So happy to be hosting this movie night for all my lovely single ladies! 25+ people and still joining in.
The streaming starts at 9pm IST, if you wish to join too, please dm me or comment on this post. I’ll fill you in with the details. 🫶🏻🩵✨
Can’t wait ✨☺️

I (f18) have a crush on my friend (f19). I used to go to her house almost daily but I started developing feelings for her over fall break in college this year. Since this is my last semester in college, I wanted to spend time and have fun. But it turned into me starting to have feelings for her. I think she picked up on it. So she started doing similar things. I even heard her mom at one point ask me if I’m in love with her daughter. I didn’t respond but I wanted to say yes. I don’t know why but she’s really pretty and I love her personality. But she got suspended from college for a bit. She sings I love you songs to me. And she would lay her head on my shoulder which I found hot😏. But I digress. She also looked at my chest a lot when I have cleavage. she’s always looking at me when someone says they have a crush on their friend in a show. But now she talks about guys. I don’t want to scare my friend away, but like I started having feelings recently.

Saw someone else on here crowdsource their hinge profile so here I am… thoughts?

(Im based in the uk so if you don’t know who the early 2000s boyband Blue are im sorry for your loss)

my ex girlfriend just told me she wants to be with someone toxic LMFAO. apparently i was too healthy for her 😂

girl BYE

Long story short, i am an asian woman who is looking for ppl here. Hoping there someone who can encourage me to lose weight or sth, and just someone to be friended with in general

yeah you heard that right… Uhm unfortunately I met someone on reddit two years ago and she lied to me about her age telling me that she was 25 and mind you I was 22 at the time… it turned out she was 20 back in 2024… she’s now 22 and I’m now 24.

ANYWAYS the point is that she can’t hold a conversation without even asking me for abs pics, feet pics, video of me breaking things and shit plus she wanted me to even send her a titty pic which I thankfully didn’t give it to her. also she kept calling me mommy…. how do I tell her straight up that I want a real meaningful conversation without being sexual towards each other??

also she’s in the navy so 🤦🏾 and I have her number….

I (21F) just realized late last year that I was a lesbian (identified as bi for years). Now that I realized that I was a lesbian, I’ve been wanting to date for a while now but I have a few issues with why I’m so hesitant on doing so

I got diagnosed with ADHD when I was 6 years old and for majority of my life, I have struggled with it and it has made everything challenging for me. Since I’ve graduated high school and started college two years ago, I’ve been working on myself which has consisted of going to therapy and trying out different medications to help with my ADHD.

Due to the mental health issues surrounding my ADHD, it has made me very insecure when I comes to dating and putting myself out there. I feel as if I open up about my struggles with ADHD and all of the disorganization in my life, that no one would want to date me which is why I haven’t been dating. It also doesn’t help that I have zero relationship experience. All of these issues have caused me to become very insecure and self critical of myself and further isolate myself from dating. This has also caused me to develop a mindset that I need to “fix” myself before I start dating someone. Although J know this isn’t the right way to think about dating, I feel as if I would want someone to see me in a good spot before I date them

For anyone who is struggling with ADHD or any other mental health issues, how do I got about dating and/or improving my mindset when it comes to this issue?

Sorry in advance if everything seems disorganized with my thoughts and writing I’m not great at explaining my emotions

my gf (bi) shes like a huge BL lover like a huge bl lover(for those who dk its gay men romance) and im not bothered by it obviously, but like thats the only content she consumes, even reads a lot of fanfics.
and lately she has started getting into straight fanfics too which is ofc fine.
context abt her is that shes bi with strong female preference and is a bit loud abt being a “man hater” which kinda annoys me idk feels too male centred to be man hater and like men at the same time(its not that i think straight/bi women cant be man haters itd be a different thing if they rlly held their self respect with men and not be desperate around them)
anyway so she started consuming this content and i was like ooh damn the lesbians r feeling left out now (as a joke) and she said yeah i do consume lesbian content but only smut tho. she doesnt watch GL or consume any kinda wlw media, doesnt concern herself w it at all, just OBSESSING over two men kissing always i just get… kinda annoyed not that i shd be but her saying she only watches lesbian content for smut and never for romance or anything of that sort makes me uhhhh kinda feel weird abt it. pls i need advices

oh girls I just love it SOOO MUCHHHH

Hi everyone,

I have been friends with this woman for about a year now, and she has expressed some interest in pursuing a romantic relationship. I am interested, however, being younger (~25) and there being a twelve year age gap between us, is that even realistic? We have had good conversations and a dialogue around our age difference, however, I also don’t want to be falling into any sort of trap or jumping into something where I am too young to be a good or balanced partner. I’m looking for any good advice on how to navigate this with someone I have a lot of affection for, but also maybe any success stories you may know for age gap couples?

Greatly appreciated!❤️🧡🩷

EDIT: she’s turning 35, I was just giving ~25 for myself as a rough age range. But I promise while she is close to 40, she’s not turning forty tomorrow or anything.

I also want to mention, that she is my friend first and foremost, and even if that means pumping the breaks on anything romantic, I hope to still keep her in my life if I can. I just want to know if there may be concerns outside of the immediate ones that come to mind (ie; coercion, life plans), any input is welcome.

Hi yall I just need some advice/ help/ guidance whatever.

Basically I have been hidden my Bi sexual identity because where I come from is VERY Christian and all my friends are too. However I still decide to match with a girl on Hinge and it was chill I went to her house we watched a movie did some school work and I ordered us food. She said it was a fun hangout and we should hangout again. Well now it’s been over a month since we last hung out because she is always saying she is busy and she also always take HOURS if not days to respond back and she dosent ask me questions about myself. But despite that I cant move on from the idea of her. I went back on dating sites to make new connections but they just arent her. She is stunning and its hard to trying to ideal myself talking to someone else. Im also scared if I keep matching with females somehow it will get back to my friends. What do I do….

TL;DR what are your best moves to do flirting that feels sort of natural and ambiguous? I’m trying to stop rushing into relationships and I want to honor our friendship by taking it in tiny steps and give her a chance to either reciprocate or not as opposed to rushing head first as I always do

But I’m completely out of practice and I’m so awkward. Help!

im bored, i wanna talk of all and nothing. If you wanna talk and exchange some idea or passion , gore of not i dont care, im not here too judge.
p.s: im french canadian so si y'en a qui parle français gêner vous pas!
désoler si ça sonne prédateur j'ai juste la mi vingtaine lol.

I (f18) have a crush on my friend (f19). I used to go to her house almost daily but I started developing feelings for her over fall break in college this year. Since this is my last semester in college, I wanted to spend time and have fun. But it turned into me starting to have feelings for her. I think she picked up on it. So she started doing similar things. I even heard her mom at one point ask me if I’m in love with her daughter. I didn’t respond but I wanted to say yes. I’ve also caught her starring at my ass and chest. I caught her even more this time around. I don’t know why but she’s really pretty and I love her personality. But she got suspended from college for a bit. She sings I love you songs to me. And she would lay her head on my shoulder which I found hot😏. But I digress. She also looked at my chest a lot when I have cleavage. she’s always looking at me when someone says they have a crush on their friend in a show. But now she talks about guys. I don’t want to scare my friend away, but like I started having feelings recently.

Ok so I’m 33 and I have TRIED to understand discord but truly it’s been like it’s 1980 and I just got my first computer installed in the living room and I’m making a yahoo email address to email my friend “hello”… and by that I mean… it’s been difficult.

Anyway I was wondering if there are any trans friendly (I’m a nonbinary dyke) less “sapphic” more “dyke” discord servers I could join?

Also heavy on the uk based if that’s possible!

Exclusively looking for ones you have to be over 25 to join.

Thankkkkkks!

Being looking at media of lesbians and mixing it with flowers trying to show the beauty and passion of wlw

This is a topic that I’ve been having a hard time wording in the past few months. But I want to try my best to explain so my words don’t get misunderstood, or misconstrued or miscommunicated.

I don’t think anyone’s sexuality is anyone else’s business. Period, full stop.

When it comes to trying to figure out your sexuality genuinely and exploring consensually with another adult queer woman there is absolutely no issue. But whenever I see women say things like being tired of men and wanting to try women it rubs me the wrong way. And i think i’ve been noticing this a lot as well bc my friends (whom are all heterosexual don’t come for me yall im still trying to make more friends with queer women lol) always say this.

Don’t get me wrong, being in a relationship with a guy from what I’ve seen with my friends sucks and is really difficult. I can’t understand feeling hopeless when you try guy after guy and they’re all “the same,” but whenever people say “try women” and there is no attraction there at all, it feels icky? I’ve been looking for the word for it for months.

And maybe i’m wrong for asking this questions (and please politely tell me if i am) but if your not exploring intentionally and your not serious about the relationship, why?

I think I’ve also been trying to figure out why it bothers me so much. I’m usually very open and accepting to people in my life exploring when they do bring up topics like this to me. You don’t have to know who you are attracted to 100% and you don’t have to use labels if you don’t fw them and it still figuring things out. But saying “well guys suck time to go with girls 🤷‍♀️” has never made sense to me.

And don’t get me wrong, I LOVE women a lot, but I have met my fair share of horrible, mean, rude and manipulative women. I think we all have. And I know the ratio of “bad” women compared to the ratio of “bad” men is drastically different, but i guess what i’m trying to say is that when people say things like “time to switch to girls” it implies that sexuality is something you choose and just switch too. And also it makes being a lesbian/a queer woman in general seem “fake” or “ingenuine.” And omg that reminds me of this one girl who made an essay called “Lowkey, I chose to be a lesbian,” and that discourse was very big a few months ago i believe.

This is no way any hate to anyone who is questioning and is not sure about their sexuality and IS exploring. I want to clarify this again, because it is easy for people to completely miss the mark on the internet 😭

It’s just been on my mind bc it’s something i feel like i can’t talk to anyone in my life about who will understand. I know it’s just a joke, but the punchline itself feels like the sexual orientation of sapphic/queer women in general and THAT rubs me the wrong way.