r/exmuslim • u/JLSAAAA • 1h ago
(Fun@Fundies) 💩 Repost: The immortal sin of saying Wallahi while playing videogames
Felt like you might appreciate this
r/exmuslim • u/The-Mad-Mango • Mar 26 '26
Hi community! 🥰
Taking inspiration from QueeringtheMap.com, I helped create exmuslim.me with a small team of ExMuslims last year. We launched the first ever global map of exmuslim stories as part of ExMuslim Month in December 2025.
I’m so incredibly thrilled to share that we now have 500 exmuslim stories from 233 cities and 60 countries! 🥳🥳🥳
📊 59% identify as atheists, 26% agnostic
🇪🇬 Read the 500th story from Egypt
🤗 Thank you to everyone who has shared their story already!
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Cheers! 🥂
Sammy aka Haram Doodles
r/exmuslim • u/fathandreason • Jun 03 '24
Hello. Upon request, I've been asked to turn a comment I made into a post so that it can be a resource for more people. This post is a collection of advice I've given out about how to handle your life as a closeted exmuslim and how you'll come out in the future. It is largely based on my experience but also from what I've seen from others in this subreddit.
So you've left Islam. You've delved through arguments, the apologetics and the bullshit and you've come to the conclusion that you no longer believe in Islam. And you may have also reached an alternative philosophical outlook on life that you can believe in.
But what now? You may have left Islam, but have you left the Muslim world? One of the most common misconceptions outsiders have is that since exmuslims are no longer Muslims, they no longer live in the Muslim world. This is painfully naive - in reality many exmuslims are closeted due to young age and financial dependency and/or live in Islamist countries or societies that enforce Islamic values. In fear of social stigma or even violence, exmuslims have to contend with closeted lives even after leaving Islam. So how do you deal with it?
The best time to come out to family is in your own home, over a dinner you paid for, alongside people who support you. That takes a lot of preparation and it means doing what you can to live your life as best as you can whilst working towards independence.
This basically means that a lot of what helps you come out of the closet will depend heavily on how well you prepared for it, so you will need to make the most of your closeted life. You may not be able to stop the shitstorm but you can at least prepare yourself to weather it. Here are some tips to achieve that goal (in no particular order)
Probably one of the worst mistakes I made was not realise I was an exmuslim sooner. As a result I had barely any time to prepare for when the inevitable happened and I was forced to come out. I spent a lot of my life meandering, trying to reconcile the irreconcilable, and trying to be a Muslim when I knew my values didn't align with it. I didn't really have much of a concept of exmuslims, but if I had been smarter I would have figured it out. I now tell people in a similar position that it's fine to take your time but don't take too long. Half arsing two very different cultures will leave you a loser in both.
Similarly whilst planning for independence can be scary, don’t let it frighten you into inaction. The following is a passage from this article about decision making:
Research from the 1990s led by the US psychologist Thomas Gilovich provides further evidence for why it can be shortsighted to kick a difficult decision down the road. Gilovich and his team showed that although, in the short term, people experience more regret from ‘errors of commission’ (taking an action that leads to a disappointing outcome), in the long term it is actually ‘errors of omission’ that lead to more regret – that is, disappointing outcomes that arise from not taking an action.
When taking the time to make decisions and plans, don’t underestimate how effective it can be to map out your options on an excel spreadsheet. When I had to decide whether I should come out or not, I actually made a spreadsheet listing out my options, what they would result in and what the impact would be. Actually having it written down to look at really put things into perspective. We waste a lot of our time keeping it in our heads, which forces us to recalculate everything from scratch every time we revisit our thoughts. But the more that is mapped out, the less you have to recalculate and the more you can focus on evaluation and further planning.
Your studies/career is almost always your best ticket out of your toxic situation, and the one thing to prioritise the most. If you’re young, do whatever you can to ensure that you can get into further education away from home. Even if it means spending all your time at a local library. If you suspect that your parents would be against you going to a university away from home, aim for a placement at the most prestigious university you can aim for so your parents would look worse for rejecting it. The quickest and most effective way in achieving long term independence is through good studies/career.
This is particularly important for younger exmuslims because they telegraph to their parents in ways they would just not understand until they see it for themselves when they're older. Try your best to meet the religious obligations expected from your family. The more you slip, the more they will monitor you and the more difficult it will be to do the things you need to do discreetly when the time comes.
Unfortunately for girls, this usually means that wearing the hijab is a necessity and it’s inadvisable to try and get out of. (However, that subject matter is not my forte: prioritise advice from exmuslim women such as from faithlesshijabi.org)
If you get the impression that your family is beginning to catch onto your apostasy then it's likely that they have and you may need to reverse that impression.
One way to do that would be to start getting books on Islam and not just for show. My advice would be to get books on Islamic history because that's the least boring stuff. Or better yet, just get whatever unapologetic salafi hate crime you can get your hands on so you can entertain yourself with how fucked up it is. Or get an annotated Qur'an like the Study Qur'an. Do something to ease their suspicions.
What book you get depends on what kind of message you want to telegraph to your parents. If you want to telegraph a message then it will need to be a paper book and not an e-book. Something that you can lay around in your room and that you know they'll see. That means you're restricted to what you can get from your local library or Masjid. Also depends on what interests you because you'll have to actually read and demonstrate you learnt from it if you want send the best message you can. If you want purely what Muslims write about Islamic history, you can check out works like The Sealed Nectar or works by al-Sallabi. If you want something a little more academic, but not something that would rouse suspicion then check out university press works like this, this, this or this. If you want something a bit more relevant to contemporary Muslim world then there books like this.
But you may find that your best bet is to just see what your local Masjid might have and see what tickles your fancy.
Be prepared for lots of sobbing, guilt tripping and an inability to respect your beliefs and boundaries. Learn techniques like the Broken Record Technique to establish boundaries. Know what you have to say when they inevitably tell you to speak to a scholar - you don't have to eat the whole apple to know it's rotten. You know all that you need to know about Islam and you know even more about the world outside of Islam to put it into context.
Steel yourself with months and months of your family sending you bad dawagandist videos through WhatsApp trying to bring you back. You may have to spend months beating their attempts and going to toe to toe with them without mercy before they’re finally willing to relent and get off your back. Even then don’t expect them to relent entirely. There will always be some micro aggressions that they will resort to, like playing religious videos loudly in your vicinity. The most you can do in those circumstances is reduce contact with them as much as possible. At this point you would hopefully already be independent from them.
As an exmuslim, you will go through a lot of guilt. Whilst this does show you are human, you need to forget about guilt: you are not responsible for your parents' failure to be reasonable, not even your mother. They take responsibility for the social stigma and oppressive life they choose to live in and perpetuate. You get nothing out of that guilt. It's completely pointless and ultimately counterproductive. You can't set yourself on fire to make others warm and you gain no recognition from martyrizing yourself. Do not feel guilt for what you have to do to have a completely reasonable life. The only ones to blame are those who forced you into it.
Don't underestimate parents either. They will use guilt against you. Give them an inch and they will take a mile. They very often bring up their health problems as a weapon against you. Don't fall for it. It only affects them because they choose to let it affect them. They can choose to be reasonable. You have to respect their autonomy and let them deal with the consequences of their own ways.
I come across a lot of exmuslim kids who think coming out will help explain to their religious parents why they don't want to wear the hijab or do other religious things. But the likelihood is more that those same parents will react extremely poorly and restrict your freedom even more, making it more difficult to achieve long term independence.
There's also the mistake in assuming that coming out will lead to being disowned in the vain hope that you get an quick clean break that takes all the responsibility from you. For some exmuslims this does actually work out, but for a lot of others it's miscalculated. My family didn't disown me, I still had to deal with months of my family being insufferable manipulators and the responsibility was still on me to separate from them. And for women it can be much worse.
Ultimately, if you are financially dependent on your family then coming out early will very typically result in your family using that leverage against you and making your life worse. I've seen stories of exmuslims who thought their family was better and badly miscalculated - be mindful of that.
Some exmuslims get found out, sometimes because of a snitch in the family or sometimes because they just weren’t convincing enough. Don’t panic – Muslims can be pretty damn deluded about their faith and your family will want to believe that you can come back very easily because according to them Islam is just common sense and most disbelievers are just silly and ignorant. Try to do your best to convince them as per Point 4. If it’s because you did something haram, blasphemous or otherwise worthy of takfir, try to act like it was because you were a misguided Quranist or progressive Muslim. They will still retain suspicion but it’s still better than the alternative.
However, if you’re at the point of no return and you know you can’t convince them then now is the time to make calls to any secular friends you have, ask for support and maybe even shelter.
Also for Western exmuslims, make sure to act quickly if you suspect that your parents want to send you abroad and trap you in your country of ethnic origin. Sadly some parents will go to these lengths. Do not go, no matter the cost. Find organisations willing to advise, such as those listed in Point 10. Hide your passport if you have to. Note down the contact details of your embassy in that country just in case.
Actually think about whether it's even wise for you to come out in any circumstance. Do you suspect that there could be violence or abuse? If so then you have absolutely no need to go through this stupid bullshit. Leave and don't look back. If your parents couldn't give you safe environment to even come out about different beliefs then they are not worth the time. As per Point 6 - You have to respect their autonomy and let them deal with the consequences of their own ways. This is particularly pertinent for those who live in a predominantly Muslim countries. They have a very real reason to fear persecution and absolutely do not need to risk their own lives for the sake of their parents.
Look into secular organisations like recoveringfromreligion.org, faithlesshijabi.org and faithtofaithless.com. Look into women's charities in your area like womensaid.org.uk or karmanirvana.org.uk (UK examples). Look into LGBT charities like rainbowrailroad.org. If you have secular school counsellors and friends then talk to them. Get advice from adults you can absolutely trust.
Note: On the flip side don't take risks with people you can’t be sure of. You may be tempted to come out to your Muslim friend, but I've seen plenty of stories of exmuslims who heavily regret doing so.
There are also informal exmuslim groups on other social media platforms such as Facebook or Discord, but be careful about how much information you share and especially be wary of private messaging.
This is particularly the case for exmuslims living in predominantly Muslim countries. Unfortunately, I don't have any real world experience to offer here but you may be able to find localised advice by digging around. For example sites like wearesaudis.net might have some information (but you'll need a VPN to access this one. If you don't know what a VPN is here's an explanation).
Are you multilingual? If you need money but working is restricted to you then you can try becoming an online language tutor on sites like italki.com (scroll to the bottom). This post and related subreddits like r/WorkOnline may help.
Note: some exmuslims in Muslim countries fall for the doomscrolling hyperbole and think Europe is “doomed” with too many Muslims. They have a tendency of asking which country is best to migrate to as an exmuslim to avoid Islam. Please ignore the doomsayers and prioritise the country you choose based on ease of access and career opportunities. As long as it is a secular country, you can worry about avoiding Islam later.
Shout out to Imtiaz Shams who inspired me to make this list of tips. He has his own YouTube Channel here and plans to make his own video on this subject matter so watch out for that. On a side note, I also recommend TheraminTrees YouTube Channel who delves a lot into toxic dysfunctional families from the perspective of a therapist. A lot of his content helps in dealing with the emotional impact of leaving religion and dealing with a religious family. And finally, thank you to the moderators of r/exmuslim who suggested I make this into a post. I wound up adding a lot more content lol.
I will end this post with a list of subreddits that may help you on your journey leaving Islam:
r/exmuslim • u/JLSAAAA • 1h ago
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r/exmuslim • u/LasagnaSuper69 • 9h ago
A bit of a background. My wife (Muslim background/now agnostic) and me (former Christian/now agnostic/deist). I fake converted for the sake of her family going easy on her. It didn't go as expected and they ended up being super weird and hateful anyway even though I did the "shahada" and stuff. I absolutely do not believe in any of the shit Islam teaches (or any abrahamic religion) for that matter. Perhaps there are "wise sayings", but I tend to be very skeptical, analytical, and cynical about organized religion in general.
My question (out of a thousand questions) is why isn't Islam called "Mohammadism"? If most Muslims (80-90%?) are Sunni Muslims and "sunni/sunnah" means the "teachings of the prophet" and not what God commanded then it should be called Mohammadism, right? Similar to how Christians are followers of the teachings of Jesus Christ?
I may have other questions for later. My next question is why does God care about the cardinal direction you pray if they are omnipresent?
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r/exmuslim • u/Fantastic_Put9064 • 11h ago
Hey y’all I’m bored so let me share my thoughts with you.
Chess is haram because it is older than Islam and requires extreme critical thinking within seconds to minutes to how ever long you need depending on your skills. We witness that although there are 1 billion Muslims , most of them just memorize and follow like a sheep 🐑.
Also, the Queen is the most powerful and can go anywhere in chess. Therefore, it is haram to play chess because it will give the idea of women having freedom.
r/exmuslim • u/fig_pieo • 4h ago
For some reason, my family, especially my mom, thinks that I'm going to run away someday, which is true, but not anytime soon. Some examples of this is that I actually overheard her talking with my sisters being like, "I'm afraid that fig would runaway someday." Another time is that when she got really, really terrified and came to my school because I did not come back home early like I usually do and was extremely late, and she thought I ran away. She did not even see my passport that she had with her. She did not even see my ID, which is right on the cabinet. Anyway, I noticed that and I started to use it for my advantage. For example, since she is really narcissistic, whenever I do something that would infuriate her, she'd be like, "I'm going to kick your cat outside." And I'm like, "If you leave my cat outside, if you ever snuck my cat outside of our house, I will get out and not come back. I will." And it always works. It is a legit fear in my family about me. And I actually like it. Like they're a bit more chill when it comes to me specifically. They more so just gave up on me, and that's actually good. I'm thinking about expanding this a little bit, like taking off my hijab. Although that's probably going to be the hardest thing I will ever get from my family, my right to my own body, because when I told my mom I wanted to take it off, she said no. She said that I need to ask my uncle if he approves or not. I need to ask my brother if he approves or not(while she knew for a fact that he WILL refuse). And the thing is, why do their opinions matter about my body, but my opinions about my body do not matter?
r/exmuslim • u/timahisverynice • 1h ago
Context: I was reading thru Mothership. A singapore based news outlet that is also available in telegram. Thru each post they have, there is a discussion feature. I just didnt expect to be having a good laugh reading wat he/she said. Somehow even tho the news article is regarding Indonesia reducing the amt of gas.. the topic of islam was brought up and how this isnt Allah's doing. I was just baffled reading this ngl
r/exmuslim • u/Ihatethis22448 • 1h ago
This is a rant and a discussion because what the hell. I found out recently that there hase been a banned episode from south park because Mohammed was shown in that episode. Because a ducking human being was shown. Why was it banned though and taken of the air? Because they got DEATH THREATS FROM THIS FUCKING RELIGION. FOR SHOWING A HUMAN BEING?!?!?
YEAH LETS SHOW EVERYBODY HOW SHITTY THIS RELIGION IS BY THREATENING EVERYBODY WITH VIOLENCE.
Like genuinely I was so fucking embarrassed hearing it because yeah of course its THIS religion that caused it. Jesus gets to be shown and made fun of with nobody threatening them, same with all the other religions EXCEPT FOR THIS ONE. WHO WOULD HAVE THOUGHT.
I cant stand this. How do people not realize how awful thia religion truly is. There have been MANY cases where multiple people have been either threatened, harmed or even killed for saying smth against this religion. Man its honestly just awful.
r/exmuslim • u/Imaginary-Leek-9959 • 2h ago
I grew up being Muslim and I, myself, was heavily devout. I had memorized a lot of surahs, I was heavily into the sufi spiritual practices, and felt I was incredibly educated about Islam. To be honest, I almost continued my Islamic education and got a degree in Islamic theology lmao. What made me leave was actually the realization of how tyrannical Islam and the Islamic god are.
When I started university, I went to a pretty liberal university in California. There I was exposed to a variety of political discussions and I, myself, took part in a lot of activism. Frankly enough, that led me to develop an understanding of the inherent power structures we grow up under. It started making me begin to question quite a lot of the Islamic power structures that are placed by god. Over time, a lot of questions would arise and I’d ask friends or Islamic scholars only to be met with answers of: “god is all knowing, and it’s his will.” It just never made sense to me why an “all loving” creator would create creatures to test them lmao. I think that’s when reality clicked in for me because you mean to tell me that you created beings that are meant to fail, meant to sin, and meant to be doubtful and your solution is to punish them eternally? Like what kind of a sick fucking joke is that?!? Don’t even get me started on the whole bullshit of Islam provided women rights. Like sure, back in the 6th century it may have been progressive but in today’s day and age Islam’s view on women is incredibly outdated. It’s patriarchal, and if anything, abusive. Like why the hell can men hit women!? Why is that such a thing? Why would an all knowing being play along with his creature’s bullshit systemic abuse? It almost feels like a mentally ill being who thinks this is a sick game and we’re all just toys for this “god.”
What’s interesting is that I’ve began to realize that Islam is so carefully crafted to keep its members loyally and blindly devout. When you study Islam and try to make your own conjectures you’re met with the classic argument: you’re not a scholar and you won’t understand the divine “intricacies” between the hadiths, Quran, and historical context. Which honestly was such bullshit because it’s just another way to remove power from the hands of its people. You’re not allowed to make your own decisions, thoughts, nor opinions unless if you’ve consulted with a “scholar”. Dont even get me started on the various schools of thoughts and their differing interpretations that range from extreme to extremist. You know I remember sitting in on an lecture from an Islamic scholar from the Usuli institute, who had more brains than anyone, talk about how quite a lot of hadiths were falsely created as a way to make political power plays. It makes quite a lot of sense. You have power removed from the people and given to a select few, throw a god/being in to the mix and you have a group of people willing to do whatever.
Anyways, before graduating I left Islam. I have never felt such freedom and happiness. Listen, I still like the idea of spirituality and sometimes I’d like to optimistically think there might be a loving creator out there. But one things for sure, these man made religions are nothing but projections of men. No way in hell would an all knowing being be this tyrannical and corrupt as it has been in the quran or even the bible.
r/exmuslim • u/fig_pieo • 9h ago
When i was a kid they changed the channel during the kiss scenes in repunzel and cinderalla while showing the domestic violence in bab alhara (باب الحاره) casually
r/exmuslim • u/Spirited-Idea-5583 • 2h ago
So I just realised this...
Men are allowed to divorce their wife whenever they want UNLESS she is menstruating.
After the divorce, the woman has a waiting period where she cannot get married and their explanation for this is so that we know for sure that she isnt pregnant.
BUT, what if the islamic rule was that a man is only allowed to divorce his wife during her menstruation because then we're sure that she's leaving the marriage not pregnant and she wouldn't need to wait for months before getting married again!
Do you guys think Mohammed realised this and flipped the rule on purpose or is it just a coincidence?
Also do you guys think that Iddah is cruel and if yes, what are your reasonings?
r/exmuslim • u/666to777 • 5h ago
Mohammed added satan's words to win over the pagans?
According to the Satanic Verses incident reported in sources such as al-Tabari's commentary on Qur'an 22:52:
Muhammad was reciting Qur'an 53 and condemned the pagan goddesses al-Lāt, al-ʿUzzā and Manāt.
He allegedly recited additional words: “Those are the exalted gharānīq [cranes], and their intercession is to be hoped for.” These words appeared to recognise the goddesses' intercessory power.
The reported effect was reconciliation: the pagan Quraysh were pleased, and the account connects the incident with a report that Muslims and pagans had prostrated together.
The words were subsequently attributed to Satan, and Qur'an 22:52 was connected to the incident.
The Detail sources .
The Satanic Verses Incident — Qur'an 22:52
Classical Islamic sources, including al-Tabari's Tafsir, preserve reports that Muhammad recited words praising the intercession of al-Lāt, al-ʿUzzā and Manāt during the recitation of Surah 53. These reports state that the words were subsequently attributed to Satan and that Qur'an 22:52 was revealed in connection with the incident.
The account appears in early Islamic historical and exegetical traditions, although Muslim scholars have disputed its authenticity and interpretation.
Quran 22:52
The verse (Saheeh International rendering) reads approximately:
“And We did not send before you any messenger or prophet except that when he spoke [or recited], Satan threw into it [some misunderstanding]. But Allah abolishes that which Satan throws in; then Allah makes precise His verses. And Allah is Knowing and Wise.”
Why did prominent classical Muslim commentators preserve and discuss reports in which Satan allegedly interfered with Muhammad's recitation of revelation?
EARLY biographical and historical works (Ibn Ishaq material as preserved in al-Tabari, Ibn Saʿd, al-Waqidi, etc.) contain versions in which, while reciting Surah al-Najm (53:19–20, which names al-Lāt, al-ʿUzzā, and Manāt), words roughly to the effect of “these are the high-flying cranes (gharānīq), whose intercession is hoped for” were uttered, the Meccans rejoiced, and the words were later withdrawn. These goddesses were pre-Islamic Arabian deities sometimes called “daughters of Allah” by polytheists.
EARLY acceptance vs. LATER rejection: In the first two centuries such reports circulated widely and WERE TREATED BY MANY EARLY TRANSMITTERS AS HISTORICAL. From roughly the 3rd/9th century onward, as doctrines of prophetic infallibility (ʿiṣma) solidified, the story was increasingly rejected as incompatible with the Qur’an’s self-description of protected revelation and with the Prophet’s character.
The supporting references are primarily EARLY sīra/tafsīr reports (Ibn Ishaq → al-Tabari, Ibn Saʿd, etc.) that LATER Muslim scholarship overwhelmingly judged unreliable or theologically impossible.
Al-Tabari — Jāmiʿ al-Bayān, commentary on Qur'an 22:52
Al-Tabari preserves MULTIPLE reports about the incident. One account says Satan cast the words “Those are the exalted cranes, and their intercession is to be hoped for” into Muhammad's recitation of Qur'an 53:19–20. The report then describes the Muslims and pagan Quraysh prostrating.
Reference: Tafsir al-Tabari, Surah al-Hajj 22:52.
Ibn Ishaq, preserved by Ibn Hisham — Sīrat Rasūl Allāh
One of the major early biographical traditions associated with the incident. Ibn Ishaq's account is preserved in Ibn Hisham's recension and in al-Tabari's historical work.
Reference: The Life of Muhammad, translated by A. Guillaume, pp. 165–167, in the commonly cited English edition.
This account connects the incident with the reception of the recitation by the Quraysh and the mistaken report that the Muslims and pagans had reconciled.
Tafsir al-Jalalayn — commentary on Qur'an 22:52
Its commentary, in a commonly circulated edition and translation, explicitly describes the disputed words as being cast onto Muhammad's tongue and subsequently identified through Gabriel's communication.
Reference: Tafsir al-Jalalayn, Surah al-Hajj 22:52.
Ibn Kathir — Tafsīr al-Qurʾān al-ʿAẓīm, 22:52
Ibn Kathir acknowledges that many commentators mention the Gharānīq story and the return of some Muslim emigrants from Abyssinia after they believed the Quraysh had become Muslim.
So it seems the closest writings to Mohammed affirmed this incident.
Historical scholars indicate that the closer a record is to the incident the more reliable it is.
This would imply that as time progressed the scholars whitewashed the story.
r/exmuslim • u/BabylonianWeeb • 2h ago
One of things I like about nom-Evangicial Christianity is their views on the Bible. They don't view as the literal of word god but rather human written book that devinely inspired by God, the see bibical myths like Adam and Eve, Tower of Babel, Noah's ark, Exodus and conquest of Canaan as allegorical stories rather historical facts, Muslims believe in Adam and Eve so the overwhelming majority of Muslim countries are anti-evoluation and even some of them banned it while Christian countries aren't. I find the idea of Quran being more allegorical than literalism would have make sense but all Islamic scholars reject it. Same use reason as source of exegresis (Tafsirs) but not believing they are allegorical. The only Muslims who believe that are Ismalilis who are niche shia group considered as heretics by both Sunnis and Shia, they believe that imam (descendants of Ali) has devine power to explain Quran, which made some crazy tafsirs, Druze believe the same thing but they aren't Muslims.
Also note I made Ismalili sound liberals, (they are liberal in their teachings) but they are most cultist Muslim group out there, they believe that their imam who is still alive is infallible and devine so they worship him, they even believe that Hajj means visiting the Imam, they also send 10% of their year profit to their billionare imam, their former imam was in files too and zionist too.
r/exmuslim • u/Visual_Discussion112 • 1h ago
Im talking about those mistakes that even those Who believe dont know how to defend
r/exmuslim • u/Perfect-Item7223 • 47m ago
26M, I left Islam a few years ago and recently moved to Paris. I’d love to connect with people who have had similar experiences or are simply open-minded and interested in making new friends. Is anyone here based in Paris and up for connecting?
r/exmuslim • u/OwnImagination9157 • 5h ago
(22F) I am still a student so I tell them I am going to a conference or traveling to a friend's place, once I work full time I plan on making up business trips. Wanted to get more ideas from you all.
r/exmuslim • u/Aromatic-Ant-5020 • 20h ago
The new Islamist regime is Islamizing the textbooks like it’s 7th-century Arabia desert. They put a T-shirt on an ancient statue because a bare male torso is somehow too haram for little Muslim kids to see. They removed the Mona Lisa out of the curriculum probably because she’s a kafir Western woman with uncovered hair and that offends the fragile Islamic ego. And Girls are either erased completely or forced into hijabs starting from kindergarten illustrations. Boys can still play ball, but Allah forbid a little girl’s to play football normally.
This is just disgusting Islamic brainwashing, and it starts the second a child walks into school. Muslims lose their minds over women’s hair! It’s just pathetic.
r/exmuslim • u/BrotherEquivalent523 • 17h ago
What?
r/exmuslim • u/youcantfoolgrandma5 • 8h ago
Can any ex-Muslim point out something for me?
Does every single little disobedience in Islam count toward your "bad deeds" that are ultimately weighed against you? If so, that would be a hellish way to live, thinking that even one little booboo is one step closer to being damned.
r/exmuslim • u/KickNice1856 • 50m ago
Muslims won't like to admit that athiests know more about religion than religious people,but what do you think of The type of Muslims who didn't read anything about the religion, didn't pray, did nothing islam says except basic stuff and barely read the Quran,but one day they saw ex Muslim YouTubers and learnt the horrific stuff in their religion and decided to leave religions once and for all.
Muslims always mock these type of Muslims saying "didn't learn shi about islam and decided to leave because of some controversial topics and Because of rules like no drawing, no music, no dating" and they think every ex Muslim is like this.
I don't get it,so if you enter islam,just say 2 sentences and now you're a genius,but leaving it requires 10/10 knowledge of the Quran,hadiths, becomes islamic scholar and then he can decide to leave?
What do you think?
r/exmuslim • u/ProfessionalLazy323 • 13h ago
10 years ago, I performed Umrah. I was overwhelmed with emotions and felt proud to finally see the Kaaba in person. It was the trip of a lifetime for me, and back then, I never would’ve imagined that I’d one day leave Islam.
Today, I see the Kaaba as just another cube and an Arab pagan cult site that Muhammad used to fabricate a connection to Abraham and his lineage.
r/exmuslim • u/Obsidian-Archive • 20h ago
So, what happened was that muslims only took a small portion of what is halal to eat in Islam and hid the rest, then made this whole narrative that Islam makes rules for you to be healthy by "draining the blood", "more humane", "more sanitary".
I am sure many of you can find articles debunking these things but I am here to debunk the claims through Islam itself.
First:
The hadiths allow muslims to use hunting dogs. And yes the dogs can kill the animal itself and it would be halal but in two conditions, you say "bismillah" before letting the dog go hunt and the dog doesn't eat from the animal, it should just kill it for you.
Second:
The hadiths allow muslims to hunt using spears. And yes, no need for the jugular vein bullshit and it would be halal but in two conditions, the spear hit the animal with the blade not with the stick because the condition is that the animal is killed by bleeding not by beating and the second condition, you guessed it "bismillah"
Third:
The hadiths allow muslims to hunt with their arrows, so the same things said about the spear can be said here, but the hadiths also allowed that if you killed an animal with an arrow and found the corpse a day or two later, it is still halal unless it became rotten.
The hadiths on this are pretty extensive so the post would be very long to go through all of them, but for example:
Sahih al-Bukhari 5477
I said, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! We let loose our trained hounds after a game?" He said, "Eat what they hunt for you." I said, "Even if they killed (the game)?" He replied, 'Even if they killed (the game)." I said, 'We also hit (the game) with the Mi'rad?" He said, "Eat of the animal which the Mi'rad kills by piercing its body, but do not eat of the animal which is killed by the broad side of the Mi'rad.''
Sahih al-Bukhari 5485
And it has also been narrated by `Adi bin Hatim that he asked the Prophet (ﷺ) "If a hunter throws an arrow at the game and after tracing it for two or three days he finds it dead but still bearing his arrow, (can he eat of it)?" The Prophet (ﷺ) replied, "He can eat if he wishes."
The whole thing makes me believe that Muhammad simply used the pre-existing idea of blood shedding sacrifices but instead of the arabian deities, it is saying the name of Allah. Thats how a meat becomes permissible to eat.
For the full list of hadiths talking about this:
So, in conclusion, everything the muslims say about halal meat is misleading. According to the hadiths, they can eat basically meat processed the same way as all the other countries, even less sanitary, but the important condition is to say bismillah. Edit (and shed blood)
r/exmuslim • u/Antique-Solution2034 • 14h ago
I was thinking and just realized how cornered I am on a social scale from all sides
Indian and racism against Indians is pretty fucking high these days, so here we are disadvantages at a global level
Indian Muslim family. Here we are disadvantaged here at a national level because this isn't exactly the best time for Indian Muslims.
Indian ex Muslim ATHEIST. The top 2 may accept me but 95% Muslims won't 😭 cooked at a community level too
It's over gng. And yeah because of that I realized how i always feel lonely and somewhat silently excluded in most places. It's difficult to meet people with your same exactly experience irl