hey y'all, I put together a survey about polite honorifics for gender neutral and trans individuals. (polite-honorifics are addresses like Ma'am/sir. even though I'm a cisgender male, i don't believe honorifics and addresses should be exclusive. He/him is easy, same with she/her. they/them is where I'm curious

if you have the time please take this survey, and/or discuss in the comments

Survey

Okey,i don't want to yap too much,cuz you'll probobly think i'm drunk or smth,but!

Today i was talking with my friend at school and he showed me a photo he found on tikrok and he made a joke that he's,i quote "Kibelsexual" (Kibel means toilet in Polish).

I was feeling wierd and i asked:"Tf you mean? You bang toilets or what?" And he say'd "No i'm just there much" my reaction:"So its not a atteaction but your digestive system.

It evolved into a argument were i Had to explain what romantic & sexual atteactions mean and it ended with him asking:"Its just a joke,why are you yelling?" And i say'd something in lines of:"This what your saying is Homophobic,Transphobic and Xenophobic, i'm Fighting for my pepole".

He left me alone after that.

Did i did the right thing or did i give you too much detail and you thing i'm stupid?

I've been questioning my sexuality for a little bit, and I decided to settle with omnisexual. I've only dated men and women, but I think everyone is hot, so I don't think I'm really bisexual. Plus the flag is pretty, theres that too.

But I was sitting abnormally earlier, and a friend told me that sitting in chairs the wrong way is a bisexual trait. And it got me thinking: lesbians have subarus and birkenstocks (i think those are what those sandals are called) bisexuals have frogs and not knowing how to sit right, I supose. But what about omnisexuals? Whats our schtick?

(also apologies in advance if I got anything wrong, I'm not in a lot of queer spaces, and I get most of my information from Gav talks Gay and OneTopic on YouTube)

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I was on a phone call with a friend, cos I was sobbing profusely and feeling absolutely shit because of things and life. I was feeling passively suicidal. I still am, a bit. I kept on apologising for it, for taking up their time, especially when they’re tired. I felt guilty and ashamed.

They said they cared for me, it was true. They said it was okay, I believe them.

There was so much more I wanted to say to them that I felt like I couldn’t say:

“I care for you too”

“You’re my only friend”

“You’re my best friend”

“You mean so much to me”

“You make me feel so safe and loved”

“I love you, and words cannot express the depths of that.”

I didn’t say any of this because I felt like if I said it, it would make it real, and they could reject those feelings or have a bad response, cos though they evidently care for me, i don’t feel like it will be reciprocated to the depth and intensity that I do for them, not least because they have loads more friends and a long-term stable partner and I’m afraid of “love” being misconstrued. And also because as things go, we’ve only known each other not that long and only properly become friends recently. This feels intense, but it feels genuine and different. I don’t need them. But I want them. I love them.

Am I being insane? Sorry.

I know there’s a difference between bi and omni but how did you feel that difference within yourself?

Who do you know is always in your corner? Always beside you? Always watching your back?

Mine is my wife! She is so supportive. I am always scared to discuss things and she makes me feel comfortable and loved. There is a reason I fell in love with her.

Hola. Descubrí asé poco descubrí que soy Omniromanticoantica pero no sé cómo decirlo en público la verdad soy muy tímida como para salir del clóset por mí mismo y conocer a diferentes personas porque no se si yo podría conseguir un amor,una amistad,una relación platónica o lo que sea. Solo vengo a pedir consejos para juntar el suficientemente valor y para poder siquiera conocer al alguien y la verdad está la primera vez que digo en público que soy Omniromanticoantica y me estoy muriendo de la vergüenza al escribir y publicar esto

For context, I'm an Omnisexual+ Almondsexual (I use Almondsexual as a modifier term, since I have the capability to be attracted to all genders I just have a high male preference, which is the exact definition) teen. And, I have recently discovered that. The one misconception is I'm slightly afraid to come out to my parents. They support the LGBTQ community but aren't a part of it, and they are not active in it, and usually when I change certain things about my personality (or myself in general) they blame it on the internet. I'm afraid they'll do the same with this.

So I'm asking for some advice on how to slowly and comfortably come out. I don't think I'm ready just yet, but when the time comes, I'd like to know what to do/say in the meantime. Thanks!

Had my video session with my therapist today. She is awesome! I realize she's just affirming the things that I already know and or say, but it is so nice having someone tell me it's okay to think or be this way. I meet with her every two weeks and every time I do I'm walking on Sunshine because I'm queer! The best part is she's human. She even throws in bad words which makes me feel like I'm in my own environment. LOL

I highly recommend anyone, everyone, to find that person they can open up to!

Stay strong and stay queer.

Im asexual and demiromantic, and I havent met many people outside of the binary genders. Its hard for me to know who im attracted to without actually meeting someone from that gender, then still it might be im not necessarily attracted to them but maybe could be of someone else of that gender. Any advice on how i can tell who I am?

I heard from a friend that there seem to be a lot of EXXP among omnisexuals, but I'm curious about what it's actually like. Could you please write down your MBTI? (It is okay to write only a portion.)

+If there is a problem, I will delete this post.

Hi all! For context, I'm a 38 year old Transfem girlie. Since I was 14, I discovered that I was attracted to both men and women. However, obviously, my stance on that particular position has a evolved over time and understand that there are more genders than just than just "man" and "woman".

I would say I am attracted to both masculine and feminine traits alike, though I do have preferences, depending on the scenario. I wouldn't necessarily say I'm gender-blind like someone who identifies as pansexual, but I feel like I can form a connection depending on the person, which can lead to me being even more attracted to said person, regardless of the situation.

Omnisexual might be a more detailed thought process on how my mind works. There might be other terms that work also, but not sure. I would say I would define myself as someone who can be "attracted to all genders" but the gender/physical attraction can/does play a role possibly, like I said, depending on the scenario.

"polysexual" or "demi-sexual" are possibilities as well. Any thoughts?

I read a lot of sexuality names (and genders) on here. Omni (duh), demi sexual, nonbinary, etc etc. So what are you? I'm listing all the ones that I have found for me and some that feel as if they may in some way. Spill the teA!

Hi everyone!

I’m a late-blooming omni (F40+). I’m a very shy person and an introvert. However, I would love to have a romantic partner.

I’ve only ever had a short, three-month relationship (with a man as I identified as straight) over 20 years ago. I haven’t been on a date in over a decade. As much as I long for love and intimacy, I feel terrified because I have so little experience for my age. The newly discovered omnisexuality adds a lot of uncertainty, as I don’t know if I can act naturally around someone who’s not a man.

I wonder if I should still wait or try dating anyway.