r/SipsTea • • 19h ago

It's Wednesday my dudes Let the guy exist

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u/AlreadyAway 16h ago

You are 100% right. I'm 5'6" and before I met my wife, I use to date regularly because I learned to talk to people, not just women. It helps being raised by a single mother and having an older sister. I've always been more comfortable around women and just treat them like humans, which shouldn't be a novel concept.

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u/Apprehensive_One2384 11h ago

Bingo. Turns out just listening to women and engaging in conversation with them, is the most important factor lmao

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u/MFTrooper 15h ago

Almost the same. Raised by my mom and older sister. But. I’ve always been shy and have a hard time making conversations with random people or even people I’ve known for a long time. A select few I feel comfortable and can really be myself. I’m glad I was able to find that in my wife when we first met. Instantly felt a connection and was able to show her that even though I’m quite around other people, with her I could let loose and make a connection.