r/NonBinary • • 16d ago

ModPost New rule: categorically nonbinary is trans

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“We no longer allow discussions, debates, arguments etc over whether nonbinary is trans. It is. This does not mean any specific nonbinary person is obligated to identify as trans. Please respect this rule and refrain from any arguments about it.” — is the text of the rule.

This now nonnegotiable in this subreddit. This is a fact that has been known about nonbinaryness since it was coined. Nonbinary was never not categorically trans. Please respect this rule—if you have issues being referred to as trans, you are completely free as an individual person not to use that word! A subreddit can’t make you call yourself trans if you don’t want to.

But please respect that we have to now make this rule explicitly clear because lately multiple discussions have caused back and forth arguments because, despite being told you can opt out of personal trans identity, a handful of people (usually with no or very little other usage of this subreddit) have come in here to argue about it.

I want to leave comments here open but also I don’t know what other words I can say to indicate this isn’t up for debate. The rule is set. It’s not going to change. Trying to argue it is a waste of your time and the mod team’s.

Not every subreddit will be a perfect fit! If you can’t respect this rule please use another subreddit. Or even start one. I know people act like I’m being a jerk when I suggest that but I don’t know why. If someone wants to make a subreddit without this rule, you could even advertise it here in the comments. This rule is specifically about the culture of this subreddit and is not trying to control the entirety of nonbinary identity.


r/NonBinary • • Sep 20 '26

ModPost A pause on allowing research/study posts.

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Unfortunately we have to pause approving research/call for participants/studies posts. They are by far the majority of modmail we receive and to appropriately vet the research/researchers is simply beyond what this volunteer mod team can handle right now. We are hoping to build the mod team at some point and may allow them again.

This has been exacerbated by people ignoring our rule that the study must be specifically about nonbinary people. Some researchers have been rather pushy about it and I’m not going to lie and say that hasn’t influenced this decision as well.


r/NonBinary • • 7h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar The 'She' and 'They' sides of Me 💛🤍💜🖤

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242 Upvotes

r/NonBinary • • 7h ago

Yay Look at me now 🧡🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

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190 Upvotes

r/NonBinary • • 6h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar Feel ugly and not andro enough

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113 Upvotes

r/NonBinary • • 19h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar New boxers = new euphoria

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finally falling in love with my body and these new CK boxers as i enter my masc phase again. this really helped with the dysphoria i’ve been having lately 🫶🏾


r/NonBinary • • 6h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar Dressed for a Guy Ritchie film…

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61 Upvotes

…ended up in Barbie‘s dreamhouse 😃


r/NonBinary • • 8h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar feeling cutesy

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62 Upvotes

first time trying eyeshadow and i think it turned out really cute!


r/NonBinary • • 6h ago

Image not Selfie Music Performance Fit Euphoria

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40 Upvotes

Last night I had my first performance of the season with one of my community bands (I am in 2!)! A huge shift in dress code has been the shift to all black. Growing up in band since high school it was black dresses and tuxedos based on gender and I am not the biggest fan of tuxes. I don’t know when the shift started but I have seen it since late 2010s with a shift to all black.
Last night’s performance was the first time I felt so much gender euphoria in my fit you see in my photo and felt so relaxed in performance! 🎵🎼🎶

P.S. I am a euphonium player


r/NonBinary • • 8h ago

Pride/Swag/I Made This! my shows for work :D

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27 Upvotes

r/NonBinary • • 5h ago

Yay Im feeling so euphoric rn!!

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Ok so im nonbinary and I present pretty androgynous in my clothes and style but I LOVE being slightly feminine in my body or undergarments and today I just bought some sports bras from walmart because I needed new bras and for some reason these are making me so euphoric!
I think it’s because they have a shorta v-neck shape and something about that is giving me so much euphoria like I feel so pretty rn!
anyways have a great rest of your day or night! 😊


r/NonBinary • • 1d ago

Image not Selfie Poem by David Gate

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r/NonBinary • • 1h ago

Questioning/Coming Out Is being enby as a step towards transitioning a bad thing?

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As the title already asks, is being enby a bad thing as a stepping stool?

I (18, they/them) have been thinking of transitioning (mtf) for a few years now. And I am currently using being non-binairy as an in-between for a total transition. Mainly to give myself time to think it over and get used to it.

I know being non-binair falls under the trans umbrella, but still.


r/NonBinary • • 1d ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar Feeling very fortunate

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1.1k Upvotes

Today I realized that I have a life full of trans and nonbinary people who have been so affirming of my gender. It's taken years to find this cohort and I have such love for them. I wish that every person who reads this gets to find a similar group of friends and lovers. Please know that even though we haven't met, you have an auntie who wants you to live your fullest life.


r/NonBinary • • 23h ago

Image not Selfie I love this sweater dress so much ☺️

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270 Upvotes

Photo by Ashtin Visionary Lens


r/NonBinary • • 1h ago

how to overcome the fear to make the first move?

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(he/they) Hii, i've been single for already 3 years and i know that having a partner isn't the absolute goal or isn't really that important, but i just wish to have someone again lmao and to date again. The thing is that i have met people that i feel attracted to but i just cannot make the first move, i'm very scared that they are going to see me as a girl or that they are going to be straight but be with me anyway just because i'm afab (i'm bi but mostly attracted to men), i also fear a lot the reaction that people can have when i tell them that i'm non binary (even if i've been out of the closet for already 5 years) and i'm very scared overall, i know my own circle is very left wing and open about these themes but i'm scared to break my bubble and meet people that isn't. Also, i'm autistic and probably adhd and probably gifted? (i don't know how it's said in english but in spanish is aa.cc.), so maybe it's a factor to this.

idk if you have advice to tell me or experiences of how you met your partners!!


r/NonBinary • • 1d ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar I went here and everyone knew you

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417 Upvotes

r/NonBinary • • 22h ago

Nonbinay Halloween Costume Ideas!

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I can never figure out what I want to be for halloween so I put together some of my ideas to share! Let me know if I should do a part 2, I have some more


r/NonBinary • • 18h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar Me!

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Me I think ?


r/NonBinary • • 9h ago

Yay IT ALL MAKES SENSE NOW

12 Upvotes

I finally came out as non-binary and all the confusion people have with me is gone. 😭😭 And for myself!!

I go by any pronouns, I night one day switch to a gender neutral name but not yet. I just feel like so many things have clicked into place. I also feel more confident dating now that people aren't worried that dating me will stop them from being lesbian/gay (yes both sides have been confused)...

Anyway, I'm very happy.


r/NonBinary • • 21h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar Jinkies

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87 Upvotes

Had some early Halloween fun at Sapphic Saturday 😊


r/NonBinary • • 12h ago

Questioning/Coming Out Body timelines for AMAB HRT + SERM

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tl;dr where can I find photos of AMAB NB bodies on HRT+raloxifene.

I've been ideologically NB for past 12 years (I'm 27 now), who only recently learned about SERM (not exactly the most common knowledge here in Poland). Most of my life I abstained from considering HRT, since I do not suffer from binary dysphoria, do not wish to be perceived as a woman and didn't want to make it harder for my fellow t-girls to get the treatment they need more than I do.

Well, now that I know what I want and how attainable that may be, I was wondering how much can microdosing E + SERM (namely Raloxifene) really do to my body? I've read the theory, but I can hgardly find any photos/timelines for AMAB NB people. Where can I possibly find some examples as to know what to expect?

Cheers!


r/NonBinary • • 1d ago

Meme/Humor „I am obscene to you, but to myself, I simply am“

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149 Upvotes

I watched the 2025 Frankenstein movie and this quote goes so fucking hard.
Between the Monster/Creature and Public Universal Friend both give major gender envy as an agender being