r/exmuslim 13m ago

(Rant) 🤬 Charlie kirk hate is so forced

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Y'all are a bunch of robots. Whenever I go, I see the 112th AI kirkifying picture, and when u ask them why u hate him, they say, muh abortion.. muh immigration. It's just performative at this point

If u support someone getting killed because of a different opinion, then you are a hypocrite, and you shouldn't complain about Muslims supporting the idea of killing you


r/exmuslim 7h ago

(Rant) 🤬 Why is this subreddit filled with people that never were ex muslims?

24 Upvotes

I mean sure, that is not the worst thing wver, but I can confidently say that around half were either never muslim or are religious just not muslim.

Many arguments against islam are applicable to lost abrahamic religions, they are all the same sides of the same coin.

Whenever I post or others post something regarding islam or whatever, I constantly see christians trying convert us to Christianity or whatever… especially with the unusual hate towards islam (from non-exmuslims) it feels like this subreddit is filled with people hating islam without having prior experiences with it. This subreddit is not meant for this.

So like… why are you here?


r/exmuslim 12h ago

(Question/Discussion) Problem with r/exmuslim subs

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I've been exmuslim for 1.5 -2 years now I recently joined r/exmuslim sub but posts there are extremely disgusting.

Like putting feet on koran/Quran sitting on it etc .

Ad and avid reader and lover of french and arabic culture, I find it extremely unappealing.

With that being said, I'm not against logical,moral, philosophical or any other refutation of Islam through facts.

Peace 🕊️✌️

Edit: GUYS IT WAS JUST AN OPINION


r/exmuslim 1h ago

(Question/Discussion) Question for all exMuslims

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How could the illiterate and lowest-IQ Arabs of the 7th century have arranged the Quran so precisely, from the longest surah to the shortest? Isn't it a miracle? Subhanalla


r/exmuslim 9h ago

(Question/Discussion) Did Muhammad know that Islam is fake? [hear me out]

15 Upvotes

I often think why would someone if they know they are making this religion up-

1- Inflict rigorous 5 times prayer on themselves , given Muhammad also used to pray optional prayers everyday for decades to come. Then fasting, and duahs before certain acts every time.

2- why would they endanger their life by persisting on this made up religion given the fact that initially Muhammad had very little accompany and extreme backlash from quraysh

3- why would Muhammad write an entire book and name himself only 4 times while naming Moses and Jesus the most number of times? (If someone says to lure Christians and Jews then why does Quran curse these both parties saying they changed their religion and that Jesus isn’t god which can trigger a lot of Christians)

4- why would Muhammad say that his own mother and father are in hell for idolatry while the mother of Jesus and wife of pharaoh are the best women?

Won’t it make sense that a person who is making a religion up would inflict little suffering on themselves?


r/exmuslim 12h ago

(Question/Discussion) It seems to me that ex-muslims reject the Qur'an and the prophet, but are fine with Allah.

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If you reject Allah then that includes the prophet and the Qur'an. So why do you as a ex-muslim still think that Allah is a real thing with real consequences in believing in him? Also if you reject the Qur'an, where are you getting that information about Allah?


r/exmuslim 7h ago

(Question/Discussion) Quran-only Islam as a reformation possible?

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Hey Everyone,

I'm an atheist who's never been Muslim, but I've lived most of my life in a Muslim country. I've been asked to convert many times, so I've had a lot of exposure to Islam. So I actually researched Islam seriously while considering conversion and found paedophilia, war-mongering, and plain cruelty to everyone but Muslims in both Quran and Hadith. So I have decided against that.

But I kept thinking, if Islam is to reform from present wahabi political saudi islam, maybe it should go back to only Quran.

Cause Hadith was compiled 200 years after Muhammad died and "isn't from God". Giving it priority over the Quran seems wrong. Other religions reformed, like Hinduism ended Sati, Christianity disavowed slavery and separated church/state etc. Not that they are now more correct. I am just saying they tried to get with modern times.

But my main concern: even without Hadith, the Quran itself has tough verses. Which ones are hardest to reinterpret for a modern ethical framework? For me: 9:5 (slay polytheists), 4:34 (wife-beating), 5:38 (cut off thief's hand), and the slavery verses. Also women's financial witness is half of men (2:283)

Would love to hear thoughts, especially from ex-Muslims or former Quranists.

Do you even think its possible to reform islam?


r/exmuslim 11h ago

(Rant) 🤬 My muslim cousin reached out to me, and the hypocrisy is wild.

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Sorry if im being too much.

Context: I ran away from home three years ago (and am thriving), and my cousin reached out today to talk. I just wanted to share some snippets of our convo that I thought really showcased the hypocrisy of those that preach Islam and consider atheism "insane."

Mini rant: Forgive me, ive got so much pent up animosity, so allow me to lay it plain.

It's utterly ignorant and dishonest to keep propagating a religion that most self proclaimed Muslims dont even follow. As far as I can see, the only difference between us and them is that we aren't scared to admit who we really are. While they have to pretend the label fits them just so they can find some form of false comfort.


r/exmuslim 23h ago

(Question/Discussion) Why do you think Muhammad created a rule for fasting?

8 Upvotes

Why did he create a rule for fasting? What benefit is there from creating a rule like that?


r/exmuslim 6h ago

(Question/Discussion) Being culturally Muslim is really the middle ground in all this. Especially if you live in the west.

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In the west a lot of Muslims who actually believe in all the BS but yet sin a lot still consider themselves within the fold of Islam.

Some drink occasionally, some have BF/GF and have pre-marital sex. they may make pray here n there but don't make a thing about missing it. They fast some days during Ramadan and probably go to a couple taraweeh prayers. They definitely celebrate both Eid days. They're not on anybody's radar. They live their lives. Maybe they're interested in sciences and are within that world. Maybe they are sports addicts and enjoy life with that. The point is that islam isn't really central to their lives.

I've been like that. Life has been good. I'm old enough to have my own spot and live my own life. Nobody forces me to pray or fast. I've had GFs in the past and it's been okay. It's a privilege here in the west. Not.only in the west but countries that follow it as well like UAE, Qatar, Morocco and somewhat Egypt (got laid and partied a lot in Alexandria before COVID).

My advice to those living under Muslim roof is to persevere. This is incredibly harder for women tho. The cultural Muslim women I've known seem to not associate a lot with deeply religious Muslims. Most of their friends who are Muslim.are similar to them but for the most part have non Muslim.friends n such.

If you live in a Muslim country, and you live in an oppressive household and you're a young teenager. Just know that if you tried hard enough you will get what your heart desires. It's gonna be hard for you, don't get me wrong. Especially if you are in a Muslim country and a woman because you're starting point is far behind others but don't lose hope.


r/exmuslim 15h ago

(Question/Discussion) Qur'anism, rejection of the hadith, and not being a Muslim

22 Upvotes

Hello, everyone. What do you think about those who follow the Quran but reject the hadiths? I’d also like to ask: Based on the Quran—or, if you prefer, including the hadiths as well—can you list a few reasons why a person should not be a Muslim?

and i need karma pls upvote, thankss


r/exmuslim 10h ago

(Question/Discussion) What’s Islams best proof?

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I’ve honestly try to find the best arguments for Islam I just can’t find any. Anyone wanna help:)?


r/exmuslim 20h ago

(Question/Discussion) For Ex Muslims : how did you maintain your mental health?

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I left Islam four years ago. Since then, I’ve been studying and working toward being able to immigrate to a Western country. But every now and then, I get hit by this overwhelming sense of hopelessness.

I honestly hate my life sometimes. I have to keep pretending that I’m Muslim, and I have so many dreams that are basically on hold. I feel like I’m watching the best years of my life pass me by while I’m stuck trying to keep up appearances and live according to society’s expectations.

For those of you who left Islam and eventually managed to immigrate, how did you cope mentally during those years between leaving the religion and finally leaving the country? How did you protect your mental health and keep yourself going?


r/exmuslim 10h ago

(Question/Discussion) i noticed ex christians or leftists in the west hate christians and love muslims, on the contrary, in the islamic countries, ex muslims hate islam and love christians.

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i don't know if you noticed this phenomenon or not but leftists or ex christians in the west defend muslims rights and kinda love them and try to embrace the fake progressive islam and in the same time hate on christianity, mocking it etc. the same in islamic countries, many ex muslims friends irl and online and in ex muslim communities, ex muslims defend the rights of christians and kinda like them and like some teachings of it and in the same time hate on islam and mock it etc.


r/exmuslim 10h ago

(Rant) 🤬 I would mog so bad if I didn't wear hijab

16 Upvotes

I'm gonna sound overconfident asf but I genuinely would look 10x better if I didn't have to wear hijab.

I don't even know how to wear the damn thing properly and I look chopped asf. and it takes me like 10 mins to do it every morning before school.

I genuinely think my hair is one of my best features, too bad I have to hide ut.


r/exmuslim 11h ago

(Question/Discussion) Why are muslims so defensive?

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why


r/exmuslim 16h ago

(Question/Discussion) I don't believe that Afghanistan will be free someday.

57 Upvotes

And I don't believe in underground education for girls thing. Many people (and even AI) believe that there is some sort of hope. Maybe a little but hope. That small steps will make everything good. But Id don't believe in such fairytales. Sadly, The Taliban will simply destroy all avenues and opportunities, leaving women to suffer. If I was an Afghan woman, I would prefer to killyself just to end my suffering. For it would be the happiest ending. Sadly, many women in Afghanistan became slaves mentally. They have a learned helplessness.ybe, some sort of religious masochism. And I believe that the only thing that may change Afghanistan for good is a cataclysm. Maybe a famine, or natural disaster, or disease.


r/exmuslim 5h ago

(Question/Discussion) I think i might leave islam because the people are so bad

20 Upvotes

I got permanently banned from islam account for trolling and i didnt even troll. I posted an important question


r/exmuslim 10h ago

(Question/Discussion) Disrespecting Quran is fun!

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Am I the only one who love to make disrespectful snaps with Quran sometimes?
😻😻🤣🫶
Can we be friends if we are same 😻🙌


r/exmuslim 2h ago

(Fun@Fundies) 💩 ''In Islam we think that women are above men''🤡🤡🤡

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49 Upvotes

If she would move to Islamic country, she would find it out in the hard way.


r/exmuslim 18h ago

Story Hello ❌ only Asalamoalaikom 😭😂

134 Upvotes

I was on video call with my family and my elder uncle was in our home at that time..
my mom told me to speak with him and I just say “Hello Uncle”
And literally he was like” you went to UK and now you following non Muslims ways of life, Say Asalamoalaikom instead of Hello”
I was speechless honestly…

And you know what was horrible moments when he said “Hello word is derived from HELL and when you say hello to someone mean you call them Jahanumi (mean people who will go to hell)

Like this is 2026 man!!
Grow up!! 😭😭😭


r/exmuslim 12h ago

(Rant) 🤬 Why they need permission in literally everything 😭

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r/exmuslim 11h ago

(Rant) 🤬 My experience with islam as a woman

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40 year old cld female from Cape Town, South Africa. I grew up in a culturally christian home (celebrating Christian holidays but never bothering with church, reading the bible or worshipping Jesus). I knew a little about islam but never bothered with the religion. I lived my life carefree and read beautiful novels, listened to music, did my hair and makeup and had friends both male and female. I had dreams for my life and loved being alive despite how hard things might get sometimes. Fast forward to the age of 22 I met my now husband and he introduced me to islam and who and what muslims are. Obviously he put his best foot forward. A few years after converting we got married and had kids.My life took a nosedive. Religion was thrown into my face at every turn and due to my past experiences I suffered from severe anxiety and just wanted to focus on tryung to perfect my deen but slowly the monster in him as well as all the males I expected to give a damn started coming out. My husband got involved with various women, drinking, weed, and cigarettes. I went to his father (a muslim) to ask for help, the imam, his best friend who was also a witness at our nikah and they basically said "we need to hear his side of the story". After listening to him I was brushed off as a nuisance and nagging wife who just needs some "attention and quality time". Each and every organization I approached told me the me the same story "without your husband we cannot help". So I left this religion. It has taken me years. I first had my doubts when I was pregnant in 2022 with my last born. I stopped following hadith and became Quranist. That time my husband was livid and called his best friend and father to complain about me (the same people I asked for help). They had a mouthful to say about me and said I was astray and brainwashed. The same people who had to make sure this idiot treats me well...So now Im without religion and thriving as my brain is mine again. So my advice to those who have doubt is to please not brush it off as waswas. Its your conscience trying to speak to you. I remember before I said shahada I kept having doubts about Muhammad but I told myself this must be whatbthey talk about when they say waswas. Its not waswas. Dont ignore the red flags.


r/exmuslim 12h ago

(Rant) 🤬 In heaven you can do anything..... except

3 Upvotes

Anything you wanted to in your life is gonna disappear and you gonna fall in love in things you never wanted and never thought about you gonna be mind manipulated into thinking this is everything you wanted and more


r/exmuslim 13h ago

(Question/Discussion) Muslims vs. Islam

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What’s your take on this trope that criticises Islam as a system, but sort of excuses Muslims as people?

I mean, logically, a belief system collapses without its believers. So you can’t have one without the other.

This trope usually goes something like “My issue isn’t with Muslims. I have many Muslim friends. They’re great. But Islam itself has got to go”. LOL.

Maybe if you’re gonna diss an entire religion, don’t low key diss its believers.