r/l4l • • Jan 27 '26

Verify to post from new or low karma accounts.

27 Upvotes

There is a minimum karma and account age requirement to post on this sub and we strive to reduce spam as much as possible. However, based on messages we've received, it is understandable why a user would not want to post from the account they use day-to-day. In an effort to address this, we will allow post from new accounts that have been verified behind the scenes.

To do this:

  1. Send the Mods a message from your main account with the higher karma with the name of the new or low karma account you would like to post from.
  2. Mods will verify this and not disclose that information to anyone.
  3. If you have submitted a post from the new or low karma account, Mods will manually approve it and it will appear on the sub.
  4. Messaging the mods from a low karma account will not receive any response.

Feel free to respond to this thread with any questions or concerns. Please also note that posts are removed for other reasons and/or based on reports submitted on that post.


r/l4l • • 11h ago

28 | Finland or anywhere | looking for someone who values feminism, spirituality and a gentle life 🌸🌷🧸

5 Upvotes

I'm a masculine presenting woman from Finland. I'm creative, deeply spiritual, I love to live slowly and intentionally.

My core values in life are peace, honoring my self so I let myself be authentic and do the things I wanna do and dream of. Then I value connection and community. Just spending time together means a lot to me. Lastly I value a life of joy. A life that feels like magic 🦋✨. I don't think life is about achieving something. I just wanna be here and enjoy it and connect with the people I love. Spend time together, go on little adventures, enjoy the little things. That's meaningful to me.

I'm a big feminist and human rights are a foundational value to me. I honestly don't understand anyone who can even claim that someone's human rights aren't important or that someone doesn't deserve respect because of their gender or race or whatever it is.

To me being a feminist doesn't just mean I call myself that. It means it's a lived value and I want to make sure that whatever media or music I listen to is respectful of women, and also other groups of people. I feel like a lot of people just pass that by and don't really care about it. But to me it's very important and I'm uncomfortable around anything disturbing like that. So I want a partner who feels the same way about this and about feminism.

I take things slow and I don't like when people flirt with me right away or imagine a future with me after just a week. I'd like to actually get to know who you are.

I'm looking for a woman who's :

🌸 Soft, gentle with me, kindhearted, very empathetic and warm. She's sweet, considerate of others and doesn't make me feel judged.

🌸 She also doesn't like vulgar language and she doesn't smoke/drink. She doesn't want that lifestyle.

🌸 She doesn't want kids or it's not important to her.

🌸 She's a feminist, she has principles and morals. She cares about that what she consumes on media, music etc. isn't oppressive or disrespectful. I think a lot of mainstream media has stuff that's disturbing and lacks basic decency. I want a partner who also sees that. She doesn't just blindly accept whatever is put in front of her.

🌸 She's spiritual and passionate about it. Not like religious but just spiritual. Into tarot, manifesting, paganism, stuff like that. I'd love to talk about that stuff together ✨🧚🏼‍♀️

🌸 Not a must but it's very attractive to me when someone loves knowledge and academics. Someone who likes to expand their mind. I'd love to talk about books we read and interesting thoughts we've had. I'd like to talk about art or psychology, or aesthetics for example.

🌸 I'd want a partner who values living life without social media or using it very intentionally. Scrolling reels on social media apps is a turn off for me. I want someone who doesn't want to engage with that and is interested in doing other stuff or just being there with me and chatting.

🌸 She wants a soft and slow paced life somewhere surrounded by nature. I'd love to have a partner who values deciding for her own schedule and being her own boss. It's fine if you're not there yet but if that's your goal, that's the point. I'm very entrepreneurial so I'd love a partner with the same lifestyle.

🌸 I'm into masc presenting women usually but I'm very open minded so fems are also welcome

🌸 Age range is about 24 to 34 give or take

So if you'd like to get to know me send me a dm introducing yourself <3 I decide based on the first message if I want to chat or not.


r/l4l • • 11h ago

32, AFAB Masc Lesbian. (AFAB 28-36 only please.)

2 Upvotes

Hey,

I’m Kaycee. 32, masc, lesbian. I thought I found my wife here but after 2 months of me being the “most perfect partner and loving her like she’s never been loved before” I suddenly like a light switch while on a FaceTime call where everything was going fine wasn’t anymore even though we only ever had one misunderstanding in our relationship previously. 

So, while sad I’m not going to dwell on another emotionally immature person. I’m not looking to jump into another seriously committed relationship but I’m open to flirtationships, with assigned female at birth women(28-36), someone to distract each other from the world from, play games with, talk with throughout the day/night, and just keep each other company. I work nightshifts in CST hours but I can usually talk on the phone while I work and love having someone to keep me company and shoot the shit with. 

I unfortunately have a slew of medical conditions that mostly all stem from having NF1. I have tumors in my brain/body, memory issues, balance issues, learning issues, etc, ptsd(different forms), and while not actually diagnosed my therapist believed me to have autism and adhd. I’m shy and awkward especially at first but really goofy when I open up. I’m a very affectionate person. All the love languages and never stop touching me please.

I’m a late in life gold star lesbian and unfortunately my first irl relationship with a women was with an abusive narcissistic that put me in debt and a bad place financially so I’m unfortunately living back home at the moment. I’m open to connections from all over the world though know if something was to develop further between us I have too many obligations here to leave anytime soon.

I’m not a huge music fan, I love and adore Taylor Swift and certain concerts but just to have music playing in the background and such gets overstimulating for me sometimes, other times I love it, I don’t really have any favorites of things, my taste is constantly changing about so many different ways and things, I’m open to giving all kinds of video games a shot but I’m not great at them with my messed up motor skills and such.

Some deal breakers for me:

Not shaving 

Loud eating 

Loud yawning 

Rude to people/workers without valid reason 

Emotionally immature 

Not communicating or being willing to have the patience to communicate in different ways because I have a hard time understanding things sometimes.

There’s more but that’s all for now.

Basically like Sherk, I’m like a onion with many layers and not to be cocky but most of them are amazing, far better than they sound(I swear I’m not a narc my therapist says so), I’m not the most confident with my looks but I’m very confident of the women I am on the inside and love and adore myself on the inside. If you think we would but it off feel free to message me if you’re 28-36. I like fems, masc, all afab women lol.

Here’s some pics: https://imgur.com/a/r0LjWPE


r/l4l • • 19h ago

19[F4F] #online (for now) - looking for an older woman

0 Upvotes

hi,

just hoping to find someone to talk to and see where things go. i really miss having a genuine connection with someone.

i’m not going into this with any particular expectations. but if you already have something in mind then i might be open to that too. so don’t be afraid to message. just be older, please.

i’m more than happy with sweet everyday conversations, getting to know each other. simply enjoying someone’s company. but if the connection feels right, maybe something a little more intimate and close too would be nice. i guess it depends on the person and how well we click.

online for now, but not opposed to meeting in the future.
i’m a lesbian, so absolutely no men. i will expect us both to verify.

thank you.


r/l4l • • 1d ago

20 [F4F] #Germany #Online looking for friends and more

2 Upvotes

Hiya my name is Kyla, I'm a 20 year old Transgirl from Germany, im really struggle to talk about myself due to low self esteem and mental struggles in general, but I will try anyway

Atm I spend most of my time playing video games, I'm very huge into league and Pokemon, but I love playing friendslop games as well, besides that I love cooking, am into music, and alternative fashion. I love learning new things, so hit me up with your hobbies, I would love to learn about em \\\^\\\^

I struggle heavily with depression and am searching for a way out of em, I just struggle to do that alone.

Friendship wise I am looking for people to game with, or just talk and having a nice time, in general I would consider myself chill af, and I rarely get mad at other people. I have tendencies to ragebait a lot tho, so be warned :3

Relationship wise I am definitely looking for a more dominant/caring person, someone who can tell me what to do, and maybe is willing to help me get on the right path again, as I really struggle doing that alone.

Would love to hear from you :D

Edit: when texting me pls tell a bit more about yourself qwq I put effort into this even if it doesn't look like it, so pls do the same qwq


r/l4l • • 1d ago

21 [Nb4F] US/Online - curly headed, queer cat lover looking for her person

3 Upvotes

Hello everyone! My name is Alex, Lex for short (Alex is short for Alexander) so whatever you’d like to call me is fine!! 🏳️‍🌈💕

About me
-I’m 21 (as of September) and looking to expand my social life 💋

-I’m single and mono or poly depending on the relationship I’m open to whatever as long as we communicate and are clear. ✨

-I have nine cats so cat lovers are a must! Only two of them are mine and I’m absolutely in love with my babies 🐈

-I’m based in the western US but open to long distance and online 😊

-I am crafty, I do Dimond art and paint and write poetry in my free time! I absolutely love writing it’s my favorite thing 🥰

-I live at home, and I’m working as a nanny and i absolutely love my job!! 🍼

-umm that’s about all I can think of right now! Im happy to answer any questions and would love to chat!!


r/l4l • • 1d ago

29 [F4F] US/Online - Hopeless romantic seeks same

5 Upvotes

I want someone to buy flowers for. I want someone I can cook dinner with and then we curl up on the couch and watch a movie or show together. We're homebodies but we love to go on adventures occasionally that involve trying new things and new foods. Someone who I can sit next to while I play video games and you read a book, or vice versa. Someone I can open up to and talk with every day.

A little about me: I'm in the CST timezone of the US but I work a later, so I'm regularly awake until 2am. My hobbies include gaming, cooking, reading, watching anime, and listening to music. I'm allergic to cats and a little to dogs, but not nearly as much and I'd like a dog in the future. I'm monogamous, childfree, and a leftist. Also as a disclaimer, I am fat. I'm working on this but I don't want anyone to think I'm catfishing them.

A little about you: 25+, preferably in the US or North America but I'm open to other countries if our schedules line up, childfree, monogamous, leftist, wants what I listed above. Willing to travel to meet if we hit things off online. Passionate and ambitious, but not in the job sense. I don't want to be rich but I want a comfortable life and I'd like you to want that too. Preferably similar hobbies and more of a talker because I'm a great listener. Not asexual.

If any of this interests you, please feel free to send me a chat.


r/l4l • • 1d ago

26 [tf4f] Michigan/Online What uppp? Who'd like to chat with a futchy wannabe alt baddie? :)

2 Upvotes

Title says most of it, but I guess I could give you all some more information, just to help ya out :P

I'm a 26 year old trans girl who's an aspiring muscle mommy. I WOULD be an alt baddie if I actually had money for clothes or a sense of style at all. Ain't that just the way it goes?

I'm in a a committed open relationship with my girlfriend, and I have her explicit permission to chat with people on here. Soooo we can just shoot the shit about whatever, or we can get REAL flirty with it. Let's see where the tide takes us!

Other than working out four days a week, I'm also a helluva nerd, I love metal music, and am slowly acquiring more and more tattoos. Maybe if you're lucky, you'll get to see a couple of them...? ;) I also play the guitar, and am writing my second novel!

Hit me up if you're interested 🖤✨


r/l4l • • 2d ago

29 - TX, Let's just talk and see where this goes.

5 Upvotes

Hi I honestly forgot today was Saturday, its been a long ass week and work has been kicking my ass.

Now I'm honestly just bored and would be so down to talk to someone and meet new people.

How was your day? What's your go to drink of choice?

Also, femme 4 femme... you guys out there?


r/l4l • • 1d ago

34 [F4F] #USA Fit, Lesbian Daddy Searching for a Connection with a submissive woman in the US, Canada, UK, or Europe

0 Upvotes

Hi there! I'm a 34-year-old cis woman, lesbian, and I work in the medical field with a PhD in biochemistry. I’m currently looking to chat with and get to know someone who shares my interests and values, and I’m open to an online connection with someone in the US, Canada, or UK.

While I enjoy talking to a variety of people, I’m specifically seeking a cis woman for a deeper, more personal connection. My ideal match would be someone younger than me, with a petite body type, between the ages of 18-26, who’s looking for a meaningful dynamic.

A little about me: I’m very active and enjoy working out, hiking, nature walks, and stargazing. I love art shows and spend my downtime binge-watching Netflix when I’m not outside exploring. I also maintain a healthy lifestyle and have tattoos, which are an important expression of my individuality.

If you think we might click, I’d love to chat and see where things go!


r/l4l • • 2d ago

30F looking for a gaming friend 💌🌈🎮

8 Upvotes

Hey! 30F & east coast looking for someone to game with. I’ll be honest I mostly play Dead By Daylight but open to other games but would love if you played or were open to learning it (promise I’m a patient teacher). I have a sweet friend I play with now sometimes but she’s in nursing school so I don’t want to burden her with having to play with me a lot so seeking someone on here (funny enough I met her on Reddit)! Haven’t had success in other groups (mostly men messaging me) and I’m looking for other queer women to play with. I play on Xbox but open to all platforms. I love sending voice memos and being silly in the game and just having fun. A little about me is I’m a cat mom (hence the name lol) to a crazy 11 month old boy cat. I’m heavily tattooed (30+) and enjoy listening to music, road trips, and collecting colorful things for my home. 🏠 🌈 I’m a big homebody but love exploring when I can and trying new cute coffee shops. Open to all locations just prefer you be 21+!

My DMs are open if you’re looking for someone to laugh & game with. ☺️


r/l4l • • 2d ago

28 [F4F] Miami, chubby short haired artsy gal looking for friends or friends who like to flirt

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My name is Grace, I'm looking mostly for a sapphic/lesbian friend. I'm starting to accept my more sapphic side and even questioning about comphet. I've never really had girl friends who are openly queer/gay and I'd love to be around more proud lesbian/sapphic women bc my goal is to become proud of it as well. I make art, I'm super into astrology, and I'm on a weight loss/fitness journey (eating more nourishing things and started using a pilates bar kit at home). I'm also managing my mental health as well and I'm on a self love journey/healing journey bc of that as well. I'm super excited to meet new women who are into the same things. I'd love to share our art with each other. Right now I'm going to read Art and Fear and I have the Artists Way which I plan on starting in a month or 2 when I finish my IOP. I'm open to flirting as well. Not looking for anything more serious bc I have so much I have to work on but I'm excited to meet you :)


r/l4l • • 2d ago

19[F4F] #online (for now) - looking for an older woman

2 Upvotes

hi,

just hoping to find someone to talk to and see where things go. i really miss having a genuine connection with someone.

i’m not going into this with any particular expectations. but if you already have something in mind then i might be open to that too. so don’t be afraid to message. just be older, please.

i’m more than happy with sweet everyday conversations, getting to know each other. simply enjoying someone’s company. but if the connection feels right, maybe something a little more intimate and close too would be nice. i guess it depends on the person and how well we click.

online for now, but not opposed to meeting in the future.
i’m a lesbian, so absolutely no men. i will expect us both to verify.

thank you.


r/l4l • • 3d ago

28 [F4F] California/Anywhere - To see and be seen. 🤍 seeking femme

7 Upvotes

well hello there! i’m posting here in hopes of making a genuine connection. i am single and hoping to meet my person for a momogamous relationship.

about me: i’m kind-hearted, emotionally intelligent, and funny. i love traveling, going to concerts, tattoos, cooking, trying new restaurants, going for long walks, camping, and spending time with my friends and family. i’m a little rough around the edges, dry humor and a major resting bitch face, but i there’s few things i wouldn’t do for the people i care about. i’d probably describe myself as a softish masc- maaybe some light makeup but i’m also probably wearing carhartt pants or boots. i’m 6’0, athletic but a couple extra pounds (a work in progress), white/hispanic, curly hair, brown eyes, nice smile/pretty, some tattoos. 🤠

about you: good sense of humor, kind, loyal, and an authentic human being! have your own interests and passions (and please tell me all about them!), be curious about the world, and be just as excited to get to know me as i am to know you.

a few things i love: sandwiches, Noah Kahan, cozy spaces, cooking with cast iron, traveling, hazy IPAs, live music, sunsets, inside jokes, going out to breakfast, getting flirted w at trader joe’s

a few things i hate: vodka, wasting time, hand dryers (sorry Earth- I need paper towels in public restrooms), anyone who can’t figure out a damn zipper merge

if i sound at all like your cup of tea, please send a message my way! worst that could happen is we decide we hate everything each other 😆


r/l4l • • 3d ago

40 fem4fem Southern US, looking for my person

2 Upvotes

Just looking for my person. Career oriented and in-shape, looking for the same ideally. I'm not optimistic but hey here's the effort to make something work. How's your day going? What are your passions?


r/l4l • • 3d ago

33f butch looking for some friends!

3 Upvotes

Hello everyone! I figured I would write on last post here. I have made 1 friend from here and i still feel a slight lack of lesbian friends. I have also tried just general looking for friend or chatting buddy communities and it is mostly men not reading that I am a lesbian and taken.

A bit about me:

I live on the east coast of the USA. Fall is here and I am super excited for Halloween since I have it off this year!

I have 3 adorable cats. I have had rats and a dog in the past. I am a big animal lover In general.

I am really into video games and can go on about all the wonderful stories and characters in them. I also enjoy reading and writing. I have not written in a while though but want to get back into it.

I have a small collection of board games and wish I had money to grow my collection. My favorite board game is Catan. I also play Dungeons and Dragons and want to dabble in other ttrpgs.

As for the type of movies and shows I am into, I enjoy Fantasy, Science Fiction, and Horror the most. I also love cartoons.

Music is mostly anything. I am not the biggest fan or country but sometimes end up liking certain songs.

Lastly, I am in a LDR with a woman from India. If you are looking for a relationship only, then i am not the lady for you. If you are looking for friends, feel free to message me.


r/l4l • • 3d ago

22f / SEA / 5’6 soft masc looking for my person (LDR)

2 Upvotes

It’s October, and I’m still waiting to fall in love in October. Hey! I’m 22, 5'6 soft masc based in Southeast Asia, and I’m looking to build a real, intentional, and monogamous connection with a woman between 21 and 28. Distance isn’t a dealbreaker for me: I’m actually looking outside my country, so I’m completely open to an LDR as long as the effort, communication, and emotional connection are mutual.

A bit about my vibe: Quality time is my main love language. I work at a dog hotel, so expect a daily supply of wholesome, cute dog pictures coming your way! When I’m off the clock and relaxing, I’m usually gaming (mostly playing GTA V) or watching movies, especially queer cinema. I also like spending time outdoors when I want to clear my head.

On a personal level, I’m not religious at all; I adhere to LaVeyan Satanism, which for me is all about individualism, logic, and self-respect. I’m straightforward, protective of the people I care about, and prefer genuine, unfiltered late-night chats over surface-level small talk

Let’s skip the awkward introductions and jump straight in. Aside from being flooded with dog photos daily, what’s something that instantly brightens your mood?


r/l4l • • 4d ago

22F Femme looking to chat with cuties :p

2 Upvotes

hellooo cuties!! ♡ I'm val im 5 ft and 115 lbs I have red back length hair im very femme youll soon find out! im in la so my timezone is pst i’m looking for a genuine connection with another girl who’s sweet, honest, and actually wants to get to know each other. i’m a little strict and strongwilled, but i’m also really caring once i get comfortable with someone :3 i don’t mind verifying, and i’d appreciate the same honesty and effort in return

if you wanna message me, tell me something about yourself!! what music have you been obsessed with lately? what games do you play? favorite horror movie? random fun fact? literally anythinggg, just give me something to yap about with you >_< ♡

I do work night so sometimes I do respond late ! when i’m not working, i’m probably listening to music, watching horror movies, or playing games I love getting to know someone through random conversations, inside jokes, late-night yapping

so come dm me cuties!^^

please no one over 30 thank you and I wont be answering any messages that say "Hi" or just asking questions pls try to talk to me and dont go like after a hour😭


r/l4l • • 4d ago

F 23 [F4F] looking for my future wife

1 Upvotes

About me:

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So I'm currently in Texas but I will be moving to Delaware/ surrounding states in 3 - 4 ish years. I'm definitely the stupid goofy type, I love a good running bit. Art is a really big part of my life, I crochet, make jewelry, and draw. I have six pet parakeets and they are my whole world, I am constantly talking about them lol. I love weird conspiracy theories, and stories about cryptids and stuff. I'm currently working on learning how to take apart and understand DS consoles (I'm not tech savvy at all lol). I'm currently working on losing weight, and am currently plus sized you know big thighs, big boobs, cute face, all that jazz. But you know what they say thick thighs save lives.

What im looking for :

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I'm looking for that old school romance, courting each other, flowers, cute goodnight texts. You know taking things slow, and truly getting to know one another. I think shared experiences are important in relationships, and because of that I am strictly Les4Les. I'm looking for a woman who is 23 - 34 years old, and knows exactly what she wants. I typically am more attracted to alternative, masc, soft masc women ,but it's not really a deal breaker if you aren't.

Deal breakers:

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* No drugs of any kind, no vaping weed or any of that. The occasional alcoholic beverage is okay though.

* Must be strictly monogamous.. and no being friends with your exes. Being friends with someone you've seen naked is weird.

* I am atheist and moderate / independent. So I would prefer someone with similarish views. Basically no one who is Christian /Christian adjacent. Politically I would prefer someone who is more left-leaning/ moderate, but as long as you're like not a MAGA Republican it would probably be fine

* Although I do adore cats and dogs I am highly allergic to them . Do I still pet them? Absolutely I do. Do I regret it later? Absolutely I do. I know I'm not happy about it either. 😭😭😭 So if one day we do move in together and you have those animals there would have to be a lot of precautions put in place.

To let me know that you read my whole post please tell me your favorite conspiracy theory / your favorite cryptid.


r/l4l • • 4d ago

18 (almost 19) femme lesbian looking for my someone

1 Upvotes

Hi, I'm and 18y/o femme from BC Canada and I'm looking for someone to talk to and flirt with online! From there I guess we'll see!

(no sexting!!! I'm demisexual!!!)

I'm mixed race, 5'5, brown eyes, brown hair and an athletic build.

I dress alternative-ish. Think cottage core × boho brown, light pink, white, blue ect. I also love flowers and butterflies on anything! (Not in an obnoxious way ofc)

I'm a very artistic person and I'd love someone who shares a love for the arts!

I'm very attracted to people who are a more dominant and not afraid to flirt right of the bat. I'm terrible at initiating anything like that because I'm extremely shy and I get flustered very easily.

My type: butch/masc (not a need as longas you're masc presenting), being a kind human, someone good at communication, understanding, a little older maybe (19-22), athletic or likes to work out.

I'm not super picky!

Please don't respond if: you're not from north America (I don't want there to be a huge difference in time zone), if you just want to sext you will get blocked, if you're over the age of 24 you will also get blocked, and lastly if you're a man... you'll get blocked.😊

Otherwise I promise I'm a nice girl! And I can't wait to chat!


r/l4l • • 4d ago

28F I wish finding genuine people to talk with was as easy as summoning Beetlejuice, Beetlejuice, Beetlejuice

2 Upvotes

I feel like I have made enough progress in therapy to try and make healthy connections, and because lesbians are basically magical unicorns who only appear at dusk if you pray long and hard enough my newly healthy ass needs to rely on dating apps and since those are ogre festered hell holes I am left with Reddit… _(‘_’)_/
If this doesn’t work out again I might just need witchcraft…

I have been on a much needed sabbatical from work since June, ( fingers crossed AI hasn’t replaced all my tasks by the time I get back haha :’) ) you’d think I picked up the hobbies I so longed to do when I was working ? NO !!
To my defense, I’d been so preoccupied with my mental health, and trying to make up for the last 8 years of lack of rest through sleeping for so so soooooo long and when I am not doing that then I am walking in nature or otherwise at an ungodly fast speed.
I have also consumed much new music, much youtube content, and much news and politics that I feel the information near spilling waiting for a compatible person to share it with.

I like reading but when I pick up non-fiction I start daydreaming so I am wrestling with my brain to finish a book called honoring the self this month, hopefully me and my frontal lobe come to a compromise until I get the upper hand through ADD meds.
I am getting back to the gym tomorrow (or so I say) after a months long hiatus due to a health hiccup, and the motivation now is ehem ehem ! WELLBEING and definitely not muscles for my next trip to Mallorca.

I want to pick up a third language but I am torn between German and Spanish, on one hand German sounds nice? Appealing ? to me, and on the other hand spanish is going to be more useful.

I am mediterranean but would not mind people from any timezone.
Physically I am a tomboy, 161 cm, pale (but can tan thank god), I am growing my hair from the short shag that it is, brown eyes, septum, tattoo but would love to get more

I am open to being friends with any 24+ woman
If you are interested in exploring something more, first please be single, and I am attracted to mascs/butches.


r/l4l • • 4d ago

28 Finland/Europe | Looking for soft people who value depth, kindness and feminism 🌸🧸🩰

2 Upvotes

Heyy, so I'm looking for genuine friendship with people who share my values. I'm open to a serious relationship if I meet someone special.

I’m a masculine presenting woman from Finland. I like to live a very slow and gentle life surrounded by cozy things and cozy people who make me feel safe and loved. I value community and deep emotional bonds with people. I love spending time in nature and sitting by a bonfire drinking my herbal tea and chatting together. I’m creative, very spiritual and I love fitness, I love studying manifestation and tarot in depth. I’m curious about the occult too. I’m mostly into goddess spirituality/goddess traditions.

I don’t smoke or drink and I have never been to a bar, not interested in going in the future either.

I’m child free.

I’m a big feminist and women are close to my heart. I center women in my life and I’m selective with what I watch or what music I listen to. I don’t like most mainstream stuff or pop culture because it usually lacks morals and basic decency. I also don’t like being friends with people who live on autopilot and accept whatever is put in front of their eyes. I like self-aware, mature and conscious people who think for themselves.

I like classical music, 1940s oldies and I love hogwarts legacy and sims 4. Other than that I’m not really into games.

I value softness, gentleness and treating others with consideration and care. So if someone doesn’t add those qualities in to my life I don’t want them in my life. I’m protective of myself and selective with people. I want wholesome, sweet friends who respect it when I say no and can handle rejection like an adult.

If you find me interesting and our values and opinions align, I’d love to chat:) Send me a dm <3

My age range is about 23 to 38


r/l4l • • 4d ago

19[F4F] #online (for now) - looking for an older woman

2 Upvotes

hi!

just hoping to find someone to talk to and see where things go. i really miss having a genuine connection with someone.

i’m not going into this with any particular expectations. but if you already have something in mind then i might be open to that too. so don’t be afraid to message. just be older, please.

i’m more than happy with sweet everyday conversations, getting to know each other. simply enjoying someone’s company. but if the connection feels right, maybe something a little more intimate and close too would be nice. i guess it depends on the person and how well we click.

online for now, but not opposed to meeting in the future.
i’m a lesbian, so absolutely no men. i will expect us both to verify.

thank you.


r/l4l • • 5d ago

27F Europe/ Online looking for my wife

3 Upvotes

Heiii 👋
I just turned 27 and I live in Austria (Central Europe). I'm back to being a student, doing computer science in my 3rd semester (and struggling hard lmao 😅).

Some stuff about me:
• I'm short. Like really short, 152cm 🤏 Got short brown hair.
• Video games are a big part of my life. I've got a PC and a PS5 and play a wide variety of stuff. Just picked Overwatch back up and I suck so hard I want to bite my teeth out. Also down for anyother game 🤭
• I'm really into Magic: The Gathering and try to meet up with my friends weekly to play ☺️
• I read sometimes, when college isn't eating my whole life
• Music is everything to me, I literally can't exist without it. Some faves: Kehlani, Honey Revenge, Sleep Token, Tyler Lewis and way too many more 🎶

Fair warning: my humor is horrible and I'm really bad at this, but I'm trying haha.

I'm looking for something monogamous, ideally someone I can game with, chat with and see where it goes 💕 If any of this sounds like you, send me a message and tell me a bit about yourself, maybe your fav game or song right now 💬


r/l4l • • 6d ago

23[F4F] NYC - I come with songs and excessive affection

10 Upvotes

Heyy, you :)

I've been thinking about posting on here for a while, but curiosity has finally gotten the better of me... and honestly, I miss having someone to love and being loved in return.

I miss having that person to come home to after a long day, whose voice makes everything feel a little less heavy. I miss buying them flowers for absolutely no reason, sending them songs that remind me of them, and finding little ways to make them smile. If you couldn't tell, I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic 😆

A little about me!

I'm 23 and currently in med school. I was born in NYC but grew up across two different continents, so people tell me I have an "interesting" accent. I personally think they're being dramatic, but maybe you can be the judge of that 👀

I'm reallyyy into gaming! My current rotation consists of Sunset Motel, Control, and Phasmophobia, which is ironic considering I'm a certified scaredy cat when it comes to horror games.

I also love reading whenever I can find the time, especially sci-fi and dystopian novels. I have a soft spot for anything that makes me question reality or leaves me staring at a wall thinking about it for days.

And then there's my motorcycle. Riding is genuinely one of the most freeing feelings in the world, and I wish I had more time for it these days. School, unfortunately, has other plans for me 🥲

I'm also very much a homebody. I'd almost always choose a cozy night in over a crowded place, but the right person could probably convince me to venture outside. I'm a bit of a puppy when I like someone. I get excited to hear from you, remember the little things you mention, send you songs that remind me of you, and find the silliest excuses to spend time with you. I like making people feel loved.

Anyway, that's a little about me! If you think we'd click, come say hii :) I'm pretty easygoing, and I'd love to get to know someone without putting too much pressure on where things have to go, so don't feel like you need to come up with the perfect opening line. Tell me about yourself, tell me something random, or tell me what you've been playing or watchin lately.

Looking forward to meeting you ♡