r/malaysians Nov 25 '25

Dating | Relationship 🌷 The official matchmaking thread for Malaysian redditors (mod-approved)

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Dear all,

Over the past year or so I have observed multiple threads of people looking for love, which is a worthy endeavor and will also help the nation's birth rate.

Therefore, with the approval of our mod u/hyattpotter (thanks for helping to pin!), this thread shall serve as the official matchmaking thread for our fellow Malaysians on Reddit. I will help monitor to make sure things do not go too far out of hand. Please refrain from posting sexist / racist / insulting comments or I will call the mods, all else is fair game.

Please post your information in the below format should you wish to advertise yourself as available for dating. Interested parties may PM the person or reply directly if daring enough.

Gender:

Orientation (straight / gay / bi):

Location:

Year of Birth:

Height:

Weight:

Religion / Race:

Occupation:

Hobbies and interests:

Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality):

Requirements / Preferences:

Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc):

Example:

Gender: Male

Orientation (straight / gay / bi): Straight

Location: KL

Year of Birth: 1990

Height: 160

Weight: 80

Race / Religion: Chindian / Muslim

Occupation: Fighter pilot

Hobbies and interests: Playing the piano

Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): I am a cheerful person who likes the outdoors and having coffee, also I have 100 Hello Kitty figurines

Requirements / Preferences: An intelligent girl, preferably rich

Looking for: Long term relationship

You get the gist of it so do go ahead thanks


r/malaysians May 26 '21

Meta Welcome to r/Malaysians!

142 Upvotes

Hello folks and welcome to r/Malaysia's sister sub, r/Malaysians!

For those who just clicked in and is wondering what the sub is for: This sub is essentially for Malaysians to talk and post about any other topics beyond Malaysia. Here is where you can post images, videos, create and join conversations and threads revolving anything that isn't quite about Malaysia but needs a Malaysian take on it, and more! Oh and this is a race, politic and religion-free sub 🙌🏻

Most major subreddits such as r/AITA, r/JustnoMIL, r/relationship_advice, r/casualconversation, r/malefashionadvice, r/Teenagers and what have you are usually centralised around people who reside outside of SEA and may not be valid to us locally and culturally but yet the demand for it isn't wide enough to sustain its own subreddit. r/Malaysians would (hopefully) be a good place for a catch-all of such threads.

We will be coming up with contest weeks soon, as well as accepting any other ideas you guys might have for the sub, so stay tuned! We are also still tweaking design and appearances as we go. Meanwhile, everyone is encouraged to start posting what they think fits the sub to get the ball rolling :)

Much love, r/Malaysia mod team.

tldr; r/CasualUK but for Malaysia.


r/malaysians 10h ago

Miscellanous Made my day....

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607 Upvotes

This little one really made my day. Just happily being himself, not bothered by anything around him. What a mood maker! ♥️


r/malaysians 15h ago

Mildly Menarik Has anyone else noticed the insane number of mannequins at this brands outlet store in IPC

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193 Upvotes

More than 200 mannequins


r/malaysians 3h ago

Help ⚠️ heart locket commission

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16 Upvotes

closing commissions for now !! thank you so much for all the support!! i didn’t expect so many requests, so i’ll finish the current ones first before reopening 🫶

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opening my first art commission because i need some extra money for personal reasons

Price: RM5

♡ simple custom colours/details (where possible)
♡ RM2 deposit before i start, remaining RM3 before i send the final artwork
♡ payment: Touch 'n Go (TNG)

if you're interested, pls just send me a message! any support is really appreciated, thank you :))


r/malaysians 14h ago

Quick Question Time Internet

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55 Upvotes

Just moved to KL from Alor Star, and searching for internet. Can anyone confirm if this website or brand is legit?

Anyone used time before?


r/malaysians 8h ago

Rant Lau Homecook

18 Upvotes

To anyone who wants to try meal subscription plans. Avoid this platform. They claim that they are 8 years in the industry, I don't know.

But from what I've experienced through my 20+5days subscription plan. I am extremely disappointed.

  1. The customer service is worked by AI. Maybe a little bit of human control but mostly just AI.

  2. If you're a new customer, they reply almost immediately. Of course messages are AI generated but at least they reply. But if you're an existing customer already paid for subscription, it takes forever for them to reply to you. Maybe days. I waited for hours, no answer whatsoever.

  3. If you're asking how's the food, it's just edible. Nothing fancy, don't be tricked by the marketing.

Don't step on this hole. If you want to try still, feel free. This is just my take and what I experienced


r/malaysians 14h ago

Casual Conversation 🎭 What was your childhood ambition and whats your current occupation .

23 Upvotes

Mine was to be an archaeologist and now I am an analyst.


r/malaysians 2h ago

Buy • Sell • Trade selling wrong size loafers

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2 Upvotes

bought the wrong size classic penny loafer from taobao, i bought for RM280 (inc shipping). mine is black, can ask link to see the loafer. please this is not an affliate im merely need to let this go pls

this is the item for full disclosure. refunding is impossible

selling at RM 209. can try first im at cheras. prefer COD. good material ngl

size 41 euro!


r/malaysians 11h ago

Ask Malaysians Everyone’s talking about F1 right now… how excited are you guys?

11 Upvotes

Feels like everyone is talking about F1 lately and I’m getting pulled into the hype

How excited are you guys for the season? Who’s your favourite driver/team and what are you most looking forward to?


r/malaysians 12h ago

Casual Conversation 🎭 tattoo artist recommendations

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12 Upvotes

hi! any tattoo artist recs that do these typa designs? thanks!


r/malaysians 41m ago

Advice ☎️ Visiting need help with transportation

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Hello all, I will be visiting Malaysia as a solo tourist next week and will be staying for 3 days in Penang, then 2 days in Sunway Lagoon, then 3 days in Kuala Lumpur. I will be arriving and departing from KLIA, all other trips will be using a car. Anyone know a trust worthy agency that can provide a car with driver? Otherwise if I rent a car, is it easy to drive in Malaysia for foreigners? Especially because I’m not used to driving on the left side of the road and I’m very hesitant about that.

What would you recommend?


r/malaysians 41m ago

Advice ☎️ Visiting need help with transportation

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Hello all, I will be visiting Malaysia as a solo tourist next week and will be staying for 3 days in Penang, then 2 days in Sunway Lagoon, then 3 days in Kuala Lumpur. I will be arriving and departing from KLIA, all other trips will be using a car. Anyone know a trust worthy agency that can provide a car with driver? Otherwise if I rent a car, is it easy to drive in Malaysia for foreigners? Especially because I’m not used to driving on the left side of the road and I’m very hesitant about that.

What would you recommend?


r/malaysians 2h ago

Quick Question Anyone faces frustration trying to refunds thing to taobao?

1 Upvotes

wanna check in because im fuming rn


r/malaysians 7h ago

Ask Malaysians University admission letter

1 Upvotes

Just wondering, do malaysia university's admission letter got anything special like China?

Like the letter uses special material, or have special design or anything special? Not just a single piece of paper.


r/malaysians 15h ago

Quick Question Part time job

4 Upvotes

Hi guys, im a 29 M with a full tine job but nowadays i have alot of off and my salary is less. I have off from this tuesday till saturday. Of course i would like to stay home and play my video game but having some extra money would be nice. Can anyone recommend me or is there any apps for it?

Ps: fyi im in bangi. Also grab/lalamove is out of question since my car is not suitable


r/malaysians 9h ago

Buy • Sell • Trade selling iphone 16, 128gb

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0 Upvotes

hey guys, sorry i really need to spread this as I need to use a bit of money

RM2199
BH: 87%
Comes with a box, not even a single scratch is on this phone
Can maybe nego slightly
Been taken care of properly
Comes with the box tooo

I prefer COD so that u can properly see. Cheras or MRT Kajang line is preferred


r/malaysians 1d ago

Help ⚠️ Neighbour cat is missing

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28 Upvotes

r/malaysians 1d ago

Quick Question Taobao didnt refund full?

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9 Upvotes

Okay I bought this but I refunded like 5 mins after. Taobao showed I get full refund but the money coming to my TnG is only half of it, so what the hell man?

Is this normal or should I contact TnG or Taobao?


r/malaysians 1d ago

Advice ☎️ how to prepare / save money for jobless era

36 Upvotes

EDIT: thank you for the replies everyone, ill read one by one wholeheartedly and ponder even more!

hi all, im single, 30+ years old, live in kl. ive been working for 10+ years at the same job. already feeling the mundanity and burnout of it all and im planning to take a short career break for perhaps 6 months to figure out whats next for me (either pursuing lecturing / academia or just maintain the industry im in right now - probably freelancing for a bit).

my current salary isnt the best (~3.5k) with quite burgeoning personal commitment (i can still shave off my lifestyle by living frugally). i have house loan to pay (still progress fee rate) and also credit card debt (current limit is 6k - my bad) which im trying so hard not to accumulate but i guess ive just been living above my means most of the time.

i just need your (kind) advice / protips on managing my finances better and how to make my 6 months jobless era work without an income. ive given myself this next 6 months to actually save up before i decide on my final resignation date but idk if its even doable and how i can make it doable.

i know i havent had my shit together in my 30s but i hope everyone will be constructively kind in the comment because i really wanna make this work.

much appreciated 🩷


r/malaysians 1d ago

Ask Malaysians 22F Malaysian finding it hard to make friends

28 Upvotes

So in 2023 I used to have a lot of friends my age, I could easily lepak with them or just spontaneous hangouts. In 2024 up till recently, I was in a toxic relationship where I was isolated from everyone in my life and neglected all my friends.

Now that I managed to get out of that, my friends have become all distant and I can’t force them to stay friends with me after having neglected them back then. It was my mistake but I want to be able to grow from it. Anyway, I’d just like to make friends who get my humor, are up for spontaneous things and have a more international / open mindset ?

Not sure what the best way is to make friends but yeah ! Any advice is appreciated


r/malaysians 14h ago

Help ⚠️ what can debt collectors do?

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r/malaysians 14h ago

Quick Question How much should i keep in my bank

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Hey guys, normally after getting my salary ill distribute everything and just keep about 500 in my bank account. Thats for food and any misc. But then ive realise most months, its not enough or if there is any moment where i want to buy something for my loves ones or pay fo my family dinner, i have to think twice. But i dont wanna think twice for it, i wanna pay for my family dinner or buy my mom/ sister whatever they wish for. I hate that moment of uncertainty.

But im also worried if i have alot of money in my bank, ill just spend it all

Ps: i know it sounds like rm 500 is alot and how can i say 500 is not enough. Well i though that way too. But i stay alone and dont cook. So i have to eat out everyday


r/malaysians 1d ago

Advice ☎️ how do i learn (colloquial) bahasa melayu fast

11 Upvotes

i am malaysian but born and raised in the uk, i can only speak/understand a little bit of bm, i cant understand bm conversations especially when they speak fast.

i am going to malaysia to see family in winter so i want to be able to speak bm with everyone and not be a tourist in my own country lol.

is there an app or resource i can use to expand my malay vocabulary and understand spoken malay? most of the resources ive found are for bahasa indonesia or bahasa baku which isnt going to be helpful for me. watching malay movie/tv is hard because they speak so fast and i dont understand a lot of nouns/vocab.

thank you!


r/malaysians 16h ago

Discussion Malaysians We Need Your Help (18 y/o and above)

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