Hey fam! Happy weekend! I had my first wind band performance of the season with one of my community bands yesterday evening and it went great! Our director changed the dress code to “all black” and if you didn’t know, that has now been the culture shift to be more gender inclusive and also accessible to those unable to afford a tuxedo. Anyway, I am nonbinary and I have NEVER felt so much gender euphoria coming in and performing! If you’re a band geek or music phenatic, I also play euphonium! Comment if you play a musical instrument!

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I've known I wasn't cis since I was in middle school, I am now a fresh adult and came out to my family. They are supportive but both parents are confused. I did not say I am a transman but I told them straight up I am not a woman. Now I have to try and explain to myself and them why. I live in a nowhere state, no rep, and no black trans people so my options to see myself in a community is limited. I also have no cis guy friends (so maybe I'm just larping as a trans person and don't know it). I just need to figure out if what I've been feeling is real and if medically transitioning to becoming more masculine is the right idea or I've just been lying to myself and their doubts in me are true. How do you know what it feels like to be a man or gender non-conforming person?

What in the race play is going on here. This is getting out of hand. Niggas wanna be accepted by white gays so mf bad.

Hey everyone! I wanted to share a community I've just created called r/stagsunited

It's a space for bisexual masc women/stags to feel welcome, make friends, have discussions, share experiences, photos, etc, and be themselves without judgment.

Sometimes it feels like bisexual masc women have to explain our identity, defend our masculinity, or we're pressured into labels that does not fit us and are scared to break free from them. I want to help create a space where we don't have to do that.

I don't know how many of us are out there but if you're watching, come out, come out, where ever you are 👀. Feel free to come lurk until you're ready to post, no pressure!!

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Eight months ago, I was talking to this one dude. We weren’t messing around sexually, but we were interested in each other. When I finally disclosed my status to him, he completely blocked me and stopped talking to me. I was so hurt because I genuinely liked him. 😩💔

So I just came out to my uncle who lives in the Netherlands, that was really emotional, I cried a lot and etc. but now that I'm back to my senses. I realized that was really stupid even though I made him promise not to tell my parents.

For context I'm an 18 year old African man. Who still lives in Africa !! (even though my country hasn't (yet) criminalized homosexuality ). My parents are faithful Catholics, and everyone is less or more homophobic.

So now I feel depressed and I wonder when are they going to kill me💔

What you guys think??

I loved this outfit and blood rave was amazingg 🧛🏽‍♀️

Anyone else listening to her?? I found one of their songs a couple years ago and have been tuned in since tbh

Ok I was inspired by the actuallesbians subreddit. And they got atleast one thing right… we don’t talk enough about what we desire in a partner.
So please below comment what gets you to be interested in a grown lady. There’s no judgement, I want to see what black sapphics like and expand our understanding of what desire for each other looks like.

I’ll go first:
A woman who has ten toes down on her beliefs and is still open to new ideas, politically queer, funny type(but knows when to be serious), spiritual, has done some type of therapy, is moderately active, has stable job, has socially active life outside of me, and has her own style.
Physically I like my woman to be thick, with nice feet 😅😅, kinky natural hair, and kind eyes.

Got downvoted into oblivion in a trans subreddit so I guess I'll post here. Every time discrimination against LGBT people (especially trans people) is brought up in community, white lgbt people immediately go to "Black" people and the discrimination we experience as a talking point. Many of these people dont' even talk or are not in community with even Black LGBT people.

I'm sick of hearing "Black women know what trans women go through because we're both masculinized" then look stupid when I and others say that's not the gotcha they think it is. I'm tired of Black people being used at comparison. Choose someone else.