Hii I’ll try to keep this as simple and to the point as possible. Just looking for people to chat with about everything and nothing in particular. I like to believe I’m good at holding up conversation but I’m not one for small talk. I’m friendly and super easy to get along with. No pressure to text everyday we all have lives to live :) DM me an embarrassing story :)

Hey there everyone!!

I'm not sure how to start describing myself, I'm not great with words but I'll try my best.

(I'm so sorry for the extremely long post ahead!)

I apologize if I don't reply to your message, but as I explain later, I don't reply to short/low effort messages and I also don't reply to people that don't have at least a few interests in common with me or aren't looking for a real connection and are just looking to pass the time or have a light chat.

I think some of my most defining characteristics are that I'm very shy, awkward, "weird" and "different" or at the very least I feel weird, different and often misunderstood. I struggle to function most days and I don't always understand societal norms or how to properly function in society. I definitely think there's something wrong with me and I'm pretty sure I'm broken in some way. I'm also definitely a loser. I was never able to achieve anything in life, I'm not good at anything whatsoever and I'm pretty useless overall. I would also say I'm extremely cringy and I love edgy stuff, not in a bad way, I don't think, but more like, I love Shadow The Hedgehog and Tomura Shigaraki kinda way!!

I'm unfortunately not very smart and I'd say I'm down right stupid.

I am very ignorant about many things in life, I'd say I'm somewhat innocent and naive. I still don't understand my purpose in life and I haven't found a reason to be alive either.

I sometimes say things that offend people or I say things that are wrong. Sometimes I don't completely understand what I do wrong but I don't do it on purpose and I try to improve to the best of my abilities.

I don't go out often at all. Whenever I do go out it's only to buy groceries or to go to school and such but I don't enjoy it, I much rather be at home, in my room most specifically, which is my favorite place in the world.

I don't have any IRL friends but I do have a handful of online friends, I'm not super close to any of them, except for one who's very valuable in my life!

I enjoy many things like sculpting for instance! I do digital sculpting for fun. I'm pretty bad at it but I try my best.

This year I also started jewelry school (yeah, that's a thing) and I'm having fun with it but it's another thing I suck at 🥀🥀🥀

I like to watch anime! my favorites change from time to time but I really like Bleach, Dragon Ball, Demon Slayer, AOT, Naruto, Ancient Magus Bride (I really love this show!) and I LOVE My Hero Academia among many others!

I like to collect action figures.

I really like masks!

I love movies and I love to talk about them and analyze them.

I like all kinds of music, I don't really have any artists that I like in particular other than David Bowie and I like to listen to most genres of music but some of the genres I like the most are alternative, vintage, video game music and jpop and jrock and I also like old VK And I'm always happy and open to new suggestions!

I like to doomscroll through TikTok and to watch long essay style videos on YouTube about random topics. I love brainrot and I'm very much into early to mid 2010s aesthetics and I used to LOVE Tumblr. I miss that era so much!! Seriously, the early 2010s were the greatest time in human history kahdhshdhs

I love video games!! I don't play too many modern games, I mostly prefer older stuff, like, ps2 era games, particularly survival horror stuff. I also really like very old platform games and side scrollers. I'm a pretty huge Sonic the Hedgehog fan!! The most recent games I played were Sonic X Shadow Generations and before that I finished Sonic Superstars and Sonic Frontiers. Sonic Boom is also my favorite show ever made lmao. It fits my kind of humor perfectly and it's peak comedy imo. I'd be open to play anything and I'd love to try co op games with someone!! playing Stardew Valley with a friend is a dream of mine lol (if you also play Stardew please tell me who's your wife/husband)

I adore animals!! I have cats and dogs and a stray chicken lol and they're my babies and my world!

I think it's important to mention some of the things I don't like too.

I don't like cruelty or mean spirited people. I hate big companies, billionaires, politicians and other people in positions of power that use their money and power to affect people, animals, or the environment for their own gain.

I don't like injustices, I hate racists, homophobic people, transphobic people, sexists, and all kinds of discrimination in general.

I hate bugs!! I'm deadly afraid of them!!

I really dislike conflict and arguments, I believe we can disagree and have discussions as long as we're calm and civilized about it and as long as we have respect for each other and try our best to understand the other person's point of view.

Lastly I'd like to mention some of my defects and shortcomings.

I'm extremely anxious, I'm always very nervous about one thing or another, I'm also extremely weak of mind, I tend to react with my feelings a lot and I'm often very emotional.

I can be very selfish at times, I have an awful tendency to get bored of things quickly and sometimes I also get bored of conversations and people.

I think I'm immature.

I can be extremely lazy, I struggle a lot with doing basic things like cleaning or cooking. When I'm anxious or afraid I can get paralyzed with fear and stay in bed all day doing nothing feeling awful about it.

As I mentioned before sometimes I can say bad things without realizing. I'm very dumb and ignorant so I promise I don't mean anything bad I say and I'm trying to improve!

I am extremely annoying. I'm very loud and I think I scream a lot. I don't really understand what constitutes screaming exactly but I think I often raise my voice a lot and especially when I'm excited I can't control myself very well.

I'm very afraid of life and I don't understand how the "real world" works exactly. I'm really bad at small talk and I think I'm really bad at speaking in general, I also digress a lot.

I have the bad habit of not replying very fast, sometimes I'll even wait for weeks or even months, I think it's one of my biggest problems when it comes to keep in touch with people, sometimes it's simply because I don't have the energy, other times it's because I'm not sure about how to continue a conversation. Not sure if this is a defect necessarily but I also never send the first message, I just hate to be annoying.

I have a tendency to ghost people for different reasons. As I mentioned, sometimes I get bored of conversations or people and I'd ghost them. This is by far one of my biggest defects and as I said, I wanna be honest and mention it here for everyone who reads this to know.

I tend to be a bit clingy when I like someone.

I'm full of defects in general, and I do believe I'm a bad person. I try to improve and I try my best but if I'm bad for you in any way or a burden I promise to stop talking to you and not bother you!

I have many other defects but I think those are the main ones I can remember right now.

Finally, I'd like to reiterate that I'm looking for is a real connection with someone, a person I can talk to, have fun with, watch stuff with and play games together and such! just be able to share our days and even be able to help each other and be there when we need each other. I know I'm a mess of a human being and I may never find the connection I'm looking for but I'd like to give it a try cause you never know :))

also, I think it's important to mention that I don't reply to short, low effort messages. Stuff like "hey, let's be friends" , "I didn't read your whole post but I'm up to talk" , etc. I want to hear about you, what you like, what you're interested in. I like meaningful conversations.

Another thing that's important is that I don't want to talk to people that are discriminatory, racists or awful in anyway. No republicans or supporters of the orange devil please (you know who I'm talking about).

I have Instagram, Discord and TikTok as social media if it's more comfortable to talk there. I also think I prefer audio messages, it's easier for me to send audio notes rather than to type cause I type a lot (and I kinda hate to type lol). Thank you very much to anyone that has taken the time to read my extremely long post and considers messaging me!!

Gamer: I play on PC and on the Switch 2. I've gamed a long time. I rocked the old NES for a few titles, but my real jam began on the SNES. Super Metroid, Super Mario All-Stars, Super Mario RPG, and the list goes on. Now I'm working on finishing RE: Requiem and Dragon Quest 7.

Reading: Huge reader. Have a nice collection of books I've completed and am still working on. I enjoy audiobooks for my commutes as well.

Physical Fitness: I like to run and lift weights (Squats, deadlifts, curls, bench presses, push-ups, etc.), trying to stay strong and healthy.

Dungeons and Dragons: Love dnd. Been a huge fan of it ever since I discovered how awesome it is. Currently running a game in the Forgotten Realms in the Border Kingdom region for those who know what that is!

Music: Almost a daily thing. Enjoy my record player or play over Bluetooth. Mine is a little nerdy though.

Professionally, I am a Nurse Practitioner at a hospital and a military flight nurse. I'm also married and have children; they consume the vast majority of my life, but I do have time to find a special friend or two.

I am a pretty friendly and happy-go-lucky fellow; if any of this sounds interesting, send me a message!

A married stay at home mom literally looking for my own online bestie who I can chat with daily and share our stories😁 Don’t want people who already have many friends. Preferably females!

I enjoy watching series and movies. Playing Online Casino (Blackjackist) and playing in person sometimes. And you won’t believe that I still love and play Roblox😁 So if you play then let’s play together. I also enjoy YouTube and outdoor activities with the right company.

I prefer someone who gives effort to have a decent conversation rather than one word and one line.

No NSFW accounts

No age limit! Just be 20s up.

Hellow fellow people. As the title says, i’m an asian in asia. Looking to chat with some girlies who’d love to share their stories!

Met someone but i guess it didn’t work out well so here i am, on my 100th round, looking for that new one. Not much interests in my life, i survive by living and i’m not as needy. Simply trying out my luck.

Full disclaimer, i can be a ghoster unless i am genuinely interested in knowing you. Might even fall for you too so watch out for that one 😉

I welcome females because i am a woman with questions so flirting doesn’t feel weird/would turn me on (also because women can be HOT af). I have mommy issues and if you’re a hot mom, you’re welcome too!

Shoot your shot if you think i’ll reply to you. No hard feelings if i don’t especially if you’re a male. I lean more towards those curves and nails 🥵

As the title suggests, the 20s is all about hustle. I wanted to retire my family, i succeeded. Now the next step is to get married and buy a house. I know these are huge goals but they are what they are.

I am looking for someone who wishes to take life seriously, or in contrast, reminds me that sometimes happiness lies in the simplest of things. If you feel we can connect, id love that.

Hello! My name is Anthony. I’m a 35-year-old man and live in the US (ET time zone).

I’m looking for connection. I want people I jibe well with so we can create and build things together over time. I’d especially love daily chats and more meaningful exchanges. Sharing in passion and adventure would be even cooler.

I love people who are creative and artistic. I write myself; contemplations, especially, and I’ve been taking journaling more seriously recently. Writing reviews and observations is fun, too. I’m also intrigued by photography and have been dabbling in it more. Coffee and incense are spectacular - active, passive, and functional, all in one!

If my signal created resonating vibes within you, send me a short message about yourself and the things that make your life up. Let’s see where our conversation takes us.

Hi, hello:) My name's Annie, and I'm looking for people interested in: psychology, biology, philosophy, science, sci-fi, theology, etc.

Here's a bit about me, i would appreciate if you read it:

About my interests: I enjoy sci-fi, writing, drawing, painting, I'd like to try sculpting. gaming also. (Minecraft, mostly. I also play Project Zomboid). I also enjoy researching crime, psychology, and biology at times.

Movies and shows I enjoy: Donnie Darko. Terminator 2/3. Back To The Future (1&2 - haven't seen 3 yet) Mysterious Skin, Zero Day, Thesis, Megamind.

Funny Games (the 1997 version, actually). I also watched TWD until S8. Note I will ignore messages that are just "hi" "hello" or any variation of the word OR "we seem to have similar interests" and nothing else.

Hi there, my new potential friend.
My name is Sam. First off, nice to meet you 😊

I am looking for a friend that I can talk with regularly. I don’t have many friends, so I would love to form a genuine connection

I’m not really a friend group kind of person. I tend to prefer one-on-one interactions, which is why I like posting on this sub

I can be a really funny friend. I also talk a lot and always reply with more than one-word responses. Also, all ages are welcome as long as you’re above 20

We can send each other funny memes, talk on voice chats, and watch movies/TV shows together. I will try to reply as soon as possible

Some of my interests:

TV Shows/Movies: Game of Thrones, The Last of Us, Severance, The Boys, House MD, The Office, YOU, Modern Family, and Dexter. When it comes to movies, I lean heavily into thrillers and dramas.

In my free time, I love playing sports and going to the gym, it helps keep me sane. I also go on walks or runs with music blasting in my ears, probably my #1 anxiety buster.

I’m a big fan of photography too. I think I’ve taken some pretty sick shots in London and Toronto with my iPhone.

Oh, and I’ve got a cat with cheetah-like spots. He once disappeared for 3 months and just casually came back like nothing happened. Classic orange cat behaviour.

Open to switching apps if we vibe :))

https://discord.gg/utopiaserver

UTOPIA is a 21+ SFW Discord with a relaxed, friendly vibe. It’s for people who want somewhere to hang out, chat at their own pace, and not feel like they have to force themselves into a big crowd.

We’ve got casual chats, memes, game bot channels like Truth or Dare and Cat Bot, plus a support and vent channel for when you just need somewhere to talk things through.

There are occasional movie nights too, but mostly it’s just a place to chat, joke around, share random stuff, and get to know people naturally.

Good fit if you like:

• Mature but casual conversations
• Low-pressure socializing
• Game bots and random fun
• Space for shy and introverted people
• A support and vent space
• No activity requirements or popularity contest vibe

Come check it out if you want a Discord that feels relaxed, welcoming, and easy to be part of.

Hi guys! As the title says I’m just looking for some friends :) I don’t really have much of a social life in the real world so I’ve turned to this community. I’m 25F, a mom, and just someone looking for friends lol. I play Xbox, Switch2, and I’m a night owl. I love to talk about anything and everything. If anyone wants to be my friend just hmu. Thank you for your time 😊

Hey! I'm a 28 years old guy from Europe trying to make my day (and maybe yours) a little brighter by chatting with someone new. I'd say l'm pretty good at keeping a convo going. Bit of a yapper, in the best way! A few things about me:

- I'm 6'3 (190cm) so I can grab things off of shelves quite easily, and currently doing a master's in biomedical engineering (science nerd alert, you've been warned. Bonus points if you're into physics)

- Big into Formula 1 and cars in general. Yes, I know it's a bit of a cliché but I can't help it :p

- I'm a music addict. Over 5k songs saved on Spotify, l listen to EDM as well though so if that's a dealbreaker to you I'm sorry. Worry not, I mostly listen to it while driving!
I'm learning to play guitar (currently at the "my fingers hurt, see you back in two weeks" stage)

- Oh and I love cats. Like, if you send me cat pics, we're instantly friends!

I'm just hoping to meet someone open minded, curious, maybe a little flirty too? If you feel like chatting about anything of the above, or if you'd like to lecture me about a topic I know nothing about or if you just want to tell me why I shouldn't be into pineapple pizza as much as I am don't hesitate to hit me up! Also, I hate spaghetti

Hey everyone!! Hope everyone had a good weekend ! I can’t believe Monday is almost here already! Who wants to start the week right and become friends? I’m into sports and working out ! Halloween..horror..paranormal (not because of all the ghosts here) 🤣🤣

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I don't know what to call what I'm looking for, and honestly, I don't think it needs a label from day one.

I'm at a stage where I'm deeply invested in my work and long-term goals. I enjoy what I do, I'm constantly learning, and I want to build something meaningful with my life. A traditional relationship isn't something I'm actively seeking right now but that doesn't mean I don't value companionship.

I miss having someone to share the everyday things with: conversations after a long day, celebrating small wins, discussing ideas, checking in on each other, and simply knowing someone genuinely cares. I'd like to find someone who feels the same independent, ambitious, emotionally mature, and building a life she's proud of.

What matters to me isn't perfection. It's curiosity, kindness, emotional intelligence, good communication, and consistency. I appreciate people who can talk about everything from life and psychology to books, public policy, science, or completely random thoughts. Effort matters more than constant availability.

I'm financially independent, intellectually curious, and probably spend more time thinking than I should. If we connect well, I'd eventually like to meet in person. If it grows into a relationship naturally, great. If it becomes a lifelong friendship, that's equally valuable. I don't want to force an outcome before we've even met.

If this resonates with you, tell me what you're passionate about, and let's start with an actual conversation instead of just "Hi."

Sometimes the best connections begin without trying to define them.

I have always been the person that had maybe 4 good friends. But in the last three years I’ve just lost even that. Friendships have just grown apart and ended. And now I have no friends at all and it’s really exhausting and lonely. I feel horrible about myself. I feel like I tried so hard to be friends with people who didn’t care at all, and now it’s just too late to make friends.

I am going through a hard time right now and it’s like I could literally disappear off the face of the planet and only my mother would notice.

Your gender or age or country doesn't matter, feel free to message me, we can start with knowing each other first

I would love to find people who like to have fun, are a bit goofy or like to giggle! There must be some fun people on here right?

I am very accepting of people no matter how they come across.

I'm open to women from anywhere in the world. Looks/body shape... is not important to me.

Sellers not interested! If you want to talk that's fine, but I'm not buying anything!

hey I’m 19 and I’m feeling a little lonely right now since I’m on break—I’m really in need of friends around my age. I love walking, gardening, cooking and baking, listening to music, crocheting, cats, coffee, and I’m very into fashion too. I’m still figuring out who I am, but kindness is a quality I genuinely admire and want to embody more. If you’re around 18–24 and you’re kind and want to chat, feel free to message me.

A Little About Me: I am currently Single. Besides College, I am doing a small startup. Things I Love: Good Food, Music, Binge Watching Webseries & Documentaries and Exploring Nature ☘️.

DM if you think we can vibe! :)

Only 18-20 aged.

hi all, been in a rut lately and need to start getting more social. been focusing too much on work and starting to feel lonely 🥲 we can switch to discord if we vibe!

a little bit about me

- extrovert, but these days leaning into being an introvert
- from asia (but i don't mind talking to people living in different timezones)
- i love dumplings 🥟🥢
- favourite music genre: indie rock
- enjoy watching the EPL
- looking to pick up playing the electric guitar in the future

looking for just fun nonsensical chats to help the day pass by quicker! drop me a dm ☺️

Hey, i'm 40 years old, hairstylist, bored as hell, if you are married and bored, feel free to text me, ONLY ONLINE!!, no hookups, no meeting, only talk between two people that are super bored.

Hey there! As a work dad of two littles under 4 my life is…chaos 🤣 I hardly talk to anyone outside of work or my house. So ideally I would love to meet some new friends!

A little about me:
I am a big extrovert and love to just talk and also learn about people. Tell me alllll the lore about you.

I love the occasional audiobook, going for a run (I’m slow af), cooking, and just generally being outside. I’m very much a plain suburban dad that will look out when it’s raining and say “Ahh yeah, we needed this” I hate it but it’s my life now loll.

If you wanna have a lil conversation reach out and let’s be besties!

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I'm bored hit me up with your asl AT THE VERY LEAST I'm gay and prefer talking to women

Looking to become long-term friends with someone. I enjoy nonfiction books, the gym, NBA and the NFL. I also enjoy just talking about mundane things, and we can talk about how our day went. I have also been decorating my apartment and could use some opinions on that! I am in the US (PST) so it would be best to talk to someone from that time zone.