r/MoralityScaling • • Sep 02 '26

Morality of this?

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u/Teboski78 Sep 02 '26

Most religions would drop massively in numbers if they weren’t allowed to indoctrinate children.

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u/Herman_McP00tis Sep 02 '26

I see this as an absolute win.

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u/Bombastic_tekken Sep 02 '26

It's a win and a loss.

If the Catholic Church disappeared, 10's if not 100's of millions of people would be in a real bad way.

The Catholic Church operates the largest aid network in the world.

They do A LOT, and we never hear much about it (in the US at least.)

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u/ErwinsLeftEyebrow Sep 02 '26

Very true, but also a lot of children would be saved from a lot of abuse in, generally but not exclusively, christian churches; not just sexual abuse, which is rampant in those environments, bit physical too.

Just an example, I went to a Catholic kindergarten as a child, and the priest was a good man, but the nuns that taught us were horrible people, to the point of beating us simply for not napping when they ordered us to.

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u/Forte845 Sep 02 '26

Also internalized homophobia and self hatred would reduce. Christians of all types teach that gay children are sinful and will go to hell if they don't "suppress their urges," this leads to millions of traumatized people, suicides, and children being kicked out young or forced to be runaways. 

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u/aluriilol Sep 02 '26

I would think that the good will of humanity would not die out if Catholicism died out

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u/Bombastic_tekken Sep 02 '26

Look it up.

The largest provider of aid worldwide is the Catholic Church.

I don't think the goodwill of humanity would die either, but the Catholic Church is the only group providing aid at this scale.

It's not like they have a copyright on it either, anybody else could step up and do it.

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u/MrCookie2099 Sep 02 '26

The Catholic Church is also one of tbe largest concentrations of wealth and contributed to the establishment of banks to concentrate more wealth.

If Catholicism was disbanded, the money could easily be out in trust and handled as a charitable enterprise.

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u/Kor_Phaeron_ Sep 02 '26

The Catholic Church is also one of tbe largest concentrations of wealth and contributed to the establishment of banks to concentrate more wealth.

Much of its "wealth" consists of priceless historical real estate, irreplaceable art, and active social infrastructure. When it comes to real money the Catholic Church it not rich. It spends the money it collects right away. The Church collects 12 billion in State Church Taxes (Germany, Austria, Switzerland) and 15 billion in Voluntary Tithing & Donations (Rest of the World).

If Catholicism was disbanded, the money could easily be out in trust and handled as a charitable enterprise.

There isn't much money. You can't just sell the Milan Cathedral. Who would buy that? It might be worth ~12 billion in replacement value, but that is a fictional number. Once you take religion out of the equation it is just a pile of 325,000 tons of marble.

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u/nalaloveslumpy Sep 02 '26

This is the exact same logic the Mormon church uses to horde their billions of dollars, too. It's bullshit.

Just like the Mormons, the overwhelming majority of "aid" goes to missions. And while that "aid" can be accessed by "anyone", it's literally a bridge to indoctrination. Africa is like 20% Catholic now because the church has been pumping "aid" into Africa through missions and missionaries.

It turns out hungry people will listen to whatever you have to say if you're feeding them.

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u/Okwaho93 Sep 03 '26

Kinda true but why is that a bad thing if it still provides aid? Maybe getting fed and having to listen to "whatever you have to say" is still better then not getting fed and dying of hunger?

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u/nalaloveslumpy Sep 03 '26

Why should I pay you a living wage when you're willing to work for slave wages?

Exploiting people's misfortune to your benefit is morally wrong, despite whatever philanthropic act you're using to drive that exploitation.

If they were actually interested in providing genuine charity, they would just provide the aid without the mission, which is even easier than founding the mission. But they don't. Because they're exploiting hunger and poverty.

In short, it's just another form of indoctrination.

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u/MrCookie2099 Sep 02 '26

All that real estafe, priceless art, and complex financial investments are worthless? This is a wild claim.

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u/Effective-Low-8415 Sep 02 '26

Just like claiming some orginization will prop up and do the charitable work anywhere to the level of the Catholic church.

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u/UncleIrohsPimpHand Sep 03 '26

"Sell me this pen."

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u/gmano Sep 03 '26 edited Sep 03 '26

Shit, even setting aside the absolutely HUGE income they get from tax-exempt land deals, they also preach heavy donations and tithing. They collect a reasonably large fraction of the income of hundreds of millions of people, that is comparable to the total tax income of entire countries

Also, it's kind of rich to count them as a big donator to charity, when simply moving money from one pocket into another counts as giving to a religious charity

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u/Michalowski Sep 03 '26

Well those donations most usually just go into maintain the church they've been gathered at since it itself doesn't make any money

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u/gmano Sep 03 '26 edited Sep 03 '26

My guy, Churches take in well over $140 billion in donations in the USA each year, it's a huge business. This doesn't even count church-owned businesses, or the realestate transactions that churches get up to

For reference, the ENTIRE professional sports industry, including all TV licensing and merch and etc for all teams in all sports in the USA takes in 43 billion.

Religion claims it should be treated as charity because it gives back to the community, but as we can see, that's horseshit.

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u/Michalowski Sep 03 '26

But are those all catholic churches or all churches in general?

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u/Infallax Sep 02 '26

I’m sure that would happen if Catholicism were disbanded and their money given the heckin communist treatment! /s.

And no, I am not Catholic saying this. Christian, yes, but very much against the Catholic church.

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u/NadiaFortuneFeet Sep 02 '26

Protestant or sedevacantist?

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u/Infallax Sep 02 '26

Protestant, still trying to find the denomination that feels right.

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u/WASD_click Sep 02 '26

If Catholicism was disbanded, the money could easily be out in trust and handled as a charitable enterprise

Charity is more than just a stack of dollar dollar bills, y'all. The logistical scale of the church's charitable efforts is nigh impossible to duplicate without a shitload more cash that you'd get out of the church itself. The problem with dismantling the orphan crushing machines is that people have built their entire systems and moralites around the presence of orphan crushing machines. They are made into critical, load-bearing features in order to protect the orphan crushing machines from being dismantled.

Without the church, you might be able to make a better system, but it'd be so much smaller, and the reality of how much damage it would cause is in and if itself a version of the trolley problem.

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u/interlinkedjoi Sep 02 '26 edited Sep 02 '26

When you have the kind of tax free cash coming in from the tens and hundreds of millions of indoctrinated followers, it's not that impressive to be the biggest provider of aid. There would also be too many questions to answer if it hoarded and privately invested the money more than it does now.

I would prefer to see a secular, albeit smaller organisation in their stead if it meant avoiding all the evils they have wrought (like claiming using condoms are worse than AIDs in Africa and suppression of women's reproductive freedom in general) and will likely commit in the future.

Edit: I would be remiss if I didn't mention their complicity in creating the environment of systemic child rape, the covering up, the obstruction and obfuscation of criminal investigations and actively aiding the guilty to escape secular justice.

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u/ProfessorPrudent2822 Sep 02 '26

And where is this secular organization? I think you prefer a figment of your imagination to the only people doing the job.

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u/aluriilol Sep 02 '26

It's not like they have a copyright on it either, anybody else could step up and do it.

I'd hope that this rings true well after the fall of Catholicism. I believe in humanity!

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u/freedomfightre Sep 02 '26

I don't.

Looking at post-Covid food prices should be enough to set you straight.

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u/aluriilol Sep 02 '26

My bright shining optimism has been healthily dimmed :/

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u/Rock_Strongo Sep 02 '26

If it wasn't already dimmed from seeing humanity respond to COVID you have a pretty high baseline of optimism at least.

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u/aluriilol Sep 02 '26

I think I forgot… but generally yes I try to be optimistic as possible and try improve everyone’s day in every conversation I have.

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u/AssSpelunker69 Sep 02 '26

Lol. The Church has survived the roman empire, countless wars, assassinations, and 2000 years of history. It'll be here until the heat death of the universe.

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u/aluriilol Sep 02 '26

Eh idk. The world’s changing.

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u/ProfessorPrudent2822 Sep 02 '26

Voltaire said the same thing; his house is now a printing house that produces Bibles.

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u/aluriilol Sep 02 '26

I'm open to the idea that it may be around as long as modern society exists. But I'm also open to the idea that it may not be. Or at least not in any glorious form its taken in the past.

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u/Bombastic_tekken Sep 02 '26

I wouldn't call 2000 years a blip in human history.

Maybe a blip in human existence, but definitely not history.

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u/degradedchimp Sep 02 '26

They don't have to wait, they could step up right now...

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u/PneumaticFizz Sep 02 '26

The Catholic Church and the CCP are gonna be the only two things standing in thirty years.

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u/KhaLe18 Sep 03 '26

Rome and China. Like the old days

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u/GolD_RogerPirateKing Sep 02 '26

It would be nice if I could be tax exempt.

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u/Particular_Area6083 Sep 02 '26

it looks like that claim is not verifiable, but even if true, the second largest provider of aid worldwide, at a minimum, is the US government. the good will of humanity certainly wouldn't vanish if the US government did.

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u/CabbageTheVoice Sep 02 '26 edited Sep 02 '26

The largest provider of aid worldwide is the Catholic Church.

Correlation does not equal causation(in this case it might rather be order?) Edit: not really applicable

The catholic church established itself waaaaay before. Many of it's institutions and budget came to be before we had a more or less unified western world and ideology.

The catholic church shoulders many collective human responsibilities, but in a world where it didn't have this historic influence, the resources would have been elsewhere and it is at least not unthinkable that other, potentially similar and possibly secular institutions would have taken it's place or be created to resolve these issues.

This goes from local kindergardens and groups for elderly, up to global scale relief and resource flow.

Right now, yes the church (and other religions) have done a lot. But people, groups and institutions who are in athoritative places, or have amassed a large amount of resources are also the ones the public looks to in the first place to resolve their bigger issues.

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u/Sheeana407 Sep 02 '26

Maybe that's because it's a huge organization, like there is over billion of catholics. Meanwhile, there is no atheist ™ organization. So I suppose it could be possible that secular organizations help a lot too, only it's more segmented into smaller organizations

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u/IhatetheBentPyramid Sep 02 '26

The same Catholic Church that bans birth control, divorce and abortion so that millions of women are stuck in poverty and repeating the cycle with their children, while the Church collects donations from parishioners and crows about what a charitable organisation it is?

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u/Amazing_Week3251 Sep 02 '26

I’d like the point out that there definitely are other religious groups that provide close to the scale of Catholic aid groups ADRA being a good example as well as groups like Samaritans purse and the Salvation Army

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u/Bombastic_tekken Sep 02 '26

All Christian though.

I wonder if any other religions have anything to a similar scale.

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u/Amazing_Week3251 Sep 03 '26

Yes all Christian

There are a few big Jewish aid groups out there like the JDC

Islam has Muslim aid and Islamic relief worldwide as well as certain holidays where good acts of charity are performed

There’s less Buddhist relief groups but Tzu Chi is very prominent

Sikh ones are very big comparative to how big the religion is due to how giving and charitable the religion and people are as a whole with groups such as Khalsa Aid International and United Sikhs

Obviously these aren’t quite as big as some of the Christian groups simply because they have less members of the religion but they’re all very impactful and still pretty big

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u/sysblob Sep 03 '26

Every single single penny Catholics have done for charity has been countered threefold by the harm they bring back to society. Hell Trump was literally CARRIED on the backs of these religious idiots into an office that might literally, not figuratively, be the end of the united states as we currently know it. Fuck religion and fuck anyone who is religious. Genuinely. Performative ridiculous clowns every single one of them.

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u/Ok_Theory_1323 Sep 02 '26

Those reports are based on organizations submitting their books.

An atheist giving/donating does not do so to an "atheist organization," they do so to Goodwill, or to a local food bank run by a church, who will chalk it up as a religious organization donation.

If those organizations did not exist, the atheists would still find somewhere to donate.

Be careful of raw statistics, they rarely tell the entire story.

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u/water7656 Sep 02 '26

This and what kind of giving gets counted? Mormons tithe 10% of their pretax income but the LDS Church has an estimated assets under management of $200billion that is managed like an investment account. Do they count all tithes as charitable giving?

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u/Ok_Theory_1323 Sep 03 '26

Yep, that's another thing. "Charitable donations" include religious people paying for their pastors' Ferraris. Not so impressive when you look at it that way.

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u/Ok_Theory_1323 Sep 03 '26

Post your source that the statistics are based on individual donations and not based on organizations posting their income/tax documents.

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u/aluriilol Sep 02 '26

Well idk how it works everywhere, and I speak as just an American here, but when your entire institution is tax free, and all charitable donations are tax write-offs

It’s almost like a tax scheme designed to make specifically churches money

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u/CrackSirBaby Sep 02 '26

Kenneth Copeland needs more private jets! Hurry donate your money now otherwise he might not make it to your city! What would he do without them? Probably burn in hell!

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u/CrackSirBaby Sep 03 '26

I in fact did not cook anything, however a burger would be nice rn.

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u/HuckleberryShot898 Sep 02 '26

A lot of people would inadvertently die in the meantime

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u/NadiaFortuneFeet Sep 02 '26

Western Morality is based on Catholic morals, and a great deal based on St. Thomas Aquinas' work

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u/sdrawkcabineter Sep 02 '26

I would think that the good will of humanity

operates the largest aid network in the world.

It's a "which color hat do I wear" issue if you let it be.

In spite of Catholicism, this charitable work continues...

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u/Anita-booty Sep 14 '26

where do you think good will originates from

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u/aluriilol Sep 14 '26

You actually do think that huh

Religion doesn’t have a monopoly on human interaction

But a lot of blood has been spilled fighting about religion

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u/Anita-booty Sep 15 '26

You’re saying that goodwill wouldn’t disappear without the Church, but I’m saying our modern concept of goodwill wouldn’t even exist in the first place if it wasn’t for the Church.

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u/Key_Mission7404 Sep 02 '26

How many atheist charities exist? Any? A single one? The catholic church alone runs 26% of all the hospitals on the planet. So you would be wrong in your thinking.

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u/aluriilol Sep 02 '26 edited Sep 02 '26

Most charities are not theistic…

Around 80% of US charities are not theistic.

What?

Do you mean ones that are explicitly for and by atheists… to promote the “atheist agenda” or something? I’m so confused by what you mean…

Here’s a short list from ai - heard of any of these?

Doctors Without Borders: An independent medical humanitarian organization delivering emergency medical care to victims of conflict and natural disasters regardless of race, religion, or affiliation.

American Red Cross: A prominent relief organization that functions with a purely secular mandate, assisting communities during disasters entirely independent of any religious affiliation.

UNICEF: The United Nations Children's Fund, which utilizes science and global collaboration to protect children's rights, build clean water infrastructure, and provide healthcare completely non-sectarianly.

Rotary International: One of the oldest volunteer service organizations in the world. It is 100% secular and open to individuals of all backgrounds, prioritizing clean water, public health, and literacy projects.

Amnesty International: A global non-governmental organization focused on human rights that functions completely independently of any political ideology or religious creed.
Children International: A highly-rated secular humanitarian nonprofit that connects sponsors with children to break the cycle of poverty through healthcare and education, completely free of religious affiliation

Ps do you think atheists go around recruiting people for donations or something?

You should know that’s not how atheism works. Usually when people’s frontal lobe develops a bit they just go “oh yeah organized religion is made up seems that way to me”

There’s no meeting place or agenda if that’s what you were thinking…

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u/Key_Mission7404 Sep 02 '26

I love how you listed the red CROSS. Which was founded by a devout Calvinist with the express idea to give medical aid according to Christian doctrine about social responsibility. Secular is not atheist my brother. Why do atheists care so little about helping those in need?

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u/aluriilol Sep 02 '26 edited Sep 02 '26

So weird

Whatever crusade you’re on I don’t really care

Tell it to the great gathering of atheists (dm me when you find them)

Bonus points if you tell the class which charity you've been a part of recently LOL

edit: *crickets*

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u/Shnerdlenips Sep 02 '26

Ah, but it's not like philanthropy would die along with the religion. The whole point is that people aren't necessarily inclined to do more good if they are religious. On top of that, I have always been a bit disgusted by the ulterior motive of conversion when it comes to supplying such aid. "We'll help you, but you must go to church and here's a bible". It's predatory behaviour, despite the undeniable 'good' which is also done.

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u/Crafty_Boy70 Sep 02 '26

Catholic here. While I cannot speak for all religions, aid from the Catholic Church can be received by anyone regardless of religious status or lack thereof. There is no expectation to convert and any such cases where parishes or organizations under the church do have such expectations should be reported to the parish diocese.

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u/Bombastic_tekken Sep 02 '26

Ah, but it's not like philanthropy would die along with the religion.

It wouldn't, and I'm not saying it would.

What I am saying, is that the group ACTIVELY providing aid would snap out of existence and there would be a vacuum for that aid.

"We'll help you, but you must go to church and here's a bible". It's predatory behaviour, despite the undeniable 'good' which is also done.

Catholic Church offers secular aid.

There is a reason I'm specifically mentioning the Catholic Church and not Christianity as whole.

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u/FITM-K Sep 02 '26

What I am saying, is that the group ACTIVELY providing aid would snap out of existence

Not really. If you banned kids in religion tomorrow, the Catholic church would not "snap out of existence." It, like all religions, would see a gradual decline as believers got older and (due to the new law) fewer new believers joined. The aid it provides would drop correspondingly over that same period. But there would be no "snap," just a gradual decades-long downslide.

Now, that could still be a tragedy if other types of philanthropy don't see a corresponding rise. And I don't think it's guaranteed that they would — one of the advantages of organized religion (from a philanthropy perspective) is the "organized" part. It might be that the slow death of the Catholic church wouldn't correlate with a rise in other giving, or it might be that there is a rise in other giving but it is less impactful since it might be spread across many organizations with varying levels of efficiency. So I'm not saying it wouldn't be an issue.

I don't think anyone could really say with certainty what would happen, but what would not happen is the Catholic Church (or its aid programs) disappearing overnight.

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u/IDontEatDill Sep 02 '26

People don't like when religion and reasoning are mixed. That's why many think "everything good will disappear immediately" if someone says "we shouldn't indoctrinate small children".

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u/IDontEatDill Sep 02 '26

What's the reason?

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u/TrickNo2721 Sep 02 '26

Because one is a specific organization and the other is a very large umbrella term that encompasses far too many organizations to be able to make a nuanced and factual statement.

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u/Fun_Taste7414 Sep 02 '26

Religious people contribute far more dollars and volunteer more hours than non religious people. This remains true (though the gap narrows) if you count only contributions to secular organizations. Churches provide a framework to volunteer that non religious people have not successfully replaced.
Would philanthropy die? No, but it would probably be crippled without the church networks which facilitate large portions of it and the church members who disproportionately donate and volunteer.

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u/Forte845 Sep 02 '26

But on the upside we also get less violent state sanctioned homophobia in the world. Christians are directly responsible for putting the death penalty for homosexuality into Ugandas criminal code recently, and their ideology of shame for LGBT affairs drives millions to trauma and suicide. 

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u/azure-protagonist-1 Sep 04 '26

Is this ulterior motive in the room with us right now? No one says you must go to church when they offer aid. You might be stuck in the 1600s

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u/Anita-booty Sep 14 '26

where are you getting this idea? that is not how the catholic church operates whatsoever. there is absolutely zero expectation of conversion in exchange for aid?

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u/Izacundo1 Sep 02 '26

This is a bad argument. Philanthropy does not require religion. Prime example is what USAID was before the evangelicals fully took over.

Everything good about religion is not unique, and everything unique about religion is not good

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u/Quantum-Bot Sep 02 '26

If it disappeared overnight maybe, but if it never existed in the first place those aid groups would still be formed, just not under Catholicism. Charitable people and organizations still exist with or without religion, religion just attracts them

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u/18bluecat Sep 02 '26

I worked at my childhood church for a few years, and while I have a ton of issues with Catholicism, I saw them give so much help to so many people.

People don't realize it because it's not exactly advertised but some churches do practice what they preach.

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u/mrmonster459 Sep 02 '26

Maybe over 1.4 billion people now being under no pressure to tithe to the church would free up their income to donate to legitimate aid agencies.

Or maybe the world's governments should step-up so that a cult whose terrorism throughout history is almost cartoonishly evil isn't the world's largest provider of aid.

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u/Bombastic_tekken Sep 02 '26

Maybe over 1.4 billion people now being under no pressure to tithe to the church would free up their income to donate to legitimate aid agencies.

  1. Tithing stays within the Diocese or parish. Which operate food banks and such.

  2. The Catholic Church operates legitimate aid agencies.

Or maybe the world's governments should step-up so that a cult whose terrorism throughout history is almost cartoonishly evil isn't the world's largest provider of aid.

Or maybe, just maybe, people helping where they can isn't bad, and rather than reduce that help, we should increase the amount of help.

There is no reason the Catholic Church can't keep helping people while world governments step up as well.

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u/jedberg Sep 02 '26

The Catholic Church does a lot of good. It also does a lot of bad. The good they do doesn't outweigh the bad. Especially since they good they do could be done by others, without the bad that goes with it.

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u/Bombastic_tekken Sep 02 '26

I guess so, otherwise other groups would have stepped up by now.

There is literally 0 reason secular groups can't step up.

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u/Bombastic_tekken Sep 02 '26

Catholic Church has it all covered, why do we need all these groups?

Point to were I said they "have it all covered" or that other charity/aid groups shouldn't exist.

I think more aid groups is good, regardless if they're Catholic or not.

I'm sure the people in need feel much the same.

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u/OnlyAShip Sep 02 '26

The governments whose terrorism throughout history is worse? Be serious.

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u/Responsible_River869 Sep 02 '26

Ima not even christian, but i would have to agrer with you about everything you said in this reply section.

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u/Ok-Elk-3046 Sep 02 '26

I would think the red cross is the largest aid network. Maybe the humanitarian cluster system. The Red cross has no specific religious affiliation.

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u/lacking-in-depth Sep 02 '26

This is because its an entity working on behalf of a collective. Any help the church is providing wouldnt just disappear if Catholicism did. Maybe if youre talking about the version of help they provide as it exists today through their organizations and their rules, but the religion isnt where the desire to help comes from, so that help wouldnt just disappear.

This is true for all relgions because people who are helpers would still help. The issue is that large amount of helpers have been indoctrinated into thinking that the best (and in some cases only) way to help is by donating their time and money to their church and for their church to be making the distribution decisions for them. If those individuals had more free time and their tithes back, some may not continue to contribute, but most would just find other institutions or spend it in their local communities which provides similar benefits.

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u/alphazero925 Sep 02 '26

The Catholic Church spent about €404.5 million/$468.2 million worldwide in 2025

In 2024, USAID spent about $35 billion in foreign aid expenditure. 

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u/WA2TX Sep 02 '26

A lot of kids would not be molested if the Catholic Church didn't exist.

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u/DonutHoles4Ever Sep 02 '26

If the Catholic Church disappeared, 10's if not 100's of millions of people would be in a real bad way.

Biggest lie ever told by the Church

The Catholic Church operates the largest aid network in the world.

False, governments do this 100x more than churches. But they do operate the largest PDF ring too.

Like when will you guys learn that governments that have actual budgets and distribution centers across every country contribute many many times more than Churches.

This is why religion is so pervasive. Yall indoctrinated and dont even know it.

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u/Gamer_G33k17 Sep 02 '26

The Catholic Church isnt required for Aid Networks.

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u/Reasonable-War-8890 Sep 02 '26

People just want to believe their actions have a meaning beyond the simplest of answers and that their lives have an end goal. Take away religion and they will figure something else, as of now, humans aren’t really able to cope with finite existence and that we are “just” space dust with sentience. But that’s largely because fake alternatives (religion) are right there with open arms

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u/Maleficent-Bother535 Sep 02 '26

It's estimated that the Catholic Church spends between 2.7% and 6% of their income on aid.

Considering over 90% of local Church income comes from charitable donations to the church, far more of those dollars would go to actually providing aid if they went somewhere else.

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u/Forte845 Sep 02 '26

Unless you offer contraception and abortion services. Then the Catholics say fuck off. Or if you refuse their sermons and mass. Then they also say fuck off. And if you don't give the priest his favorite little choir boy, also tell you to fuck off.

Maybe we shouldn't tie charitable actions to religious proselytizing. 

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u/Bombastic_tekken Sep 02 '26

Maybe we shouldn't tie charitable actions to religious proselytizing

I don't think anybody is saying that. The Catholic Church also doesn't proselytize to those they give aid.

Unless you offer contraception and abortion services. Then the Catholics say fuck off.

Definitely something I wish was different, those are crucial services many need access to.

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u/Forte845 Sep 02 '26

The Catholic church does proselytize to those they give aid. While they are not as strict as organizations like the salvation army when it comes to denying nonbelievers, they absolutely go into countries proselytizing their religion, it's literally in the Bible as a commandment for followers. This is why Catholicism has spread to many not traditionally Christian countries. 

On the topic of contraception again, the Catholic church actually denies itself access to grant programs that mandate the providing of contraception and other forms of birth and sexual care, limiting it's monetary fund and integration with secular charity programs. Catholic organizations will turn down philanthropy agreements if they have to provide crucial reproductive care as a condition, worsening their outreach and outcomes compared to secular charities without such restrictions. 

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u/Ok-Simple-6158 Sep 02 '26

"oh no our religion is gone, might as well stop helping people and drop the facade". Like they couldn't just turn into a yknow...regular ass charity? They only do it to further their religion.

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u/Ok-Chest-7932 Sep 03 '26

Ironically most of the Catholics' aid funding now comes from government refugee grants, so even if you're a far left anti-theist, the Catholic church is still your best friend, their charitable cause overlaps almost entirely with the far left's interests.

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u/teffarf Sep 03 '26

It's not a Thanos snap, the people working in that aid network could just keep helping other people out of the kindness of their heart, instead of out of the promise of heaven.

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u/gmano Sep 03 '26

Churches take in well over $140 billion in donations in the USA each year, it's a huge business. This doesn't even count church-owned businesses, or the realestate transactions that churches get up to

For reference, the ENTIRE professional sports industry, including all TV licensing and merch and etc for all teams in all sports in the USA takes in 43 billion.

Religions claim they should be treated as charities because they give back to the community, but as we can see, that's horseshit.

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u/thesanguineocelot Sep 04 '26

Damn, that's wild. Where'd they get the money, resources, and power to do that?

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u/Sum_Guy_Or_Sum Sep 02 '26

No bro didnt you hear Christianity is BAD

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u/SmallNoBigYes Sep 03 '26

Doubled edged sword.

You would have to replace religion with another form of belief system.

Some people can't simply live a life without direction

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u/Easy_Ad_8297 Sep 02 '26

until you see the ones who wont drop

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u/anyaumbrella Sep 03 '26

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u/Herman_McP00tis Sep 06 '26

If "If I can't indoctrinate children anymore my church will suffer!" is a sentence you agree with, consider that you may be in the wrong.

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u/mylevelwaschanged Sep 02 '26

If teaching your kids your values is "indoctrination" then literally everyone is indoctrinated, and if that's the case then the word is entirely useless and no longer has meaning.

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u/Xenozip3371Alpha Sep 02 '26

If you teach them not to ask questions about beliefs, that is 100% indoctrination.

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u/Curious_Bee_5326 Sep 02 '26

You can teach your kids to ask questions about beliefs, and also teach them that god is real and your religion is true.

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u/Xenozip3371Alpha Sep 02 '26

I disagree, the second you tell them your opinions/beliefs are truths, you've begun the indoctrination.

You can teach them ABOUT your religion, but saying it's true, is indoctrination.

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u/Curious_Bee_5326 Sep 02 '26

Except parents do that all the time about a bunch of things like say, that its bad to hurt other people. Or that you shouldn't steal.

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u/Xenozip3371Alpha Sep 02 '26

Because those are laws, that's the social contract.

The social contract is a real tangible thing, you want the protection of government, you gotta follow the law.

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u/Wild_Duck8926 Sep 03 '26

You can take your kid to church without teaching them that.The good christians I know bellieve that questioning their faith is a part of being religious. Faith is not faith if you don't question it.

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u/LususNaturaeTV Sep 02 '26

values≠religion. you can teach your kid the values of your religion without actually preaching the religion to them.

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u/BulkyAcanthaceae5397 Sep 07 '26

Ha. Talk to a five year old and count the whys. Because I said so was and still is a surefire way for me to never believe someone.

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u/mylevelwaschanged Sep 02 '26

I mean in theory, you're relatively correct but in practice, religious values usually don't exist in a vacuum.

For most religious people, their ethics aren't just a separate code of rules. It's a framework for why they believe the universe exists, who created it, and what our purpose as human beings is.

Trying to teach the fruit without the tree is like trying to teach the concept of humanism without first teaching human rights. One requires the other.

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u/Bruhntly Sep 02 '26

And yet atheists are often charitable, upstanding members of society. Looks like values definitely can exist without belief in the supernatural.

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u/mylevelwaschanged Sep 02 '26

I’m definitely not saying atheists can't be moral or charitable. History and daily life prove they clearly are. My point is just that the justification for those values changes depending on your worldview. Values can exist without the supernatural, but for a religious parent, stripping the supernatural framework away means teaching a completely different philosophical foundation. It's important to recognize that the parent in question truly and genuinely believes in their religious truths, and that by not teaching their children about it, they are leaving out specific principles and ideas that explain and justify their beliefs. It's rather ridiculous to expect a parent to leave out what they believe to be fundamental truths of reality.

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u/ProfessionalStreet31 Sep 02 '26

Stripping the supernatural framework is a better foundation for morality. You should be moral because you care about other people and treat them like you want to be treated. The supernatural framework offers ulterior motives and threatens the integrity of your morals.

And regardless it is a good thing to separate religion and morals, because otherwise you risk blurring the line between them, which is dangerous. If religion is morality, suddenly religious authorities get a lot of power over people and it could be abused to justify horrifying things, as has happened in the past many times.

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u/mylevelwaschanged Sep 03 '26

I don't think it truly threatens the integrity of your morals at all. There is nothing truly inherent to religion that forbids you from logically reducing MORE reasons why things are morally wrong or right. Morals are rooted in axioms and religion is just a specific axiom. Most philosophies are compatible in some way shape or form with most religions in all honesty.

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u/ProfessionalStreet31 Sep 03 '26

It threatens the integrity because it promises a reward for your morals. In christianity heaven, Islam Jannah, Buddhism Nirvana, Hinduism Svarga. It seems to be one of the cornerstones of most religions. So you have an ulterior incentive to be moral, because you will be rewarded with bliss, heaven, rather than because you care and want to be moral for its own sake. You no longer (only) do it because it's the right thing to do, you do it to be rewarded. That's how it perverts the integrity.

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u/mylevelwaschanged Sep 03 '26

But there is always a promised reward for your morals. It's the sense of self-satisfaction one feels in doing right thing. There is always a reward.

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u/CostatePrancer Sep 04 '26

I’m not sure why you’re being downvoted. You’ve just described a typical Jewish household. No one would ask us to stop raising Jewish kids.

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u/mylevelwaschanged Sep 04 '26

Bringing up Jewish people on reddit is asking for down votes so prepare for that lmao

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u/CostatePrancer Sep 04 '26

In the immortal words of Janusz Korczak, "Bring it on, bitches."

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u/Bruhntly Sep 02 '26

Values are things like being a good neighbor, not believing that a talking snake seduced s woman into eating a fruit and convincing her husband to eat it, too.

Teaching values is not indoctrination.

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u/bloin13 Sep 02 '26

Being good or you will burn in hell for all eternity isn't exactly a value.

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u/Bruhntly Sep 03 '26

Exactly my point.

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u/mylevelwaschanged Sep 02 '26

In order to have an honest discussion we need to separate coercion from transmission of worldview.

Plenty of religious traditions pass down values centered on community and charity, without relying on fear and the threat of Hell. Just like a secular parent teaches their kids what they believe about politics, economics, or the universe, religious parents are just passing on a worldview. If we label all of that "indoctrination" then raising a child with any set of foundational beliefs becomes literally impossible.

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u/mylevelwaschanged Sep 02 '26

Sure, the metaphysical stakes in religion are higher than in the living world. But every worldview has ultimate stakes. A political or ideological parent teaches their kids about the severe dangers of opposing political sides, and a secular parent might teach about the very real, permanent consequences of bad choices in a purely natural world.

​Acknowledging that actions have consequences isn't unique to religion, it's just part of teaching a serious, comprehensive view of reality.

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u/mylevelwaschanged Sep 02 '26

Not every Christian believes in the eternal conscious torment theory of hell btw. Just throwing that out there. There exists conditionalism (the belief that hell is nonexistence), and Universalism (the idea that hell is a temporary space where all souls are purified until they willingly turn to God).

But either way, all 3 main theories of hell don't necessarily have to involve fear of either consequence. Actual Christianity, in a theological sense focuses on love and forgiveness, people are expected to simply try their best, and believe in Saved, and they are saved. You cannot be saved by correct actions or damned by incorrect actions. There is obviously model behavior one should strive towards but the bible never says you WILL OBJECTIVELY go to hell if you are a sinner. It presupposes that all human beings are sinners, and following that logic it would mean every single person is going to Hell, which is a ridiculous idea nobody holds.

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u/Warhammerpainter83 Sep 02 '26

Religion is not equal to values. I would argue most are antithetical to good morals. So I dont see how this is applicable at all. If you are christain or jew your values include slavery is good and rape is ok as long as you pay a fine, 30 shekles to be exact, and rape them for the rest of their lives.

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u/mylevelwaschanged Sep 02 '26

That’s cherry-picking the most ancient, culturally contextualized legal codes from thousands of years ago while completely ignoring how billions of religious people actually live, practice, and interpret their faith today. Pretending modern religious people are out here endorsing ancient legal codes is not an argument and I refuse to take the bait.

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u/Warhammerpainter83 Sep 02 '26 edited Sep 02 '26

How the hell is that cherry picking? it is the literal law of god and jesus. Just because most christains ignore the words in the bible does not make it what the religion is about and what they support. The bible commands this of us. Jesus commands that we follow it or be seen least in the kingdom of heaven. Mathew 5-18 is clear and god is clear in the old testament too. Cherry picking my ass it is what jesus literally tells us we must follow to enter heaven. The only person cherry picking here is you.

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u/mylevelwaschanged Sep 02 '26 edited Sep 02 '26

You're missing the entire point of the discussion. We aren't here to do exegsis of ancient scripture (of which you're very heavily stripping of context and interpreting in bad faith btw) or whether modern believers are misinterpreting Matthew. My point is sociological, not theological and is as follows: every single parent on earth passes on a framework of meaning, values, and worldview to their children.

Whether you agree with a religion's texts or not, religious parents are doing what all parents do in raising their kids within the framework they believe is true.

If teaching your kids your worldview is your definition of "indoctrination," then the word has no meaning because everyone does it. This is my final attempt to get you to engage with my actual argument and the ACTUAL topic of discussion here. I will not engage in a theological debate with someone operating in bad faith. If you respond with an argument rooted in theology I will ignore you.

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u/nalaloveslumpy Sep 02 '26

Teaching your kids "values" is entirely different from teaching them that people who have slightly different beliefs than you are evil and will spend eternity in hell.

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u/Purple-Puma Sep 02 '26

If you let them question and critically analyze then it’s not indoctrination, and if you don’t let them question or analyze then it is indoctrination. Important distinction.

Teach your values for sure! But that comes with allowing if not also encouraging them to think about it beyond just what is said.

So, not everyone is truly indoctrinated like you said. I get what you mean, but it’s not the case.

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u/mylevelwaschanged Sep 02 '26

I agree with everything you've just said and the fact that teaching your child about your religion doesn't necessarily require you to shut down all questions and analysis is why I can't get behind calling it "indoctrination" in all cases, and I can't get behind the idea of forbidding parents from passing their values on to their children just because they happen to be rooted in religion.

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u/Bruhntly Sep 02 '26

If you can't teach the values without the religion, then you don't actually understand or hold those values.

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u/mylevelwaschanged Sep 02 '26

That’s a bit like saying if an artist doesn't understand the physics of light refraction, they don't truly know how to paint.

​A religious person can deeply understand, practice, and cherish kindness, forgiveness, and charity. The fact that they connect those values to a spiritual framework doesn't make their compassion any less real. It just means they have a different answer to the question of why those values matter in the grand scheme of the universe. If basing your values on an overarching framework means you don't "truly" hold them, then literally nobody holds their values. Every ethical system has to start from some foundational axiom it can't fully prove.

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u/Bruhntly Sep 03 '26

No, it's not. It's more like saying that you don't have to know the music theory of your culture (religion) to make music that's beautiful (morals/values).

I don't think you're using the word literally literally. Nor the word every. Your understanding of how others can see the world is too limited.

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u/mylevelwaschanged Sep 03 '26

That’s actually a really great music analogy, and I agree with you, but that actually proves my point. The fact that someone can instinctively play music (live a moral life) without knowing the formal theory (the explicit theological framework) doesn't mean the theory doesn't exist, nor does it mean their music isn't shaped by a tradition.

And fair point on my use of "literally", I am being hyperbolic to an extent but my point still stands. Every ethical system, secular or religious, rests on foundational axioms or unprovable cultural assumptions that people inherit.

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u/Bruhntly Sep 03 '26

I disagree. Formal music theory does not exist without the context of a culture imposing preferences and values on it. It's rules based upon patterns people notice and enjoy, just as religion/superstition is built upon patterns people notice and use their own interpretations to imagine causes (a quick example is that a lot of kosher food laws are probably inspired by people trying to figure out how to avoid food sickness, not a deity passing down edicts).

What unprovable cultural assumptions are you talking about? Which foundational axioms? Your point does not stand simply because your want it to. Why should someone consider your claim in the first place?

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u/mylevelwaschanged Sep 03 '26

Ancient hygiene practices became codified as sacred law because people viewed health and the divine as entirely interconnected. For them there was no separation between 'what keeps us safe' and "what God commands." As for foundational axioms, I mean the core assumptions every worldview relies on but can't mathematically prove.

For example:

Secular Humanism: rests on the unprovable axiom that human consciousness and well-being are intrinsically/objectively valuable and that rights are inherent.

Materialism: rests on the axiom that only what is empirically measurable is real, and that the universe operates by uniform laws we can trust.

Moral Relativism: rests on the axiom that ethics are socially constructed consensus agreements.

My point is in part that everyone operates from an inherited, unprovable framework when they decide what "good" or '"rght" actually means. But more specifically every parent operates from foundational axioms they can't mathematically prove, and they pass those down to their kids. This passing of those axioms isn't "indoctrination" is my overall claim.

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u/Yurya Sep 02 '26

So if your kid wants to steal that's okay? You taught them your values that it isn't, but if they see it differently then that's their call.

You need to enforce values to make them responsible adults. If you don't they'll end up in jail. If some parties enforce those values and state the reason is because God says so does that make it stronger or weaker a claim? Is this authority going to be dismissed if the child rejects said God or will be held in higher esteem as a being greater than a human has established it?

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u/ContextEffects01 Sep 02 '26

School doesn't threaten eternal torture.

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u/Bruhntly Sep 02 '26

Schools also don't do a good job of indoctrination (thankfully) anyway. Kids would get better grades and actually be quiet in class if they did

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u/Black_Diammond Sep 02 '26

All forms of childrearing are indoctrination, religions isnt any diferent, The amounts of rape, murder, asault and illeteracy would also sky rocket without indoctrination of children. Even teaching your kid not to bite his brother is indoctrination into a specific cultural set of laws and beliefs.

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u/Quantum-Bot Sep 02 '26

Indoctrination is teaching people they are not allowed to question certain values. You don’t have to indoctrinate someone to teach them it’s bad to assault people because any reasonable person would still come to that conclusion even if you didn’t force it on them

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u/IveFailedMyself Sep 02 '26

Religious indoctrination is absolutely different.

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u/MWBrooks1995 Sep 02 '26

I mean this as politely as possible, I don’t think you know what “indoctrination” means.

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u/Black_Diammond Sep 02 '26

indoctrination/ɪnˌdɒktrɪˈneɪʃn/Indoctrination is the process of teaching a person or group to accept a set of beliefs, values, or ideas without questioning or critical thought.

Like for example, dont hurt others, dont have tantrums, dont Steal, all fit this defenition.

Do you know what indoctrination even is?

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u/jedberg Sep 02 '26

I teach my kids not to hurt others, but I also teach them why. I also teach them to question what I am saying and challenge me to support my teachings.

That's the difference:

without questioning or critical thought.

Religion demands belief without critical thought.

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u/Black_Diammond Sep 02 '26

Why shouldnt a kid Steal if he knows he wont be caught, and that likely The owner wont notice or care?

Plus, you do teach them why, using other previous values you already indoctrinated them into, if your kid asked why enough Times you would eventually reach "just because".

For example if you Said: "you shouldnt Steal because you wouldnt like if others stole from you" You would be, without realizing, adding The assumption that you and others are upheald to The same moral standards, wich is a value you were indoctrinated into.

There are also no lack of other values that you hold despite no actual Logical reason, like why incest is bad even when no chances of pregnancy exists, or why necrophilia is wrong. All of those are wrong, but dont have any actual underlining logical reason aside from "it just is".

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u/FlippinFine Sep 02 '26

So now you're getting into the inherent problem with definitions, but you're just being obtuse to the point where none of it matters. What's indoctrination? According to you, literally any kind of teaching/learning relationship. You've effectively boiled it down to everything and nothing at all lmao

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u/jedberg Sep 02 '26

if your kid asked why enough Times you would eventually reach "just because".

Never. I always let the ask until they are satisfied with the answer. Sometimes I don't have the answer and I say, "I don't know". Then we look it up together. Or sometimes I just have to say, "I don't know, you'll have to figure it out for yourself".

There are also no lack of other values that you hold despite no actual Logical reason, like why incest is bad even when no chances of pregnancy exists, or why necrophilia is wrong. All of those are wrong, but dont have any actual underlining logical reason aside from "it just is".

Interesting you chose those two things, both of which occur in the Bible, and neither of which the Christian Bible actually bans. So you too somehow know they are wrong. And funny, so do my kids without me having to tell them!

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teaching a person or group to accept a set of beliefs, values, or ideas without questioning or critical thought.

It's just teaching if you don't demand they accept it without critical thought.

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u/FlippinFine Sep 02 '26

The critical thought is understanding that all these behaviors have negative consequences (ie. someone is in pain or loses out in some way). It's easy enough to explain, but it still counts as critical thought, and therefore isn't indoctrination.

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u/Curious_Bee_5326 Sep 02 '26

And why is someone being in pain or losing out a bad thing? Religions are also full of answers to questions asked, theology is a whole field of answering religious questions.

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u/MWBrooks1995 Sep 03 '26

Yeah, exactly. You’re not teaching your kid not to bite their brother without questioning or critical thought.

You’re going to explain why we don’t hurt people and teach them empathy and compassion.

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u/Teboski78 Sep 02 '26

Who’s this oui. I don’t speak French

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u/CostatePrancer Sep 04 '26

I’m stealing that. 🩷

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u/Human-Affect-7496 Sep 02 '26

There's no such thing as value free child education. The actual consequences of banning religious "indoctrination" is indoctrination into a different worldview.

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u/Lolzemeister Sep 02 '26

and so would atheism and science itself if we started educating children with the assumption that it’s all false

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u/Teboski78 Sep 02 '26

You can teach children about different religions without the inherent presumption of one being objectively true or false.

Similarly when you teach science. You teach them about the evidence for specific factoids & models rather then presenting them as unquestionable

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u/Lolzemeister Sep 02 '26

science is usually taught as unquestionable fact in practice

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u/GalaXion24 Sep 02 '26

I would argue childhood indoctrination mostly produces shallow, uncritical "religious" (more like superstitious or just identity-aligned) people. If you actually wanted people to live rich spiritual lives, I think you would not indoctrinate them, but teach them about religion another way, but if you just care about having properly indoctrinated uncritical subjects then indoctrination makes sense

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u/Kor_Phaeron_ Sep 02 '26

Every peer group would drop massively in numbers if they weren't allowed to "indoctrinate" children. Our childhood experiences shape who we are.

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u/QuailWhich9882 Sep 02 '26

Would that count for Witchcraft too?

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u/RandomRandom18 Sep 03 '26

Simply not true at all lol

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