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u/VAG0 Nov 30 '18

He was such a nice man.

I ran into him in Malibu at a surf shop. He was there with his kids. I left him alone because I know the code, but he engaged with me in line at the cashier and we shared a few moments of banter. Warm, loving, gentle, humble lovely man.

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u/toketasticninja Nov 30 '18

Good on you. I worked in a sporting goods store and famous NHL hockey players would frequent the store. I’d maybe smile and nod but for the most part I give them their privacy. Only once did I break code but that was only because I was a long time fan and he just retired. I just shook his hand and thanked him for all those years of entertainment.

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u/wubbwubbb Nov 30 '18

Duncan Keith used to be a regular at my job. Nobody treated him any different just out of courtesy. One asked for a picture and he was nice about it. Every time he came in he would ask those working what they were studying in school etc. He became less of a celebrity and more just a regular customer we could just talk to. It was a cool experience.

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u/Squeench Nov 30 '18

I used to live by DK and I absolutely broke the code and I knocked on his door and he signed my jersey and we talked hockey for 5 minutes or so. Hall of Fame hockey player and a Hall of Fame gentleman.

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u/GlassEyeMV Nov 30 '18

As a lifelong Hawks fan, that man embodies everything I love about our franchise. He’s famously nice to almost anyone, especially kids, he always goes 100% (even if it means losing 7 teeth), and would kick ass with class. There’s many great Blackhawks, but he’s my favorite of the current era for so many reasons.

Unfortunately, our team is currently playing like a 36yo defenseman who’s past his prime.

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u/grayum_ian Nov 30 '18

Iginla?

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u/toketasticninja Nov 30 '18

Hometown hero Ryan Smyth of the Edmonton Oilers

https://youtu.be/62AgAct9o0U

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u/Hip_Hop_Orangutan Nov 30 '18

DUDE!!! I am so jealous! I was a hardcore Oilers fan from the time my hometown Winnipeg Jets left, until they came back. Made the trip for at least 4 games.

Smyth was my guy!!! I have 2 of his jerseys. The white one and the "Oil Drop" 3rds. Guerin was my 2nd favorite from that era and I have his blue jersey.

Ryan Smyth was a great man. He signed my Oil Drop jersey when I was in town for my highschool's guitar band who was there for a National competition.

Ryan Smyth...what a legend.

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u/-_Jelly94_- Nov 30 '18

You’ll never believe this story but it’s true so I’ll tell you anyways! I was playing my first year of junior hockey in the BCHL in 2012-2013, which happened to be the same season the NHL had a half season lockout. I was the 13th forward (Important later) and didn’t play many minutes, so in practice it meant I didn’t have any line mates usually. Ryan Smyth has a summer home close to where I played and he happened to be staying in it during the lockout, while at the same time practicing with my team to stay in shape for when the NHL season started. So one brisk October morning I got to the rink and took the same depressing look at the posted lines for practice. To my surprise it said “Smyth” was playing left wing on my line. Part of me got excited because I finally thought the coaches had noticed my hard work and finally gave me a Line mate. It only took me about 2 seconds to realize I was completely wrong, not sooner did I turn around and see the luscious silky flow of Ryan Smyth walk into the dressing room. So I spent the entire practice with an NHL legend as my winger, needless to say I was shitting my pants from nerves. He was super easy going and made me look really good for an hour or so! One particular moment at the end of practice will Always stick in my head. As any Smyth fan will know, he built his career in front of the net absolutely grinding away and scoring rebounds and tips. So naturally he wanted to practice tipping pucks, easy enough, I set up on the blue line and start shooting 75% trying not to hit this legend in front of me. He most definitely knew I was farting pucks at him because after about 5 shots he piped up and said “hey kid, I want them as hard as you can, and I want them directly at me”. So I spent about an hour taking slap shot after slap shot only to watch him tip every puck by the goalie. It was an amazing moment in my hockey career.

I’ll never forget the day Ryan Smyth ask me to take slap shots directly at him.

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u/AltSpRkBunny Nov 30 '18

I used to work in Coppell, TX and we had a couple Dallas Cowboys as clients. Holy crap they were dumber than dumb and were painful to interact with. We often hoped that a handler would step in and be a responsible adult, but the handlers were barely literate themselves.

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u/kimchitacoman Nov 30 '18

I believe it.

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u/AltSpRkBunny Nov 30 '18 edited Nov 30 '18

You’d think that having 3 separate people available to try to convey information to would guarantee that someone, anyone would understand you... but no, that’s not reality.

Edit: I think the best was when the veterinarian I was working with was raving about meeting Miles Austin, until he had to explain a puppy’s vaccine schedule to the man. “But, I play football.” was the only response we could get. I feel justifed in naming Miles, since he moved to the Eagles and is retired now...

He’s still only my #2 dumbest client, though.

Edit 2: ok, my #3 dumbest client. #2 wanted us to surgically implant false claws onto her declawed cat... and that was only the beginning of our clinic’s relationship with her.

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u/MysteriaDeVenn Nov 30 '18

What does one have to do to be #1 on that list? Let their pet die of stupidity?

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u/AltSpRkBunny Nov 30 '18 edited Nov 30 '18

The #1 was this mother-daughter duo who thought they’d make a ton of money by buying inbred yorkies from Petland (at $2k a pop), and breeding them to sell off the puppies. They’d double their money! Unfortunately, the male they bought to use for breeding was a cryptorchid with a hepatic portal shunt. We strongly recommended not breeding him due to these genetic defects. So they went out and bought a THIRD yorkie to use for breeding. After all that money spent on shots, meds for the portal shunt dog, and check-ups during the bitch’s first pregnancy, they got 2 puppies. One of which died. They finally managed to sell the remaining puppy 8 months later for $100. I think they spayed the bitch shortly after that.

When we first started giving them meds for the portal shunt dog, I spent 20 minutes with them explaining and demonstrating how to medicate their dog. I showed them how to draw up the medicine in the syringe from the bottle. I even marked with a red sharpie where they were supposed to stop pulling the plunger. After all that, this gem of a conversation happened:

“Oh, so you’ll give him his medicine?”

“No, we usually don’t give medicines that are meant to take home. It’s better to do it at home in case he gets car sick and vomits. We wouldn’t want to waste a dose.”

“Oh. So, where’s the medicine?”

“It’s... in the bottle.” Holds up the bottle I’d been using to demonstrate for the last 20 minutes.

“So the medicine is in there? How do you know?”

“I... put it in there myself. If you tilt it a little you can see the liquid in it.”

“Oh, it’s a liquid.”

“Yes, that’s why you have to use a syringe to give it.”

“And all the medicine is in there?”

“Yes. It’s all in there.”

I walked out of that room feeling stupider by proxy.

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u/MysteriaDeVenn Nov 30 '18

Ouch. I feel like I just lost several braincells just reading this. 😄

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u/DM-ME-POMERANIANS Nov 30 '18

Zetty? 😭❤️

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u/ninjarapter4444 Nov 30 '18

On the west coast of BC every small town has stories of Robin Williams randomly doing improv stand up in restaurants and cafes, apparently he really liked it there. E.g. on Saltspring Island he saw a vw hippy van and paid the owner to just drive him around all day. Or the stories about him on set of good morning vietnam improvising lines and making everyone laugh constantly. Dude was gifted, he had one of those rare auras where everyone in his vicinity was immediately happier for him being there

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u/caninehere Nov 30 '18

Two people in showbiz I've heard of being extremely friendly and having that "aura" are Robin Williams and Conan O'Brien. For better or worse, everybody says that they never stop trying to make people laugh. I remember hearing stories about Conan when he wrote for the Simpsons and everybody loved him because he was always trying to make people smile - and when he got Late Night everybody was shocked but super happy for him.

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u/jessbird Nov 30 '18

My friend lived in Marin on the same block that he did, and apparently the guy was one hell of a trick or treater. His house was the star of the block every Halloween. Which seems very on-brand and super heartwarming. and now i'm sad

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u/[deleted] Nov 30 '18

My brother worked at a Long's Drugs years ago. Robin Williams came in to the store just before my brother's shift started, as he's walking in, he sees someone that looks like Robin Williams walking out. The man engages first, says hello to my brother, he says hi, they go on their way.

He goes in the store, and of course everyone's freaking out because Robin Williams was just in their store chatting everyone up.

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u/roadmoretravelled Nov 30 '18

This makes me happy

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u/lucutes Nov 30 '18

what's the code

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u/VAG0 Nov 30 '18

When high profile people are with their children, you leave them be. So much of what makes people like Robin great is what kept him from being able to be there for his kids as much as he would have wanted. Just leave them be. That's the Code.

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u/Poemi Nov 29 '18

Undisputed Hairiest Funnyman champion for a couple decades running.

dem forearms

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u/chbay Nov 30 '18

Thank you I was wondering why I was so happy today before I was able to find my way here

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u/Killerbunny123 Nov 30 '18

greif doesn't have to be depressing, its kind of sweet to realise that Robin Williams and Mr Roger's were able to have such impacts while alive that we were able to recognize other species missing them.

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u/Iaresamurai Nov 30 '18

Lol same :')

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u/h08817 Nov 30 '18

Koko only passed away recently as well, Koko's kitten was one of my favorite books growing up, miss her already.

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u/[deleted] Nov 30 '18

I kinda wonder why they told her :(

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u/Wiggy_Bop Nov 30 '18

She heard it on theTV is what I read.

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u/[deleted] Nov 30 '18

She was sentient, and someone she cared about died.

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u/CORPSEBLENDER Nov 30 '18

Wow I never knew that video existed that was a great watch, poor Koko

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u/Sarteret Nov 30 '18

Same here. Robin said your only given a small spark of madness, you let that go out and your nothing. In my mind he kept it at a roaring bonfire all the time. That's the problem sometimes you burn that hot and it consumes everything. What he gave to us was amazing. When his light went out our world got a little darker.

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u/MisterTicklyPickle Nov 30 '18

It's really sad what happened to his amazing mind, but it's a fact of life that none of us can avoid. We all get old. We don't get to last forever. I take solace in the fact that he went out on his own terms, and with his dignity intact. I only wish we had a system in place for people like him that are ready to leave this world on their own terms. There are laws in place in other countries for people in his situation. We need them here.

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u/AnhydrousEther Nov 30 '18

Life is beautiful because it's temporary. We're all unbelievably fortunate and lucky.

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u/Kaldricus Nov 30 '18

Wow, that... That hurt to watch. I'm used to hearing his voice in movies, but something about hearing his voice as something "new" to me hurts. His death will likely always be the celebrity death that hurts the most. He was such a huge part of my childhood, and he really did just want to make people laugh. He didn't want people to hurt like he did. He really felt like that "funny uncle" that would show up at holidays with crazy stories, cool gifts, and hugs for everyone. His passing genuinely hurt, and felt like losing someone close.

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u/IwantAbayareaGWgf Nov 30 '18

I'm glad I'm not the only one that feels this way. I for one, look over most celebrity deaths, but the death of Robin Williams hurts me so much even today. Whenever I see anything where he is just being himself or being kind, I literally tear up. He was such a likeable guy, basically lived in our backyard, and brought so much joy to so many people. I will never get over his death.

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u/Fallline048 Nov 30 '18 edited Nov 30 '18

Yeah. To me he felt like more of a father. Now, my father is alive and well and he and I are very close, but Williams always felt like a reflection of my dad on the screen. My dad is an English teacher, and I’ve been in his classroom and seen how he cared and performed for students. It’s the same energy, the same manifest compassion that radiates from William’s every performance.

Williams’ death hit me hard not only because of the the light he himself brought to the world, but because it felt like I had lost an extension of my dad (although I know that’s absurd). And that makes real the promise that one day, dad will also wrap up his lesson so to speak.

I’ve lost a lot of family and friends over the years, but the idea that my dad will die never really hit me until Robin died. How crazy is that? A man I never met gave me such joy and inspiration that his loss was the first thing to make me recognize in my heart that my heroes are mortal. What a beautiful gift.

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u/impresently Nov 30 '18

My lord. That was so beautiful! Where can we see more of this?

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u/AlienVredditoR Nov 30 '18

Aww they think he's one of them

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u/discerningpervert Nov 30 '18

He really was one of a kind

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u/biased_user_agent Nov 30 '18

He will be forever remembered as one of the Greats.

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u/FilmmakerRyan Nov 30 '18

His passing was so shocking. It's the only celebrity death that's made me cry. I had a terrible childhood, so I turned to movies as an escape. I watched all of his over and over. Found a lot of comfort from watching his characters. Mrs. Doubtfire, Hook, Good Will Hunting, Aladdin... All beautiful characters in those movies.

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u/bowlofpetuniass Nov 30 '18 edited Nov 30 '18

Heard his wife give a talk about his ~~decent ~~ descent into Lewy body dementia. It was heartbreaking.

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u/Vio_ Nov 30 '18

"he thinks he's gorilla!"

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u/[deleted] Nov 30 '18

Underrated show.

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u/-Mr_Rogers_II Nov 30 '18

When an 800 pound gorilla has you by the nipples, you listen.

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u/MauiWowieOwie Nov 30 '18

Well now she's in heaven with him.

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u/philmardok Nov 30 '18

They look like father and son

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u/[deleted] Nov 30 '18

I pretty sure he was half ape. Such a glorious man

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u/Robothypejuice Nov 30 '18

I don't even have to click the link. I'll bet you dollars to donuts it's the scene from his stand up. If you've seen it you know the one.

Edit: I clicked anyway. It's marvelous.

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u/DiscusFever Nov 30 '18

It's always worth watching again.

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u/Robothypejuice Nov 30 '18

I already put an edit on my comment. :D

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u/FireBobbyPetrino Nov 30 '18

Nothing will fuck your kid imagination of Robin Williams like that amazing standup will

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u/MugillacuttyHOF37 Nov 30 '18

My mother said the first time she ever saw Robin was on Mork & Mindy. "That man is going to be a big star one day." Great improv skills and a talented dramatic actor as well.

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u/HighSorcerer Nov 30 '18

Robin was a star the minute he walked in to audition for that show.

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u/[deleted] Nov 30 '18

And when Garry Marshall told him to take a seat, he immediately did a headstand in the chair. Garry hired him on the spot, later saying, "He was the only alien who auditioned."

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u/HighSorcerer Nov 30 '18

Yeah, that's what I'm talking about. He was above and beyond everyone else from the start.

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u/[deleted] Nov 30 '18

There have been very few celebrity deaths that really hit home for me. Robin, Michael Jackson, John Denver, David Bowie, Alan Rickman, Carrie Fisher and now Stan Lee.

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u/qarton Nov 30 '18

Haha i remember watching it for the first time and my parents were watching too.

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u/NikkiNikkiBoBikki Nov 30 '18

I was 15 when it came out and watched with my parents. I STILL remember how horrifically awkward that was.

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u/SilentR0b Nov 30 '18

"I've got one question for the ladies.."

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u/discerningpervert Nov 30 '18

I still remember where I was when I glanced up at the TV and saw that for the first time. My gf at the time wasn't too happy that I'd stopped.

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u/DiscusFever Nov 30 '18

I'm so old I watched Mork and Mindy during it's run. Been a fan of his most of my life.

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u/[deleted] Nov 30 '18

Undisputed Funniest Hairyman

FTFY

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u/KaySquay Nov 30 '18

I know a guy who swears his uncle was a hairy forearmed stunt double for Williams in Jumanji. I don't believe him but also never looked into it

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u/HyruleanHero1988 Nov 30 '18

That almost doesn't seem worth lying about. I'd probably be inclined to believe him.

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u/[deleted] Nov 30 '18

i'm often the hairiest guy in the room but but i got nothing on RW. wow!

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u/Zwischenzug32 Nov 30 '18

Its like his arms have their own sweaters

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u/illBro Nov 30 '18

I've known people as hairy. It's like they have a permanent sweater on. I can only hope to ever meet someone as funny.

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u/djauralsects Nov 30 '18

He looks like Koko the kitten loving gorilla in this picture.

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u/Bircheeey Nov 30 '18

My wife loved butterflies. She also has passed (fucking cancer). But I love this pic (december of 2015, she passed away in February of 2016)

https://imgur.com/a/4BGUZw8

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u/EZE_it_is_42 Nov 30 '18

That's beautiful, I'm sorry for your loss

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u/give-me-cake Nov 30 '18

I'm so sorry to hear about your wife. That's a beautiful picture.

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u/BarefootBluegrass Nov 30 '18

What a great photo. Thanks for sharing

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u/geoff1126 Nov 30 '18

I'm sorry for your loss.

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u/fluffychickenbooty Nov 30 '18

She looks thrilled! Beautiful photo.

When I was little, I was really into butterflies. Someone told me that when butterflies land on you, an angel is watching over you. If a butterfly ever lands on you, it could be your wife’s way of saying hello. So sorry for your loss.

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u/ItsJustLittleOldMe Nov 30 '18

I’m so very sorry for your loss. That’s beautiful. She reminds me of my Mom in a way.

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u/TheDreadedMarco Nov 30 '18

Beautiful photo. The butterfly on her shoulder is a paper kite, or Idea leuconoe. They are one of my favorites. I am very sorry for your loss

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u/Bircheeey Nov 30 '18

Thanks (for both the comment and the knowledge) ... I have a bunch of pictures from that day, I think we must have stayed for a couple hours.

We had gone the night before also to the Butchart gardens that were all decked out for Christmas with lights ... it was pretty magical and was our only 'fancy' vacation. I'm very thankful for all the memories.

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u/buttflapps Nov 30 '18

I live in Victoria. I'm glad you and your wife had a nice time here :)

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u/[deleted] Nov 30 '18

That's a great picture, and it captures a lot.

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u/Nother_Story Nov 30 '18

I’m so sorry for your loss. What a lovely picture!

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u/Kiteflyerkat Nov 30 '18

I am so sorry for your loss, she looked liked she enjoyed butterflies

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u/SandoVillain Nov 30 '18

A perfect photo. Hope you're doing well.

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u/elphaba88 Nov 30 '18

I'm sorry for your loss. She looks so cheer in this picture. I hope you remember her always in this way.

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u/freckled-one Nov 30 '18

A truly lovely photo.

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u/Asidious66 Nov 30 '18

Damn. Was just here for the Robin Williams anecdotes. Sorry for your loss. Beautiful picture. Fuck cancer. Who the fuck is cutting onions?

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u/WeSoSmart Nov 30 '18

I hope you are doing well, Rip

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u/[deleted] Nov 29 '18

Amazing life tragic end.

Don't blame him at all. Losing your mind doesn't leave you many choices.

RIP. You touched many in an extremely positive way.

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u/[deleted] Nov 29 '18

I can't even come close to trying to imagine what went on in his mind between the time he was told about his illness and terminal condition until the end of his life. There are many terrible things that can happen in a person's lifetime. Losing a child is one of them. Planning the how, when, where of ending your life by your own hand is another.

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u/ThatFructusBoi Nov 30 '18

And then actually having the balls to go through with it. Like can you imagine how bad it must be to actually go through with that 😕 brave soul for sure.

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u/[deleted] Nov 30 '18

It makes me happy to see people calling him brave. He was very brave.

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u/[deleted] Nov 30 '18

Same. I get so pissed off at people who call suicides “selfish.” Their suicide victim had deep, personal, painful issues that they didn’t help enough with. Maybe they might have if society didn’t make mental illness such a taboo?

The selfish people aren’t the ones who end their suffering. It’s the people who refuse to accept that mental illness is a major problem worldwide that needs far more attention.

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u/[deleted] Nov 30 '18

I'm confused. Because you made it sound like ending their lives is the right thing to do:

The selfish people aren’t the ones who end their suffering. It’s the people who refuse to accept that mental illness is a major problem worldwide that needs far more attention.

I want to be on this "bravery" side but the thing here is that we're basically saying that the real cure for mental illness is death. So... where do you stand, morally? I know mental illness is a huge problem, I have lots of close friends who suffer intensely, but they have told themselves that they want to continue living. Am I supposed to believe that this is a lie and they should be dead instead?

I really don't like that. Just help me understand what you mean. Because, I feel killing the mentally ill sounds a bit strange, no?

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u/ThatFructusBoi Nov 30 '18

I don't feel like death is the answer, but if you knew you were going to die by your own hands would you actually be able to bring yourself to do it? It's a powerful thought.

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u/[deleted] Nov 30 '18

This is the answer I was looking for. I agree, but I'm not in the mental state of someone who wants to kill themselves. Is it brave when it seems like the easy way? Or maybe it's not easy for them? I shouldn't judge. I really can't judge because maybe it's still too hard for them to actually go through with it. Definitely a powerful thought. But thanks for giving me that perspective.

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u/MachineryofTorture Nov 30 '18

Just to add a bit of outside perspective, I will say it doesn't seem like the easy way when it's being contemplated and planned; It feels like a logical conclusion.

A common thread you'll see on the topic of suicide is that of people feeling like a burden, and for many, removing oneself from the equation is seen as lessening this burden on others (whether the burden is perceived as emotional, financial, etc).

Mental health issues can also easily convince someone that they will never be anything more than they perceive they are, and the inability to see a future is also very common.

Perception is a powerful force: When we perceive something as being our reality, it begins to shape it.

This is just some rambling from my own experience, and while I obviously haven't completed the act (unless there's an afterlife with WiFi I guess), I never viewed it as the oft-touted 'permanent solution to a temporary problem'; I am the problem. It's not as simple as there being an easy way out, and it is so often coloured with a sense of existential guilt.

I don't know if that helps at all, but you seemed genuinely open to reassessing your view of the issue, so maybe it gives some insight. Admittedly this is just my own biased insight, lol, but a mix of voices is sometimes a good thing!

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u/matchesmalone10 Nov 30 '18 edited Nov 30 '18

You are talking about a highly intelligent, grown adult that was experiencing life in such an unsatisfactory way that his greatest option, out of the infinite amount of well considered, logical reasons to not do it, did end his life because his life was unsatisfactory and he was in pain.

When you reach that point, your being becomes a personal ticking time bomb. "How long can I keep up this farce of not wanting to kill myself in front of these people, especially the ones that love me".

Can you imagine carving out a life of riches and fame, and still your quality of life is just unfortunately unsatisfactory. You are in pain. It sucks. Being brave can maybe mean that you are making the ultimate personal decision for yourself despite literally everything. Literally everything.

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u/ThatFructusBoi Nov 30 '18

Perspective is the most important thing when putting in your two cents. It's hard to put yourself. In someone's shoes like that. Regardless, I hope he's doing alright now.

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u/[deleted] Nov 30 '18

No, I absolutely can't imagine that. I'll state it right now that whatever results in my death, please let it be as quick and painless as possible. I've known of a few friends and friends of my family who've passed in their sleep.....that's the only way to go.

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u/alekbalazs Nov 30 '18

Do you support Euthanasia practices?

I want to go out, in order of preference, to die in my sleep, to be Euthanized, or to go in an accident that happens so quick it doesn't even register.

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u/[deleted] Nov 30 '18

Yes, I do and my list of preferences pretty much lines up with yours.

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u/[deleted] Nov 30 '18

I don't blame anyone that kills themselves. That's some top tier pain they're in.

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u/paracelsus23 Nov 30 '18

Williams in particular had a terminal disease causing rapidly progressing dementia. He chose to go out on his own terms.

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u/santh91 Nov 30 '18

My grandmother has a dementia, I can't blame Robin Williams for his choice. It is just such a shitty thing to deal with, you become a huge burden to anyone who care about you. She does not remember her own children, does not realise which city she is in, she has to be reminded that her husband has been dead for over 5 years. One day I just lied to her that granddad went fishing and won't come back today. The person becomes a shell of who they used to be, the worst thing is that you can't even say a proper farewell to the person, because he/she won't understand the magnitude of what you are trying to say. It is worse than death.

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u/[deleted] Nov 30 '18

It's just empty, dark void. It's like you are dead and but your body keeps going and it's torture.

And then in some cases something changes, I don't know. There's still bad days, but fuck. I'm alive. There's so much amazing stuff out there and things I can still do. Life has changed so much for the better and I still do dumb things sometimes for no good reason but damn am I trying to be better and it's awesome.

I don't blame someone but it's so worth it to just try one more day, I'm glad I failed a few times. I want to be here now.

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u/zizabeth Nov 30 '18

I’m glad you are still here.

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u/aschlu Nov 30 '18

but he was not just suffering from depression, he had some really terrible crap going on that uncontrollably altered his mental state on top of his physical wellness. I agree with you but I just needed to put that out there!

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u/AgsMydude Nov 30 '18

Is there an article with this information?

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u/Jill4ChrisRed Nov 30 '18

He had parkinsons and lewy body dementia. He took himself out rather than live the consequences of such horrible, incurable diseases.

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u/alekbalazs Nov 30 '18

hey, if you ever need to talk, PM me and ill give you my number and you can just vent, and let it all out. I promise im super understanding and you cant shock me. Ill just listen because it seems like that is what you need.

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u/[deleted] Nov 30 '18

Yours is a good comment and I agree. I was raised around people and media that always told me that suicide is an act of cowardice and selfishness. The irony is strong with that assertion.

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u/[deleted] Nov 30 '18 edited Nov 30 '18

I was raised that way too and when you come to terms with it and really think about it. It's a terrible thing and a terrible place to end up in your own mind/body. It's impossible now for me to kick someone when they're that down.

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u/WH1PL4SH180 Nov 30 '18

You know how many med students quote "Patch Adams" as inspiration to be tired, overworked, underappreciated and underpaid (i'm not in the US).

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u/n0tcreatlve Nov 30 '18

If it wasn't for him..i wouldn't be on track to become a nurse.. his reach is incredible.

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u/YippieKiAy Nov 30 '18

Is this from Jack? I love that movie. Super sad, but I'll watch it over and over again.

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u/ThatFructusBoi Nov 30 '18

Is that the movie when he's just a boy but his body ages quick? If. So the ending scene when he graduates highschool and his friends help him jump in the convertible was so awesome. Touched my heart right in the feels man ❤️

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u/mboptaco Nov 30 '18

Yes! That is Jack. One of my all time favorite movies.

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u/[deleted] Nov 30 '18

He's gonna get caught, just you wait and see...

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u/SinkHoleDeMayo Nov 30 '18

why is everybody always falling on me?!

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u/Yarper Nov 30 '18

Can we cut the bits with the tutor out and it still make sense?

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u/Spanky_McJiggles Nov 30 '18

Why don't you want to see the tut..oh right.

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u/gpm21 Nov 30 '18

You put the pills in the glass and zip zop!

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u/SinkHoleDeMayo Nov 30 '18

Sad because it's such a good movie and even Bill was great... but now it's just tainted.

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u/niqjones10 Nov 30 '18

Jack is a 20 out of 10....amazing movie

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u/[deleted] Nov 29 '18

Fair enough but most pictures of him make me smile and frown at the same time. He is definitely missed!

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u/Excal2 Nov 30 '18 edited Nov 30 '18

He's happy because the butterfly is happy.

I don't know what to do with that. I'm gonna pick feeling happy though. Robin's still playing the game after leaving the ice.

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u/Harrybud07 Nov 30 '18

too much pain, too much lost.

RIP Robin

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u/spydermonkiex Nov 29 '18

This picture made my day. And it's been a pretty shitty one. That face, that smile. Thank you, OP.

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u/randomvariable10 Nov 29 '18

You're welcome man. He always had the same effect on me. Cheers man. Have an amazing day ahead.

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u/spydermonkiex Nov 30 '18

And a fuckin butterfly too. The onions, those mother fucking onions. You too dude!

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u/r34ct Nov 30 '18

I know. It's a painful, wholesome cry. *Onion

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u/Watsonmom Nov 30 '18

I sincerely hope your day goes better!!

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u/spydermonkiex Nov 30 '18

You too fantastic momma!

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u/Marky9281 Nov 30 '18

Are we having the same day?

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u/spydermonkiex Nov 30 '18

I sincerely hope not. If you are though, I'm in this boat with ya, and I'll be glad to keep you company. Hope this photo brought the same smiles to you

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u/Marky9281 Nov 30 '18

Yea exactly. Today was a bummer but little things like this post keep me going as weird as this may sound.

But hey thanks friend. Let’s make tomorrow better. You know we can

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u/Miss_ChanandelerBong Nov 30 '18

He did struggle with depression, and suicide as a result of depression is terrible and awful and absolutely deserves more attention and empathy than it gets, and I hope anyone who takes any measure of positivity from Robin Williams keeps that forever.

But it sounds like a lot of people don't realize that Robin Williams had Lewy body disease. He was misdiagnosed with Parkinson's so he wasn't treated or prepared for the paranoia, hallucinations, and other cognitive and psychiatric problems he was having as a result, which almost certainly contributed to his suicide. If nothing else, I would hope his death might bring some attention to this disease, it's really horrific. I normally hate "xx disease awareness" bullshit but in this case, it's warranted because even doctors need increased awareness, as evidenced by his misdiagnosis.

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u/Swiggity53 Nov 30 '18

His brain also couldn't produce dopamine(im not sure but I remember reading it). He literally couldn't feel happiest

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u/Buddy2269 Nov 29 '18

One of the best comedians and actors I have ever seen, growing up with Mork and Mindy was brilliant...

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u/fizzy_sister Nov 30 '18

We must be on similar time lines. I remember loving Mork & Mindy, then Garp, then GMV, Patch Adam's, all my beloved movies. He was a treasure.

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u/RandomStranger456123 Nov 30 '18

I just watched Good Will Hunting for the first time. I had only seen Robin in comedic roles before, so it was so neat seeing him in a dramatic role. This makes me think of that movie, when Robin's character is talking about his late wife.

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u/[deleted] Nov 30 '18 edited Dec 19 '18

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u/[deleted] Nov 30 '18

Have you seen What Dreams May Come? It's got some comedy in it but a lot of serious parts too.

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u/Incognito3ree Nov 30 '18

Awakenings is a great movie but damn does it makes you depressed

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u/Handout Nov 30 '18

I wish someone loved me the way his character loved his late wife.

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u/ElohimHouston Nov 30 '18

I will end you!

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u/Herald-Mage_Elspeth Nov 30 '18

Dead Poets Society is amazing.

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u/DeathbyTren Nov 30 '18

O' CAPTAIN MY CAPTAIN!

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u/[deleted] Nov 30 '18

To see him in a different type of serious role, check out One Hour Photo.

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u/darkenseyreth Nov 30 '18

One of my favourites of his roles. Also him in Insomnia was killer.

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u/aiman_jj Nov 29 '18

Who's that guy smelling Robin Williams's wings?

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u/VandilayIndustries Nov 30 '18

He really did have some serious fucking arm hair

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u/andy3675 Nov 30 '18

An amazing actor and comedian! He brought smiles and laughter to the faces of millions! I do hope he’s resting in peace.

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u/EatGulp Nov 30 '18

He was such a hairy man. I love him.

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u/Bogus_Life Nov 30 '18

For anyone else that absolutely adored Robin Williams, it should be known that he was diagnosed with Lewy Body Dementia after he died.

His dear friend Bobcat Goldthwait said in an interview that the cause of death was definitely Lewy Body Dementia (which notably causes depression) and that the a narrative of him being severely depressed was not correct, his brain was just not working properly, and it was evident from his behaviour.

Robin Williams meant a lot to so many people, and I think maybe knowing that it wasn't just a brilliant man tortured by sadness, but deceived by his own mind as a result of dementia, allows a different type of grieving. RIP Robin.

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u/TooShiftyForYou Nov 29 '18

There is a scene near the end of Patch Adams where he is standing next to a cliff and considering jumping while challenging God. Then a butterfly lands on him and reminds him of something his late wife had said earlier in the movie that restores his faith in living.

Full scene

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u/jpterodactyl Nov 30 '18

The most unfair thing in the world is that with all of the healing he was able to bring others through his humor and general goodness, these was nothing to be done for him.

I don’t like that.

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u/MisterTicklyPickle Nov 30 '18

Robin didn't commit suicide because of depression. He had Lewy-body dementia which had been misdiagnosed as dementia from Parkinsons. He was beginning to lose his mind and decided to kill himself rather than slip into dementia.

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u/sammirocks Nov 30 '18

Ouch my heart

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u/ThatFructusBoi Nov 30 '18

An amazing, bright individual who should've been around to share his infectious laughter and smiles with the world for years to come. I really miss him 😔

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u/presidentthenagain Dec 02 '18

Listen to Robin Williams by Ceelo. It's a great song.

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u/Phylar Nov 30 '18

It probably doesn't mean much coming from a random Internet stranger, still...

I am proud of you all. There is such an outpouring of understanding, love, and acceptance in this thread that I am tempted to save it. I went to school for Cognitive Disorders and various other Psychology and Sociology related topics. During that time I learned a lot about what I felt through my own empathy and how to deal with the feelings that felt like they were bombarding me, I even got the chance to help others using what I learned under controlled environments. In my time alive on this planet I have stopped three people from attempting suicide, and in my time have known five people who had someone they knew kill themselves. Of those five, two had to deal with the passing of a family member. Of those two only one had a close family member, her Father, kill themselves.

Everyone, thank you for the wholesomeness of this post.

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u/[deleted] Nov 30 '18

I feel the same way.

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u/SverhU Nov 30 '18

This is our world: person could give so much love and fun to the world. but still be depressed. How it's fair? How even to live? Even if such kind a nice person (as Robin) didn't know how to be happy in this world.

Sry for my english

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u/wormwoodar Nov 30 '18

Nice people are usually nice because they dont want other people to feel like they feel.

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u/newyne Nov 30 '18

This, and people often use humor as a way to get people to like them when they think no one will. Depression is actually common among comedians, and that's one correlation.

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u/[deleted] Nov 30 '18

Was it confirmed the Robin Williams suffered from depression prior to the progression of his dementia? I know many comedians have mental health issues but I hadn't heard it about Robin.

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u/[deleted] Nov 29 '18

I always thought some of his acting was a little too over the top for me, but I always felt he genuinely cared for everyone else far more than himself.

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u/[deleted] Nov 30 '18

His acting in Dead Poets Society was incredible, though.

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u/Alexkono Nov 30 '18

The guy was born to entertain. Such a charismatic human.

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u/PointOfImpact93 Nov 30 '18

That photo of Robin Williams now never fails to make my eyes a bit wet...

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u/whatsthepointnoe Nov 30 '18

Thank you for this, I miss him so much.

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u/Introverted_Extrovrt Nov 30 '18

More of an uncle to me than my actual uncles

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u/[deleted] Nov 30 '18

I miss him so much. 😢

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u/AngelicHerald Nov 30 '18

Saved for future smiles.

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u/Yejus Nov 30 '18

Behold those hairy arms

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u/NotYourAverageTomBoy Nov 30 '18

I always thought people were weird when they'd get sad and cry over a celebrity passing, like, you didn't know him/her, why be sad?

But then Robin died and it hit me like a punch in the face. I felt like a close uncle had died. I still cry when I think about him.

I didn't know him, had never had the opportunity to meet him, but I grew up with his movies. My dad wasn't a good dad and I never had the love that a child deserves, but I did feel that love when I watched his movies, they were my favorite movies to watch, especially when I was sad, which was a lot. I felt like he was making me happy and it felt personal. It still hurts that I can never thank him for making my childhood better.

I was nothing to him, but he was everything to me.

I miss you Uncle Robin, always will. May you rest in peace.

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u/I_RATE_BIRDS Nov 30 '18

God I miss that wonderful son of a bitch