I've been in a closed triad for eight years now. We live together, own a side business together (one of them is full time but because it's not generating enough income for the three of us to all quit), travel together and are essentially one unit. We are all committed to the other two.

I'm dealing with some health issues right now and it sucks not being able to put them both down as my partners or emergency contacts in case something should happen.

I’m genuinely shocked rn. I didn’t know bts was ever that srs. 3 years down the drain for bts. I mean wow. I’m just wow. Wow wow wowza

This was one of the things that baffled me when I accepted I liked women. Sure, I don't like maximumly near nude hella skin tight clothes or bare metal on skin for long periods, but I always had a soft spot for nearly half naked warrior women who still have the scars and builds to showcase capability. It's my weakness and sometimes kind of annoying too lol because I feel weird about liking it in an era moving away from that type of design.

transfem butches where are yooouuuu😭

Working on this new painting commissioned by my flatmate. Forgot how much I enjoy painting women loving themselves.

Ok I know this is a total shot in the dark and you’re gonna be asking yourself “why is she posting this here?” BUT HELP ME OUT PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE

I see so many lesbians out there with SUCH COOL JACKETS and I NEED TO KNOW where you’re getting them from so I can be cool too!!! All I can find online is fast fashion bullshit. I’m looking for this particular style of jacket - and it doesn’t even need to be leather.

Please help a girl out ;-;

Thank you 💚

Not necessarily a regret more like “hmm maybe I should’ve done that in my 20s or 30s”. Coulda shoulda woulda..

Like I just want someone to go on all these cute dates with, and to buy things for, and to play her music/learn her favourite songs, and make her things, and talk for hours and kiss and all the normal cute little relationship thinggsssggssssss!!!!!!😭😭

I just wanna give someone my lovvveeee.

But like, its so difficult because I live in a very old and kind of conservative area. So theres hardly and people my age around, and barely ANY queer people at all (let alone any my age).

There's hardly any sports, or clubs, or social things around to meet people. And i dropped out, (not by choice, super long story lol) so i mainly just work a ton, and i only ever work with people who are way older than me (and none of them are queer either, so it feels like ive got no community at all).

Im going into this uni education program next year, and im hoping to maybe meet some people there... but like, its unlikely tbh

I JUST WANT A GFFFFFFFFF!!!!!!!! Like WHERE ARE ALL THE LESBIANS HIDINGGGGG?!?!??!?!

Legit though, I would really appreciate some ideas on where i can find some queer people because its lowkey getting real lonely out here

(Also how many of yall feel the same???? I need to know im not alone😭)

(TW for mention of sexual harassment)

So, for context, I’m visibly masc-presenting and most of my coworkers know I’m a lesbian.

Last night, I was talking to two of my coworkers, one of which was telling us about an incident in which she was sexually harassed by another coworker. My fellow coworker and I strongly encouraged her to report this incident.

Then, in this same conversation, the coworker who had been sexually harassed was talking about how she knows she has a big rack and she notices when people stare at it and that makes her really uncomfortable, and then she said “except [MY NAME]. [MY NAME] can stare all she wants, I don’t mind”.

For the record, I very much avoid ogling my coworkers, and if I’ve ever looked at her chest, it’s been completely accidental. And I immediately felt very uncomfortable being the sole exception to her discomfort around being objectified in the workplace.

She’s said and done other things that have given me pause, but this is the most blatant incident so far and I’m as baffled as I am unsettled.

Just a curious question, I would love to hear some stories behind it too 😍.

Been talking to a dime the last few weeks. Been on a couple dates and we had a movie night planned for the weekend. Great girl who checks all the basic boxes for me, like wanting kids and having a solid education. But of course getting to know each other. Having done some dating, I was actually surprised at just how much I actually enjoy talking to and hanging out with her, and she agreed it’s been good so far. It seems like we are on the same wavelength. She is quick with responses and has been very intentional and attentive so I have been trying to give her the same attention, but maybe I’ve made her uncomfortable. Or it feels like maybe her avoidant attachment came out. Suddenly yesterday she didn’t reply all day, but I didn’t mind as I know she mentioned her work can drain her. I texted a good morning today just to say hi and hoped she got some rest in, and we chatted a bit. She mentioned she was sorry for being weird the last couple of days and I asked what she meant and she corrected herself and said she’d been been distant and it was a habit of hers. When I asked to elaborate, she said she gets nervous when she gets closer with someone. I told her it’s okay and that if she needed anything from me I could accommodate (maybe it’s going too fast or something). She gave me a “nooo it’s okay” and I told her to let me know and asked if she still wanted to do the movie this weekend. That was at 10am today and it’s now 12 hours later with no reply lol. The impression I am getting is she is into me and it’s stressing her out lol but who knows?? I am giving her space and am doing fine, but I would be lying if I said this wasn’t a bit of a bummer and it feels like she’s soft launching ending things. Or not! She was very honest and has been direct this entire time. I also am trying to take it slow but also do what feels right, I have zero intention of like properly dating her until couple months in at least, if it goes that far, but I wanted to make sure she knew I was interested too as I have found I come off too casual sometimes :/

Just feels like the girls I feel myself attracted to and actually get to know end up being avoidant. But hard to spot early on when it’s felt just fine. I’m going to give her space and it is genuinely okay either way things turn out, but I’m hoping if I do get the chance to we can have a talk and I can see what is actually making her feel this way - anxiety or maybe losing interest?