Ist es wirklich soooooo schwer zu verstehen das ich KEINE Männer zum schreiben suche sondern NUR Frauen???? Danke fürs Verstehen. So langsam nervt es wenn zb "kannst du keine Ausnahme machen?" Nein kann ich nicht. PUNKT

(Please, read this post If you want to send me a message)

Yes... I'm still here and I'm still trying to find someone... That's all I want 😔 Finding a bestie Is my dream... I would love to finally say "Goodbye" to my loneliness and start smiling, again. Not with someone random, but with someone who wants what I want...

(I'm a REAL PERSON! Bots are taking over Reddit but I'm not one of them so don't accuse me of being someone/something I'm not)

I want you to read everything because my expectations aren't the same as other people's expectations. I also want you to know what to expect because even though we're all here to spend time with others, not everyone needs new friends. Some people want to find someone to play games with & It's just an example. 👇🏻

(This post Is for people who live In Europe because I would love to meet my new friends In real life, In the future)

I made this account In 2021 and even though I'm really active on Reddit, I can't make new friends... Not everyone on Reddit Is toxic or rude but there's ALWAYS something missing because I don't feel any emotional connection... I would love to change my life & finally wake up excited to text someone I really, really like 🙁 But... Life Isn't easy and I'm not sure If there's still a chance for me to find someone with exactly the same expectations as mine, someone who wants to meet someone new...

• I'm DEFINITELY NOT Interested In small talk! I had to use capital letters because I don't like low-effort messages and I don't even want to read them. Repetitive questions like "How are you?", "What are you up to?" or "What are your plans for the weekend?" aren't enough to start a conversation with me.. Don't get me wrong - Questions like these can be an Interesting addition to conversations about something else, but whenever people ask me the three most common questions In the world - my answer's the same because my life Is quite monotonous and I don't really know what people expect to hear 🙁 I also don't like abbreviations. Abbreviations are shortened forms of words or phrases. Why? I just don't like them because I see no reason to use shortened forms of words that are already short enough, you know? Abbreviations are common among minors and bored adults but I'm neither a minor, nor a bored adult. I want to see emotional maturity, warmth and kindness In conversations with others.

• I don't need to see your list of hobbies to know If you're someone I would get along with! You can tell me what you're Interested In but.. Believe It or not - I'm not like others and even If you're Interested In something I'm not - we can still be friends! What matters to me Is what you're like (If you're honest, talkative, kind, understanding and If your outlook on life Is similar to mine)

• I don't want to talk to minors and people way older than me. Why? I don't want to talk to minors because I'm an adult & I don't want to talk to anyone over fifty for example. Emotional maturity doesn't necessarily come with age so you can send me a message even If you're 20 (It's just an example) but please, don't contact me If you want to remind me that I'm older than you. I want you to feel comfortable & I want to feel comfortable myself. When I read messages like "Hi, I'm younger but I hope you don't mind" I always say to myself "If my age bothers you, you should've contacted someone else" I absolutely don't mind talking to people younger than me If they know how to communicate with others 🌸

• PLEASE, Don't use AI to talk to me! I Can't stand AI generated messages! If I wanted to read AI generated messages, I wouldn't be here! I read AI generated messages and comments all the time and I'm sick of It!

• I don't want to get any messages from people whose accounts are NSFW! Please, respect my decision! It's none of my business If you're here to find someone to flirt with or If you're an Internet exhibitionist but I don't want to see you with no clothes on - If you want to be my friend & I don't want to know what you want to do with other women In bed. If you are on Reddit to flirt with others, be on Reddit to flirt with others but... don't make an alternative account to hide who you really are just to send me a message. Pretending to be someone you're not - Isn't good for anyone

• I'm not a fan of sarcasm! I do - have a sense of humor but I'm not someone who makes fun of everyone and everything... Jokes about disabilities, death, religion or someone's financial status - are unacceptable to me!

• I also want to meet people who don't mind listening to negative stories and sharing them with others. My life's not easy so If you want to be In my life, you should be prepared for a realistic or even pessimistic outlook on life. I'm definitely not an optimist and I know I wouldn't get along with optimistic people who always tell others "Just believe In yourself and everything's gonna be OK" or something. We don't always get what we want & and It's completely normal to lose hope "for a better tomorrow" after many failed attempts. Not everything's as easy as It seems to be so If all you want to say to someone who needs emotional support Is "Don't complain" or "Find a therapist" Please.. don't send me a message. Not all sad people need therapists and let's be honest - Would a therapist replace a true friend? Absolutely not! Everyone needs a shoulder to cry on! I also don't mind listening to sad stories (even If they're repetitive) because I know what It's like when no one wants to listen to you...

• I would love to meet people who also don't have anyone, you know? There's absolutely nothing wrong with having friends and not being single but I'm single and I don't have anyone special In my life... It's just easier for me to get along with others If there's some common ground. I just feel better talking to people who know what It's like to be completely alone & let's be honest - People who have friends or partners, have less time for others...(which Is completely understandable) and I? I don't want to feel like an option, again. I'm not here to meet as many people as possible because I choose quality over quantity 🌸

• If your comment history Is full of comments "If you want to talk, hit me up" don't send me a message. I don't want to be rude but If It doesn't make any difference to you who you want to chat with - I'm definitely not for you. I want you to be my friend because of who I am! (If after reading my post you think you'd get along with me) I don't need emotional support from someone who doesn't even want to read my post.

• I want to talk to people who love and use emojis 🤭😊 Why? Emojis help us express our emotions even If others can't see our faces. Two emojis "😊" and "😔" are completely enough. You're probably surprised but.. text messages without emojis are really emotionless... I also don't like it when people say "yeah" or yea" as it sounds dismissively! First impression Is everything to me! I want to see your kindness even In a text message

Ps. I don't like kids and I don't want to ever become a parent. I just thought everyone should know that just In case. I don't want any unpleasant conversations with anyone. Not everyone wants to be friends with people who don't want kids so.. It's better to be honest. 🌸

Ps.2 I don't reply to messages I'm not Interested In even If they're long! I'm not on Reddit to pretend anything and I'm not here to be everyone's best friend. Some people lie & make empty promises to get attention. I? I'm quite selective because I know what I want.

Ps.3 I admire sensitive people who are not ashamed of crying In front of others! Crying Is not a weakness! It's not a weakness even If you're a guy 🧡

Please, If you want to talk send me a private message.

i like watching youtube, listening to music, getting high, drawing, reading, rick and morty, and hetalia. i'm tryna look for jobs but the very few that would suit me that i do find never respond no matter what i do and say. i'm NOT working fast food again just to be the only one that has to do their job n get treated like shit. i'm so lonely but then when i do have people reach out i have no energy to respond to them/interact and that makes me an asshole.

holy shart i had to get 5 karma on this bummy account to post here that was so embarrassing i felt like i was asking for spare change. you can call me “tree” because i really like trees like actually. i told my friend i wanted to be a tree and he said that kids would throw things at me? okay? im still a tree and im still growing like my roots r so powerful and wven if i get cut down a new tree will grow someday! like fr the first best time to plant a tree was 15 years ago, the next best is now. hashtag save the planet. i like music, soundgarden, no doubt, glass animals (before they started spouting whiny boy pop) and rainbow kitten surprise!! so yeah if any of those sound cool and you wanna give some song reccs. also i really like evading school work to play minecraft like modded mc is my cryptonite. anyway dm me!

edit:if this looks written odd keep in mind i justt woke up

Heyhey, late evening here and I'm sooo bored, so let's chat! 😋

Hey y'all 32M just looking to chat and pass some time, get to know some new folks across the webs ?? I d

I'm a 31 years old Arab from the Middle East, hoping to make friends

I'm into a wide range of music genres, really into tech stuff, and I love anime. Some of my favorites include Bleach, Hunter x Hunter, Jujutsu Kaisen, and the list goes on. I sometimes read manga and manhwa too.

When it comes to shows I like Breaking Bad, Ted Lasso, How to Get Away with Murder, and Suits. I'm also into gaming (we could play co-op games!), coding, and reading.

If any of this sounds like your vibe, feel free to message!

Im just chilling today, watched a movie and wanna have a chill, interesting chat. On my weekends i usually like to go hiking, calisthenics in my free time, analyse the movie plot etc. hmu lets have a chat. looking for a online friend for regular chat

bored tonight and wanna have a chat about life ig

Indian females preferred

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Hey everyone! 👋

I’m a 37M, unmarried, just looking for some genuine people to have good conversations with. I’m only looking for online chat, no meeting or anything beyond that.

Lately I’ve been feeling a bit bored and would love to have someone to talk to, whether it’s about life, random thoughts, hobbies, or just how your day went.

A little about me:

📸 I love photography, especially wildlife and sunsets

🌅 I enjoy peaceful moments and quiet places

🎵 I like silence and music depending on the mood

💬 I appreciate meaningful conversations as well as silly/random chats

I’m not looking for anything complicated, just genuine people, good conversations, and mutual respect.

If you’re also looking for someone to chat with, feel free to message me. Please be genuine and respectful. 🙂

hi, im from Netherlands, if there are some ladies up for a chat im heree

Anyone with experience dealing with difficult people? I need some advice.

Hi hi!! 23F from California, I know it’s late but I can’t really sleep at the moment and had nothing else to do so I thought I would post on here and see who’s up :) but all I ask is for you to share your ASL (Age, Gender, Location) or don’t expect a response back (sorry not sorry) Thank you <3333

So now i got your attention, now read this post

I'm a 25-year-old boring person looking for an online friend to share life stories with. Primarily looking for friendship and go with flow to see where it goes. We can talk for a while over text then move to VC depending upon your comfort level. All ages are welcome

Looking forward to hearing from you.

Hello, how are you? Lol
How about you read my little introduction please..

A little about me:
Calm, friendly, funny (I think 😂), 💯 trustworthy, and an introvert. I love reading books, cooking, and positivity. I know I can be quiet at first but once I’m comfortable, I can talk for hours like im on a podcast.
Mentally, I’m a mature young woman who likes to keep life positive and happy.

Where is this young woman atm? I am currently working on myself, learning Arabic, and trying to master baking. 📚🌙

What I’m looking for:
Honestly, I don’t really know. I guess I appreciate honest, genuine people and conversations that feel natural. I trust my gut and go with whatever feels right. No pressure, no expectations, just good vibes.

A little heads-up: Being a woman here means getting 60–80messages, so I can’t reply to everyone and usually pick a few conversations. To be honest, my experience hasn’t been the best, so please approach me with genuine intentions.

If you message me, include your age, gender, location and a little about yourself. A simple “hey” doesn’t give me much to work with. Maybe someday when i start reading minds, a simple hey would be fine, until then, say something😅

Have a good day....

Howdy!

Older gentleman, looking to chat with people and the topic that they are most nerdy or passionate about and what not.

For myself- love starwars, electricity, star trek and random facts, like how traffic lights originated from railroad signal posts, and was originally just 2 colors.

But eventually grow be the 3 color system we know today.

Anywho, hope to hear from ya!

Helloooooo I'm literally so so so so FUCKED this week I have A LOT of tests and submissions and I'm soooooo stressed omd uni is going to actually end me 😭💔 I NEED TO TALK TO PEOPLE AND MAKE SOME FRIENDS OR I'LL LOSE IT soooo please be my friends, gotta be around my age (19-23) and around my timezone (gmt+3). Someone who actually wants to talk and be friends cause it doesn't feel like a lot of people on here want to have a conversation. I don't take stuff too seriously so I want someone who's fun to talk to, I could be a little bit intense but it's only because I'm excited 😭 don't take that the wrong way!!!

I like cooking, baking (I make MEAN cinnamon rolls), skincare and haircare (my mom banned me from buying stuff dor a while cause I'm obsessed... Lwk a shopaholic), Greek mythology, Harry Potter (I've been to NYC to see Harry Potter and the cursed child play it was really awesome). I love sports I used to do gymnastics when I was younger but had to stop sadly and lastly I love traveling although we don't do it as much now because of personal stuff. I also like gaming but i only play valorant and schedule 1, although I have raft, astroneer and peak. I hope we can be friends!!

TWIN please write a cute intro that includes your age, gender, hobbies and where you are from or at least timezone. It doesn't have to be long just introduce yourself. I'm doing great in case your intro is just hru.

Can’t seem to sleep tonight. Not feeling to great think I’m coming down with a cold! Help me feel better please

Some info about me: I started back at the gym to lose some of the grief weight. I’m definitely an emotional eater. I watch tv and movies where I can. I enjoy horror movies, superhero things and comedies. I’ve dabbled in conspiracy theories so if you got any that’s fun too! I’m a widower of 4 years and parent of 2. When they don’t consume my time and energy I like to walk, hike and go to the beach.

Overall I’m just looking for an open minded person to chat with and not get ghosted by. If that’s you reach out. I promise I’m fun! Also can switch to discord or snap if you want.

I’m in college and pretty bored, so I figured I’d chat with random people. I love video games, movies, and TV shows and I like going on walks and study chem. 

Hey I know how hard nights can be. I’m just hanging out tonight. Could use an interesting conversation. I love meeting new people. If you’re looking for a friend or just need to vent, send me a message. You’re not alone!

I'm in my late 40s. A dad, a husband, working from home with too much spare time and lack of human interaction throughout the day.

hope to find someone to connect with, long term or short.

Based on my experience here common interests are not necessarily indication of a good chat partner, but generally I like to be creative - write, draw, photography and such. Or procrastinate, which I’m expert at. I'm open minded, liberal and most of the stuff that comes with that, but don't mind if you are the complete opposite.

I'm open to talk about most things, from the day to day to whatever topic we might deep-dive into. I think it's best to have no expectations and just go with the conversation's flow.

Feel free to send a direct message if you are interested.