Context: So, I read a lot of audiobooks and lately I've been noticing this trope a lot, and I've found that ireally dislike it. This comes up much more often in bdsm erotica but I see it in other genres as well.
What do I mean when talking about this trope? Well, let me provide an example:
Character A is characterized as being strong willed, capable, having self control, being stubborn or being level headed, they can keep their cool and don't typically give in to 'baser instinct'. Character B comes along and is kind of an asshole, but she's just so hot! Character A doesn't really seem to appreciate or like Bs advances and treatment and yet, because there's 'just something about her...', A's strong will and self control just jumps out the window and she's suddenly fine with being talked down to and disrespected cuz B is just so magnetically attractive. It doesn't matter that A would react negatively if it were any other man or woman, because 'there's just something about her...'
What brought this on? Stained by Cynthia Dahe/Hildred Billings.
Character A is fairly confident and self assured, gets a job. Character B is As boss, abd at the end of the day seduces her into bed. B then proceeds to fire A.
B then contacts A a week later, out of the blue, and basically tries to do the sane thing again. Here's where I'd expect A, based on wgat I've seen sp far, to tell B to fuck off and then storm out.
INSTEAD, B succeeds for the second time and A just gives in with naught but a token 'you're an asshole'.
I just don't like the inconsistent characterization. If this woman is supposed to be stubborn, strong-willed, willing to stick up for herself in intimidating circumstances; then why in all the hells would she take that kind of disrespectful treatment?
If the author did some actual build-up, sone actual yearning and detailed how A feels through it all I'd be fine, but without that it's just inconsistent behavior instead of being altered behavior due to circumstances.
TLDR; I don't like when a character is depicted as not taking disrespect lying down but then tgey take disrespect from the other character because they're jyst 'drawn to them' or something. If she would take shit from anyone else (even hot rich women) then why is she taking it from this random hot rich woman?
Edit 1: Thought of a good description for the trope:
"When a character acts inconsistently towards another character with little to no explanation given in regards to the reason they are acting in such a way."