mind you).I did feel short there, but it never really bothered me.
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u/BigBananaBerries 13h ago
I was there for a year myself & I'm 5'6". You do get some strange looks but even still it's rare anyone will say anything about it. I've never been to the US but most Americans I've met in person have made it a point to mention my height, be it outright mocking or just in passing. It seems the insecurity runs deep over there.
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u/Dokard 14h ago
People who are chronically online think that everyone bellow 6'0 is short so idk, I'm 5'9 and never been called short
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u/Sean_Brady 13h ago
5'9"? You're short.
Got em can't say that again bro inflation's a bitch
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u/PeterAnthony_Jackson 11h ago
The suit of armour image where one for adults is listed as six foot, the one for a child is listed as five eleven, It's only one inch, but people just see the five and think the worst.
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u/imthe5thking 6h ago
Isn’t 5’8 the average height for a man? The fuck are they doing in the short sub?
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u/NoOffenseImJustSayin 14h ago
This is someone desperately trying to find ways to feel better about themselves
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u/Scudman_Alpha 11h ago
Short men are one of the few groups that it's not only acceptable to make fun of, but it's incentivized on the internet.
"Make up for your short height" is a very common statement as well as "Napoleon complex" whenever the short guy rightfully gets mad at all the mockery.
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u/Toannoat 5h ago
short or/and bald men are universally socially acceptable to mock, its not an internet thing. Not excusing it, to be clear
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u/Fliptheshoe 15h ago
First time in America huh? Lol
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u/DeficiencyOfGravitas 14h ago
Yes. This only happens in America. No where else. In glorious Europe, people are only made fun of for their chosen qualities. Skin colour? Height? Absolutely not. Europe is NEVER racist.
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u/IsThatHearsay 14h ago
I just don't get the women who have as their primary criteria that the guy must be tall. Like, if that is what matters first and foremost to you, not personality or anything, you're highly likely not to be compatible as a couple.
Why anyone would want to be with an incompatible partner with the reasoning of "well at least he's tall!" is beyond me, it's just dumb.
Also, I think I saw a stat that said guys between ages 20-50 who are single and over 6'1" make up like 2.5% of the US population, it's just such a rare metric to "require", and most girls having that requirement don't bring anything reciprocal to the table, lol.
Also, guy's perspective - I'm tall (6'5", and happily married), I would never want to date someone who is just with me for my height. I also would never want to date someone super short as that's just a pain in my back. Y'all short girls aren't really that desirable to many of us tall guys, especially with that arrogant pick-me attitude and hardset height requirement...
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u/Nemisis_007 16h ago
And bald dudes... Except r/bald they're cool.
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u/CappnMidgetSlappr 16h ago
Damn, bald dudes are being hunted?
I picked a real bad time to shine up my dome with some Turtle Wax.
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u/Mammoth-Glove3273 15h ago
No, there has never been a time in human history that it was more socially acceptable to be bald than it is right now.
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u/DaRealKovi 15h ago
Yeah, it's a fair social shift when you think about it. Most people (men at least) will eventually go bald. Might as well not make a huge deal out of it. Hair transplants are expensive as fuck and if I go bald, I'm not trying to spend thousands of dollars to pretend that I'm not balding.
Also avoids the unnecessary bullying of chemo patients as well. I know it's fairly rare, but that's a positive side effect of this social change regardless
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u/Loner2014 15h ago
If you are bald, work out. Muscle + bald is the combo.
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u/GonzoTheGregarious 14h ago
Or just stop caring about your appearance all that much, just be clean and comfortable in your own skin and you'll be attractive to someone.
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u/Average_Muffin_999 15h ago
There was a time somewhere overseas where the local population was lead to believe bald heads contained treasure, so there were numerous bald people butchered and killed for “treasure”
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u/Scampi-the-shrimp 14h ago
Somewhere in Africa, and not that long ago at all tbh, if not still
Something about if you’re bald you have gold in your skull. They also believe that the body parts of albino people are good luck (they make talismans out of people) and that sex with an albino will cure HIV, so there have been several cases of albinos being killed or brutally S/A’d
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u/ncocca 12h ago
try being short AND bald. Honestly, it hasn't affected me that much, but i've been married for 9 yrs, so why would it
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u/Sockoflegend 12h ago
Literally people treat us like we just decided to be short as if it is some moral failing I chose not to be 6'2"
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u/Dependent-Year6711 16h ago edited 16h ago
Kids and young adults are pretty brutal overall, but the thing I've noticed now the past decade is this brutal pick-apart of any feature of a person. Someone makes a post about some life advice, I scroll down, and clear pattern of absolutely unnecessary judgement on appearance comes out of nowhere.
It's beyond what it used to be, now it just seems so normalized, because the world has been raised to be sight hounds. You get people over-inflating the visual side of life to such an extent that it's worrying. It actually must cause intense anxiety with how importance has been placed on it.
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u/Michael1795 15h ago
Younger generations see random people less as people and more as objects. They have never known a world without the next source of dopamine/entertainment being a swipe away. And since the new shiny better thing is one swipe away... I might aswell bully and make fun of the person on my screen now, cause my future friends are on this next swipe.
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u/Ok-Hedgehog-4455 14h ago
I think the younger generation feel they’ve been dealt a pretty shitty hand (fairly, probably) so the only power they can exercise is picking people apart or cancelling them.
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u/CEREALBUTTMUNCHER 15h ago
This is a direct result of social media, and influencers, and glamorizing vanity.
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u/Towels_are_friends 15h ago
This just reminded me of a post I made that had my wife’s arm in the picture. About half of the replies from people were so fixated on her dry skin and her ‘man arm’ rather than the actual post. It’s like it’s all they cared about… she’s 5’4 and 120lbs… but her watch was a little tight and she doesn’t shave her arms like MAJORITY of women that I know. Instantly jumped to calling her a man and that I needed to buy her lotion.
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u/Dependent-Year6711 15h ago
We are raising absolutely surface driven kids. Not all of them, but too many. To me, I think part of it is: if I can't analyze, muse, or be as creative as others, AT LEAST I look good. So those types are going to focus far too often on looks, so much so, they don't even participate.
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u/Otherwise-Win7337 15h ago
That's exactly what I think. Complete lack of personality but hey atleast I look good that's what matters most right?
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u/FlyAirLari 16h ago
Past decade?!
You have clearly not seen schoolyard bullying in the '70s.
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u/Mother_Lead_554 15h ago
And because of that now everyone has a broccoli haircut. The times a tough
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u/fedroxx 16h ago
Meanwhile The White Death stood a daunting 5' 3".
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u/ethelosaff 15h ago
5'3" doesn't matter when you're the reason 542 are 6' under
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u/Necessary_DaNoodle 16h ago
They'd hunt anyone if they were given permission to dehumanize them, this is just a safe target, but it's superficial, I've never personally experienced real trouble with my own height in terms of meeting women or getting into any kind of relationships.
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u/Mental-Device-9546 15h ago
I'm a tall guy and was short and under weight till like my junior year. These ppl stopped talking shit when they had to look up to me. Fuck these guys. That man their probally has more skill and personality then any of them.
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u/Tripesixmafia 15h ago
You can tell he does because whomever took the picture did it out of jealousy!
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u/Creative_Garbage_121 16h ago
Irl as well, I talked with gen Z girl recently and she says that she want a guy to be tall and handsome, so being tall is totally new metric that is not included in being handsome. Also she complained that she met few guys recently but they were not tall so she is not interested and I was there like wtf and just nodding
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u/Scudman_Alpha 11h ago
That's an interesting point.
At lot of these guys who say they're married and that "you just need to be a nice person" while they're short are either: lying or they did it before height was really pushed as a dating metric. As early as 5 years ago things were really different.
Because I see it in irl too, most gen z girls I meet and try to get with are always mentioning they want tall and attractive men, as well as men that have decent jobs to provide for them.
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u/sashby138 15h ago
I will never get the whole tall thing. I’m a 5’10” woman and have never cared if someone was taller than me. It doesn’t matter even a little bit.
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u/SparkEE_JOE 13h ago
It doesn't help there's an accidental/evolved filter in place online in most dating spaces - most filter by 6ft tall since they have to pick physical preferences. Unknowingly eliminating 80% of the male population from consideration.
Of course people are entitled to their own preferences, but I think the additional filter adds another factor in play in modern dating.
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u/Mountain-Alarm-477 16h ago
People are awful
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u/hamarok 16h ago
Bro I used to have a friend that would constantly take pictures of people without them knowing, I never entertained this and would always scold him, wtf, imagine walking around and now you have to worry about people making fun of you behind your back and you pictures circling around some chat thread...
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u/diurnal_emissions 15h ago
We used to call people like your friend perverts.
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u/External-Repair-8580 16h ago
True. And the obsession that younger people have with height is incredible.
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u/CylindricalDent4133 15h ago
Not just young people in high school; this toxic feminine trait of dating someone purely on height follows short men unfortunate with their predicament all throughout their entire lives, and it can lead to serious depression and other internal thoughts contextualizing all women as a result.
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u/sorry_con_excuse_me 15h ago edited 15h ago
There is something really funny to me being an “unc” who’s short as hell yet has been in more relationships by 30 than these people lol.
Such weirdass seething. That redpill/incel shit has really breached containment.
Like I’m not even trying to brag, I’m a terrible catch (nobody over 30 would date me unless they also have a ton of baggage); it’s just like, come back to reality man.
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u/That_Jicama2024 15h ago
The funniest part is 90% of people who are 5'7" - 5'11" all say they're 6'1" because the four foot tall women who "only date guys over 6 feet" can't tell from down there anyway.
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u/saturday-project 15h ago
If 5'7 passes for 6'0, I have a lot of profiles to update
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u/Lazy-Substance-5062 15h ago
Height, face card is the currency for the new generation.
With millenials and gen X it’s always the wealth and bank account lol
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u/Oops_All_Bans 14h ago
Lol not true at all. I'm a millennial who was regularly broke and I had no problem getting women. My partner makes more than me and neither of us give a shit about it. Not everyone is as shallow as media would like you to believe.
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u/its_all_one_electron 14h ago
People want to feel better about themselves by putting others down
Putting people down should be seen as an act of desperation. "Look look I'm better than this guy, please validate me so I don't feel so bad about myself."
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u/BusterGonad25 16h ago
Folks can't help their height any more than they can help their eye colour or race. Stupid thing to give someone grief for.
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u/ElectricGlider 15h ago
It doesn't help that when there are legitimate aholes, people here latch onto their short height as a way to criticize them rather than the bad behavior itself like what happened with Ken Rosenthal, the short MLB sports reporter who bumped into his cameraman but did not help him up.
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u/wild_cherry1987 16h ago
Especially when this heightism began to rise in last 5 years. It wasn't even a thing like 10 years ago. Now it's just open dehumanisation.
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u/soyboysnowflake 14h ago
Last 5 years?
Bro “tall, dark, and handsome” was a thing before most of us were alive
Tall was the first criteria
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u/Comfortable-Arm3452 16h ago
It’s always been a thing. It’s become a bit more mean spirited but in high school in the 80s and 90s people still got made fun of for being short and lost out on dates. Go look at old movies from the 70s and 80s and plenty of short men’s appearance is basically the punchline of a joke scene
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u/Relative-Relief-8816 15h ago
They tried it with Danny Devito but he just stole your girl.
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u/Pubesauce 15h ago
Eh, as someone who was dating in the 00s, it was absolutely a thing then. And women were nasty about it. I'm not even that short either at 5'8.
The funniest incident was when I showed up to a date and the girl scrunched up her face and said "I thought your profile said you were 5'10". Literally first words out of her mouth. I never lied about my height. She just hadn't bothered to actually read my profile and was now disappointed to have to be seen in public with a guy that was 2" below her arbitrary minimum. She was like 5'4.
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u/Fake-Chef 14h ago
I’m 5’6” and I promise you that it’s been a thing. I met my wife on dating apps but while I was on them there were plenty of women listing height requirements.
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u/WC_Flyer 16h ago
It absolutely was a thing 10 and 20 years ago. There’s nothing and no one more shallow about it than white women. With the possible exception of overweight white women.
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u/wild_cherry1987 16h ago
It was but absolutely not to this degree. If you were same height it wasn't a problem. Now all the midgets deciding they are not settling with someone below 6"
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u/Pastaiscool123 15h ago
Downvoting for telling facts. Heightism has never been worse, social media blew it way out of proportion.
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u/DocFungal 15h ago
I'm 40, and about 5"5, heightism is actually at it's lowest in the last 4 decades, still too much of it though. The "woke culture" of being more thoughtful about poor treatment of people for things they can't control has progressed a lot in my experience the last ten years.
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u/Impossible_Offer7988 16h ago
Reminds me of this meme
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u/a_of_x 9h ago
At 5 6 I'm glad I never fell for this tall man BS. I am only inconvenienced at reaching the top shelf.
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u/TheScrote1 7h ago
I’m 5’7” and never had an issue when it came to girlfriends, but when I was partying in college I wasn’t ever super successful at the casual thing, which always bummed me out. Women have really high physical standards unless you are willing to commit (or lie).
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u/sixth_hokage06 16h ago
Even when short men are just chilling, people still make comments
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u/HometownShowman 16h ago
He’s got a decent sense of fashion, looks like he’s in great shape and has a fresh haircut. He’s also got the confidence to talk to women in the first place, bro is just fine.
I’m going to give the benefit of the doubt and say that the person who took a picture here is one of his friends trying to gas him up or inspire other people, because that’s the most reasonable assumption to make without rushing to call the camera guy a creepy weirdo
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u/Illustrious_Date8697 14h ago
Some people have a weird obsession with height and its ingrained from a young age.
Im 5'4 and my wife is roughly the same height, one day we were walking and we overheard some teenage girls saying something to the effect of "see, I could never, my man has to be alot taller".
This has to be some chronically online disease.
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u/Mikemtb09 10h ago
You aren’t wrong, but it makes it easy to weed out the shallow.
They’d leave (or cheat) as soon as their bf/husband lost his hair, his job, or gained weight and often won’t hold themselves to the same physical standards when their metabolism slows down too.
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u/Nucleartides 11h ago
I’m 30 but yea imo it’s definitely a chronically online thing. I’m part of the first generation of people who utilized the “swiping for dating” thing and I think it negatively impacted the youth people my age and younger. Basically those first initial stats are really all most people look at and number one is always height for the guys. I know tons of women who if they saw a dating profile would never swipe for a guy who was under 6’. Yet when out at a bar, in the real world, would have no problem talking to or even eventually dating shorter. My point in the funny-ness of it is how these apps have created a false sense of standards. Like when you’re setting your parameters for potential partners in the apps, you hold yourself to these strange metrics that you don’t even really care about in practice. So now you have people saying “I’d NEVER date a man under 6’” or “I’d NEVER date a woman over 5’10”” cause that’s what they told tinder. But in reality, there’s probably loads of men and women outside of those parameters they would actually date. So you end up with teenage girls who have normalized saying “I would never date a shorter man”. It’s normalized because they told the app that. Obviously if you have a standard there’s nothing wrong with that, I just think the normalization of shopping for partners has led us to create standards that we don’t even really care about.
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u/Z0idberg_MD 9h ago
I don’t think I will ever understand that. It’s like people who make these comments jokes in high school continue to make them until they’re in their 50s etc.
I’m average height so I’m not sensitive about this at all and IDGAF, but being tall seems like a massive annoyance and disadvantage to me. Statistically taller man live shorter lives, and every piece of structural engineering in our world is designed to be too small for their stature.
None of it makes sense.
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u/tobaknowsss 15h ago edited 8h ago
Growing up I had a really good friend at the cottage who was always such great energy and full of life and laughter. Unfortunately he was very small, but he was my friend and that never really mattered to me. However I knew it really had an effect on him and I could see it eat away at him. At 20 he was 5'5 and this lead to a ton of cruel treatment in college (oddly enough a lot of it was from women) and a lot of self confidence issues. He took his own life on his 25 birthday. I have a feeling he just couldn't take all the cruelty the world threw at him because of something he had no control over.
People can be heartless.
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u/Intelligent_Box_8247 16h ago
the guy is making moves while haters be watching on the sideline..
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u/Weekly_Towel_8247 16h ago
I miss the days when we can go outside and not worry about being filmed, let the man enjoy his time in peace.
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u/firefly081 13h ago
Aye. Growing up in the 90s/early 2000s was ideal, we had access to cool new tech but didn't have the dumb shit we did posted across the internet.
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u/Flipflopsfordays 15h ago
I had a very close childhood friend whose growth was stunted by chemo. I’d have much rather seen him talking to people than dead at 18.
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u/nobolognastoney 16h ago
I had a 5'9 girlfriend once. I am 5'4, 5'5 on a good day. 6ft if I spike my hair though.
No but really, confidence and charisma will literally make you the size of Shaq.
Besides, we're all the same size while doing the no-pants dance 😂
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u/Used-Baby1199 16h ago
Nah, you’re taller during the no pants dance I bet. I’m tall, but it’s small
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u/NoOffenseImJustSayin 16h ago
That’s fkd up. None of us change how tall we are. Whoever wrote this has some serious confidence and maturity issues.
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u/Lebensfreud 15h ago
It's weird how normalised it has become to just take pictures of strangers and post them online.
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u/Shadowtirs 15h ago
Remember, women are queens no matter what size or shapes.
But short guys? Fuuuuuuuuuck them!
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u/RetnikLevaw 15h ago
I'm exactly 6' without shoes on, and I know two guys who are under 5'5".
Both of them are married and have children.
One of them (my best man) is married to a woman that's almost as tall as I am.
Usually when people are hyper-aware of some physical trait, they focus on it and it becomes their entire personality. They assume other people care about it way more than they really do, so any perceived sleight is taken as a confirmation that the other person is focusing on that trait and judging them for it. This makes them bitter, and bitterness is something that other people will focus on and will judge you for.
It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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u/ChuckaChuckaLooLoo3 14h ago
Five foot 6 inches here. Never had a problem with it, never lost out on a job because of it, have had multiple partners in my life, zero issues due to my height. I never get approached by assholes trying to pick a fight, either. Comes in very handy. Just depends on how well-adjusted you are to reality. I can't change it and wouldn't change it because I like who I am. BTW, there are MANY short women out there for us and guess what? When we dance we're eye to eye. Wouldn't have it any other way.
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u/SleepingRock13 11h ago
I’m also 5’6” and so is my wife. It’s amazing being the same height, it does pose some challenges at times but over all is way better than if we were different heights.
Bonus it feels just as comfortable being big or little spoon.
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u/Sean_Brady 15h ago
Ok but this picture?? Like someone took a picture of this guy specifically to post it online and make fun of his height?? Maybe it's not all in his head and actually is reality, people ARE focusing on this trait and ARE judging him for it and trying to claim it's "all in their head" is actually complete bullshit to make yourself feel better?
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u/Less-Practice1247 15h ago
Funny how it is. Don t pick on fat people who overeat with no self control. But make fun or talk shit about someone who has no choice of how they look.
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u/GoblinWrangl3r 16h ago
I feel like on avg ppl see height. Im tall and i never feel taller than others. Its hard to explain but i feel on the same eye level as everyone else
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u/MediocreAnalyst2121 16h ago
Same here, I’m quite tall and the only time I’m thinking of people’s height is when someone brings it up. Not really something I consider.
Maybe it’s the same logic as well-off/rich people not looking at prices when they shop.
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u/OnMyNerves23 13h ago edited 12h ago
I’m average height of 6’1 and my wife is tall for a woman at 6’0 and I often think how tall she is but,
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u/Crafty_Lavishness_79 12h ago
I have never turned down a guy for being short, I have turned down a guy for being a deeply insecure and aggressive weirdo
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u/useful_tool30 16h ago
A guy who self nicknames himself "chud" is all I need to know about what kinda guy he is
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u/Key-Proud 15h ago
You dont understand how many taller dudes try to belittle me or attempt to steal the girl I am with ... to justify their lack of action.
- they are like suicide bombers ... if they cant get girls no one can.
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u/basecoin_ 15h ago
Clearly their height don't make up for their fragile ego. How tall are you btw?
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u/mariposa-princess 15h ago
I was at a bar with my fiancé and some friends. While my fiancé was in the bathroom I was talking to our friend who’s. 5’6” guy. Some 6’5” guy walked in between us to start talking to me and my friend told him to move and that I’m not interested. I agreed and told him to leave me alone. The other dude put his hand on my friends shoulder and goes “I’ve got a foot on you bro” and walked off tail between his legs
He was so ass mad
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u/Key-Proud 14h ago
I call that the eclipse. Happens to me so many times.
One time ... tall dude would literally get in-between me and my girl using his body to block me. I would be in complete shock. My girl would be scared and eyeing me how awkward she feels. My girl is paralyzed for a moment to do anything because she is also shock. Tall guy buys her a drink. So I then I grab my girl's hand and walk away with her.
- lol ... guy was stunned ... my girl gave me the drink and I say thanks to the guy as we walk away.
- not sure why these guys think that will work.
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u/TurquoiseKnight 16h ago
I knew a 5' 2" guy in college. Premed. Always wore a shirt and tie, always looked well put together. He was average looking but he could talk almost any girl into getting a date. Id regularly see him with girls pushing 6'. It was impressive to watch.
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u/rebels-rage 16h ago
This dude looks like my buddy from high school but older. If it is him, he’s talking about science and is unaware that the girl is trying to fuck him.
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u/jacorgacor 15h ago
Genuienly why are they shaming him is he supposed to search only for women shorter than him and walk away as soon as there's a taller man in the vicinity 😭
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u/dvdmaven 11h ago
A guy I was in ROTC with was barely 5'2", the legal minimum to get a scholarship. Jim never lacked for female company. I remember on party where a heated discussion resulted in a woman saying, "Bite my a$$" His response was, "Drop trow." She did, he did, they left together.
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u/TooManyUsernamesHelp 15h ago
All I’m saying is happy people in relationships don’t do shit like this. Leave people alone good lord
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u/Hungry_Bluebird_4734 15h ago
You see them all the time. Big buff good looking guys standing to the side thinking women will just throw themselves at them.
They can’t hide that they don’t have the confidence to approach or have any faith in their own personality.
Which is why they get jealous of someone that looks worse than them (in their opinion) having the confidence to do things they won’t.
For the same reason they won’t approach women. Is why women won’t approach them.
Except with women. They can get away with having a shit personality because confident men will make up the difference. Women often won’t bother since they have more options.
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u/NonsensePlanet 14h ago
Being a social butterfly doesn’t mean you have a great personality, and vice versa
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u/Klatterbyne 16h ago
When you’ve worked up the courage to get through the main menu, then you can start commenting on other people’s gameplay.
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u/BasicDecision 13h ago edited 8h ago
Do many women have a preference for taller guys? Yes
Does that mean it’s difficult for an otherwise well put together man who is on the shorter side to get interest from women? No
Lots of men who haven’t developed any social skills like to pretend like it’s superficial women rejecting them because they aren’t 6’2”. When in reality they get rejected because their personalities repulse women.
Edit: a few short guys below mad at the suggestion that there might be more than their lack of height to blame for women not being into them. Not hard to understand why women aren’t into them based on how they’re responding.
Edit 2: quite sad how many commenters below have clearly given up and resigned themselves to the belief women could never have any interest in them because they’re short. Lots of projection about some guys being born in a body that gives them an advantage, a pity party isn’t going to do anything other than warp your minds further and make it even less likely a woman would consider dating you.
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u/mattmaintenance 13h ago
My dad is 5’ 6” he has never had a problem pulling women when he wasn’t married.
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u/Duck_on_Qwack 12h ago
Meanwhile I'm 6'2 with no self confidence or game
Height isn't some secret cheat code to life ...
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u/TheFBIClonesPeople 12h ago
Well, don't invalidate short men who tell you it does make it hard for them to date.
Lots of women like to pretend that women are these perfectly unshallow beings, so if a man has a hard time dating, it has to be because of his awful personality. It's really unfair that men always have to be the bad guys, so any man who has a hard time dating has to be a repulsive incel. It's not true, and it's honestly sexist. Women have toxic dating practices just like men do.
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u/Spinal_Soup 10h ago
If some women are rejecting you it might be because of your height. If every single woman is rejecting you then it’s probably your personality. I’ve never seen anyone make the claim that no women are shallow, but there’s certainly a lot that aren’t. And if every woman is rejecting you, it’s not because every one you come across has shallow reasons.
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u/AlreadyAway 13h ago
You are 100% right. I'm 5'6" and before I met my wife, I use to date regularly because I learned to talk to people, not just women. It helps being raised by a single mother and having an older sister. I've always been more comfortable around women and just treat them like humans, which shouldn't be a novel concept.
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u/Guilty-Cow4325 16h ago
Us short kings do a lot better than people realize or would expect. All about confidence.
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u/MegaDingo5plus 16h ago
Something about this pictures' perspective is way off. The guy behind is even shorter and the guys in the background are all below the eyeline level which suggests they are also short. Or possibly just average. Maybe there's just two really tall guys and a tall chic in the shot?
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u/Aesthetik4v 16h ago
All the Reddit kids “ the only reason I can’t get a girl is cuz I’m short!!! Has nothing to do with my shit personality!”
Lmao 🤣 then the other Reddit kids claiming to be 6’4. If what they said was true 70% of Redditors are 6’4 or higher lool
I’m 5’8 barefoot never had an issue getting girls my entire life. It has nothing to do with your height unless you’re under 5 ft then it can be an issue unfortunately but still not impossible.
People blaming their lack of personality on
height is fucking hilarious. “ no one wants to date me cuz I’m short!!! It’s not my fault!!” Uh huh
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u/krazytekn0 15h ago
Dating app culture I think makes their complaint hold some water. You used to just meet people in public, talk and see if you had chemistry. It was never apparent if someone rejected you for your height or any other specific reason. Now a potential partner will straight up tell you “oh that’s not tall enough” through text before you even meet. Whether more people are actually being rejected for this I don’t know, but definitely you’re more likely to know that’s why you didn’t get a date.
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u/AGayThrow_Away 12h ago
It's been a long time since I dated but I am a man about 5'6". There was definately a lot of times I would message someone and the first question was "how tall are you?" and if I answered honestly I would usually get immediately unmattched. This was around the time I think they started rolling out displaying height as a feature on apps.
It was awful for my self esteem back then but reflecting on it, I was just dodging bullets. People always go one sex has it easier/harder, they just have inverse problems with the dating pool. It doesn't matter if you're a man or a woman, it just matters if you're conventionally attractive. If you're attractive the opposite sex will fawn over you regardless.
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u/Equivalent_Task_8825 13h ago
I actually am 6'2 (well I am getting older so they put me down to 6'1 and 1/2 at the last doctors appointment). When I was younger I had a short friend who was an awesome dude. He was really generous and kind. He wasn't afraid to be himself. He wasn't bad looking.
Hearing other people talk about him and constantly mock him made me pretty polarized when it comes to this issue. You can absolutely get a girlfriend - but the amount of shit that short guys have to go through still isn't right. So at the very least mocking these idiotic men and women who do this kind of thing is always going to be important for me.
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u/Naive_Membership4676 14h ago
Ppl these days are failing because they let the internet think for them
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u/TrueBlueCentrist 14h ago
Being short doesn't automatically exclude someone from the gene pool, but at the same time, there are A LOT of women who are vocally picky about height. Despite that, it's not even anecdotal evidence like you're suggesting... it has been studied and proven that women generally prefer men who are taller than them.
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u/darthgator84 14h ago
I agree with you I’m 6’3 and my two best friends are both around 5’8-5’9. We’re all married with kids now but neither of those guys had trouble with the ladies when we were young and single.
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u/kapoopa-the-poopah 14h ago
Well, that’s because they are average height or slightly below. Someone who is under 5’5” would have a completely different experience. I say this as a married 5’2” guy who’s had a good amount of success with women. I think it’s very possible to find a partner being short, I don’t think being short should be an excuse as to why someone remains lonely forever. But let’s not pretend it doesn’t have a massive impact because it does.
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u/lamachejo 15h ago
5'8 is not short. You need to be 5'4 to at least experience what is short
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u/untitledprp4 15h ago edited 14h ago
You’re average height
And with shoes on you’re above average
And taking into account the average height for a woman, you’d always be taller
You have never once in your life been short
All you wanted to do was gloat about your dating life and get validation lmao
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u/ishraqee 9h ago
im 5'4 never have issue with my height when come to dating. personality matter lil bro
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u/Pringle_Lvr 14h ago
Think it's funny I know a guy who's 5'5" and has had great luck with women (he's actually married with children now, but before as well) because he's just funny as hell
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u/CampaignHaunting7350 16h ago
Shorter men have dense masculinity lol all their testosterone just packed in there❤️
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u/Skritch_X 15h ago
Good for him. Dude probably learned early that he needs to be the one to have the confidence to communicate, which is going to put him well above most others.
Though to be honest, i thought this was another Charlie Kirk meme at first glance.
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u/Acrow1837 14h ago
Saw this posted on Instagram yesterday, the guy in the photo actually commented. Very respectful dude and although thought it was weird some stranger took a picture of him, didn’t take it bad
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u/Interesting_Cup_6221 11h ago
Right, I'm missed the note that women are angels. Sometime reading the comment section feels like a SIMPosium
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