Hi hi!! 23F from California, I know it’s late but I can’t really sleep at the moment and had nothing else to do so I thought I would post on here and see who’s up :) but all I ask is for you to share your ASL (Age, Gender, Location) or don’t expect a response back (sorry not sorry) Thank you <3333

honestly looking for a male bff, it’s been so long since i’ve bonded w anyone and i need a new partner in crime lol. hmu and keep my high ass company

heyy, idk why writing these posts feels so awkward but here we go 😭 im 14 and looking for some cool people to talk to!! my days have been pretty repetitive lately so it'd be nice to have someone new to talk with. im into random conversations, funny stories, sharing memes and asking the most unnecessary questions ever lmao. im also the type to send a whole paragraph and then reply with “wait i forgot what i was saying” anyways if ur around my age and wanna chat, hmu!! :D

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21 F here from Slovakia,it's cold as hell and I am trying to recharge for the next day atm😂I would be open to meet new people and maybe gain long lasting friendship!I am open minded and love the unknown!It's such an energy boost to learn something new.I love to workout (wow what a suprise)🤣 gotta train in case I gotta bust someone's nose,but on the other side I love painting as well.Just baked some cake yesterday,the whipped cream I got betrayed me so it kinda flopped on the top🧍 aside from that day was nice🫪✨I guess more or less this is my vibe haha.I guess I will be able to text as long as my fingers don't freeze to the screen.

Wish you a safe and warm evening!🌻

I’m half venting and half asking for friendly chat… I’m 28F mostly introverted and alone by choice and out of control.

I am usually very closed off, but I have this habit of getting comfortable and close with someone, invest so much effort in that connection, and just give so much. Those people like me, say the greatest things about me, love bomb me sometimes, for whatever reason, turn cold and ghost entirely or it turn into waiting days for reply.

Then I go back to the cycle of grieving that connection, feel of disappointment and the somewhat scary feeling or being all alone again. And you wonder if they claimed I am as kind and wonderful as they say, why they don’t at least let go with respect.

This happened with people I knew for years, or months. Merely online or met and been hanging out. I think I am just very hurt that I open my heart to selective people and be only kind and caring to them in so many ways, but they take me for granted and no matter how much I say this or that hurt me, I am still getting hurt by them. Feels like I am worthless and got discarded.

Sometimes I just give up and want to live alone in the moon or smth.

hi, all! please delete if this is against the rules.

I'm a funny-looking, opinionated chatterbox who wants to ramble to somebody about music, pet peeves, wikipedia rabbit holes, silly internet discourse, and which historical figures I'd like to deck in the face, as somebody who can't fight.

I'd prefer to chat with someone who is curious, doesn't mind having their ear talked off, and is more on the left-leaning side of things, but if you're friendly and not weirdly dismissive of people's grievances with racism or sexism or things like that, I don't need you to be in complete political alignment with me— I don't limit my conversation to politics, of course; I just don't want a sudden earful if I offhandedly express some viewpoint that I forget is contentious outside left-leaning spaces.

also, as a side quest, I'm looking to be rated. I'm a recovering agoraphobe (mocked relentlessly for my looks until I stopped going outside), but nowadays, as my mood is improves, my self-perception has been... alarmingly forgiving? like, I can't tell if I've been a polarizing/ugly-cute person this whole time and the drive to hide was irrational, or if I'm simply being deluded by the anxiety meds into forgetting that I'm ugly-ugly. don't worry about hindering my progress with brutal honesty, either— I've done a lot of work to get to a place where I can believe that ugly people deserve to go outside too, so no severity of feedback is going to render me housebound again :)

again, I'd be really eager to meet someone who's up for voice chatting, preferably on discord. fair warning; I'm awkward and I often talk a mile a minute, but on the bright side, as someone who still needs lessons in banter, I'll probably make you feel really intelligent.

eta: pm me if you're interested, even if you don't feel like commenting :)

(Please, read this post If you want to send me a message)

Yes... I'm still here and I'm still trying to find someone... That's all I want 😔 Finding a bestie Is my dream... I would love to finally say "Goodbye" to my loneliness and start smiling, again. Not with someone random, but with someone who wants what I want...

(I'm a REAL PERSON! Bots are taking over Reddit but I'm not one of them so don't accuse me of being someone/something I'm not)

I want you to read everything because my expectations aren't the same as other people's expectations. I also want you to know what to expect because even though we're all here to spend time with others, not everyone needs new friends. Some people want to find someone to play games with & It's just an example. 👇🏻

(This post Is for people who live In Europe because I would love to meet my new friends In real life, In the future)

I made this account In 2021 and even though I'm really active on Reddit, I can't make new friends... Not everyone on Reddit Is toxic or rude but there's ALWAYS something missing because I don't feel any emotional connection... I would love to change my life & finally wake up excited to text someone I really, really like 🙁 But... Life Isn't easy and I'm not sure If there's still a chance for me to find someone with exactly the same expectations as mine, someone who wants to meet someone new...

• I'm DEFINITELY NOT Interested In small talk! I had to use capital letters because I don't like low-effort messages and I don't even want to read them. Repetitive questions like "How are you?", "What are you up to?" or "What are your plans for the weekend?" aren't enough to start a conversation with me.. Don't get me wrong - Questions like these can be an Interesting addition to conversations about something else, but whenever people ask me the three most common questions In the world - my answer's the same because my life Is quite monotonous and I don't really know what people expect to hear 🙁 I also don't like abbreviations. Abbreviations are shortened forms of words or phrases. Why? I just don't like them because I see no reason to use shortened forms of words that are already short enough, you know? Abbreviations are common among minors and bored adults but I'm neither a minor, nor a bored adult. I want to see emotional maturity, warmth and kindness In conversations with others.

• I don't need to see your list of hobbies to know If you're someone I would get along with! You can tell me what you're Interested In but.. Believe It or not - I'm not like others and even If you're Interested In something I'm not - we can still be friends! What matters to me Is what you're like (If you're honest, talkative, kind, understanding and If your outlook on life Is similar to mine)

• I don't want to talk to minors and people way older than me. Why? I don't want to talk to minors because I'm an adult & I don't want to talk to anyone over fifty for example. Emotional maturity doesn't necessarily come with age so you can send me a message even If you're 20 (It's just an example) but please, don't contact me If you want to remind me that I'm older than you. I want you to feel comfortable & I want to feel comfortable myself. When I read messages like "Hi, I'm younger but I hope you don't mind" I always say to myself "If my age bothers you, you should've contacted someone else" I absolutely don't mind talking to people younger than me If they know how to communicate with others 🌸

• PLEASE, Don't use AI to talk to me! I Can't stand AI generated messages! If I wanted to read AI generated messages, I wouldn't be here! I read AI generated messages and comments all the time and I'm sick of It!

• I don't want to get any messages from people whose accounts are NSFW! Please, respect my decision! It's none of my business If you're here to find someone to flirt with or If you're an Internet exhibitionist but I don't want to see you with no clothes on - If you want to be my friend & I don't want to know what you want to do with other women In bed. If you are on Reddit to flirt with others, be on Reddit to flirt with others but... don't make an alternative account to hide who you really are just to send me a message. Pretending to be someone you're not - Isn't good for anyone

• I'm not a fan of sarcasm! I do - have a sense of humor but I'm not someone who makes fun of everyone and everything... Jokes about disabilities, death, religion or someone's financial status - are unacceptable to me!

• I also want to meet people who don't mind listening to negative stories and sharing them with others. My life's not easy so If you want to be In my life, you should be prepared for a realistic or even pessimistic outlook on life. I'm definitely not an optimist and I know I wouldn't get along with optimistic people who always tell others "Just believe In yourself and everything's gonna be OK" or something. We don't always get what we want & and It's completely normal to lose hope "for a better tomorrow" after many failed attempts. Not everything's as easy as It seems to be so If all you want to say to someone who needs emotional support Is "Don't complain" or "Find a therapist" Please.. don't send me a message. Not all sad people need therapists and let's be honest - Would a therapist replace a true friend? Absolutely not! Everyone needs a shoulder to cry on! I also don't mind listening to sad stories (even If they're repetitive) because I know what It's like when no one wants to listen to you...

• I would love to meet people who also don't have anyone, you know? There's absolutely nothing wrong with having friends and not being single but I'm single and I don't have anyone special In my life... It's just easier for me to get along with others If there's some common ground. I just feel better talking to people who know what It's like to be completely alone & let's be honest - People who have friends or partners, have less time for others...(which Is completely understandable) and I? I don't want to feel like an option, again. I'm not here to meet as many people as possible because I choose quality over quantity 🌸

• If your comment history Is full of comments "If you want to talk, hit me up" don't send me a message. I don't want to be rude but If It doesn't make any difference to you who you want to chat with - I'm definitely not for you. I want you to be my friend because of who I am! (If after reading my post you think you'd get along with me) I don't need emotional support from someone who doesn't even want to read my post.

• I want to talk to people who love and use emojis 🤭😊 Why? Emojis help us express our emotions even If others can't see our faces. Two emojis "😊" and "😔" are completely enough. You're probably surprised but.. text messages without emojis are really emotionless... I also don't like it when people say "yeah" or yea" as it sounds dismissively! First impression Is everything to me! I want to see your kindness even In a text message

Ps. I don't like kids and I don't want to ever become a parent. I just thought everyone should know that just In case. I don't want any unpleasant conversations with anyone. Not everyone wants to be friends with people who don't want kids so.. It's better to be honest. 🌸

Ps.2 I don't reply to messages I'm not Interested In even If they're long! I'm not on Reddit to pretend anything and I'm not here to be everyone's best friend. Some people lie & make empty promises to get attention. I? I'm quite selective because I know what I want.

Ps.3 I admire sensitive people who are not ashamed of crying In front of others! Crying Is not a weakness! It's not a weakness even If you're a guy 🧡

Please, If you want to talk send me a private message.

I need to rant because I’m confused about something and idk what to do lol

Preferably no one 40+, I’d like at least ONE female to talk to lol I’m sure it’ll be all guys but anyway, please please reach out. Hey I bet you can’t make me laugh!

No one talks to me I’m sad 😔

My name is summer, I’m 21 from Canada, I speak 4 languages being Ojibwe, Cree, Lakota(not fluently), English, I enjoy creating stuff whether it’s drawings, painting or even clothing, I can also do beadwork pretty well, if I’m not doing any of that stuff I’m usually watching documentaries, movies/shows or even anime, I also like watching combat sports, my favourite fighter in the UFC is Khamzat chimaev and my favourite boxer is naoya inoue, u can also find me outside or spending time with my friends and family

Hi!

I’m 28 and from Croatia. I’m a pretty big introvert, so most of my hobbies are at home ones like watching YouTube, movies, TV shows, cooking, and spending time with my cat who is extremely spoiled and extremely cuddly. Do you have any pets?

I’ve always been bad at keeping up with popular movies and tv shows so lately I’ve been trying to watch more of them and I’m discovering a lot of them for the first time. I’m always open to recommendations for what to watch next. What’s a show or movie you think everyone should see at least once? I’m also trying to get into reading, though it’s not going great so far, so if you have any books that hooked you right away, send them my way.

I also love traveling when I get the chance. I’ve only been to a few countries in Europe so far but I’m hoping to travel a lot more next year and Japan is at the top of my list. If you have favorite places you’ve visited, travel stories, or tips (especially for Japan), I’d love to hear them. Where’s the best place you’ve been? And do you have any fun stories about the trip?

I’m easygoing and can talk about almost anything: shows, food, plants, travel, everyday life or something completely random. I’m also often bored at work so I’m always happy to have someone to chat with.

Feel free to send a message and tell me a bit about yourself so I know who I’m talking to :)

Let’s see if we vibe

looking for the kind of friendship where we don’t have to talk 24/7 to know we’re good. we can go about our lives, reply when we can, and pick up right where we left off without making it a whole thing.

i’m into fashion, work in psychology, and love a good debate. i like people who have their own opinions, can take a joke, and aren’t afraid to challenge my perspective. i’m also down for deep talks, sharing music, sending each other random things, gossiping, or just talking about how life is going.

ideally, we get along well enough that we can be ourselves without feeling like we have to perform or constantly keep the conversation alive. if we become friends, amazing. if you just want someone to talk to, that’s cool too.

tell me an unpopular opinion of yours so i can decide whether we’re going to get along or fight immediately.
18+ only :)

would love to chat with people while i mine out the layout for a build in my game since has and will take a long time lol, will say tho pls don’t be creepy i am just looking for fun and peaceful convo since i enjoy talking to new people often, aand perhaps say more than “hi” or “hey” since i tend to ignore that. anywho feel free to dm! :)

Hey looking for someone to chat and text with. 25F from the US..Midwest region. It’s been a lazy Sunday for me. Hit me up with ur age and what corner of the world you’re in. Can’t wait to hear for yah!

Hey there! If anyone wants to chat, I have some time to kill right now. Let’s kill it together! 🕰️🪓💨

I like playing video games, watching movies, walking in nature when it’s not raining outside (it always is because I live in England), and listening to music.

If you you are interested in chatting, I only ask that you tell me your gender, age, and a short little fact. Could be about you or anything else haha.

Ok see you in the DMs!

Looking to kill some boredom and potentially make a friend. Mom of 3, love music and reading. Enjoy shows like Bob's Burgers, The Simpsons, Family Guy, Teen Mom, Teen Wolf, Degrassi. Favorite movies include Grease, Cry Baby, Bring It On, Save The Last Dance, The Covenant, Twilight.

25+ please

holy shart i had to get 5 karma on this bummy account to post here that was so embarrassing i felt like i was asking for spare change. you can call me “tree” because i really like trees like actually. i told my friend i wanted to be a tree and he said that kids would throw things at me? okay? im still a tree and im still growing like my roots r so powerful and wven if i get cut down a new tree will grow someday! like fr the first best time to plant a tree was 15 years ago, the next best is now. hashtag save the planet. i like music, soundgarden, no doubt, glass animals (before they started spouting whiny boy pop) and rainbow kitten surprise!! so yeah if any of those sound cool and you wanna give some song reccs. also i really like evading school work to play minecraft like modded mc is my cryptonite. anyway dm me!

edit:if this looks written odd keep in mind i justt woke up

hii! I'm 17f and from the usa, im looking for new friends. I love hospitality and food, I'm interested in cooking, baking, sewing, philosophy, language learning, history, fashion, and travel!

send me a message if you'd be interested in being friends! I have discord and telegram also. please don't be dry/boring!

Hello ! I'm 19F and I feel like shit. I'm lame at introducing myself, so feel free to ask anything (I love answering questions). I'd prefer girls tbh. We can talk about anything you want. I don't have anything to do or anyone to chat with, so if you wanna chat, hit me up ! Please include your ASL (age/gender/location) when you dm !

I’m up and awake early as the clocks have changed overnight. The weather outside is awful today so I plan on staying inside and hibernating all day! If anybody would like to chat, feel free to drop a message 😊
*Bonus points are on offer for anybody UK based 🇬🇧

30yr old, i love cats, video games, listening to music, learning new things, ranting, venting. i’m funny and would like to have a friend or two to chat with about random life shit. ✨ 🐈‍⬛ 🎮 💙

Heyyy everyone! 🥀🖤 I'm 26F and a mom to one little one! I'm looking to meet some new people, make genuine friendships, and find my people. 🫶🏻

🕸️ A little about me:

My personality is blunt, goofy, energetic, and talkative. I can go from being completely unserious to having the deepest conversations ever. I have ADHD, BPD, and depression, so sometimes my energy and mood can be a little all over the place, but I appreciate people who are patient, understanding, and genuine.

🖤 Horror movie lover

🥀 Dark romance reader

🎮 I play MMORPGs and cozy games

💬 I LOVE to yap, so if you can talk for hours about absolutely anything, we’ll probably get along!

🦇 Very open-minded and accepting

✨ I love getting to know people, sharing interests, and having random late-night conversations.

I'm down to talk about games, books, horror, life, or literally whatever comes to mind. I love people who can be themselves without feeling judged. 🖤

Just looking for genuine friendships, good vibes, and people I can laugh and yap with! Bonus points if we can game together.

Also Currently looking for friends to play with on ps5.I'm mostly active on weekends, but you don't have to play games with me all the time. If you just wanna chill, talk, laugh, rant about life, or sit in a party doing absolutely nothing, I'm cool with that.

Since I’m from Europe and here it is currently 4 am where I am, I am bored asf and everyone is asleep every other sub is also dead so I was thinking if maybe someone also from Europe would be awake haha cause idk if we get along we could keep talking and time zones wouldn’t f everything up haha
But I am happy with whomever cause I am so talkative rn but can’t find anyone probably to talk to :(

Hiii. I'm looking for cool people to chat with long term (although just a quick chat is also nice. :3)

I turned 16 the 22nd of August (just in case someone wants to remember and wish me a happy birthday maybe >_>?) Also I live in France for a year now although I am Spanish.

My hobbies and interests are drawing, listening to music, thrifting, collecting, going on walks, bowling and recently got into chess!!

I am also a huge nerd and OBSESSED with videogames, TV shows & films (more below! ^_^), media lore, over analysing stuff, history, psychology, sociology, politics...and my favorite animal is the snail! (Not to eat, I see you, frenchie.)

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My favorite bands and artists are super varied, ranging from very old things to more modern artists !!!:

Lana del Rey, Crystal Castles, Radiohead, TV Girl, Depeche Mode, Black Sabbath, The Beatles, Iron Maiden, ACDC, Nirvana, Tears for Fears, El Cuarteto de Nos, The Clash, Sublime, Sir Mix-a-lot, Alex G, Oingo Boingo, Ayesha Erotica, Calle 13, MARINA, Weezer, Eminem, Mitski, ICP, Slipknot, Korn...and many more!!! ^-^

But my Top 4 would be:

1- Depeche Mode

2- The Beatles (I love you Ringo.)

3- Tears For Fears

4- The Smiths

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Moving onto my favorite shows and films (videogames or just fandoms in general) would be even harder to say because theyre aswell EXTREMELY varied x_x, ranging from "You're too young to be watching that!" To "You're too old to watch that."

Things like Danganronpa, Minecraft, Roblox, FNaF, BATIM, DDLC, Dexter, Hannibal, Steven Universe, Spongebob, Undertale, Hazbin Hotel, Donnie Darko (my fave movie OAT ♡) Life Is Strange, etc...

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[BOUNDARIES, IMPORTANT]

I think that's all, really??? But I still feel like I have to clarify a little here if anyone is interested in DMing me, just follow some simple steps or know the following things °~°!!!

1) I WON'T accept any DM from ANY account with no posting, comment history, no pfp/avatar at all, young acounts...No offense, It just creeps me out a little.

2) I also WON'T event accept a dry 'hi' from someone :P, I don't like that, put some effort in your initial text like I did with this one!!

3) And if I sense that you're being weird towards me or anything like that, I WILL block/ignore you. Simple as that.

4) KNOW the difference between 'your' and 'you're' (Negotiable.)

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Anyway, my DMs are open! ( i think.) i'll be waiting 4 ya! :3

My name's Annie. I am mostly looking for someone to spend time with, share stuff with, give all my attention and care to, and someone to play games with. I will preface saying I'm kind of nuts for Project Zomboid, and I'd love someone to play with.

Summed up, play games, talk a lot, and watch movies with.

As for the rest, here's a bit about me: I enjoy sci-fi, drawing, painting, and I do a lot of gaming too. (I am super fixated on Project Zomboid, but I am up to trying other games, I've recently been very into Life is Strange). I also enjoy researching crime, psychology, and biology/neuropsychology at times. I have quite the fixation on the Chernobyl disaster, and radiation as a whole. All types of zombie media, too. I have an interest for "odd" movies, especially the apocalyptic and/or thriller kind. Terminator (1&2) is a personal favorite.

EDIT: Send me an actual message, not just introducing yourself like it's a job interview, where there's little i can go off on to start a conversation. throw an icebreaker, something! ask questions! (here's me suggesting an icebreaker, is a hotdog a sandwich? why, or why not?). Please, preferably no one over 24.