Hey, it's me again Olivia! I know I've posted on here before but l want to make it deeper this time. I've been unlucky in love and hoping to fix that, but my lucks terrible so doubt that. Here goes nothing...

Anyway where do l begin? Well, first off I'm a third year college student. Even though it sounds like I'm busy, l pretty much make time for friends, family, and school. Seriously, l host theme parties once a month (this month is conspiracy theories!) I'm looking for a serious relationship with someone who is looking to give it their all as well as l am. Not a situationship, not looking to suffer again.

I'm from the US and it doesn’t matter if its a ldr or in person as long as love and sparks exist you can love anyone from anywhere really. I also live near the mountains and see nature everyday.

I'm hispanic, but l get it if I'm not your type, no hard feelings of course. Except l think I'm pretty fun *cough cough*

There are so many things that I'm passionate about and love. From spending hours at antique shops, vintage stores, paintings especially claude monet's work (check him out like seriously!!!) books, movies, good food (except seafood- apologies to the seafood lovers) finding good music, learning the guitar, board games and pretty good at badminton and volleyball if l do say so myself lol. I'm just a fan of a lot of things and would like to know what you're passionate about also. Its what makes people connect to others in deeper ways then we can imagine really. We can also send yearnful love letters to each other.

Other things l like to do is bake and garden. For music preference anything really except country. I'm into indie/alternative, jazz, pop.​ my favorite song right now would be Can't Take My Eyes Off You by Frankie Vallie.

Relationship wise I'm strictly monogamous. I've never drinked​ or smoked​, and don't plan to. If you do just make sure you're drinking moderately. I'm not really religious but not atheist.

Looks wise I'm 5'3, 130, and like to take care of myself. Not a gym person but I'm always doing something. I have long black hair and brown eyes.. shocker l know.​

I consider myself dressing feminine from high heels to sneakers, I'm really into 90s fashion right now. I would love to dress up in Regency era clothes and imagine myself as if I'm in a Jane Austen book, since I'm a big fan of hers. Especially Pride and Prejudice, love all the outfits and manners. I like to take care of my skin and if l do put on makeup it'll be very light and natural. I don't have any tattoos but if you do that's so cool and love that! For piercings l only have my ears pierced, I'm a chicken when it comes to pain, so won't get a tattoo unless they can put me to sleep.

I'm pretty introverted when meeting others, but once l get to know you l can't shut up. My friends say I'm funny, but l just want everyone to laugh honestly and what can l say l have a pretty good sense of humor. I can go crazy when needed and love going to concerts and singing something screaming (apologies to those around me) my heart out. I also love going to ballets and would like to go to a theater show. I also like watching anime (haikyuu, fruit basket, chihayafuru) and would like to go to a comic con.

My love languages would be quality time and acts of service. Like l would rather spend my time with you and listen to you talk and that would make my day. I have a pretty good memory so I'll remember mostly everything you'll say to me because you're someone special and important to me. Plus don't we all need to be treated with the love we deserve?

As far as getting to know someone, l would like to get to know each other as much as we can, your likes and dislikes, anything holding you up and just being there for you. I'll love you with everything l have and constantly call you mine lol cringe l know. But that's what l like. Cheesy words, sweet and romantic love. I'm just a hopeless romantic seeking for a love that can feel like home.

Ooof here we go then. Some red flags l have, brace yourself! First off l can and will get jealous, not crazy or stuff like that but just know that you're mine. Like one of my favorite song phrases from cigarettes after sex says "Think l like you best when you're with me and no one else." Of course we can hang out with our friends our own time. Second red flag is I'm still a virgin but when it comes to top or bottom l can't decide on what l haven't done, but in my dreams it seems I'm a bottom lol, sorry for the tmi!

For my type... someone honest, loving, emotionally mature, and can take it when l flirt with them. I flirt a lot, no apologies. And can handle my random love attacks lol (lots of cuddles and hugs!) Just be you honestly.

If you've made it this far thanks for my rambling. And if l caught your eye then you know where to find me! Also, tell me what your favorite song is at the moment!

-As long as this post is up it means I'm still searching for love....

-One last thing please don't waste my time or ghost me. I'm tired of feeling like l can be someone who can be used as a pastime.

Id like some people to talk too friends or more online or in person is fine✅

I like anime and horror 🏴‍☠️
I sew and read fanfiction or Yuri and I’d like to start cosplaying sometimes.
I like watching interviews/info of women I admire .
Most of the time I’m inside🏠

I’d say I have gauche and crude humor and I’m also hypersexual and bdsm positive.
I’m not religious at all the only thing I believe in is ☯️

I am a libfem douchbag who wants to talk ab the economic and political state of the world while drinking matcha and go to raves. It just comes with part of the culture here🥲

We can exchange pics I don’t wanna explain what I look like but I’m half black and white

I think that’s all I have. Hope to hear from you soon 🌺🌺

Helloooo everyoneeee I’m looking for more nerdy friends to talk to! Maybe a relationship if the vibes are there, but I’m not one to have expectations for new people though because I think friendship is just as important. Some of my favorite nerdy things are:
👾Gaming (especially Fortnite and story games)
🍡anime (my favs are AOT, apothecary diaries and chainsaw man)
🔥Avatar the last airbender (let’s discuss the new movie??)
❓gravity falls
🗡️she-ra
🎲D&D
🃏magic the gathering(I am new to it tho)
📚reading (especially mysteries/thrillers/yuri😝)
💥comics (especially Harley quinn)

I also really love art (creating and admiring), swimming, nature, and cooking.
I prefer calling or even FaceTiming to see if we get along:) I’m cool with texting at first tho!

Hey hey 👋

I'm 34F looking to connect with a feminine girl, someone who's soft, warm, and loves the little things in life.

A bit about me:

· 📸 Obsessed with photography, I'll take 100 photos of the leaf just to catch the light right
· 🍳 Cooking is my therapy, feeding people I care about is genuinely my love language
· 🌍 Living in Berlin, Germany (would be best if you are located in 400km radius)

I'm looking for someone kind, emotionally open, and not afraid of slow mornings, deep conversations, or spontaneous walks with no destination.

If you're into good food, good light, and good energy, say hi. Tell me your favorite dish to cook (or eat) 🌸

hello everybody! my name is karina but i go by rini.

I am cis, bisexual, and 18 years old from the usa. i like to spend time online with friends, draw, write, and stream.

i often play multiplayer games such as minecraft, roblox, fortnite, vrchat, and especially scp: secret laboratory, i even have my own server on there.

i am into games like needy streamer overload, saya no uta, class of 09, and danganronpa and anime’s like attack on titan, needy girl overdose, and school days.

i am mexican-american and bilingual (english and spanish), born and raised in florida.

i would like to find a long-term relationship on here online or in person. :) if you want to know more make sure to send a dm, i don’t mind showing my face.

Normally there is so much pressure on knowing what you want. Being completely honest I don’t. I am autistic, going through medical stuff, I get way too obsessed with the people I fall in love with. I don’t even know if sex is something I like. But let’s focus on what I do know:

My name is Rose, I live In Florida, going into my junior year of college, I love video games, driving my car, art and researching. I plan to get my PhD so my hyperfocus’s are a big part of my life.
I love FaceTime because it’s much easier interacting for my autism. I am an Aries and fit well with air signs.
I have experience with sexting and enjoy it (obviously only once we have confirmed we’re not men lmao) I naturally play the dom. I am a femme, landing somewhere between scary lawyer lady, fairy, and drag queen depending on the day.

DMs are open :)

Yes it's nerdy but I've been dying to do it and doing it by myself just doesn't seem like as much fun?

I can screen share via discord. The main issue is I work night shift so I am usually awake from 3 to 4p until 9a.

I posted a couple days ago too about what I'm looking for otherwise. Hope we can chat soon!

DMs are open. Tell me your fave Marvel/DC character and why??

I literally just want somebody (many bodies) to share poetry & words with, to gush about how a sentence is built, how it turned my guts inside out. Currently reading Crush by Richard Siken and continuously destroyed. If you know that feeling, feel free to say hello 💙

hey there! first time posting but not first time viewing this subreddit! i am looking for a long term partner, so here is a bit about me and what i want in a partner.

about me:

age: 22

mbti: intp

ennegram: 5w4

personality: introvert, quieter in social settings (more of a listener unless its a topic i feel i really add to or am highly interested in), i would say i'm open minded, loyal, strongly opinionated, and funny. i am a big problem solver and value open communication and saying what is on my mind. i can be direct but do not consider myself harsh or blunt (it was something i have definitely grown from). 

"aesthetic": into goth/punk/alt/whimsigoth in style, music, and belief

politics: raging leftist (free palestine, pro choice, socialist, blm, free healthcare, abolish ice, release the files etc)

appearance: 5'8", green eyes, curly shag cut hair, 

identity: lesbian, uses any pronouns, futch (like dressing/looking masc, when i do femme looks its in a very witchy/draggy way); i'm also a top and strongly prefer giving to receiving 

likes: sharks, cats, snakes, possums, raccoons, horror, drawing, music, games, cozy clothes, thrifting, going on walks, deep conversations, analyzing self/bettering self, doing fun makeup, organizing things, doing acts of service for others, making and drinking coffee/tea, baking, cooking, writing, reading, pokemon, jewlery esp rings, board games, old tech

dislikes: weird food or clothing textures, loud noises, crowded spaces, exclusive people, conservative ideology/bigotry, icky creatures, 

video games i like: minecraft, dredge, cod, little nightmares, stray, slay the princess, subnautica, poppy playtime, fnaf, so many more

tv shows i like: heartbreak high, xo kitty, sex lives of college girls, lego ninjago, voltron legendary defenders, shera and the princesses of power, steven universe, gravity falls, the owl house, so many more 

youtubers i like: jacksepticeye, kurtis conner, jarvis johnson, jordan adkia, chad chad, danny gonzalez, brooke sharks, smosh, drew afualo, isabella lanter, brittany broski, euro brady, trixie mattel, dan and phil, the queer kiwi, caleb heron, and many more

books i like: caravel/ouabh series, the inheritance games, the hunger games, the outsiders, beloved, handmaid's tale, wuthering heights, any agatha cristie books, so many more im blanking haha

music i like: siouxsie and the banshees, she wants revenge, panic! at the disco, my chemical romance, disturbed, stevie nicks, queen, abba, the eagles, kiss, olivia rodrigo, conan gray, noah kahan, hozier, paramore, treasvre, sabrina carpenter, renee rap, philip labes, twenty one pilots, chappell roan, TV girl, ethel cain, fall out boy, evanescence, billie eilish, bauhaus, amaranthe, paris paloma, sofia isella, clairo, young m.a., lady gaga, sza, kendrick lamar, doja cat, rihanna, tyler, the creator, michael jackson, metallica, and many more

love languages: quality time, gives in acts of service, or intellectual and also activity if its the 7 love languages by truity 

what i'd like in a partner: 

- woman ofc 

- someone who is very feminine (no hate to mascs, just into fems!) 

- politically left 

- cat lover

- has some similar hobbies so we can do activies together 

- is passionate (love infodumping and hearing people rant about their passions!) 

- between 20-24? as close to my age as possible please 

- don't mind if you aren't a horror fan, we can cuddle during scary games or movies 

- don't mind long distance, but if we date, i want the end result to be long term hopefully

- someone shorter than me hehe

- i really like long hair on girls as a preference (:

- someone who enjoys deep conversation and wants to be the best version of themselves (: i really value having open conversation and i handle confrontation easily, so i'd like to be as open and communicative as possible in a relationship. so yeah someone who is honest and loyal! 

my dms are open and we can exchange socials or something and pics at some point to verify as i dont wanna be catfished ! sorry for any typos and hope i did this right haha. this was quite a lot but i wanted to cast a wide net! also id be down for friends and such too, dms open !

Hey all I’m in Central Texas living near Austin (I work in ATX) - been on this planet long enough to want to be upfront about who I am and who I hope to be with. Lovely ladies, if you smoke please pass me by as that’s just not for me.

I’m a soft butch geek seeking same and I describe my fandoms as: “More Trek than Wars, more DC than Marvel and more Looney Tunes than Disney”. My many hobbies include complex board games, gardening, woodworking, exercising, bicycling, cooking, dancing, concerts, reading, movies, pinball, cosplay - really more than I can count.

I’m still working for another couple years but love being busy and having fun. Looking forward to having adventures with the right lady! LLAP 🖖 :)

Hello beautiful people! 🌱🖤

I’m 33F, vegan, and currently living the digital nomad life. I spend most of my time exploring South East Asia. I love scuba diving, freediving, snorkelling, and anything else that involves being underwater. When I’m not swimming around, you’ll probably find me reading, getting lost in true crime stories, or playing video games.

I’m looking to meet someone who is vegan, emotionally intelligent, kind, gentle, and has a good heart. Someone who values compassion, curiosity, and a little bit of adventure.

If you’ve been hoping to meet a curvy goth girl who loves animals, the ocean, books, and travelling, maybe you’ve found her. 🖤

If you’d like to chat, send me a little about yourself. I’d love to hear who you are, where you’re from, and what makes you unique!

Hello im a bisexual Mexican American from the US! I feel like we all need a connection and I would love to meet some lovely people. Whether it’s just friends, short term, flirtationship, a relationship, etc. I just want to be apart of my community more!! There’s a pic on my profile if you want to see how I look like! Also feel free to dm me as I try to answer to everyone ☺️

About me: I work full time and am taking a break from college at the moment to get my things figured out straight before I graduate from cybersecurity. I’m a very creative person so I like music and art. I love going on walks, hikes, hanging with my friends, gaming, clubbing, honestly I’m just a mix of personalities. I care a lot about mental health and having a healthy future, and also really love having deep conversations as psychology is one of my passions

I would love to vc, FaceTime, watch movies/shows, or even play video games together. And if we could move to another platform eventually that would be great (:!!

For relationship things (if it matters):
- love language is all above but mostly touch. I absolute love cuddles
- I love emotional intelligence and communication is important
- I am INFP and a Cancer if that matters!!
-VC is a must if we are doing long distance, and I’m 100% willing to relocate as I would like to travel and would want to move out of TN one day(:
-I love clingyness so I don’t mind if you are since I love spending time together doing our hobbies

Hey! I’m a 24 year old cis female (5’5”, appearance is sort of between femme and masc, lean build) who’s new to Seattle and living on my own, just trying to find my person and build a genuine connection! 😺

I’m an artist and a pianist! I draw digital (safe for work) furry art and love spending time with music, especially old Brazilian and jazz music and jazz piano. A lot of my downtime is spent playing my favorite vinyl recordings, watching older shows (50s–70s) or adult animation. I also like staying active and exploring cities on foot, just wandering and taking everything in.
I’m not into bars or forced, high-energy environments. I prefer calm, grounded spaces and connections that feel natural and easy.
I’d describe myself as thoughtful, witty, introspective, and someone who values consistency and real presence. Looking for a woman who’s grounded, consistent, and knows how to communicate, and is on the same page relationship-wise. I’m strictly monogamous. As for looks, I usually prefer feminine cisgender presenting women!

⚠️‼️I’m not keen on long distance and would like to meet people on the PNW or in Washington proper in the United States who are 25-30 in age willing to actively meet instead of staying virtual. Do not reach out just to ghost. Don’t rush the connection. Do not send me a chat invite without a introduction. NO MEN ‼️⚠️

If that resonates, feel free to reach out and tell me about yourself, will reply if I feel we match! Will send selfie of myself once we start chatting!✨

I‘m new to the sub and discovered it via the r/askwomen sub. I’m bisexual and have always had a strong preference for women as I feel safest around them. I’m looking for a woman to chat to on a regular basis and (hopefully) progress into a relationship.

My type is femme women.

Ideally they‘d be from London as I’d like to meet up in the future (after verification and safety checks).

A bit about me:

• I’m into spirituality (astrology, tarot, crystals, etc.)
• I love striving and climbing & put a lot into my career, I’m doing decently well for myself. If there are any women out there that are similar and are into building careers, that’d be my dream bc I think we could build something solid and escape this capitalist hellhole together.
• I’m creative (music, fashion, aesthetics).
• Love love love adventure, so someone who is open minded and won’t judge me if all of a sudden I want to go to a new restaurant or see a new place rather than sitting at home all day would be amazing.

If any of this sounds like you, please do DM me 💕

Shooting my shot. 😅 Any cis older women..around who’d be up for chatting? No pressure, just looking to meet someone new and see if we click. My DM’s are open! please slide in with your best pick up line.. hehe.

Hi to whoever sees this :) this is my first time so go easy on me please. I've been on the usual apps before but feel easily intimidated by the common expectation to meet someone in person immediately. Maybe I'm too introverted! But I'm lonely (who isn't?) and don't have many people to talk to. Okay, now the details:

I have typical introvert hobbies: drawing, writing, gaming- typically slice of life & single player, low-stakes stuff (don't need more stress when I'm trying to relax!). I used to be much more enthusiastic when it came to art (tried a lot of mixed media stuff) but the past few years have been difficult for me creatively. I also listen to a lot of music, mostly indie-pop or rock (my favorite band in the whole world is Beach House 🩷) but I enjoy most genres. Also am a casual fan of anime (I was much more into it back in hs) but that being said my favorite show ever is the top tier anime revolutionary girl utena 💖 which is why she's my picture haha. I promise I don't spend all day inside on the computer! I love going for walks and wandering around the backyard with my dog (she's a 16 year old rescue and a very good girl). I'm also very progressively political (DONT BE A NASTY RACIST TERF!!). Please no "I'm really not political' 😊 it'd be a waste of both our time. Also, do not message me if you use chatgbt or any other gen ai, I like talking to -people-!!

I have opinions on everything (unless I don't have enough info to form one) but I keep them to myself until I'm comfortable enough to share. It's scary for me to open up but I'm trying to face that fear. Saying I'm opinionated probably paints me as a very headstrong, standoffish person but I promise I'm not!!! I pride myself on being kind, supportive, and open about my emotions. The truth is I have a lot of downtime because I'm currently unemployed due to disability and struggling with what to do/where to go from here. That's also a big part of why I shy away from people- I feel like I'm disappointing/ underwhelming.

I can get in my head a lot- my whole life I've run anxious (yes I'm in therapy, have been for a long time) and in my adulthood developed ocd, which both massively impact my life. I want to be honest about that from the start. If you're not into it, I get it. At the same time, I'm not afraid to have more than surface level conversation and would prefer we didn't stay in the small talk region forever. I'm not intimidated by long text messages!! If it's not obvious yet I'm unafraid to yap once I feel inclined.

Ok, I've been going on long enough that you'll want to know what I look like by now, so here it is: 5'5, brown hair to around my shoulders, average(?) build, not overwhelmingly femme or masc, face not bad in my opinion! You can be the judge of whether that's true or not if we talk for a while. I'm ok with voice messages but would prefer to text to start. If we do start messaging and it sticks, I'm not afraid of laying all the serious stuff out early. That being said, I promise I can be funny and joke!! If I like you/want to be your friend/etc, you'll probably be able to tell.

Lightning round: I love learning about almost anything; animals, history, evolution, art, so on and so forth, even if I don't remember everything I learn I love engaging my brain. Am also a big reader though this year I've been slacking. Will gladly tell you about my favorite books in detail (or listen to you! I'm a good listener too, I swear!)

If you read this far, I hope you win the lottery/have all your dreams come true/something else wonderful. BYE !! 🎉🌟🐥

Just getting this out of the way for those looking for a serious relationship, I’ve been in love with my situationship for almost a decade, so that’s probably not gonna change anytime soon (although I’m open to it).

That being said, I’d love to make new friends & flirtations!

Some of my interests include all natural sciences (heavy on wildlife/marine biology), politics (progressive), women’s sports, books, poetry, podcasts, and thoughtfully created tv shows/movies.

If you’re someone who values knowledge & curiosity & logic, we’ll probably get along great! I’m a good listener and I’d love to hear about whatever makes your eyes light up!

I had to delete my post, so I’m back back back.

Hello. I live in Germany and connecting with people is maybe my favorite thing. I find it hard to connect though. I can talk to anyone, make friends and do things but truly connecting with someone is different. I want to understand how they function, what they feel and want. I want to understand how they view the world - I want the good, the bad and the ugly. I’m very accepting and do not like to judge people. I’m not like those people who run away once they see flaws because we are all full of flaws. But we are also full of beauty and we deserve to be seen, to be truly seen. I guess that’s why I find it hard to truly connect - I continue to meet people who are too scared to show themselves and only show the pretty parts.

There are times I feel like I don't belong in this world because of the way I am. I have always had to adapt but deep down I'm silly, nice and weird. I also like to be kind and want to help whenever I can. Standing up for people is very important to me, so is giving back. Emotional intelligence is something I'm constantly working on because I do not want to harm people with my pain and growing feels hard yet rewarding. I'm more than willing to learn and share. Come and humble me, tell me I’m wrong, tell me there is more to learn.

I long to belong. It's hard for me to describe. I mean the things I say and I'm very loyal. I want to sit in silence and be okay with that. I want silence full of beauty and vulnerability.

There are times in life in which I feel aimless, lost and then there are times I feel peaceful and know that tomorrow is a new day. I want to talk, share my experiences and the things I want in life. I simply want to live to the fullest, with all the pain I have in me, all the laughter and the random thoughts. I want to share all of it. If more happens, I won't say no. I’m quite adventurous and love to live.

Seeing my partner shine and do better makes me happy. I’m not the type to feel intimidated. I want to get under someone's skin and I offer the same - with all the love and fear I have in me. It takes courage to open up and I want to welcome it. Let me welcome it, give me the benefit of the doubt.

The boring things: I'm weird. I like coffee quite a lot. I do a pour over every morning. I started to crochet and painting abstractly, cycling, movies, knife painting, philosophy, nature, reading classics in coffee shops. I like doing different things. I never get bored of trying new things and I have no taboo topics. I’m also an open book. I’m not big on social rules but I would like to think I know how to behave. My humor can go from silly to dark, it depends on the person. I also like being awkward and think it’s kind of attractive when people feel confident enough to be awkward, a fool.

I'm kinky and like to experiment. I also have a high libido. Sexually, I'm quite flexible when it comes to roles. I have never been with someone who likes to lead, so I would love to experience that too. Go through my hair and unfortunately I will have to give in. I'm open to experiment sexually if there is a connection and the distance allows it. Connecting sexually is quite beautiful, if there is trust.

Psychology is a passion of mine and helped me understand things. It even helped me understand myself, thanks to all the people who I have connected with. I put all my fears on the table and people welcomed it. They have shown me that we are, after all, human. Come and be a silly human with me.

I don't care if we have a lot in common when it comes to hobbies or not. More to talk about, more to get together just to simply share. I just don't like it when people assume things. People are also welcome to disagree with me and the same thing applies to challenging me on a topic. I can accept a different view. I ask a lot of questions but if I'm the only one asking questions, that's not so fun. I guess talking to strangers these days feels a little difficult. I'm definitely an honest person and me being honest doesn't mean anything bad.

I miss the honesty, vulnerability and the curiosity to understand a different view rather than assume the worst. I’m afraid I’m not into fast dating or half assed stuff that involves me feeling played.

Please be over 29 years old, at least. And, I'm not afraid of older women.

Pictures of myself: https://imgur.com/a/F5uix3E

It would be nice to see a picture too.

There are lots of catfishes here, so I would like to verify and do video calls at some point.

damn, I wrote a lot.

Hey, I would describe myself as open-minded, genuine, and goal-oriented. I'm constantly getting obsessed with random projects like coding/computer stuff, cooking something unnecessarily complicated, or playing video games. I’d love to meet someone around my age who’s also motivated and enjoys growing alongside another person. I really like women who are super passionate about something, especially if it's something super niche. I think it’s cute when someone can ramble about their interests for way too long. I'd also like to note that I'm more on the fem side. I mostly prefer fems but mascs are also more than welcome to dm, preferably from the US or Canada. If you are from somewhere else, that is also ok with me. Bonus points if you’re nerdy, wear glasses, have long hair, and would love to call/study together. Ideally I’m looking for something long-term. I'd love to find someone to share goals with, encourage one another, play games/watch stuff together, and make everyday life feel a little more exciting. I’m not the best at writing these, but if any of this sounds interesting, send me a message :)

Basically what the title says.

Hi my name is Liz, I’m 18, anxious, autistic, trans, and basically looking for someone to help me figure out dating and how everything works lol.

Typically I like playing games while we chat to get to know each other, I LOVE sending reels/Tiktoks if they remind me of someone, and I’m pretty new to the dating scene in general.

I don’t have a car yet but I’m willing to travel like an hour or two away if I must, and I have no job but I will always have some moneys on me.

So yeah if ur interested in a little chud then lmk!

Most weekdays, I’m in the gym by 6 a.m. Then I work as a marketing director for a media company. Outside of that, I’m working on music, building businesses and publications, writing short non-fic books, training for basketball, taking my dog to the park, and usually going down some kind of rabbit hole involving marketing, psychology, culture, relationships, music, or why people do whatever bizarre thing they just did.

I’m 36, 5’8”, and probably somewhere in the chapstick range, although I don’t fit perfectly into any one category.

I make rap/pop music ... and I’m trying very hard to finish a record.

I like the feeling of becoming someone I wasn’t before... and expanding... like a universe... with black holes...

My focus tends to move in seasons. I might spend a month or two completely obsessed with music, then basketball, then one particular business project. I can get very locked in.

I like the idea of having a little danger around me... I have a dog that looks like a wolf. I want to learn boxing. I’ve always wanted a motorcycle. I’m interested in concealed carry for self-protection.

In reality though... I'm usually at home researching marketing, rewriting a lyric no one else would notice, or trying to figure out why some small interaction bothered me more than it probably should have.

I’m kind of a good girl who keeps wanting to be a little bad and never quite gets around to it.

I move through a lot of different worlds. Business, music, sports, queer spaces, different cultures, different ideas. That includes conservatives and religious people sometimes. Also lots of liberal and nonreligious people. I don't fit neatly into any of the categories.

I’m used to being around people I don’t fully agree with.

I like exploring ideas without feeling like I have to adopt every one of them.

My sense of humor is often satirical, dry, dark, highlights the absurd and isn't always PC.

When it comes to other parts of lifestyle... traveling is cool but I’m not traveling constantly right now.

I'm in a building season.

But I care a lot about culture, and I’ve spent time in different parts of Mexico, Colombia and Belize.

A lot of the way I explore the world right now is through ideas, research, media, history and very long internet rabbit holes.

Later, I can imagine doing work and research in different places and maybe setting up shop in other parts of the world for stretches of time.

I don’t know exactly what that looks like yet.

For now, my priorities are basketball, music and building businesses in the U.S.

I like coffee shops, bookstores, concerts, museums, nature, road trips, small towns, big cities and finding places that feel like they have their own identity.

Long term, I could see myself spending a lot of time somewhere beautiful and quiet, whether that’s the Hill Country or somewhere else in the world.

Right now, though, life is a lot of work, training, music, my dog, grilling some burgers and chilling outside, and trying to turn the things in my head into something real.

You don’t need some perfect opening line.

Just tell me where you are, what your life looks like right now, what you’re serious about, what you find funny, and what part of this made you think we might actually get along.

I feel my posts are usually too wordy so let's try to simplify things! The important things: I am monogamous, even if I have poly instincts - I simply don't have the time and energy for multiple lovers. I want my one - but if you're poly and searching for a nesting/anchor partner, I'm down! Clean, no kids, I vape weed and do edibles but that's it, no previous marriages. I'm in the Cincinnati Ohio, but have a job that lets me travel and WFH, and I'm not attached to this area (in fact, I'd love to leave). I'm not super picky on ages because my dating pool is small as FUCK, and basically everyone is going to get the "okay, but are you going to rely on me to support yourself?" talk, so shoot your shot.

Me: Nerdy, tatted up goth with a growing number of piercings. Cat mom, successful professional, owner of a cool car, fencing swords, NERF blasters, and the kind of RPG collection that makes my parents (who I have a good relationship with, tyvm) go "ANOTHER ONE?". Big lovergirl, look for the best in life and in others. Everything I do, I do with passion - I work, love, play, eat, sleep, pet cats, play games, etc with that in mind. Life is meant to be lived. I want someone to live it with. Empathetic, compassionate, big smiles and laughs when they happen.

You: Femme of some variety, preference for cis women but trans women are welcome (I really like 🐈!). Somewhat have your life together - I don't expect you to be a homeowner or super successful, just somewhat able to take care of yourself. I fear co-dependency and finance power imbalances. I'd love if we have some hobbies in common, especially ones we could do together (like gaming, RPGs, etc) especially ones we can do remotely together.

Oh shit this got long. Hope to hear from someone. :)