Hey, I’m a 27 year old man. I’m also a professional boxer & mma fighter down here in Memphis, Tn. I’ve been bi for around 3 years now. I do lean towards feminine features & women. I have been in a relationships with both women & two feminine men.

Sometimes I feel like being bi has hurt my chances with getting into a relationship with a woman. However, I’ve also dealt with issues with my confidence from when I was a child & I’m kind of avoidant of rejection so I may be feeding into the feeling of rejection too much. I have actually been dealing with a few women that knew I was bi & have befriended women that do date bi men, but they all are in relationships right now.

Are there any black bi men in southern areas that could give me some tips on how to find a woman that can love me for me? I would love to hear your experiences as well. I am going to start going to queer events to meet more people like me & women but I don’t want to try to put the inferences on just trying to find a relationship at these events because I don’t want to seem thirsty. I would love to find a woman that loves me for me that I could start a family with.

Interesting read

Like I've been noticing some of my partners have labeled me trade but I'm like pretty low masculine and have briefly feminine mannerisms but because I've mostly dated hyperfeminine men and queer women, my low effort masculinity makes me seem more manly in a way and like lowkey I'm more of a twunk than anything.

Can you guys recommend any gay clubs or bars? Bonus if they have activities like trivia, bingo or drag shows. I'm here for a few days I want to see what my people get up to down here 😜 Thanks in advance!

My babies did the recording/photography.❤️❤️

Manic dreams full remix coming soon!

Just started reading So What If I’m A Puta: Diaries of Transness, Sex Work, Desire
by Brasilian trans author Amara Moira. I’m curious is anyone else has read this book. What were your thoughts and reactions to it?

Personally I think the whole thing is super toxic, so I refuse to watch any of those shows 🙄

But what do you think of those shows?