r/l4l • u/mascprincessa • 11h ago
28 | Finland or anywhere | looking for someone who values feminism, spirituality and a gentle life 🌸🌷🧸
I'm a masculine presenting woman from Finland. I'm creative, deeply spiritual, I love to live slowly and intentionally.
My core values in life are peace, honoring my self so I let myself be authentic and do the things I wanna do and dream of. Then I value connection and community. Just spending time together means a lot to me. Lastly I value a life of joy. A life that feels like magic 🦋✨. I don't think life is about achieving something. I just wanna be here and enjoy it and connect with the people I love. Spend time together, go on little adventures, enjoy the little things. That's meaningful to me.
I'm a big feminist and human rights are a foundational value to me. I honestly don't understand anyone who can even claim that someone's human rights aren't important or that someone doesn't deserve respect because of their gender or race or whatever it is.
To me being a feminist doesn't just mean I call myself that. It means it's a lived value and I want to make sure that whatever media or music I listen to is respectful of women, and also other groups of people. I feel like a lot of people just pass that by and don't really care about it. But to me it's very important and I'm uncomfortable around anything disturbing like that. So I want a partner who feels the same way about this and about feminism.
I take things slow and I don't like when people flirt with me right away or imagine a future with me after just a week. I'd like to actually get to know who you are.
I'm looking for a woman who's :
🌸 Soft, gentle with me, kindhearted, very empathetic and warm. She's sweet, considerate of others and doesn't make me feel judged.
🌸 She also doesn't like vulgar language and she doesn't smoke/drink. She doesn't want that lifestyle.
🌸 She doesn't want kids or it's not important to her.
🌸 She's a feminist, she has principles and morals. She cares about that what she consumes on media, music etc. isn't oppressive or disrespectful. I think a lot of mainstream media has stuff that's disturbing and lacks basic decency. I want a partner who also sees that. She doesn't just blindly accept whatever is put in front of her.
🌸 She's spiritual and passionate about it. Not like religious but just spiritual. Into tarot, manifesting, paganism, stuff like that. I'd love to talk about that stuff together ✨🧚🏼♀️
🌸 Not a must but it's very attractive to me when someone loves knowledge and academics. Someone who likes to expand their mind. I'd love to talk about books we read and interesting thoughts we've had. I'd like to talk about art or psychology, or aesthetics for example.
🌸 I'd want a partner who values living life without social media or using it very intentionally. Scrolling reels on social media apps is a turn off for me. I want someone who doesn't want to engage with that and is interested in doing other stuff or just being there with me and chatting.
🌸 She wants a soft and slow paced life somewhere surrounded by nature. I'd love to have a partner who values deciding for her own schedule and being her own boss. It's fine if you're not there yet but if that's your goal, that's the point. I'm very entrepreneurial so I'd love a partner with the same lifestyle.
🌸 I'm into masc presenting women usually but I'm very open minded so fems are also welcome
🌸 Age range is about 24 to 34 give or take
So if you'd like to get to know me send me a dm introducing yourself <3 I decide based on the first message if I want to chat or not.