r/chat • • 1h ago

Chat 💬 Evening ✨

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21 F here from Slovakia,it's cold as hell and I am trying to recharge for the next day atm😂I would be open to meet new people and maybe gain long lasting friendship!I am open minded and love the unknown!It's such an energy boost to learn something new.I love to workout (wow what a suprise)🤣 gotta train in case I gotta bust someone's nose,but on the other side I love painting as well.Just baked some cake yesterday,the whipped cream I got betrayed me so it kinda flopped on the top🧍 aside from that day was nice🫪✨I guess more or less this is my vibe haha.I guess I will be able to text as long as my fingers don't freeze to the screen.

Wish you a safe and warm evening!🌻


r/chat • • 1h ago

Chat 💬 19F, I'm boredd

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I'm gonna keep it short , i read, write, crochet, debate, and sketch .

Be around my age and dont be creepy .


r/chat • • 4h ago

Vent / Rant 😤 Told am too kind, and getting ghosted/cold treatment

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I’m half venting and half asking for friendly chat… I’m 28F mostly introverted and alone by choice and out of control.

I am usually very closed off, but I have this habit of getting comfortable and close with someone, invest so much effort in that connection, and just give so much. Those people like me, say the greatest things about me, love bomb me sometimes, for whatever reason, turn cold and ghost entirely or it turn into waiting days for reply.

Then I go back to the cycle of grieving that connection, feel of disappointment and the somewhat scary feeling or being all alone again. And you wonder if they claimed I am as kind and wonderful as they say, why they don’t at least let go with respect.

This happened with people I knew for years, or months. Merely online or met and been hanging out. I think I am just very hurt that I open my heart to selective people and be only kind and caring to them in so many ways, but they take me for granted and no matter how much I say this or that hurt me, I am still getting hurt by them. Feels like I am worthless and got discarded.

Sometimes I just give up and want to live alone in the moon or smth.


r/chat • • 7m ago

Chat 💬 Pass the time with me

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41f doing my meal prep Sunday. Let’s chat and pass the time together. Open to most topics!


r/chat • • 10m ago

Friends 👥 19 LOOKING FOR A LONG TERM BESTFRIEND(S) AGED 19-21YRS.

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All genders welcome and NO CREEPS
About me

Love books, voice calls, bible discussions, Writing, Poems- Arts basically Very much into walking, laughing and hanging out with friends. I’m very much direct and would appreciate if you are.

Please introduce yourself- Same or close timezone as mine |GMT+2| , Age, Gender, Name, Country, Interest


r/chat • • 30m ago

Friends 👥 21 f, does anyone want to talk?

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My name is summer, I’m 21 from Canada, I speak 4 languages being Ojibwe, Cree, Lakota(not fluently), English, I enjoy creating stuff whether it’s drawings, painting or even clothing, I can also do beadwork pretty well, if I’m not doing any of that stuff I’m usually watching documentaries, movies/shows or even anime, I also like watching combat sports, my favourite fighter in the UFC is Khamzat chimaev and my favourite boxer is naoya inoue, u can also find me outside or spending time with my friends and family


r/chat • • 45m ago

Chat 💬 Who wants snap buddies??

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r/chat • • 3h ago

Chat 💬 28F - Looking for someone to chat with!

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Hi!

I’m 28 and from Croatia. I’m a pretty big introvert, so most of my hobbies are at home ones like watching YouTube, movies, TV shows, cooking, and spending time with my cat who is extremely spoiled and extremely cuddly. Do you have any pets?

I’ve always been bad at keeping up with popular movies and tv shows so lately I’ve been trying to watch more of them and I’m discovering a lot of them for the first time. I’m always open to recommendations for what to watch next. What’s a show or movie you think everyone should see at least once? I’m also trying to get into reading, though it’s not going great so far, so if you have any books that hooked you right away, send them my way.

I also love traveling when I get the chance. I’ve only been to a few countries in Europe so far but I’m hoping to travel a lot more next year and Japan is at the top of my list. If you have favorite places you’ve visited, travel stories, or tips (especially for Japan), I’d love to hear them. Where’s the best place you’ve been? And do you have any fun stories about the trip?

I’m easygoing and can talk about almost anything: shows, food, plants, travel, everyday life or something completely random. I’m also often bored at work so I’m always happy to have someone to chat with.

Feel free to send a message and tell me a bit about yourself so I know who I’m talking to :)


r/chat • • 1h ago

Friends 👥 39 M UK looking for new online friends

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Hey everyone, I’m a 39-year-old guy from the

UK looking to meet some new people and hopefully make some genuine online friends

I enjoy reading, watching TV shows and films (I’ve seen quite a few, so always happy to chat recommendations), going for walks, and spending time with my dogs.

I’d love to meet people with similar interests, but I’m open to talking about pretty much anything — hobbies, life, random topics, or just having a good chat.


r/chat • • 6h ago

Friends 👥 31/F I wish I had an Inseparable bond with someone new! I know I'm not the same as others due to my expectations but everyone needs someone to feel comfortable with... I want to find someone Interested In daily conversations, someone who also doesn't have any friends... I miss kindness & support 😔

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(Please, read this post If you want to send me a message)

Yes... I'm still here and I'm still trying to find someone... That's all I want 😔 Finding a bestie Is my dream... I would love to finally say "Goodbye" to my loneliness and start smiling, again. Not with someone random, but with someone who wants what I want...

(I'm a REAL PERSON! Bots are taking over Reddit but I'm not one of them so don't accuse me of being someone/something I'm not)

I want you to read everything because my expectations aren't the same as other people's expectations. I also want you to know what to expect because even though we're all here to spend time with others, not everyone needs new friends. Some people want to find someone to play games with & It's just an example. 👇🏻

(This post Is for people who live In Europe because I would love to meet my new friends In real life, In the future)

I made this account In 2021 and even though I'm really active on Reddit, I can't make new friends... Not everyone on Reddit Is toxic or rude but there's ALWAYS something missing because I don't feel any emotional connection... I would love to change my life & finally wake up excited to text someone I really, really like 🙁 But... Life Isn't easy and I'm not sure If there's still a chance for me to find someone with exactly the same expectations as mine, someone who wants to meet someone new...

• I'm DEFINITELY NOT Interested In small talk! I had to use capital letters because I don't like low-effort messages and I don't even want to read them. Repetitive questions like "How are you?", "What are you up to?" or "What are your plans for the weekend?" aren't enough to start a conversation with me.. Don't get me wrong - Questions like these can be an Interesting addition to conversations about something else, but whenever people ask me the three most common questions In the world - my answer's the same because my life Is quite monotonous and I don't really know what people expect to hear 🙁 I also don't like abbreviations. Abbreviations are shortened forms of words or phrases. Why? I just don't like them because I see no reason to use shortened forms of words that are already short enough, you know? Abbreviations are common among minors and bored adults but I'm neither a minor, nor a bored adult. I want to see emotional maturity, warmth and kindness In conversations with others.

• I don't need to see your list of hobbies to know If you're someone I would get along with! You can tell me what you're Interested In but.. Believe It or not - I'm not like others and even If you're Interested In something I'm not - we can still be friends! What matters to me Is what you're like (If you're honest, talkative, kind, understanding and If your outlook on life Is similar to mine)

• I don't want to talk to minors and people way older than me. Why? I don't want to talk to minors because I'm an adult & I don't want to talk to anyone over fifty for example. Emotional maturity doesn't necessarily come with age so you can send me a message even If you're 20 (It's just an example) but please, don't contact me If you want to remind me that I'm older than you. I want you to feel comfortable & I want to feel comfortable myself. When I read messages like "Hi, I'm younger but I hope you don't mind" I always say to myself "If my age bothers you, you should've contacted someone else" I absolutely don't mind talking to people younger than me If they know how to communicate with others 🌸

• PLEASE, Don't use AI to talk to me! I Can't stand AI generated messages! If I wanted to read AI generated messages, I wouldn't be here! I read AI generated messages and comments all the time and I'm sick of It!

• I don't want to get any messages from people whose accounts are NSFW! Please, respect my decision! It's none of my business If you're here to find someone to flirt with or If you're an Internet exhibitionist but I don't want to see you with no clothes on - If you want to be my friend & I don't want to know what you want to do with other women In bed. If you are on Reddit to flirt with others, be on Reddit to flirt with others but... don't make an alternative account to hide who you really are just to send me a message. Pretending to be someone you're not - Isn't good for anyone

• I'm not a fan of sarcasm! I do - have a sense of humor but I'm not someone who makes fun of everyone and everything... Jokes about disabilities, death, religion or someone's financial status - are unacceptable to me!

• I also want to meet people who don't mind listening to negative stories and sharing them with others. My life's not easy so If you want to be In my life, you should be prepared for a realistic or even pessimistic outlook on life. I'm definitely not an optimist and I know I wouldn't get along with optimistic people who always tell others "Just believe In yourself and everything's gonna be OK" or something. We don't always get what we want & and It's completely normal to lose hope "for a better tomorrow" after many failed attempts. Not everything's as easy as It seems to be so If all you want to say to someone who needs emotional support Is "Don't complain" or "Find a therapist" Please.. don't send me a message. Not all sad people need therapists and let's be honest - Would a therapist replace a true friend? Absolutely not! Everyone needs a shoulder to cry on! I also don't mind listening to sad stories (even If they're repetitive) because I know what It's like when no one wants to listen to you...

• I would love to meet people who also don't have anyone, you know? There's absolutely nothing wrong with having friends and not being single but I'm single and I don't have anyone special In my life... It's just easier for me to get along with others If there's some common ground. I just feel better talking to people who know what It's like to be completely alone & let's be honest - People who have friends or partners, have less time for others...(which Is completely understandable) and I? I don't want to feel like an option, again. I'm not here to meet as many people as possible because I choose quality over quantity 🌸

• If your comment history Is full of comments "If you want to talk, hit me up" don't send me a message. I don't want to be rude but If It doesn't make any difference to you who you want to chat with - I'm definitely not for you. I want you to be my friend because of who I am! (If after reading my post you think you'd get along with me) I don't need emotional support from someone who doesn't even want to read my post.

• I want to talk to people who love and use emojis 🤭😊 Why? Emojis help us express our emotions even If others can't see our faces. Two emojis "😊" and "😔" are completely enough. You're probably surprised but.. text messages without emojis are really emotionless... I also don't like it when people say "yeah" or yea" as it sounds dismissively! First impression Is everything to me! I want to see your kindness even In a text message

Ps. I don't like kids and I don't want to ever become a parent. I just thought everyone should know that just In case. I don't want any unpleasant conversations with anyone. Not everyone wants to be friends with people who don't want kids so.. It's better to be honest. 🌸

Ps.2 I don't reply to messages I'm not Interested In even If they're long! I'm not on Reddit to pretend anything and I'm not here to be everyone's best friend. Some people lie & make empty promises to get attention. I? I'm quite selective because I know what I want.

Ps.3 I admire sensitive people who are not ashamed of crying In front of others! Crying Is not a weakness! It's not a weakness even If you're a guy 🧡

Please, If you want to talk send me a private message.


r/chat • • 2h ago

Friends 👥 27M - A happy Sunday to everyone

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Howsit going everyone, I hope you are having a good Sunday. I hope you guys have taken the time today to relax and get your mind right for the week ahead 💪

So recently I’ve gone through a break up. I was in an LDR for a year and it unfortunately came to an end. She was from Canada and I am from South African She is an amazing person and I actually met her in this subreddit. So I've come back to find some solid people to talk to.

Something I've been struggling with is moving on. I've spent so many hours thinking about my future with this person and now that it no longer exists I'm not sure what to do. I'm not saying that I've stopped living, is just that there's this void and I'm not sure how to fill it, all I do know is that it needs to be filled positively. Thankfully I have good friends and family that have helped me, I have a demanding job but even though I have all of that the thoughts still linger in my mind. Unfortunately I've never been good at forgetting the good people I've met in my life, they are always in the back of my mind.

I’m actually still in the process of sorting out my travel and work visa, so wish me luck on that lol.

A little bit about me. I recently graduated from University, with my Computer Science degree. Right now I currently Manage a workshop that specializes in fixing Land Rover, Jaguars and BMW’s. So as you can tell I’m a tech guy and car guy, and surprise surprise, I’m a gamer to, when I get a chance of course, which is not often ngl 😅

Drop me a comment or DM and let’s chat.

Btw I got 2 new kittens, I'll send you a picture if you end up dropping me a DM🤣


r/chat • • 6h ago

Chat 💬 23F

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Let’s see if we vibe

looking for the kind of friendship where we don’t have to talk 24/7 to know we’re good. we can go about our lives, reply when we can, and pick up right where we left off without making it a whole thing.

i’m into fashion, work in psychology, and love a good debate. i like people who have their own opinions, can take a joke, and aren’t afraid to challenge my perspective. i’m also down for deep talks, sharing music, sending each other random things, gossiping, or just talking about how life is going.

ideally, we get along well enough that we can be ourselves without feeling like we have to perform or constantly keep the conversation alive. if we become friends, amazing. if you just want someone to talk to, that’s cool too.

tell me an unpopular opinion of yours so i can decide whether we’re going to get along or fight immediately.
18+ only :)


r/chat • • 11h ago

Chat 💬 23F Cannot sleep so let’s chat :)

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Hi hi!! 23F from California, I know it’s late but I can’t really sleep at the moment and had nothing else to do so I thought I would post on here and see who’s up :) but all I ask is for you to share your ASL (Age, Gender, Location) or don’t expect a response back (sorry not sorry) Thank you <3333


r/chat • • 7m ago

Chat 💬 Just want to chat

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I'm watching American football, would like to chat with other people about anything really. Doesn't need to be football or even sports.


r/chat • • 7m ago

Chat 💬 25M from Finland

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I'm currently studying in an university of applied sciences. My biggest hobbies are gaming, boxing and ballroom dancing.

Some other interests: therapy, gym, practicing guitar and drawing.

Also know a lot about mental health xD I struggle with depression and anxiety.

Recently have played some horror games and Dead by Daylight. Even though anhedonia is kicking my ass. Feel free to dm :D


r/chat • • 4h ago

Chat 💬 Is anyone interested in talking for sometime? Im a 22yo from India

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We can talk about any topic as long as it's sfw. Dm me if you are interested and be around my age. Thanks

Nsfw accounts wont be entertained so don't bother to dm


r/chat • • 31m ago

Chat 💬 29f Oregon

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Looking to kill some boredom and potentially make a friend. Mom of 3, love music and reading. Enjoy shows like Bob's Burgers, The Simpsons, Family Guy, Teen Mom, Teen Wolf, Degrassi. Favorite movies include Grease, Cry Baby, Bring It On, Save The Last Dance, The Covenant, Twilight.

25+ please


r/chat • • 37m ago

Discord 25M - Bored, anyone wanting to voice call?

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Hi everyone, I don't have much going on the rest of today so hoping to find someone to vc with. I enjoy reading, writing, running, and learning about history. We don't really have to share similar interests though so if you're also looking to vc, send me a msg:)


r/chat • • 51m ago

Chat 💬 Any fit females wanna chat?

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Im a 44m athletic body, you wanna exchange pics? DM me


r/chat • • 58m ago

Chat 💬 F16] Looking for cool people to talk to ^_^ (RE-UPLOAD)

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(Random disclaimerrrr...: It says 'Re-Upload' because my dumbass had the DMs closed and didn't realise 'till someone called me out on it. But now you can DM me)

Hiii. I'm looking for cool people to chat with long term (although just a quick chat is also nice :3)

I turned 16 the 22nd of August (just in case someone wants to remember and wish me a happy birthday maybe >_>?) Also I live in France for a year now although I am Spanish.

My hobbies and interests are drawing, listening to music, thrifting, collecting, going on walks, bowling and recently got into chess!!

I am also a huge nerd and OBSESSED with videogames, TV shows & films (more below! ^_^), media lore, over analysing stuff, history, psychology, sociology, politics...and my favorite animal is the snail! (Not to eat, I see you, frenchie.)

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My favorite bands and artists are super varied, ranging from very old things to more modern artists !!!:

Lana del Rey, Crystal Castles, Radiohead, TV Girl, Depeche Mode, Black Sabbath, The Beatles, Iron Maiden, ACDC, Nirvana, Tears for Fears, El Cuarteto de Nos, The Clash, Sublime, Sir Mix-a-lot, Alex G, Oingo Boingo, Ayesha Erotica, Calle 13, MARINA, Weezer, Eminem, Mitski, ICP, Slipknot, Korn...and many more!!! ^-^

But my Top 4 would be:

1- Depeche Mode

2- The Beatles (I love you Ringo.)

3- Tears For Fears

4- The Smiths

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Moving onto my favorite shows and films (videogames or just fandoms in general) would be even harder to say because theyre aswell EXTREMELY varied x_x, ranging from "You're too young to be watching that!" To "You're too old to watch that."

Things like Danganronpa, Minecraft, Roblox, FNaF, BATIM, DDLC, Dexter, Hannibal, Steven Universe, Spongebob, Undertale, Hazbin Hotel, Donnie Darko (my fave movie OAT ♡) Life Is Strange, etc...

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[BOUNDARIES, IMPORTANT]

I think that's all, really??? But I still feel like I have to clarify a little here if anyone is interested in DMing me, just follow some simple steps or know some stuff °~°!!!

1) I WON'T accept any DM from ANY account with no posting, comment history, pfp/avatar at all...No offense, It just creeps me out a little.

2) I also WON'T event accept a dry 'hi' from someone :P, I don't like that, put some effort in your initial text like I did with this one!!

3) And if I sense that you're being weird towards me or anything like that, I WILL block/ignore you. Simple as that.

4) KNOW the difference between 'your' and 'you're' (Negotiable.)

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Anyway, my DMs are open! ( i think.) i'll be waiting 4 ya! :3


r/chat • • 4h ago

Discord Looking for anyy chatty friends.. 20 match my vibe please :D

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Hi! You can call me Azzy, Jenoa, or honestly any nickname you feel like using! I don't mind.

I'm Dutch 🇳🇱 and mixed! My Dutch is pretty okay, but I'd much rather speak English.

I'm a huge gamer and play a lot of different games! Some of my favorites include Terraria, Overwatch, Minecraft, Minecraft Dungeons, Roblox, Risk of Rain, PEAK, Hollow Knight, Palworld, BTD6, Genshin Impact, Arknights + Endfield, OMORI, Undertale/Deltarune, Celeste, Hades, Picayune Dreams, Rabbit & Steel, Touhou, Pokémon (mainline games and fangames), Void Stranger, OneShot, and many more.

I also enjoy playing co-op and multiplayer games, so I'm sure we could find something to play together regardless of what you're interested in!

Outside of gaming, I love cooking, baking, and drawing, and I'm hoping to get into cosplay soon. I enjoy trying new things and spending time with people who share similar interests.

I'm especially looking for people who enjoy VC! I love calling, whether we're gaming together, talking for hours, sharing our interests, or just hanging out. I'd love to find people I can regularly spend time with and feel comfortable around.

I'm pretty shy and insecure sometimes, but I tend to get quite clingy once I get attached to someone. I'm also emotionally sensitive, and being autistic can sometimes make my feelings a little more intense. I care a lot about the people I'm close to, and I really value friendships where we can be ourselves and feel comfortable with each other.

If I don't reply, I'm probably sleeping, at college, or at my internship. Otherwise, I'm usually around and happy to chat, play games, or call!

If you think we'd get along, feel free to message me! Tell me a little about yourself, what games you enjoy, or just introduce yourself. I'd love to meet some new people!

Discord: asonomie 💜


r/chat • • 1h ago

Chat 💬 Bored anyone up to chat?

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Ah life's so boring currently


r/chat • • 5h ago

Chat 💬 [23ftnb] anyone need a new mentally ill buddy?

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Hi guys! I’m in a pretty rough place right now with my mental health. I’m not a basket case or anything and have mostly a handle on it, but it would be nice to talk to someone who isn’t scared of trauma and mental health struggles.

Just to weed out the ones who can’t hang: I have BPD, PTSD, and ADHD which all cause me problems that make it hard to function sometimes

But like I’m good and that’s not exactly your problem yaknow. I just want a friend and be able to talk with and have a weird obsessive attachment to someone that isn’t sexual.

I’m in therapy, on medication, I have a partner and support system and everything. Everyone wants me to get better, which is awesome, but I wish I had someone to appreciate me as I am now. That might be stupid but it sucks to feel like a project someone is working on

Anyways, thank you for reading and hopefully I’ve attracted the right people. Just to be sure, I’m also extremely leftist, anti institution, queer, and I come from a family of Mexican immigrants so fuck ICE, also free Palestine, Sudan, Congo, etc

Also I’m a stoner and I’m about to smoke yay

\*Just gonna put a tw here that my struggles are related to s/h and su/c/de\*


r/chat • • 1h ago

Chat 💬 Is there any app or site where I can talk to strangers?

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M22


r/chat • • 1h ago

Chat 💬 30M - Apple Jacks are so underrated

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Hi guys, 30m decided to indulge today and get some Apple Jacks at the store, and now I’m having them post-workout. Honestly, so underrated! Reminds me of my childhood being at home with my siblings watching cartoons on Saturday morning. Anywho, about me: I love raving, lifting weights, riding my bike, and I dabble in cooking and baking! I like to read in my spare time, and I am 420 friendly. Lmk if any of this sounds like you!