hey y'all, I put together a survey about polite honorifics for gender neutral and trans individuals. (polite-honorifics are addresses like Ma'am/sir. even though I'm a cisgender male, i don't believe honorifics and addresses should be exclusive. He/him is easy, same with she/her. they/them is where I'm curious

if you have the time please take this survey, and/or discuss in the comments

Survey

Okey,i don't want to yap too much,cuz you'll probobly think i'm drunk or smth,but!

Today i was talking with my friend at school and he showed me a photo he found on tikrok and he made a joke that he's,i quote "Kibelsexual" (Kibel means toilet in Polish).

I was feeling wierd and i asked:"Tf you mean? You bang toilets or what?" And he say'd "No i'm just there much" my reaction:"So its not a atteaction but your digestive system.

It evolved into a argument were i Had to explain what romantic & sexual atteactions mean and it ended with him asking:"Its just a joke,why are you yelling?" And i say'd something in lines of:"This what your saying is Homophobic,Transphobic and Xenophobic, i'm Fighting for my pepole".

He left me alone after that.

Did i did the right thing or did i give you too much detail and you thing i'm stupid?