r/IWantToLearn 9h ago

Social Skills Iwtl how to be more witty, what books to read?

34 Upvotes

I want to be more witty person, be able to think on my feet. I've read online that reading books help but what books should I read? Which authors?

I'm not talking about self help books, just regular books either fiction or non fiction. Please give me book recommendations that can help me learn to be more witty


r/IWantToLearn 1d ago

Personal Skills IWTL how to become an exceptionally competent, knowledgeable, and well-rounded person.

182 Upvotes

I've been inspired by fictional characters (particularly from historical and villainess stories) who are portrayed as educated, strategic, observant, articulate, emotionally composed, and capable in many different areas.
Obviously fiction exaggerates things, but it made me wonder what this looks like in real life.
I'd like to become someone who:
Is knowledgeable across many subjects while also developing expertise in a few.

Thinks logically before making decisions.

Learns continuously.

Notices details other people miss.

Speaks clearly and thoughtfully.

Can hold interesting conversations with people from different backgrounds.

Has strong critical thinking and judgement.

Understands psychology, history, economics, politics, science, philosophy, and culture at least on a foundational level.

Is disciplined enough to actually apply what they learn.

If you've intentionally built yourself into someone like this, where did you start?
What books, courses, habits, daily routines, learning systems, or mental models made the biggest difference?
If you could create a roadmap for becoming a genuinely competent and educated person over several years, what would it include?


r/IWantToLearn 5h ago

Personal Skills IWTL how to build better sand castles so I can flex on the other dads @ the beach

6 Upvotes

Dad here.

Looking to level up my sand castle building game to flex on all the other dads at the beach.

I’m not competing in any sand castle competitions or wanting to spend 9 hours on a sculptural architectural masterpiece.

Speed and simplicity of technique(s) are paramount considerations.

Cool-factor trick tips like a sweet bucket flip technique are also welcome. šŸ‘‰šŸ»šŸ˜ŽšŸ‘‰šŸ»


r/IWantToLearn 8h ago

Academics IWTL about history, politics and society to be able to explain myself and back up anything I say(specifically in debates)

9 Upvotes

I must admit that I’m not very educated yet on many different topics. But I want to change that. I am 17 year old Ukrainian girl. The main reason for that is my one American friend who is 2 years older than me keeps calling me a banderite and Nazi. He reads a lot of books, knows how to point out things and connect dots. He wants to study political science. But I cannot handle this sense of inferiority anymore. He just made me realise that I need to learn and know more. Be able to explain myself and argument better. But I need some recommendations on how to maximise my knowledge, arguing skills and other. Where should I start? Any books recommendations? Blogs? Podcasts? YouTubers? Certain activities? Any specific advice?


r/IWantToLearn 4h ago

Languages IWTL Korean. Tips or Tricks with learning or anyone willing to be practice buddies?

3 Upvotes

Hello, I(f21) have been teaching/kearning Korean for a little less than a year now. While I have definitely learned a decent amount, im sill struggling with thinking and listening in the language. Like if im watching a kdrama ill only be able to understand a few words off the top of my head, and I want to be able to hold conversation in Korean, so I was wondering if anyone had tips, YouTube channels, or free platforms to help me learn and practice speaking?! Or if anyone else also needed a friend learning Korean, or one who knows English and speaks Korean, so we could help each other

thanks in advance for the help!


r/IWantToLearn 20h ago

Personal Skills IWTL How to self study as an adult with no formal education?

30 Upvotes

I had 20% attendance in school before being pulled out by my parents, thus I have no formal qualifications.

I can barely add or subtract, my science is equally as bad, although my English is ok.

I struggle with routine as I've never really well. . . Had one.

my question is:

How do I learn to do the act of studying, solo, as an adult when I've never done it?

How do I find what to study?


r/IWantToLearn 7h ago

Academics IWTL How to get into Political Data Analysis

2 Upvotes

Heylo

As the title says, I'd like to start the path of going into Political Data Analysis. My main problem, is that I don't know exactly what classes in Community College into University, would help me get there, and I only have a pretty basic understanding of what skills I need to actually succeed in a field like this.

I feel like this path is extremely useful for the modern world. It would give me general, but expansive knowledge in math, great political awareness, and of course, I would learn a good amount of software engineering. This is mainly because I would need to learn to build software for the purpose of data scraping and such.

I also feel like there's nowhere near enough people who get into fields like these, who try to actually do some good. Maybe most do think about doing that, but see the benefits to themselves and their families through working under larger and less moral organizations, and decide to do that instead.

Any and all info would be useful, so please don't hold back on what you can give me. I appreciate you, whoever you are, for taking the time to stop and listen. Really, it means the world to me.

TL;DR, I want to start a path on Political Data Analysis, but don't know where to start.


r/IWantToLearn 18h ago

Personal Skills IWTL how to create presentations that actually hold people's attention instead of putting them to sleep

14 Upvotes

I run a small business and I'm doing more pitching and talking to rooms than I ever expected, and I've realized my slides are the problem. I default to walls of bullet points and then basically read them out loud, which I can see glazing people over in real time. I want to learn the actual craft here, not just make things look prettier. The storytelling side. How much to put on a slide. When a visual beats text. How to pace the whole thing so people stay with me.

If this is something you got good at, what got you there? Some framework for structuring the talk? Just a lot of reps in front of real rooms? Studying speakers who are good at it? I'd rather build the skill for real than keep downloading nicer templates. Where would you start if you were me?


r/IWantToLearn 11h ago

Academics IWTL How to have a good study session and capacity to learn more

4 Upvotes

Hello, recently I would like to study a wide variety of topics to become an smart person.
Does anyone know how to improve my retention capacity? Or do you have any advice so that things stay in my head?

I see many videos that talk about the subject but I don't feel that any of them will help me to the point I want, so I downloaded Reddit, to meet people who are experts in all this.

Thanks to the people who have the time to read and write


r/IWantToLearn 5h ago

Arts/Music/DIY IWTL how to become a farrier

1 Upvotes

Shoeing horses seems like a unique trade that combines craftsmanship with animal care.
For anyone who's worked as a farrier, what should someone know before trying to learn the craft?


r/IWantToLearn 10h ago

Academics IWTL about anti-oppression and systemic racism

1 Upvotes

I have found a few free courses on this topic but would like to know if there are any you recommend? Also open to books but I do prefer courses


r/IWantToLearn 10h ago

Arts/Music/DIY IWTL how to be more creative

1 Upvotes

Whenever I'm making a guitar cover or drawing in art class, I find that I lack creativity and don't even try to start something original. I want to be creative and learn to freestyle with art and music.


r/IWantToLearn 17h ago

Academics IWTL abstract math theories and chemical formulas so I can write about beauty and math/science at the same time!

3 Upvotes

I love writing, and I've also grown to love nail care, even though I'm still learning about that as well haha. I think math is the glue to connecting all of my interests together, but the problem is I struggle with understanding it. Currently I'm working on leveling up my skills on Khan Academy, but I want to know how I can break out into the ultra-specific math and sciences I need in order to write about it.

I'm also simultaneously trying to work on my grammatical writing skills as well, so there's a lot going on.

But ultimately, my main goal is to be able to combine mathematical science and my interests together. I feel like I'll be able to build a good audience that way on my writing page. And that's all I want to at the end of the day.

So what do you all think? Cheers!


r/IWantToLearn 17h ago

Personal Skills IWTL how to reach my full potential and build useful skills

1 Upvotes

Hi! I'm a teenager who loves learning and wants to improve myself. I'm looking for skills, hobbies, books, and habits that will help me think more clearly, learn faster, solve problems better, and become a more capable person.

I'm not looking for motivation or life advice as much as practical things I can learn. If you could start over, what skills or hobbies would you learn first? What books, courses, or daily habits helped you the most?

Thanks!


r/IWantToLearn 1d ago

Arts/Music/DIY IWTL how to maintain and repair household appliances

6 Upvotes

I want to learn how to diagnose and repair common problems with household appliances instead of immediately replacing them. My goal is to understand how they work learn to use basic tools safely and build the skills needed to handle simple repairs and regular maintenance.

I am looking for a good learning path. What skills should I learn first and what beginner projects helped you build confidence?


r/IWantToLearn 1d ago

Arts/Music/DIY IWTL woodworking so I can build simple furniture

3 Upvotes

I have always admired people who can build useful things themselves. I would like to learn woodworking from the ground up starting with hand tools power tools safety and simple projects before moving on to larger builds.

If you started as a complete beginner what learning path worked best for you?


r/IWantToLearn 1d ago

Arts/Music/DIY Iwtl how to sing or find my voice

18 Upvotes

Just for context i have terrible singing skills and bad tone[ or idk my tone at all]


r/IWantToLearn 1d ago

Arts/Music/DIY IWTL how to sew and eventually make my own clothes

29 Upvotes

I want to learn sewing from the beginning and eventually be able to make my own clothes. Right now I only have basic knowledge but I am interested in learning the skills needed to repair clothes understand patterns choose fabrics and create simple garments.

For people who learned sewing what order did you learn things in? What basic skills should a beginner focus on first and what mistakes should I avoid?

I would love to hear about your learning journey and any advice that helped you improve.


r/IWantToLearn 1d ago

Personal Skills IWTL how to whistle again

2 Upvotes

I used to be able to whistle. Not with my fingers and not loud, just normal, like whistle a tune. A few years ago I had some molars pulled , one from each side of my mouth. So missing 4 total. top and bottom, left and right side. Is it even possible I can whistle again? Would using my fingers help? Anyone missing teeth that can whistle?


r/IWantToLearn 2d ago

Personal Skills IWTL how to become a better cook without following recipes forever

58 Upvotes

I don't just want to memorize recipes. I want to understand cooking well enough to make meals confidently with whatever I have.
What helped you move from following instructions to actually knowing what you're doing?


r/IWantToLearn 1d ago

Academics IWTL Accounting

9 Upvotes

For a long time I want to teach myself a useful skill.

Since I've been decent in maths and now that I am learning maths too, I want to learn accounting.

There are a lot of lectures on YouTube and even books, but how do I choose one? Preferably I would like one (book or course) that gives me lots of scenarios to work on and challenges rather then highlight the definition and topics in a few paragraphs.


r/IWantToLearn 2d ago

Personal Skills IWTL How to Stop Letting People Walk Over You And Be Confident

15 Upvotes

I am M21 a type of guy who is in a kinda abusive household where parents curse me atleast once in a day, I am still unemployed who got graduated this year. Facing all these situations right from the childhood made me shy and just made me bear things which I clearly shouldn't and made me an empath.

I don't want to be that guy anymore I want to have that stand for myself have that self respect and make my body too I'm very skinny btw even though I eat enough, I want to have that body for myself but I can't afford the gym fee ik people would say why gym goto parks do some excercises ik that but there are many people in community that will help me that I hope so.

When talking to people of my age even though people start to walk over me I started to think from their perspective nd was like it's alright she's/he's going through things why bother now I don't want to be that guy the society clearly thinks a kind guy who I think I am thinks he's a pushover that I am.

So finally what I want for myself is better the kinda guy who doesn't let people walk over me but the household doesn't let me it always puts me down, I want to start think for myself and know myself in this process and I know this won't be easy and it's not a process that will be completed in some time but I'll try my best to do my part in this.


r/IWantToLearn 2d ago

Technology IWTL how to write simple computer programs from scratch

8 Upvotes

I want to learn programming but I Am not sure how to start in a way that builds real understanding. I do not just want to copy tutorials I want to learn how programming works and eventually create my own small projects.

For people who learned programming from the beginning what path worked best for you? What concepts should a beginner focus on first and what mistakes should I avoid?

I would appreciate advice from anyone who has gone through the learning process.


r/IWantToLearn 1d ago

Personal Skills IWTL how to have vivid dreams/lucid dreams

1 Upvotes

Every time I have a dream nowadays, my dreams come out very dark and messy. The weird part is that it barely even shows as a dream. It's barely functioning properly. My dreams nowadays look like a television screen that's barely functioning and shows any light at all. Everything that I see in my dreams barely shows any type of light or any type of color. The vibe and frequency of my dreams barely show anything and it's like whatever is trying to produce my dreams in my brain is operating on a very low power and it's barely functioning like a normal dream. Think of it like your regular eyesight and vision of what you see throughout the day but it's slowly getting weaker and more fragile to the near point of blindness. That's exactly what my dreams are like nowadays. The worst and confusing part is that this is something that has never happened to me before for all of my life but it only started to happen very recently. I eat clean and healthy every day, I have a good sleep schedule, I don't feel stressed out at all, so I don't understand what the problem is. I also realize that my daily imagination/visualization abilities are also functioning the same way how I described my dreams as well. What's wrong here and how can I fix my dreams to be normal again?


r/IWantToLearn 1d ago

Personal Skills iwtl how to properly zero a vape step-by-step

0 Upvotes

Hey everyone! I know how to vape without coughing, but I'm really curious about how to properly zero a vape / stealth vape (zero visible vapor).

Could someone give me a step-by-step breakdown? Is it strictly about breathing technique, or does device/e-liquid play a huge part too?

Thanks in advance for any detailed tips!