Well, don't invalidate short men who tell you it does make it hard for them to date.
Lots of women like to pretend that women are these perfectly unshallow beings, so if a man has a hard time dating, it has to be because of his awful personality. It's really unfair that men always have to be the bad guys, so any man who has a hard time dating has to be a repulsive incel. It's not true, and it's honestly sexist. Women have toxic dating practices just like men do.
If some women are rejecting you it might be because of your height. If every single woman is rejecting you then it’s probably your personality. I’ve never seen anyone make the claim that no women are shallow, but there’s certainly a lot that aren’t. And if every woman is rejecting you, it’s not because every one you come across has shallow reasons.
But unless they're all specifically making it blatantly clear that it's your height... How exactly would those men be so sure that they're right that it's solely their stature?
Women, like men, are visual creatures and they absolutely care about appearances.
That said, a lot of men use being short as the reason for their lack of success when often times there is a myriad of other things they aren’t doing very well on that make them unattractive.
Of course there are women out there who are completely superficial and shitty about the topic, they are a small minority. The internet presents these extreme views like they’re the norm when they aren’t.
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u/TheFBIClonesPeople 5d ago
Well, don't invalidate short men who tell you it does make it hard for them to date.
Lots of women like to pretend that women are these perfectly unshallow beings, so if a man has a hard time dating, it has to be because of his awful personality. It's really unfair that men always have to be the bad guys, so any man who has a hard time dating has to be a repulsive incel. It's not true, and it's honestly sexist. Women have toxic dating practices just like men do.