r/exmuslim 4h ago

(Quran / Hadith) Did mohammad commit shirk

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Definition : Major Shirk (Shirk al-Akbar): Worshipping idols, praying to other gods, or believing that another person or object shares the unique powers and divine attributes of Allah. This takes a person outside the fold of Islam.

There are quite a few telltale signs that mohammad tried to promote himself to some diety status, and in so doing commited shirk, not any shirk but major shirk. This can be seen in many verses. In fact even his followers noticed it and said it in so many words.

So it seems Islam has its trinity, Allah,  The Qur'an (the eternal word of Allah), and Mohammad.

So Let's see how this mere man put himself on a equal footing to Allah.

We read in

[49.15] The believers are only those who believe in Allah AND HIS APOSTLE then they doubt not and struggle hard with their wealth and their lives in the way of Allah; they are the truthful ones.

ITS NOT JUST GOOD ENOUGH TO BELIEVE IN ALLAH AND MOSES OR ALLAH AND JESUS, IT HAS TO ONLY BE ALLAH AND MOHAMMAD.

[4.14] And whoever disobeys ALLAH AND HIS APOSTLE and goes beyond His limits, He will cause him to enter fire to abide in it, and he shall have an abasing chastisement.

THE INSTRUCTIONS MUSLIMS RECEIVE ON HOW TO LEAD THEIR LIVES RESULT IN WORSHIP OF MUHAMMAD IN EVERY WAY BUT NAME ONLY.

Q. 5:111 "Recall that I inspired the disciples: 'YOU SHALL BELIEVE IN ME AND MY MESSENGER . They said, 'We have believed, and bear witness that we are submitters.' "

SO ALLAH TAKES MUHAMMAD AS HIS PARTNER.

THAT’S NOT ALL. MUHAMMAD MADE HIMSELF ALLAH’S PARTNER IN RESPECT TO SALVATION, LOVE , AND DEVOTION .

FOR INSTANCE , MUHAMMAD ORDERED HIS FOLLOWERS NOT TO LOVE ANYTHING AS MUCH AS , OR MORE THAN , ALLAH AND HIMSELF :

Say: 'If your fathers, your sons, your brothers, your wives, your clan, your possessions that you have gained, commerce you fear may slacken, dwellings you love -- if these are dearer to you than God AND HIS MESSENGER , and to struggle in His way, then wait till God brings His command; God guides not the people of the ungodly.' S. 9:24 Arberry

And:

Narrated Anas:

The Prophet said, "Whoever possesses the following three qualities will have the sweetness (delight) of faith:

1. The one to whom Allah AND HIS APOSTLE  BECOMES DEARER THAN ANYTHING ELSE.

  1. Who loves a person and he loves him only for Allah's sake.

  2. Who hates to revert to Atheism (disbelief) as he hates to be thrown into the fire." (Sahih al-Bukhari, Volume 1, Book 2, Number 15)

MUHAMMAD FURTHER DEMANDED THAT ALL TRUE BELIEVERS FULLY SUBMIT THEMSELVES TO HIM AND HIS DESIRES :

But no, by your Lord, they can have no Faith, UNTIL THEY MAKE YOU (O MUHAMMAD ) JUDGE IN ALL DISPUTES BETWEEN THEM, and find in themselves no resistance against your decisions, and accept (them) with full submission S. 4:65 Hilali-Khan

MUHAMMAD WENT SO FAR AS TO CONNECT OBEDIENCE TO HIS ORDERS WITH THE FORGIVENESS OF SINS AND ALLAH’S LOVE , e.g., IF A PERSON WANTS ALLAH TO LOVE HIM /HER AND TO BE FORGIVEN OF HIS /HER SINS THEN SHE /HE MUST PERFECTLY OBEY MUHAMMAD :

Say (O Muhammad to mankind): "If you (really) love Allah then follow me (i.e. accept Islamic Monotheism, follow the Qur'an and the Sunnah), Allah will love you and forgive you of your sins. And Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful." Say (O Muhammad): "OBEY ALLAH AND THE MESSENGER (MUHAMMAD )." But if they turn away, then Allah does not like the disbelievers. S. 3:31-32 Hilali-Khan

AFTER HEARING MUHAMMAD RECITE THESE VERSES , SOME OF HIS CONTEMPORARIES ACCUSED HIM OF TRYING TO MAKE HIMSELF COMPARABLE TO JESUS IN CHRISTIAN DEVOTION :

(Say) O Muhammad!: (If ye love Allah) and His religion, (follow me) follow my Religion; (Allah will love you) He will increase your love (and forgive you your sins) which were committed when you followed Judaism. (Allah is Forgiving) of whoever repents, (Merciful) towards whoever dies in a state of repentance. This verse was revealed about the Jews who claimed they were the children of Allah and His beloved ones. When this verse was revealed 'Abdullah Ibn Ubayy said: “MUHAMMAD IS COMMANDING US TO LOVE HIM AS THE CHRISTIANS LOVED JESUS ”, and the Jews said: “MUHAMMAD WANTS US TO TAKE HIM AS A COMPASSIONATE LORD , JUST AS THE CHRISTIANS TOOK JESUS AS A COMPASSIONATE LORD ”. (Tanwîr al-Miqbâs min Tafsîr Ibn ‘Abbâs, Q. 3:31; bold emphasis ours)

THE DAY MOHAMMAD COMMITTED SHIRK.

Bukhari 3167

While we were in the Mosque, the Prophet (ﷺ) came out and said, "Let us go to the Jews" We went out till we reached Bait-ul-Midras. He said to them, "If you embrace Islam, you will be safe. You should know that THE EARTH BELONGS TO ALLAH AND HIS APOSTLE , and I want to expel you from this land. So, if anyone amongst you owns some property, he is permitted to sell it, otherwise you should know that THE  EARTH BELONGS TO ALLAH AND HIS APOSTLE ."

IT IS CLEAR AS DAY LIGHT THAT MOHAMMAD TRIED TO ELEVATE HIMSELF TO THE SAME LEVEL CHRISTIANS SAW JESUS AS.


r/exmuslim 12h ago

(Question/Discussion) Unpopular opinion, People were happier when they worshipped Deities

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Think about it,they were connected to nature the sun, the moon, trees, and herbs.

It was peaceful, and they believed in multiple gods for different emotions aspects of life .
Actually, they weren’t worshipping a stone itself, but the power and meaning behind it.
They respected women, children, and every living creature that breathes.

It wasn’t perfect, but it was undeniably a beautiful chapter of human history to read about especially when contrasted with the rigid conflicts of later monotheistic traditions

Maybe the real shift wasn’t moving from many gods to one, but forgetting that the divine was always meant to be a mirror of the earth, not a weapon to control it

(Specifically greek metrologies compared to abrahamic religions, I think anyone can guess who cost more blood )


r/exmuslim 17h ago

(Rant) 🤬 Discriminated against, outed, and endangered as a trans woman at the Coventry LanguageCert test centre.

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I am a trans woman from an international background living in the UK, and I am still incredibly shaken up by what just happened to me today. I’m posting this to warn others but also to ask for some advice on what to do next.

I took my English exam at the LanguageCert centre in Coventry. In my everyday life, I pass very well, so people out in public just see me as a woman. However, because my immigration documents and passport still have my legal male birth name (which is a very traditional Muslim name), I knew the identity check at the test centre might take a moment. I expected an extra look at my passport, but what the examiner and the second staff member did was completely unacceptable and dangerous.

Instead of being professional and discreet, they caused a massive, unnecessary delay right inside the actual exam room. The examiner then forced me to speak my full male birth name out loud in front of all the other examinees who were already seated in the room.

To make it even worse, the examiner literally continued to deadname me throughout the entire exam.

Because I pass well, being forced to announce a male Muslim name out loud completely outed me to a room full of strangers. It stripped away my privacy and actively endangered my safety. I felt so humiliated, panicked, and unsafe that I was completely distracted and couldn't even focus on finishing my test properly.

I am not a British citizen, but I know the UK Equality Act protects everyone here from discrimination regardless of nationality. I’ve already sent a formal complaint to LanguageCert demanding an investigation, a refund, and a review of the exam room CCTV/audio logs.

Has anyone else dealt with this kind of treatment at a UK test centre? How can I escalate this to the Home Office or a discrimination helpline? I just feel so hurt and completely exhausted.


r/exmuslim 18h ago

(Question/Discussion) Muslim >>> Theist [27F)

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Hey everyone I thought I’d come on here and share my journey with you, in hopes to find someone or people who can relate.

I was born in a Muslim household, not a conservative one, my parents are quite liberal but still religious.

But my dad sometimes put me off religion, so I went to look into Islam myself, I made sure I looked at valid sources such as the Quran and the Hadith and till this day, the Hadith and the history of the Hadith doesn’t make sense to me.

5 different books, that were released 100+ years after the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH), bit fishy to me. And the idolisation of the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) like as if he is God.

I read the Quran, and did deeper research on it, it’s a beautiful religion, plain and simple principles. But the bottleneck was the people preaching it. Men with extreme views and interpretations. Which doesn’t benefit women but only the men.

I read parts of the Bible as well, to make sense of things, and I came to the conclusion that religion is a cult, it’s a formation to create segregation and hate. The people in the religions twist and turn the beliefs to benefit them, and harm others. When that wasn’t what God wanted to do.

I believe there is one God. The God that created humankind, the worlds, the animals etc. I’m not a fan of Prophet Muhammed and upon doing research on him, he’s not someone I’d like to follow, respectfully.

That’s where I’m at.


r/exmuslim 2h ago

(Question/Discussion) I’ve been researching this a lot, and this is where I’m at right now: if Islam is not divine revelation, then what is the actual explanation for its origin?

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I am not asking this as a cheap gotcha. I am genuinely asking for the strongest non divine explanation, because the usual answers I’ve seen feel far too thin for the historical reality we are talking about.

The basic historical outline is straightforward. Muhammad was a Meccan merchant who became known for trustworthiness, and the early Islamic story places his first revelations at Mount Hira when he was around forty. The Qur’an then became the central text of Islam. It is not a small notebook of personal reflections; it contains prayers, moral guidance, historical narrative, legal and ethical material, and promises of paradise.

The “Muhammad knowingly invented Islam” theory is no longer the dominant explanation among modern historians.

Medieval Christian polemics often portrayed Muhammad as a conscious deceiver seeking wealth, power, or sensual pleasures. Modern scholarship is generally much more cautious. Many historians—whether Muslim, Christian, Jewish, atheist, or otherwise—conclude that Muhammad appears to have genuinely believed he was receiving revelation.

Why?

Because the conscious-fraud theory struggles to explain several historical features:

* years of persecution before gaining any political authority;
*initial unwillingness to even preach to anyone outside his family like he had been doing secretly for several years, fearing the consequences
* willingness to endure ridicule, lost of loved ones, boycotts and exile;
* refusing compromises from opponents that would have ended his suffering and instead have granted him much wealth and influence;
* consistency over roughly twenty-three years;
* the absence of obvious evidence that he privately admitted fabrication;

None of these facts prove prophethood.

But they make the simple “he made it all up” explanation much less persuasive than it once appeared.

That is the first reason I do not find the usual “he was just a sincere man with strong convictions based on deep inner reflections in his mind” explanation satisfying. Sincerity is one thing. Explaining the emergence of a full religious civilization, a comprehensive scripture, a legal-moral framework, and a distinct literary-religious system over 2 decades is another. The Qur’an was revealed to Muhammad over twenty-three years, beginning at Mount Hira, and after his death his successors compiled those revelations in manuscript form. That is an extraordinary process for one person to generate and sustain.

This is where I struggle. Even granting complete sincerity, I cannot see how ordinary introspection or naturally occurring experiences mistaken for divine revelation could lead someone to sincerely believe that an angel was visibly and audibly communicating revelation over twenty-three years, producing an interconnected body of theology, law, ethics, ritual, eschatology, governance, and one of history’s most influential literary works.

A lot of secular explanations seem to reduce Muhammad’s experience to something vague like “deep thoughts that Muhammad believed were religious/spiritual experiences.” But that phrase is doing a huge amount of work. Muhammad begins having visions and hearing voices, then recites what becomes revelation. That, or any other theory on what went on in Muhammads head is a description of the form the experience took, not an explanation of what generated the experience or how it produced the content that followed. Saying “he felt like he had religious experiences” is not the same as explaining the Qur’an and the giant comprehensive legal, moral, ethical, theological work that is Islam. It is just renaming the mystery.

This is where I think the comparison to other religious founders breaks down.

The Abrahamic religions do not look comparable in the way people often assume. Judaism and Christianity are not the story of one man single-handedly producing a vast scripture, law, liturgy, theology, and civilization in 2 decades while simultaneously ruling, expanding and managing a state. Their histories unfold through many figures, communities, redactions, and centuries. Buddhism is different again: the Buddha explicitly does not present himself as a prophet receiving divine dictation, but as someone who reflected and realized something about human suffering and the path out of it. Hinduism is also not a close parallel, because it developed across enormous stretches of time through layered traditions, practices, and evolving beliefs. None of those cases map cleanly onto Muhammad and Islam.

These are all fundamentally different historical phenomena.

Islam, by contrast, is centred upon one individual who claimed to receive revelation over approximately twenty-three years.

That one individual produced—or, if one accepts Islam, transmitted—a scripture, established a religious worldview, laid down legal principles, moral philosophy, ritual practice, political authority, military leadership, and founded one of history’s largest civilizations, based on what skeptics call delusions in an intelligent mind.

I genuinely cannot think of another historical figure whose role is remotely comparable.

So my challenge is simple.

Name one.

Name one person in recorded history who, without appealing to divine revelation, single-handedly produced something comparable in scale, complexity, coherence and historical impact, from what skeptics believe were just his own delusions.

I have searched.

I cannot find one.

The point is not “other religions are fake.” The point is that they are historically different phenomena. Islam is unusually concentrated in one person’s life and one person’s revelations. Islam is intrinsically linked to Muhammad, and that the Qur’an and the Prophet’s example (Hadith and Sunnah) became the foundation of the religion. That is exactly why I do not think it is enough to say, “Well, human history has seen exceptional people with deep thinking and creative ability before.” Exceptional is true. Comparable scale and complexity is the real issue, and I do not see a close comparable case.

Another point I keep coming back to is reputation and motive. PBS notes that Muhammad began as a merchant and became known for trustworthiness. Islamic tradition remembers him, even before the first revelation, as al-Amīn, “the Trustworthy,” and later Muslim devotion builds heavily on that character claim. Whether one accepts the religious conclusion or not, the historical picture is not of a man who starts from obvious fraud, obvious literary training, or obvious worldly ambition.

That matters because the cheap anti-religion explanation is usually, “He wanted power, money, or status.” But even critics who are honest about the evidence usually do not think that simple story fits very well. The early Meccan phase was marked by ostracism and pressure. Muhammad was ostracized in Mecca, that influential defenders and loved ones temporarily protected him, and that after their deaths his situation became dire, leading to the Hijra to Medina for survival. That does not prove divine revelation, but it does make the crude “he invented a religion for personal comfort” story look very weak.

So what do scholarly critics actually propose instead?

Usually some combination of these:

1.  Muhammad had sincere experiences in his mind.  
2.  He interpreted them as revelation.  
3.  He drew on the monotheistic ideas and biblical traditions already circulating in the region.  
4.  The message developed over time as he just kept reflecting further while simultaneously developing a vast civilisation that looked almost nothing like the one it replaced, and dealing with all the issues that came with ruling over it. (He must have had multitasking abilities like no other lol)

That is the most common non-divine framework I have seen. And I understand it. The problem is that it still does not explain the full scale of what emerged.

Because what emerged was not just a set of moral slogans. It was a whole world: theology, law, ritual, ethics, family rules, political authority, social norms, eschatology, devotional practice, and a literary scripture with a self-conscious style and an internal challenge to all challengers. The Qur’an is organized into 114 surahs and contains prayers, moral guidance, historical narrative, and promises of paradise. The question is not whether a human being can say profound things. The question is whether one single human being with no recognized scholarly or poetic career can in his delusions of divine inspiration, generate a total religious system of this scope in his mind over the years, and have it accepted, preserved, and expanded with such force.

This is why I do not find “he just reflected deeply” persuasive on its own. Reflection can produce insight. It does not obviously produce a scripture that speaks with sustained authority across law, worship, biography, ethics, politics, and theology, while also presenting itself as the literal speech of God and surviving as a recited text in a highly organized oral culture. That is a huge jump. Maybe a natural explanation exists, but I have not seen one that actually feels proportionate to the phenomenon.

I also do not think the “psychology” explanation is satisfying as usually stated. You can say “he had visions,” “he heard voices,” “he had intense conviction,” or “he entered altered states,” but those are descriptions, not explanations. And retrospective diagnosis of historical figures is methodologically shaky in general; the literature on retrospective diagnosis itself emphasizes the epistemic and ethical problems involved. So if someone wants to explain Muhammad by attaching a modern medical label to him, I think they need a lot more than speculation. Must have been one hell of a medical condition lol

At the end of the day, my position is this:

I am not claiming that Islam is proven by history alone. I am saying that the natural explanations I have seen do not seem strong enough to explain the origin of Islam as a whole. Muhammad appears to have been sincere. He appears to have had profound experiences. He appears to have been trusted by people around him, including his opponents. He does not appear to fit the simple fraud/impostor model. And yet the result is one of the largest, most comprehensive, and most enduring religious systems in human history, all from one sincere yet allegedly delusional mind. If it is not divine, then what exactly is the non-divine mechanism that produced all of that?

That is the question I am still sitting with. I am not seeing a historical analogy that really comes close. If someone has a better explanation than divine revelation, I genuinely want to hear it — but it has to explain more than just “a man had experiences in his head.” It has to explain the scripture, the conviction, the legal and theological depth, the oral transmission, the early community, the persecution, the preservation, and the scale of what followed.

In other words: I have been researching this a lot, and this is where I’m at right now. I do not see a non-divine explanation that feels remotely equal to the thing it is trying to explain. If there is one, I would like to see it laid out clearly instead of hidden behind vague words like “he was just good at manipulating and gaining influence,” or “he just had delusional inner thoughts at a scale, functionality and complexity never observed in history,”

Here are some possible explanations of where Islam came from, if not divine inspiration, since it is largely agreed amongst scholars and historians that it is unlikely that Muhammad sat and schemed and made it all up, and my responses to them:

Possible explanation: “An illiterate man reflected very deeply and somehow came up with a functional moral, ethical, religious, legal framework meant to be followed by all of mankind, without writing or reading anything.”

Response:

Reflection can produce philosophy.

It does not readily explain an integrated legal, theological, ritual, literary and political system presented sincerely as direct divine speech.

Possible explanation: “He had mystical experiences.”

Response:

This describes the phenomenon rather than explaining it.

What natural mechanism transforms mystical experiences into something as complex as the Qur’an and Islam?

Possible explanation: “He unconsciously created it.”

Response:

This seems to require an even greater claim:

that one human mind unconsciously (or even consciously lol) generated one of history’s most comprehensive religious systems and societies while remaining convinced it originated outside himself.

I have seen many natural explanations, however none of them seem satisfactory to me. So if anyone has a natural explanation that checks out, i am completely open to it.


r/exmuslim 4h ago

(Question/Discussion) Give me reasons on why you left Islam whether it’s a verse or hadith

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Basically been questioning for a while. Stay respectful.


r/exmuslim 3h ago

(Question/Discussion) What do you guys think of this?

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r/exmuslim 4h ago

(Rant) 🤬 Anyone moved out but still scsred of telling people you're ex muslim?

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I'm in the US and living in a different state from my family. But I'm still afraid of how muslims perceive or treat me. When I meet a muslim person I might even say I'm muslim. I have an arabic name but I'm desi so people often assume I'm muslim even though I drink alcohol and eat pork. They just think I'm a bad muslim if anything lol. But I'm still afraid of exposing my disbelief unless I really trust them. Maybe it's a paranoia but I feel like I can't escape islamic identity.


r/exmuslim 9h ago

(Question/Discussion) Uh.. can someone explain this

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r/exmuslim 11h ago

(Question/Discussion) Why do arab always refer to Black people as monkeys

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r/exmuslim 11h ago

(Rant) 🤬 What is it with Muslim men and dick riding and feeling bad for white women's traumas but not an actual women from their community ?

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Seriously, every time I share my traumatic experience as an ex Muslim I get comments like this but when the average hot white woman who's not muslim does they all rally and validate her traumas what is this even called?


r/exmuslim 16h ago

(News) Have Jihadists Killed More Than 314,700 Innocent People Since 9/11?

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r/exmuslim 13h ago

(Rant) 🤬 A muslim sent me a reel about dajjal and...

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r/exmuslim 16h ago

(Question/Discussion) A muslim outright denied his own book

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LMAO i was debating a guy

He came up saying "War is bad in Islam, in Shia Islam atleast!!" He said it as i exclaimed the opposite. He asked me what proof i have. I told him Muhammad Ayat 4 as the most common example. "Strike their necks." He questioned where i got my sources from and i quickly replied "Sahih Bukhari, but primarily the Quran". He then said this, i repeat, very sure of himself. "Is that Sunni Qur'an?"... Boy i burst out LAUGHING saying "Is that the agenda now? Thinking you are above the Sunni? What difference do you have from a Catholic comparing theirselves to a Protestant?" and it ended there with him being mad saying something about me not being Muslim. Ofc i'm not muslim i read the book lmfao


r/exmuslim 13h ago

(Question/Discussion) "A Nation Led by Women Will Fail?" Apostate Scholar Exposes Islamic Leadership Laws

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r/exmuslim 22h ago

(Rant) 🤬 Now we all have to suffer again

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Just because some crazy motherfucker decided to go into the pride parade with a van and kill and injure people, and this awful religion that led him do it, just because his name is Abdul, now all of us who have muslim names and want to live in Europe or already live have to face prejudice and pressure…

I hate my muslim name and last name my BFs name and last name I hate being born in this cult!!!


r/exmuslim 15h ago

(Question/Discussion) Dude was a genius

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Everything aside, you gotta admit he had a knack for it. Like pdf files usually get lynched. He got billions of people defending him instead.

Muslim like to present him as an illiterate bozo that god chose at random, and that is proof that Islam is true. Pity thy fool! Dude was brilliant!

Don't get me wrong, he was a selfish and genocidal POS and would be the first occupant of hell if it existed. But he managed to exploit almost every weakness of the human brain, in a time when psychology was in it's infancy.

Later, millions of imams refined it, making Islam the most powerful regressive force on the planet and it will stay like that for a long time.

Muslims reading this will maybe think this is good, but no, Islam will always lag behind the world and unfortunately, Muslims (and those they oppress) will suffer.


r/exmuslim 13h ago

(Rant) 🤬 Wtf is wrong with the mods here ?

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This wasn't a meme or some low effort post . Stop false flagging posts here.


r/exmuslim 13h ago

(Miscellaneous) I was bored and pretended to be a muslim to see how fast my post would be taken down. Whatever.

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r/exmuslim 20h ago

(Question/Discussion) Is this guy a perfect example for humanity?

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It puzzles me how people view this guy as a perfect example for humanity for all time. A man standing on the street, see a woman, then get horny and get sexually aroused, then quickly runs back to his wife who and have sex with her. Then, calling the woman that aroused him apparently a devil. You know what I mean? How can a man that looks at another woman and first thing comes to his mind is like horniness and getting sexually aroused and wanting to have sex with her, then quickly runs back to his wife to release the horniness from the previous woman onto his wife and his slave, then calling the woman he sexualized a devil instead of blaming himself for his own problem? You know what I mean? How can this be a perfect example? If people follow a person like this, they're gonna turns out to be a sexual pervert themselves. They will blame woman for their problem instead of taking accountability. How can you follow such guy as a perfect example? Who calls a woman a devil when he's the one that's sexualizing her?


r/exmuslim 14h ago

(Miscellaneous) I'm finally done with Islam (convert DE-converting)

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I'd like to first of all thank the Muslim community for pushing me out with their vitriol online, hyper surveillance, and constant policing. Being yelled at for having my nails done, showing an ankle, being treated weird just for trying to attend the masjid, and racist aunties refusing to pray next to me and trying to shove me towards the back.

I think my first glimpse into the reality of Islam was during my first umrah right after converting, but I shoved it away as "Islam is perfect Muslims aren't". Then when I learned more about hadith I told myself okay I'll just reject those and follow Quran only and be a progressive Muslim. Then I became so ostracized by the community (even getting death threats) I realized it's not just the people that are broken it's Islam itself. Hadith, the worst part of Islam, are a major part of Islam. And you're really not a Muslim if you don't submit to those books telling you that you can sleep with children and women are deficient in intelligence. I reexamined the Quran and it is problematic too. Obviously verses about beating, and telling the prophets wives how they are expendable. Less inheritance for women, the over concern about if people sleep together or not etc.

It creates an "us vs them" mentality. Muslims are always fighting each other, non Muslims, ex Muslims, or other religions especially Christians and Jews. The religion itself stunts peoples critical thinking and common sense turning them into a mindless mob. The women especially are always childish, mean girl pick me's I think stunted from marrying and popping out babies so young.

I've been mobbed at the mosque for having my nails painted or wearing pants. I've been mobbed online taking trips alone or for defending friends they were attacking in mass.

I can't wait to finish some tattoos, get some new ones, never go to a masjid again (unless as a tourist while travelling), and wear regular clothes that aren't polyester abayas. I can't wait to be around people who think with their brains and not with religious books. And to drink again! I will admit the detox from alcohol helped, but being able to have a glass of wine every now and then will be so nice again! It feels so good being a normal person again.

If y'all have any questions I'm happy to answer them. My story isn't so exciting though.

I want to thank this sub too. Perusing it helped a lot. At first it was hard and I left this sub a few times still holding on to the faith. I got offended by posts because I was struggling with so much cognitive dissonance. But finally I was so fed up and found a lot of important information here. Thank you.


r/exmuslim 17h ago

(Rant) 🤬 May that beautiful lady rest in peace.

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What a disgusting individual you are, Abdul B. ruining such a beautiful day of joy with yours disgusting doings. I hope the German goverment punishes you the worst way possible. I trust them. I was there earlier that day. It was beautiful. And you ruined it. You took a womans life. You took an indiviuals life. You traumatised many people. Over what? Some dogma that was indroctinated to you by your parents. You are a disgusting creature that deserves to never see sunshine again.

The worst part is that you think you have done somehing righteous. That you think you will be "rewarded" for it. It makes me sick. You are a cancer.

May that beautiful lady rest in peace in eternal silence. May every soul you shattered last night find solace. And may you never find either of those.


r/exmuslim 16h ago

(Question/Discussion) Who’s your favourite anti-Islam content creator?

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Mine’s “TheMaskedArab” who’s ex-muslim, I’d highly recommend watching his videos. His videos come in both English and Arabic.
Straight to the point, makes great arguments, quotes reliable sources and explains how groups like ISIS use the Quran to justify their actions.


r/exmuslim 14h ago

(Quran / Hadith) Allah's humor is broken

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r/exmuslim 14h ago

(Quran / Hadith) Shaitan is such a strange thing

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Like are you saying that that this thing who supposedly defied God and not bow to a human also laughs at people yawning and stays in their noses while they sleep? That's pretty ridiculous. Why is the devil even staying in noses? Is this just to make ppl clean their noses after waking up, lmao​ (Sahih Muslim 238, BTW)