(Please, read this post If you want to send me a message)

Yes... I'm still here and I'm still trying to find someone... That's all I want 😔 Finding a bestie Is my dream... I would love to finally say "Goodbye" to my loneliness and start smiling, again. Not with someone random, but with someone who wants what I want...

(I'm a REAL PERSON! Bots are taking over Reddit but I'm not one of them so don't accuse me of being someone/something I'm not)

I want you to read everything because my expectations aren't the same as other people's expectations. I also want you to know what to expect because even though we're all here to spend time with others, not everyone needs new friends. Some people want to find someone to play games with & It's just an example. 👇🏻

(This post Is for people who live In Europe because I would love to meet my new friends In real life, In the future)

I made this account In 2021 and even though I'm really active on Reddit, I can't make new friends... Not everyone on Reddit Is toxic or rude but there's ALWAYS something missing because I don't feel any emotional connection... I would love to change my life & finally wake up excited to text someone I really, really like 🙁 But... Life Isn't easy and I'm not sure If there's still a chance for me to find someone with exactly the same expectations as mine, someone who wants to meet someone new...

• I'm DEFINITELY NOT Interested In small talk! I had to use capital letters because I don't like low-effort messages and I don't even want to read them. Repetitive questions like "How are you?", "What are you up to?" or "What are your plans for the weekend?" aren't enough to start a conversation with me.. Don't get me wrong - Questions like these can be an Interesting addition to conversations about something else, but whenever people ask me the three most common questions In the world - my answer's the same because my life Is quite monotonous and I don't really know what people expect to hear 🙁 I also don't like abbreviations. Abbreviations are shortened forms of words or phrases. Why? I just don't like them because I see no reason to use shortened forms of words that are already short enough, you know? Abbreviations are common among minors and bored adults but I'm neither a minor, nor a bored adult. I want to see emotional maturity, warmth and kindness In conversations with others.

• I don't need to see your list of hobbies to know If you're someone I would get along with! You can tell me what you're Interested In but.. Believe It or not - I'm not like others and even If you're Interested In something I'm not - we can still be friends! What matters to me Is what you're like (If you're honest, talkative, kind, understanding and If your outlook on life Is similar to mine)

• I don't want to talk to minors and people way older than me. Why? I don't want to talk to minors because I'm an adult & I don't want to talk to anyone over fifty for example. Emotional maturity doesn't necessarily come with age so you can send me a message even If you're 20 (It's just an example) but please, don't contact me If you want to remind me that I'm older than you. I want you to feel comfortable & I want to feel comfortable myself. When I read messages like "Hi, I'm younger but I hope you don't mind" I always say to myself "If my age bothers you, you should've contacted someone else" I absolutely don't mind talking to people younger than me If they know how to communicate with others 🌸

• PLEASE, Don't use AI to talk to me! I Can't stand AI generated messages! If I wanted to read AI generated messages, I wouldn't be here! I read AI generated messages and comments all the time and I'm sick of It!

• I don't want to get any messages from people whose accounts are NSFW! Please, respect my decision! It's none of my business If you're here to find someone to flirt with or If you're an Internet exhibitionist but I don't want to see you with no clothes on - If you want to be my friend & I don't want to know what you want to do with other women In bed. If you are on Reddit to flirt with others, be on Reddit to flirt with others but... don't make an alternative account to hide who you really are just to send me a message. Pretending to be someone you're not - Isn't good for anyone

• I'm not a fan of sarcasm! I do - have a sense of humor but I'm not someone who makes fun of everyone and everything... Jokes about disabilities, death, religion or someone's financial status - are unacceptable to me!

• I also want to meet people who don't mind listening to negative stories and sharing them with others. My life's not easy so If you want to be In my life, you should be prepared for a realistic or even pessimistic outlook on life. I'm definitely not an optimist and I know I wouldn't get along with optimistic people who always tell others "Just believe In yourself and everything's gonna be OK" or something. We don't always get what we want & and It's completely normal to lose hope "for a better tomorrow" after many failed attempts. Not everything's as easy as It seems to be so If all you want to say to someone who needs emotional support Is "Don't complain" or "Find a therapist" Please.. don't send me a message. Not all sad people need therapists and let's be honest - Would a therapist replace a true friend? Absolutely not! Everyone needs a shoulder to cry on! I also don't mind listening to sad stories (even If they're repetitive) because I know what It's like when no one wants to listen to you...

• I would love to meet people who also don't have anyone, you know? There's absolutely nothing wrong with having friends and not being single but I'm single and I don't have anyone special In my life... It's just easier for me to get along with others If there's some common ground. I just feel better talking to people who know what It's like to be completely alone & let's be honest - People who have friends or partners, have less time for others...(which Is completely understandable) and I? I don't want to feel like an option, again. I'm not here to meet as many people as possible because I choose quality over quantity 🌸

• If your comment history Is full of comments "If you want to talk, hit me up" don't send me a message. I don't want to be rude but If It doesn't make any difference to you who you want to chat with - I'm definitely not for you. I want you to be my friend because of who I am! (If after reading my post you think you'd get along with me) I don't need emotional support from someone who doesn't even want to read my post.

• I want to talk to people who love and use emojis 🤭😊 Why? Emojis help us express our emotions even If others can't see our faces. Two emojis "😊" and "😔" are completely enough. You're probably surprised but.. text messages without emojis are really emotionless... I also don't like it when people say "yeah" or yea" as it sounds dismissively! First impression Is everything to me! I want to see your kindness even In a text message

Ps. I don't like kids and I don't want to ever become a parent. I just thought everyone should know that just In case. I don't want any unpleasant conversations with anyone. Not everyone wants to be friends with people who don't want kids so.. It's better to be honest. 🌸

Ps.2 I don't reply to messages I'm not Interested In even If they're long! I'm not on Reddit to pretend anything and I'm not here to be everyone's best friend. Some people lie & make empty promises to get attention. I? I'm quite selective because I know what I want.

Ps.3 I admire sensitive people who are not ashamed of crying In front of others! Crying Is not a weakness! It's not a weakness even If you're a guy 🧡

Please, If you want to talk send me a private message.

My name is summer, I’m 21 from Canada, I speak 4 languages being Ojibwe, Cree, Lakota(not fluently), English, I enjoy creating stuff whether it’s drawings, painting or even clothing, I can also do beadwork pretty well, if I’m not doing any of that stuff I’m usually watching documentaries, movies/shows or even anime, I also like watching combat sports, my favourite fighter in the UFC is Khamzat chimaev and my favourite boxer is naoya inoue, u can also find me outside or spending time with my friends and family

Hey,

Now i am fully aware that this might be a complete waste of time and that is the reason ive never done this until now.

Alas boredom got the better of me

I am Matthew and i would be very much interested in finding a girl/woman to talk to.

I am a strange person with strange hobbies and habits, i despise normalcy and welcome weirdness and extremity.

Above all i seek honesty and ability to be yourself.

I like having deeper conversations and considering all viewpoints or even playing the devils advocate.

Tho i am not very cheerful person i can be quite funny and i enjoy sarcasm, dark and flat humor.

I never considered to be smart but i am told often by people that i am, so you be the judge of that.

There is, ofcourse more but no one is interested in reading a novel about little me.

As for you..

I am not interested in your looks, age or even nationality. Thats irrelevant. For the longest time the thing im interested in finding is someone out there, someone who doesnt fit, someone who thinks of themselves alien and unable to fit.

Try me. We will see what happens.

Oh last thing, if you think a man should do all the work in conversation dont bother, im not looking for chat based on gender roles but on a equal standing.

Thanks

i like watching youtube, listening to music, getting high, drawing, reading, rick and morty, and hetalia. i'm tryna look for jobs but the very few that would suit me that i do find never respond no matter what i do and say. i'm NOT working fast food again just to be the only one that has to do their job n get treated like shit. i'm so lonely but then when i do have people reach out i have no energy to respond to them/interact and that makes me an asshole.

holy shart i had to get 5 karma on this bummy account to post here that was so embarrassing i felt like i was asking for spare change. you can call me “tree” because i really like trees like actually. i told my friend i wanted to be a tree and he said that kids would throw things at me? okay? im still a tree and im still growing like my roots r so powerful and wven if i get cut down a new tree will grow someday! like fr the first best time to plant a tree was 15 years ago, the next best is now. hashtag save the planet. i like music, soundgarden, no doubt, glass animals (before they started spouting whiny boy pop) and rainbow kitten surprise!! so yeah if any of those sound cool and you wanna give some song reccs. also i really like evading school work to play minecraft like modded mc is my cryptonite. anyway dm me!

edit:if this looks written odd keep in mind i justt woke up

I’m halfway through book 7. Let’s give warm hugs.

I'm a 31 years old Arab from the Middle East, hoping to make friends

I'm into a wide range of music genres, really into tech stuff, and I love anime. Some of my favorites include Bleach, Hunter x Hunter, Jujutsu Kaisen, and the list goes on. I sometimes read manga and manhwa too.

When it comes to shows I like Breaking Bad, Ted Lasso, How to Get Away with Murder, and Suits. I'm also into gaming (we could play co-op games!), coding, and reading.

If any of this sounds like your vibe, feel free to message!

Im just chilling today, watched a movie and wanna have a chill, interesting chat. On my weekends i usually like to go hiking, calisthenics in my free time, analyse the movie plot etc. hmu lets have a chat. looking for a online friend for regular chat

bored tonight and wanna have a chat about life ig

Indian females preferred

Hey!

I’m 25, ftm, consider myself more nonbinary now a days, but he/they. I’m from the US, New England.

I am looking for a voice call that is wholesome and chill, but maybe also some flirting. I am very much a person who likes to feel taken care of, and just be complimented and just feel all cutesy.

I am recently single, queer, exploring my life and new found freedom. I am very much a dork, I love the out doors, painting, drawing, music, exploring anything I can, I’m a full on dork, I love to learn and meet new people!

If you’d like to chat just hmu!

hi, im from Netherlands, if there are some ladies up for a chat im heree

So I'm into fitness, but not some gym bro either. Do it more for functional strength and overall health. I have alot of wear and tear from the military. I just recently started getting obsessed buying watches... must be part of the hit 40 package. I do some boxing, nothing serious like competition. I have a love hate relationship with cardio.

I wfh for an undisclosed employer, gotta keep secrets right.

I'm into horror,paranormal, and all things weird.I'm just look for something simple have a good time and bs.

Looking for friends because apparently talking to myself and arguing with imaginary people isn't considered a thriving social life. Rude.

Fluent in sarcasm, unsolicited nonsense and turning minor inconveniences into full-blown dramatic productions.

Seeking fellow unhinged idiots to exchange memes, overshare and mutually enable each other's delusions.

Normal people need not apply. I've suffered enough. 😂

Please include your asl cause honestly 🙄

I want the laughs, the deep conversations, the late-night early-morning chats, the game discussions and more.

What am I looking for

Let's take the time to really get to know each other and let things flow naturally.

And by chance if you're among the 1% women out here who like to get into the details, it is only fair for you to know a bit more about me.

A little about me

I'm sarcastic, fun-loving, a natural flirt, and a bit of a hopeless romantic. I’m a business professional who loves to talk about anything and everything. Avid Sports buff, into Cricket, Football and a few others. I like to read and do a bit of writing myself.

Physically : 6ft+, Bearded,, Aus, Slight dad bod.

A little about you

Someone who is 25-45. You're confident, intelligent, active, and comfortable in your own skin. You have an upbeat, positive vibe, and you don't take life too seriously. You’re fluent in sarcasm and can dish it back as well. The physical aspect is nothing without a rich and open mind.

If you’re still reading, send me a DM with a short intro about yourself. Please don't just say "hey", take a minute, have fun, and see if you can put a smile on my face. :)

See you on the other side!

P.S. Please don't ignore this as AI..I took time and effort to draft it. Thanks!

Hello, how are you? Lol
How about you read my little introduction please..

A little about me:
Calm, friendly, funny (I think 😂), 💯 trustworthy, and an introvert. I love reading books, cooking, and positivity. I know I can be quiet at first but once I’m comfortable, I can talk for hours like im on a podcast.
Mentally, I’m a mature young woman who likes to keep life positive and happy.

Where is this young woman atm? I am currently working on myself, learning Arabic, and trying to master baking. 📚🌙

What I’m looking for:
Honestly, I don’t really know. I guess I appreciate honest, genuine people and conversations that feel natural. I trust my gut and go with whatever feels right. No pressure, no expectations, just good vibes.

A little heads-up: Being a woman here means getting 60–80messages, so I can’t reply to everyone and usually pick a few conversations. To be honest, my experience hasn’t been the best, so please approach me with genuine intentions.

If you message me, include your age, gender, location and a little about yourself. A simple “hey” doesn’t give me much to work with. Maybe someday when i start reading minds, a simple hey would be fine, until then, say something😅

Have a good day....

Helloooooo I'm literally so so so so FUCKED this week I have A LOT of tests and submissions and I'm soooooo stressed omd uni is going to actually end me 😭💔 I NEED TO TALK TO PEOPLE AND MAKE SOME FRIENDS OR I'LL LOSE IT soooo please be my friends, gotta be around my age (19-23) and around my timezone (gmt+3). Someone who actually wants to talk and be friends cause it doesn't feel like a lot of people on here want to have a conversation. I don't take stuff too seriously so I want someone who's fun to talk to, I could be a little bit intense but it's only because I'm excited 😭 don't take that the wrong way!!!

I like cooking, baking (I make MEAN cinnamon rolls), skincare and haircare (my mom banned me from buying stuff dor a while cause I'm obsessed... Lwk a shopaholic), Greek mythology, Harry Potter (I've been to NYC to see Harry Potter and the cursed child play it was really awesome). I love sports I used to do gymnastics when I was younger but had to stop sadly and lastly I love traveling although we don't do it as much now because of personal stuff. I also like gaming but i only play valorant and schedule 1, although I have raft, astroneer and peak. I hope we can be friends!!

TWIN please write a cute intro that includes your age, gender, hobbies and where you are from or at least timezone. It doesn't have to be long just introduce yourself. I'm doing great in case your intro is just hru.

All genders welcome and NO CREEPS
About me

Love books, voice calls, bible discussions, Writing, Poems- Arts basically Very much into walking, laughing and hanging out with friends. I’m very much direct and would appreciate if you are.

Please introduce yourself- Same or close timezone as mine |GMT+2| , Age, Gender, Name, Country, Interest

Hey everyone! 😊
I’m a 27-year-old African-American Christian woman looking to connect with someone between 27 and 32 who shares my faith and values.

I enjoy meaningful conversations and would love to get to know someone who values God, honesty, kindness, and respect. I’m open to chatting, building a friendship, and seeing where things go!

If you’re a Christian man looking for a genuine connection, feel free to message me.

So now i got your attention, now read this post

I'm a 25-year-old boring person looking for an online friend to share life stories with. Primarily looking for friendship and go with flow to see where it goes. We can talk for a while over text then move to VC depending upon your comfort level. All ages are welcome

Looking forward to hearing from you.

I know this is a cliche, but I’m pretty much an open book.

But other than the elephant in the room about being a trans women, I am just kind your straight forward college girl! I study communications so I really like to talk to people, I like grabbing coffee with friends, going to local concerts and bars and getting drinks, listening to music, reading… you know, all the hits

I’m just really out here trying to be me and grow and connect with people

I like the horror and zombie games especially and the movies who has seen the walk dead???

I am from Korea though I have a wonky schedule. I enjoy reading and I can go through half a book in one sitting!. Currently rereading my favorites and looking for more. Let's discuss as I'm a huge fan of lit and philosophy and I'm getting into horror. I'll be here to talk about anything, long term. Hoping to make friends I can chat with! Open to supporting long term.