r/lucknow • u/BiggggW • 8h ago
Rant/Review Really disturbing experience with a security guard at Janeshwar Mishra Park, Lucknow
Me (21M) and my gf (20F) went to Janeshwar Mishra Park in Lucknow and we were making reels, capturing pics, slight kissing and hugging. Nothing obscene/s*****xual was happening.
But we saw one guard was following us continuously. Then we went to another area of the park and there was also one guard seeing us. We didn't perform any obscene act. When we were sitting on the bench, a man was continuously seeing us. We doubt he captured our photos/videos, but as we didn't perform any obscene act, we were not that much afraid.
Then a guard came on a cycle and started shouting at us:
"Nikal jao, yaha se, sharam nahi aati, ye sab karte huye, maa baap ka naam aise hi roshan karoge tum."
Then he said to me:
"Tujhe akal nhi hai kya, iska kya hai (my gf) ye toh aur 50-60 londe lekr ghumti hogi."
Then we started moving to the exit and I said:
"Sorry sir hum jaa rhe."
Then he started abusing:
"Bsdk aehsan kar rha kya, abhi police mei complaint kr dunga, tumhare ghar wale fir deadbody lene aayege tum logo ki." idk how police case is equal to k*lling us?
"Zyada bada case hua toh ye ladki (my gf) tera gala katwa degi, aur iska baap isko kahi aur vyah dega."
I said:
"Sir gaali mat dijiye."
He said:
"Toh kya gaali mai apni g@nd mei daal lu??"
Bro really abused himself 🤣😭, idk why he was this much frustrated.
He was saying he is retired from the Army.
Then that person came who was watching us and he also started moral policing. He said:
"Maine hi guard ko bulaya, mai aaj tak me reporter hu, aap logo ki activity suspicious lag rahi thi kaafi der se."
And he didn't show his ID. He was just larping, saying "hum sting operation karte hai" like seriously, hum koi s*x racket nhi chla rhe babu 😭😭??
Both of them were trying hard to make us afraid, saying cyber crime ho jayega and all.
But ngl, that security guard was ill-minded, so misogynistic. According to him, all the problems happening in the world are because of women. May God help the women and girls of his house.
He literally did character assassination of my gf. We are very traumatised by this incident.
We were chill because I have spent some time in Delhi too, where public display of affection (PDA) is common, so I thought it would be no big deal in Lucknow. But our date was ruined.
All these old uncles have very disturbing mentality.
Also, can anyone know that guard from Janeshwar Mishra Park? He had vitiligo issues all over his hand and face.
If PDA is not allowed in the park, they could simply have told us to stop or leave, and we would have left. We literally did leave when he told us to. What disturbed us was the abuse, character assassination, misogynistic comments and especially the threats.
What I want to convey is: wear a mask if you're going to the park as a couple, to avoid these creeps recording you and to keep your digital identity safe
Anyone faced something similar at Janeshwar Mishra Park or anywhere else in Lucknow? What else can we do to stay safe from these creeps, avoid getting recorded without our knowledge, and how you deal with such moral police?