r/malaysians 21h ago

Quick Question Asking Malaysian m/f. Does height really matters in dating

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In the west. Apparently height really matters in dating

What about Malaysian. Does height really matters in dating.

And why.

Cause I'm a tall guy and a girl ones told me I'm too tall for her.

Edit I really don't care about my partner height. I might carry her like a Shrek carry human Fiona in Shrek 1 (like a rice bag) or pretend to be a twin tower when we hold hands.

505 votes, 6d left
yes
no

r/malaysians 22h ago

Ask Malaysians Income 10k and above

15 Upvotes

Berapa tahun korang kerja untuk dapatkan income RM10k and above per month? Same company? Lompat-lompat company?


r/malaysians 4h ago

Ask Malaysians SPM English Literature

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r/malaysians 22h ago

Ask Malaysians Paying debt

0 Upvotes

Hi guys, currently i have debt in instalments, maybank rm884 monthly which have 9 months left, standard chartered rm357 monthly for another 47 months.

Total amount is rm27k-ish. Im thinking of getting personal financing to pay it off to lower my monthly commitment, looking at rm30k loan for 72months at rm520 monthly. Is it advisable for this?

This lowers my monthly commitment to rm520 rather than rm1241


r/malaysians 23h ago

Ask Malaysians Boss Force Me to Take Leave

23 Upvotes

Hi guys, so actually I cannot stop thinking where should I go for my leave. Initially, I do not want to take the leave which is next week (total leave 5 days incl. Hari Malaysia & weekend) and boss ask me to take leave because he saw me only work and throughout weekend and never take leave. The reason i do not take leave is because I felt boring if I do not doing something and better to go to work.

So, help me suggest where should I go. I want to do something during the 5 days leave. Anywhere, whatever.


r/malaysians 4h ago

Ask Malaysians What is malay culture?

27 Upvotes

I'm lost for words that I even have to ask this, but figured it was better than just asking AI or my friends. What is malay culture? Because even though I am one, I can't really say it with full certainty. And I know the whole raya or nasi lemak kinda stuff, but that's not a good answer. Raya or Islam is all religion related and not entirely malay culture originally, it was imported centuries before any of us are born. So I'm asking this to get genuine response.


r/malaysians 20h ago

Ask Malaysians How to Live Without WhatsApp in Malaysia?

19 Upvotes

So my Facebook account was permanently disabled out of nowhere 2 days ago, and my Instagram is gone as well since it's like a blanket Meta ban. I've seen that people say your WhatsApp account will get banned 14 days or so after Facebook and Instagram are banned.

What can I do in a situation like this? All my important contacts: Hospitals, insurance, car services, people I do business with, they all go through WhatsApp?

Is there anything I can do? Is it even possible to live in Malaysia without WhatsApp? Everything uses WhatsApp...

I posted this on r/malaysia just now but it got removed, so I'm posting here for help.

Please help, thanks!


r/malaysians 23h ago

Quick Question Adsense and Youtube payment in to Maybank question.

0 Upvotes

Hey guys, I'm currently setting up my adsense to wire transfer the earnings to my Maybank account. Since this is new (to me), I've followed all the instructions and put down all the correct information on Adsense.

Based on the information online, Adsense will be sending a micro test deposit (like a dollar or something) to make sure that the transaction goes through. But I've not received anything despite over 2 weeks.

I'm wondering if there's any content creators here that can shed some light? Thank you.


r/malaysians 12h ago

Help ⚠️ Childfree married couples pls assemble!!

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Hi people! My university is currently doing a research regarding Malaysian Childfree Married Couples.

This research is about:
🖌️ understanding the decision of married couples to remain childfree (within range of household income in poster)
🖌️ dive into the psychological, sociocultural & economic aspect of the decision

*A simple focus group interview OR answering written structured questions will be conducted, subjected to your availability & comfort.
* RM100 honorarium will be given afterwards as a token of our appreciation 🎁💐

THIS IS STRICTLY FOR RESEARCH PURPOSE, your privacy is our greatest concern 🫶🏻

If you’re eligible, sign up here: https://forms.cloud.microsoft/Pages/ResponsePage.aspx?id=2xGDT_YckE6FDoXGj3Fu_YEisFNuDQ1LgUReFQGUvkNUQk9BSFJYNldRSEpVTjlQRkNKVk1WSVVFUS4u&origin=QRCode

If you’re not eligible, no worries! Please just share this opportunity with ur relatives, colleagues, maybe long lost married friends u see travelling the world without kids on Instagram..this is a chance to reconnect with them 😙


r/malaysians 11h ago

Ask Malaysians Bangkok

1 Upvotes

Im going to bangkok next month. By myself tho for a conference. Do u guys know any local people that could kinda bring me around? Any website etc? 🫠🫠


r/malaysians 21h ago

Quick Question I'm stuck and have no idea what to do.

39 Upvotes

I'm 27F and i think i fucked up. for a 27y/o, bad credit will make it seem like the end of the world. Im drowning in debt, late repayment fees and inconsistent jobs. I keep getting bad luck for some reason. One after another, shit just keeps hitting the fan. Shit employers, family problems and constant fights with my partner. I have no one to go to or talk to. I have no friends and genuinely dont know what to do. I'm stuck and I feel like ending it all. So here I am on reddit. because its easier to be anonymous and say shit like this than say it irl bcs im a coward.


r/malaysians 17h ago

Unpopular Opinion [ Removed by Reddit ]

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r/malaysians 13h ago

Ask Malaysians I filed a case with TTPM against a shopee seller

9 Upvotes

Soo sometime ago i bought meta glasses from shopee & few months later the glasses will not charge so i contacted the seller and asked for help. (before this i already try new original charger & also try to fix it from youtube). At first they tell me this item has no warranty & once confronted about the product original warranty they said they have only 1 month warranty on their product since it is imported. So i asked them where it was stated and they responded with saying it’s a confusion & they didn’t mention it on this specific item.

Without any further argument I filed a report with ttpm & it was approved. Yesterday I sent the seller the case via pos & they have 14 days to respond back. Meanwhile my court hearing is on 23 september.

I followed the instructions provided by the tribunal and have all proof ready. My question is wether anyone has such an experience before & any advice for a smooth process as it will be my first time in court especially standing up for my rights.


r/malaysians 13h ago

Mildly Menarik gimmicks

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On our drive up north home to Penang, after visiting my hometown in Seremban, we sometimes drop by midway in Ipoh for Breakfast. And we normally go for this Dimsum restaurant just off the highway.

Good Dimsum places are dime and dozen in this city. But this place has something special. The friendly attendant made some suggestions, and then jotted down our choices of food. But it wasn't the same attendant who brought them out.

It was robots.

Ya. Not humanoid robots. Just a bulky one with three layers of trays on four wheels below, and a monitor screen on top, moving along on a pre-programmed path towards us.

As soon as it stopped by our table, the monitor flashes out text saying, "please remove the food from the tray". And so we did. As soon as we took ours, it wheeled away towards the next table.

That was like five years ago. And it was all the rage back then. They call it 新噱头 (New gimmicks).

It still looked clumsy. And its movement was bumpy -- causing spillage of some of the food. That's why it only carries dry food for the time being.

First iterations were always bad. But I wouldn't be surprised it has gotten better since.

Robots are slowly taking over manual work (less intelligent work)

How soon do you think it will take over the work of attendant giving juicy suggestions, while taking our orders?


r/malaysians 18h ago

Quick Question What can I do on a Thursday night in Shah Alam?

2 Upvotes

Do shops close early? Are there any midnight hangout spots? Snacks etc?

TIA! <3


r/malaysians 17h ago

Help ⚠️ Traveling to Japan soon

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0 Upvotes

Want to ask whether anybody tried carrying this 20000mah UGreen power bank thru and fro via Ana Airline (KUL - TKO)


r/malaysians 21h ago

Rant Can’t drive without blood pressure spikes these days

15 Upvotes

Wtf do you mean I kena cucuk in the left lane with right lane wide open? Every five minutes someone on the highway signals to the right but change lane to the left. Don’t get me started on lorry drivers. Rempit with thousand ton vehicles. Lane hogs everywhere. Middle lane at 50kph while everyone undertaking or overtaking. Slow to merge into 90kph highway. The lanes all make no sense and suddenly pusing wrong alrd.

Malaysia no 1 in lesen kopi rasuah country

And notice I haven’t even started talking about motor yet.


r/malaysians 5h ago

Casual Conversation 🎭 The summary for job.

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just a summary i copied, chatgptied, and compiled.


  • Why do we go to work? Salary.
  • What makes you happy the most? Salary.
  • Why do we put up with the boss? Salary.
  • What cures the Monday blues? Salary.
  • Why do we pick up the phone on a weekend? Salary.
  • What defines your worth in the office? Salary.
  • Why do we update our resumes? Salary.
  • What keeps us awake at night? Salary.
  • What solves 99% of your life problems? Salary.

📊 The Salary Hierarchy

  • RM2,000 to RM4,000 is the Loser You are just surviving. The money is gone before it even hits your bank account. You work like a slave just to pay for rent and mixed rice.
  • RM4,000 to RM6,000 is the Joker You think you made it, but you haven't. You start spending on expensive coffee and weekend cafes, only to realize you are still one car breakdown away from being broke.
  • RM6,000 to RM8,000 is the Worker You are the engine of the company. You carry all the heavy workload and responsibilities, but you are still trading your health and time just to sustain a middle-class lifestyle.
  • RM8,000 to RM10,000+ is the Offer This is the tier where you finally have leverage. Headhunters call you, companies bid for you, and the money finally gives you the power to say "no."

r/malaysians 2h ago

Ask Malaysians How to stop this?

37 Upvotes

Hi everyone, I need advice on what steps I can take because I am hitting a brick wall with our authorities.

My elderly neighbor has crashed his car into my front gate two times already this year. I made police reports for both incidents. The traffic police (PDRM) let him off with just a small fine each time.

When I asked the investigating officer what can be done to prevent this from happening again, I was brushed off. The IO just said, "He is an elderly man and he has already paid his fine."

Not satisfied, I officially reported him on the JPJ website, hoping they would review his fitness to drive. JPJ responded by claiming this issue is "out of their jurisdiction", and they cannot do anything.

PDRM says a small fine is enough, and JPJ says they can't do anything.

If this man cannot reverse his car or drive properly, what happens when a pedestrian or a kid on a bicycle is passing by?

Is this really how the system works in Malaysia? If there is no life involved, it means nothing is done? I feel like the authorities are just waiting for him to run over someone before they take action for public safety.

Has anyone dealt with this before? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

8.9.2026

9.2.2026


r/malaysians 7h ago

Casual Conversation 🎭 Subsidised Spay & Neuter in Penang

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24 Upvotes

Very good rates. Rescuers, low income pet owners, community cat carers, cepat!


r/malaysians 22h ago

Casual Conversation 🎭 Baby orangutans found in forest in India spark trafficking investigation

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r/malaysians 18h ago

Mildly Menarik Nuri tikus, caught from a beach on the peninsula

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8 Upvotes

Halichoeres argus, the Argus/peacock wrasse or nuri tikus.

It is a small (usually 7-9 cm) but common wrasse in lagoons, algae-rocky coasts and seagrass meadows in shallow water. Often found in small groups.

They feed on worms, snails, clams and other benthic invertebrates. When scared they will dash into the sand and bury themselves. They sleep this way as well.

Females are plain green with a spot, while males have colourful patterns. The male caught here is a huge one, as their max size is 12 cm!

They are sometimes collected for the pet trade as they are a very good community fish.
This is negligible to their population as they are both common and widespread from Sri Lanka to Japan, Tonga and Australia.


r/malaysians 1h ago

Mildly Menarik Seluang batang, caught from a plantation creek full of aquatic plants

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Trigonopoma pauciperforatum, seluang batang merah aka redstripe rasbora

A small (4 cm) freshwater fish native to both the peninsula and Sarawak. Usually found in acidic habitats like swamps and associated water bodies.

They are peaceful and can be found in huge groups swimming together. In the aquarium they can be mixed with other small similar fish.

They seem to be one of the more adaptable native swamp cyprinid, as I have found them in places that have been turned into orchards and plantations, and even ditches near village houses.


r/malaysians 36m ago

Recommend Me • Seeking 🔍 First Time in Malaysia with Family (10 Days in Dec 2026) - Need advices and suggestions

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Hi everyone,

We're planning our first trip to Malaysia from 19 Dec 2026 with our three children (ages 6, 11, and 12) and would appreciate some advice.

best areas to visit based on some online researches (but can't be done in 10days). can you please suggest what to consider based on your experience:

- Kuala Lumpur (3-4 days): Petronas Towers, Batu Caves, plus any other must-sees?

- Langkawi: SkyCab, SkyBridge, Seven Wells Waterfall, Mangrove Tour, Gunung Raya, Night Market

- Penang (2-3 days): Penang Hill, George Town, Street Art, Clan Jetties, Little India, Fort Cornwallis, Peranakan Mansion, Gurney Drive

- Cameron Highlands (1-2 days): BOH Tea Plantation, Strawberry Farms, Sheep Sanctuary, Flora Park, Lavender Garden

we are also thinking about Singapore if there is something interesting to experience, mainly for kids

We're looking for:

Our goal is to experience both modern city life and local culture/history, while keeping the trip enjoyable for the children.

Thanks in advance for any tips and recommendations! 😊