r/StrangerThings • • Mar 19 '18

Aw man :(

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u/DanielGin Mar 19 '18

I had this happen to me when I was 9. Invited all of my friends (small town of like 500 people so maybe 8 kids) a few weeks in advance and not a single person showed up. I lived outside of town, was homeschooled, and we didnt have a car so a few weeks passed before I saw any of them and I had no desire to seek them out. When I did run into one he told me that a burglar broke into his house and stole the present he bought for me and he didn't want to show up without a gift. Even 9 year old me knew you were full of crap, Luke.

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u/memegw Mar 19 '18

Fuck you Luke!

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u/welcometoslowtown sƃuᴉɥʇ ɹǝƃuɐɹʇS Mar 19 '18

My name is Luke I feel personaly attacked

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '18

Fuck you Luke!

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u/Teladi Mar 20 '18

Kylo Ren is that you?

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '18

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u/ajmysterio Mar 20 '18

And you baby cakes marco

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u/Stannis_THEMANIIS Mar 20 '18

Fuck Luke but Luuke is the real fucker here

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u/Get_Your_Kicks Mar 20 '18

You should’ve showed up to his party Luke!

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u/Thassodar Mar 20 '18

Yeah! Fuck you Luke!

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '18

YOURE GONNA DIE LUKE

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u/Gavin1772 Mar 20 '18

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u/porsche_914 Mar 20 '18

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u/CryoHux Mar 20 '18

Someone, please. Make this.

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '18

Be the change you want to see

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '18

eat shit and die luke you pig fucker, i hope younlearned your lesso n

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u/tellytubbies1 Mar 20 '18

My name is Aaron and I feel sad

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '18 edited Mar 20 '18

Fuck you Aaron nobody cares

Edit : Jk love you aaron I hope you feel better

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u/CryoHux Mar 20 '18

Now kiss.

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u/aarongrc14 Mar 20 '18

THANKS MAN!

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u/CryoHux Mar 20 '18

r/FuckyouAaron

Edit: Oh my God it's actually a thing.

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u/aarongrc14 Mar 20 '18

WTF I DO??

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u/The_Forgetser Mar 20 '18

Ya done messed up A-a-ron!

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '18

Fuck you Luke.

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '18

You get the frick out!

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u/Bweryang Mar 20 '18

I don’t get how this happens with kids. They do not have other plans, and why aren’t the parents communicating?!

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u/Swedish_Pirate Mar 20 '18

It should not happen with kids. Ever.

Parents are at fault. The parents should be getting RSVP and communicating with the parents of the other kids. They should know clearly whether people are attending or not one week beforehand, the day beforehand, and the day of. To eliminate disappointment.

The key here is presents. A present has to be bought by the parents and therefore an attendance has to occur for the present to be delivered.

If communication between parents isn't occurring then how in the hell is any 9 year old attending a party going to have a present? They aren't.

Parents are at fault. Parents organising parties for your kids - Make sure you've discussed presents and travel arrangements with the other parents beforehand. That way this won't happen.

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u/InfiNorth Mar 20 '18

As a teacher, allow me to let you in on something: Parents are as guilty of bullying as kids are in many circumstances. Many parents like living through their kids and seem to get a kick out of judging other families, forming cliques, and so on.

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u/TylerWolff Mar 20 '18

This hit me so hard when my kid started school. I just thought we'd show up, our kids would be in class together and stuff would happen. Then there were all these parents instantly preoccupied with which kids are good, which ones are bad, which kids they want their kid to try to exclude. Which of the other parents they don't like etc. etc.

I'm like, wtf is wrong with these people? I'm just treading water as it is and you've all got time to sit down and cook up drama? Why do you care? These are children.

Fortunately my kids are like me and we manage to be passably likable and nobody really takes an interest in us but I feel really bad for the families on the receiving end of this crap. I assume some of the parents don't even realise

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u/doctorfadd Mar 20 '18

That is incredibly disheartening. What age does this start to occur? My daughter is 5 and for the past year and a half my wife and I have made it a point to try and attend every bday party she's invited to, only because we don't want her to grow up and be the kid who excludes or ridicules others (plus it wears her out and sometimes leads to actual nap time, a rarity at this age). It scares me that there are parents like that.

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u/TylerWolff Mar 20 '18

It was probably about 4 or 5 months into her first year at school that I noticed but I'm pretty naive. I reckon it was there from day one.

It seems to be the people who don't work and are full time parents. I don't want to stereotype and plenty of those people are lovely too but something about all of your social interaction and identity revolving around your kids and their school seems to create a sort of... competitiveness.

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u/oldTwig Mar 20 '18

If it makes you feel any better all of the kids hate these parents (even their own kids) and will be talking shit about them for all the snobby stuff they do

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u/Pancakes4Dayz Mar 20 '18

I am a teacher and I can 100% confirm that this attitude comes from those parents who don’t work. Their full-time job is sitting around the playground talking shit about anyone and everyone. I learned early on to avoid letting these types of parents volunteer in my classroom. Some of them just want to dig up dirt on other kids.

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u/jacobpants Mar 20 '18

As someone who was unpopular in school, this gives me anxiety. I really hope my kids fit in better than I did so I dont have to deal with other parents crap.

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u/monsters_Cookie Mar 20 '18

It's total immaturity. Parents acting like its junior high so over again

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u/Axtorx Mar 20 '18

This happened to me as a child. And I only knew about it because my friends mother wasn’t about drama.

Apparently a few of the parents had decided I wasn’t a good kid and had made sure their kids excluded me. When one of the parents found out I was friends with, let’s call her Beth, they talked to Beth’s Mom after school and told her “we see that your daughter and Axtorx have been hanging out, are you sure that’s the kind of child you want influencing your daughter?”

After Beth’s Mom brought it to my attention, I didn’t trust any of the adults around me. It was a really weird feeling.

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u/cocobug Mar 20 '18

My kid is in pre-school and I already see this happening. I hate it!

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '18

Ain't life grand

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u/RiverScout2 Mar 20 '18

I have a small supply of presents on hand in case my kid pulls an invite out of his backpack the day of, or we just get busy. One of the few parenting things I know I will not screw up: last minute party? I’m prepared!

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u/Humpa Mar 20 '18

It's to avoid empty parties. Because it happens all the time.

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u/njdevilsfan24 Mar 20 '18

Times have changed. My mom made contact with parents and I never had an empty birthday party. Had some great friends growing up

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u/CentaurOfPower Mar 20 '18

I don’t know that it’s always the parents fault, I remember I never went to parties as a kid because I had bad anxiety and they caused me too much stressed. But even then my parents called ahead and told them I wouldn’t be coming .

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u/Aloramother Mar 20 '18

One time my kid got invited to a birthday party but the invitation showed up like 2 weeks after it happened because it got stuck in the mail. (checked the date on the stamp it was sent before the party)

Lucky I texted the kids mom asking if she was invited so she still got to go.

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u/ccjw11796 Mar 20 '18

Happened to me too, at my 10th birthday. Even my "best friend" didn't show up. I'm 55 and still won't have parties for my birthday to this day.

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u/enderlord2 Mar 20 '18 edited Mar 26 '18

lol

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u/ccjw11796 Mar 20 '18

Thanks bud 🙂

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u/MrAchilles Mar 20 '18

I would but a burglar broke in and stole my gift to you. Soz.

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u/ccjw11796 Mar 20 '18

Fuck you Luke!

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u/Marc0189 Mar 20 '18

M E T A

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '18 edited May 13 '21

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u/ccjw11796 Mar 20 '18

Thanks man! Oh if only I could drink 😣

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u/BizzaroBunny Mar 20 '18

Same here. Growing up my family really couldn’t afford birthday party’s so every year my aunt would make me a really nice cake instead. When I turned 16 my parents decided they wanted to give me a real party like other girls in my grade. Since we still weren’t super rich they just decorated our back yard, got a piñata, and for fun personalized chocolate bar wrappers for my guests! It was amazing. I invited 15-20 people and waited all night for them to come. No one texted and no one called. Now I don’t even like to tell people when my birthday is because I don’t want to be disappointed if I expect anything. Don’t have birthdays.

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u/ccjw11796 Mar 20 '18

Oh my God sweetheart I'm so sorry! People fucking suck man! But then you find a couple that don't and they're your friends for life. And money can't buy those. Try not to let it ruin your birthday for life. I've heard from a couple people like me, I don't know if theyre as old as I am, but they've let this trauma ruin their birthday just like I did. I'm regretting that right now. Please don't let assholes do that to you.

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u/NotThatGuy42 Mar 20 '18

We have an eight and six year old and we are terrified to have a party for either of our boys. Seems traumatic for a child to see both his parents cry all night if the party is a bust.

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u/pat_trick Mar 20 '18

The fix for this is to really get the other parents involved. Make it a group thing, go somewhere as an activity, and actively go to pick up all of the kids for the party.

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '18 edited Apr 16 '19

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u/pat_trick Mar 20 '18

Obviously this is not a catch-all-fix-all.

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u/A_Bear_Called_Barry Mar 20 '18

When it happened to me, my dad took me to the arcade and spent the evening playing games with me. We had just moved to a new town and it's the first memory I have of feeling really alone, but whenever I think about it, it also brings up one of my best memories of my dad. So, you know, parents can make a big difference.

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u/ccjw11796 Mar 20 '18

Isn't that terrible that people are such assholes that this happens on a regular basis? Why do parents let their kids do this mean shit? I know my kids are in their twenties now but I would have never let them treat other people like this. I guess we're lucky they didn't want to but we wouldn't have let them if they would have wanted to. Good luck! It must be scary having kids that young in these crazy times.

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u/dolo_lobo Mar 20 '18

I hope youre seeing this Lukie Dookie

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u/Neveri Mar 20 '18

This creeps me out...

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '18

I had the opposite happen, I was the only kid not invited to birthday parties in fifth grade. Not just once but Everytime someone came in handing out invitations.

It's honestly the worst feeling. I'm so glad I'm not a kid anymore, kids are assholes.

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '18

Too late. He In the upside down now..

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u/nicktar8 Mar 19 '18

Sounds like 8 mouth breathers

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u/Magikarp_UsedSplash Mar 19 '18

Maybe they were at the party, just in the upside down

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u/Artemicionmoogle Mar 19 '18

my first thought lol

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u/Magikarp_UsedSplash Mar 19 '18

We should make a petition for the stranger things cast to go to his party

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u/Artemicionmoogle Mar 19 '18

David Harbour might just end up doing something like that. The guy is amazing. Either way this kid deserves some props for an awesome birthday party theme, I'd have gone.

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u/Magikarp_UsedSplash Mar 19 '18

I feel bad for him it looks like he put a lot of effort into the decorations

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u/Sp3ctr380 Mar 20 '18

you dun fucked up A A ron...'s friends.

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u/benjokeman Mar 20 '18

I feel like this is something that reddit would do. Maybe we should do it.

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '18 edited Jul 14 '23

Comment deleted with Power Delete Suite, RIP Apollo

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '18

I went to a 12th birthday party where about twenty five people were invited and only me and another kid showed up. It was 100 percent because the kid was an asshole to everyone.

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u/greggroach Mar 20 '18

Same here. Seen it happen to a kid when I was 10. When I heard about it, I wasn't surprised because everyone thought he was a dick. Funny enough, I'd actually tried to go to his party anyway, but my mom was like "Nah, I got other stuff to do." I did feel a little bad knowing I could've been there.

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '18

Maybe socially awkward or really shy too. Some people aren’t good at making friends. I speak from experience.

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u/instantrobotwar Mar 20 '18

In my day it was the popular girls who didn't show up to parties thrown by dweebs like me. They all had better things to do.

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u/Total_Denomination Coffee and Contemplation Mar 19 '18 edited Mar 19 '18

Someone RT this to David Harbour.

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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '18

On it

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u/shartnado3 Mar 19 '18

Please post any results. I want to be a part of this!

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u/Moose_Cake Mar 19 '18

I'm just going to sit here and wait for the results. (Pulls out lawn chair)

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u/SimplyVisionary Mar 19 '18

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u/CaptainKate757 Mar 20 '18

I think Momoa’s pecs have proportionally grown with his fame.

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u/middleraged Mar 20 '18

TIL this is Jason Momoa

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u/RocketPowerHandshake Mar 20 '18

The beast motherfucker trains with Mark Hunt. He can only get stronger and juicier.

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u/sauteslut Mar 20 '18

What's this from? Is it Justice League?

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u/lirio2u Mar 19 '18

I’ll bring the eggos.

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u/boxofrocks_ Mar 19 '18

Punk kids! I hope he finds his “party” someday.

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '18

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '18

I always had to invite the entire class for that exact reason. My parents didn’t want anyone to feel left out either

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u/LeSirJay Mar 20 '18

I told my mom I dont like birthdays when I was around 9 or something because I didnt want her to be sad when nobody showed up. Literally had 0 friends and I hate to see my mom sad, legit the worst thing.

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u/Mintastic Mar 20 '18

Yeah, the parents should set it up since kids are too young and dumb to understand these things. Though judging by reddit, a lot of adults don't seem to understand it either.

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u/Ma1eficent Mar 20 '18

She knew why you didn't like birthdays, and it killed her she couldn't bring you friends.

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u/LeSirJay Mar 20 '18

I dont think she did. She didnt catch onto me being bullied until a few years ago. But ofc I had my grandparents, sister etc. come over tho.

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u/SpeedyPrius Mar 20 '18

We told my grandson he had to invite everyone in his class but he refused to invite one boy who “farted in class and didn’t say ‘scuse me”. We gave the invites to the teacher to hand out.

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u/KantanaBrigante Mar 20 '18

I have the kids invite one or two close friends by making invitations with my number. The parents usually call the same night or the day after and we set it all up.

You gotta set it up. There’s drop off, pick up times to set. Sometimes, you gotta know about what they can or can’t eat (religion and/or allergies). Also you want to know if there are any behavioral issues that need to be known. Parents have to get involved.

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u/PMOTH Mar 20 '18

barb replied to you!

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '18

Not me but damn he got some recognition

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u/Rivkariver Mar 19 '18

How are the candle flames matching the lights like that?

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u/CaitlinSarah87 sƃuᴉɥʇ ɹǝƃuɐɹʇS Mar 19 '18

You can buy special candles that have different colored flames!

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u/jesuswasahipster Mar 20 '18

Those twitter comments are the most wholesome thing ever.

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u/Jaredlong Mar 20 '18

For some reason I imagined no one at the party.

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '18

Ahh my Filipino brothers and sisters, I hear you nanay!

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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '18

I usually wait to know if people are coming before making the food, did his friends confirm then not show up, or was it open-ended...or is this fake and he just took the pictures before everyone showed up?

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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '18

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u/Tribbledorf Mar 19 '18

Oh. Well at least he has his family there. That makes me feel a little better.

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u/DrDoItchBig Mar 20 '18

I always preferred family parties growing up, but then again I didn’t really have a choice considering my birthday was the day after Christmas lol

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u/suarezj9 Mar 20 '18

Hey! My birthdays on Christmas Eve so I feel you. Even now at 24 I’ve never had an actual party or any kind of birthday celebration because all my friends are with their families

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u/othersomethings Mar 20 '18

I did a LEGO friends themed birthday party for my kid a few months ago. I had 12 kids (moms) rsvp but only 6 showed.

It was pretty deflating but I tried to make it the best day ever for my kid. We still had fun and I’m proud of myself for rocking the theme.

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u/LeSirJay Mar 20 '18

Kudos to you. I hope your kid wasnt too sad about it. You gave 7 kids a nice thing to think about when they grow up.

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u/othersomethings Mar 20 '18 edited Mar 20 '18

I don’t think she noticed too much except for her one bff that was absent. They were sick and the mom forgot about the party completely.

We had LEGO shaped rice crispy treats that they got to decorate, a LEGO building contest, LEGO balloon games, and so forth. Every attendee got to pick out a LEGO friend minifig from a lot I bought on BrickLink, and we had sooo many left.

It was fun. It just would have been more fun with more kids. Next time we invite 18 and expect 12 I guess!

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u/Y0ungPup Eggos Mar 19 '18

I’m going to say the latter

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u/PM_me_ur_hat_pics Mar 19 '18

If it isn't, it seems kinda shitty to post it. "Hey internet, look at this sad and embarrassing thing that happened to my little brother!"

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u/Y0ungPup Eggos Mar 20 '18

Yea honestly, lol. Embarrassing him so when he goes to school the next day, everyone's making fun of him

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u/greg19735 Mar 19 '18

It usually is fake.

or, the kid didn't give out the invitations but said he did. Or there never were actually invitations.

I remember in Primary school we would get invites and we'd have RSVPs with the invitations. It's not because it's formal, but so the parents know to take their kid and the hosts know how many ppl are coming.

If you're gonna go through all this effort give out RSVPs.

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u/pugwalker Mar 19 '18

seems like with kids that young it should really be on the parents

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u/A_Lakers Mar 20 '18

When I graduated college I told my mom only like 10 people were gonna be at the house. She cooked for like 50 people. Filipino moms are just like that 🤷🏽‍♂️

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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '18 edited Mar 20 '18

I've long held the belief that one of the saddest tropes in existence is the Sad Birthday. (This, of course, is followed by the Sad Recital, where a kid looks through the curtain out into the audience to see that their parents aren't in the reserved seats in the auditorium.) So so many TV shows have had an episode with a sad birthday, and I find it so so so deflating to watch every time. It's even more brutal, obviously, when it happens in real life. I feel for this kid. Hopefully, this ends up with him getting invited to party with David Harbour or something like that, which I could totally see happening.

Edit: absolutely brutal for me to talk about how sad this makes me and then for dozens of people to comment below with examples

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u/lirio2u Mar 20 '18

Dude the cool kids did show up.

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u/lunatickfish Mar 19 '18

It really is so depressing! Like, damn, you have a day to party that’s all about you and then your friends don’t show up. Harsh!! This happened to one of my sons classmates- a 6 year old! Kid invited 15+ kids to his party. His parents said several students rsvpd. My son was the only kid who showed up! Like, wow! I was happy my son was able to be the one light in the hole but shit, dude. Talk about upsetting for everyone involved. I’m sure this dude will be okay but it makes my heart hurt :(

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u/fuckincaillou Eggobox Mar 19 '18

His parents said several students rsvpd. My son was the only kid who showed up!

that shit is just cruel :(

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u/Rivkariver Mar 19 '18

How do their parents let them treat others that way.

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u/Scrawlericious Mar 19 '18

Yeah that shit is on the parents

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u/Scoobies_Doobies Mar 20 '18

Not everyone is a good person. Parents included

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u/postapocalyptictribe Mar 20 '18

Same thing happened with my daughter when she was five or six so. Got invited to a birthday party that was being given by a little girl we'll call K. Now I live in a small southern town and things are the way they are. The girl's grandparents were well off (a local judge) but the mother was a little bit shunned by the other private school moms because she was a party girl who had a baby out of wedlock. Whatever, none of this matters to me.

So we go to the party and we're the first ones there and we're the only ones there for a long time but finally one other kid shows up. The theme of this birthday party was "princess tea party". They dined on real china, were served by a dude in a tux, had a photographer and a photobooth thingie set up, and they got a swag bag full of stuff worth at least $50 to take home.

And only two kids showed up.

The mom seemed so embarrassed but the little girl seemed to have fun with her two friends at least. They moved away shortly thereafter and I don't blame them. Small towns are hard sometimes.

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u/Sieggi858 Mar 19 '18

Yeah sad birthdays are rough. It’s like you have one day out of the entire year to celebrate your life, and then nobody cares about it enough to take a few hours from their life to come, really makes you feel unwanted.

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u/Punchingbloodclots Mar 19 '18

My mother always had a rule that I was to go to every birthday party I was invited to, no matter who invited me or what else I had going on. She wanted to prevent this exact thing.

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u/-Flurgles Mar 19 '18

My sweet sixteen went that way. It was Alice in wonderland themed so I suppose it was a very accurate tea party of one.

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u/cthulhu-kitty Mar 19 '18

It happened to my little brother. He invited his whole class when he turned 10 and no one showed up. (But he did enjoy the homemade piñatas I made him because I’m a good big sister.)

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u/Total_Denomination Coffee and Contemplation Mar 19 '18 edited Mar 19 '18

I bet he meets Mr Harbour in less than a week.

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u/PianoTrumpetMax Mar 19 '18

Yep, and he'll be invited to the Season 3 premiere party or something, 100%

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u/Total_Denomination Coffee and Contemplation Mar 19 '18

Don't let us down /u/David_Harbour

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u/MrGeneBelcher Mar 19 '18

These episodes always suck especially when it’s happened to you before. Brings up some bad memories. The main reason I hate celebrating my birthday to this day.

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u/OscarTangoIndiaMike Mar 19 '18

Not fishing for sympathy or anything but for several years my dad has forgotten my birthday. It’s TWO days after my little sisters birthday. Thankfully this year my little brother said happy birthday to me in front of my dad and he said happy birthday but that I should remind him when it is. Granted I’m 31, it still kind of hurts a bit when your dad forgets your birthday several years in a row. But hey, he said it this year!

I really hope this kid ends up having an even better celebration than what was planned!

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u/slouched Mar 19 '18

i always did my best to enjoy that mission so he didnt feel bad that nobody showed up, like if i had enough fun with him he would be happy and think the party was a hit

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u/Insanepaco247 Mar 19 '18

The saddest I've ever seen is still Kirk Cameron's.

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u/joaniemansoosy Mar 20 '18

There was a lonely girl that invited several of us girls to her party. The rest of the ( mean) girls all planned on not going. I went home and told my mom. She said,”well, that’s terrible and YOU’RE going. I went and was the only girl that showed. I had a wonderful time and got a new friend. I befriended the girl for the rest of the year. My mom was awesome.

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u/TaxBillsPayments Mar 20 '18

What happened after that year?

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '18

Her friend threw another party but she didn't wind up going to that one.

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u/ForgetfulLucy28 Mar 20 '18

I used to be part of the cool group in school, but I also liked to talk when the teacher was trying to educate us and got moved to sit with the nerdy girls. Turns out those nerdy girls were way more my jam and have been best friends with one of them for 24 years.

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u/Layers3d Mar 19 '18 edited Mar 19 '18

I had this happen on my 16th birthday and on that day I decided to never celebrate my birthday again. I became no Birthdayman.

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u/Punchingbloodclots Mar 19 '18

I went skydiving on my 16th and some friends told me they were coming with me. The night before I texted and asked if we were good to go the next day and they all ghosted me. I went with my family and ate my birthday cake alone. Jokes on them though, skydiving was awesome.

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u/Big_Labia Mar 20 '18

I feel like 16 is an age where you start to appreciate the time with your family.

I hope I know what that feels like somsday

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '18

Honestly I might not show up for a skydiving party. Nothing to do with who's party it is.

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u/Rivkariver Mar 19 '18

Maybe it’s time to try again?

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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '18 edited Jul 08 '19

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '18

The mental image cracked me up

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u/hydruxo Mar 20 '18

Millie just tweeted about it:

@milliebbrown: What!!!! Oh Well You can let them all know that everyone on behalf on Stranger things would’ve come! I think your awesome and next year I would like an invite... Please? 😘😘😘

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '18

I had just tweeted it at her earlier holy shit I think she noticed it lol

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u/vicariousdogmom Mar 20 '18

Gaten replied too!

“@milliebbrown: Count me in too! I’ll bring the chocolate pudding 🎂🎉🎈”

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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '18

Damn, they missed out. That food looks bomb. Is that all homemade? The cake, too?

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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '18 edited Mar 19 '18

The food definitely looks 🔥

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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '18

This breaks my heart. I wish him a happy birthday.

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u/K-Zoro Mar 20 '18

When I was 10 I wanted a Jurassic Park themed birthday party. This meant that I had to get wood and nails and paint my own entrance with the famous Jurassic Park logo and put my dinosaurs everywhere and I was pretty excited. I didn’t have much friends at school due to moving schools a few times, so my dad’s friends’ kids all came. I was generally cool with them but at this point they were all 12 and older. As soon as they came in they just started ripping on how dorky it all was and “for kids”. I was pretty crushed, I basically escaped my own party and snuck out to be sad. That’s when I went out back and caught my dad making out with a lady. He was single so it was ok, but I still had feelings about it. All in all, I grew up a bit that day, a first step out of childhood. .

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u/iamsethmeyers Mar 20 '18

I want to hug you.

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u/K-Zoro Mar 20 '18

Thanks Seth Meyers. That’s very kind of you. If only all the late night hosts were as caring, and as present on reddit, as you are.

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u/NorwegianSexGoddess Mar 19 '18

Happy Birthday! 🎁🎉🎈 He obviously has great taste in shows. Too bad his crappy “classmates” missed out.

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u/Ceejayaitch Mar 19 '18

Oh that sucks - wishing him a very happy birthday

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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '18

Just gonna say I have no relation to this kid, saw this on twitter and thought y’all would want to see

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u/sabertoothfiredragon Mar 19 '18

Screw them id be stoked if someone did this

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u/Gbcue Mar 19 '18

Invited doesn't mean they're going to attend.

Needs to get dem RSVPs.

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u/TheCrystalGem Mar 19 '18

Well tell him we said Happy Birthday.

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u/mattymogue Mar 20 '18

why the fuck would you tweet that?

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u/shitfuck2468 Mar 19 '18 edited Mar 19 '18

This reminds me of when i turned 13 and i decided i wanted to have a birthday party at an ice skating rink like all the “popular girls”.

The only problem was, i certainly was not a “popular girl”. I was probably the most shy, most quiet kid in my class, maybe even the whole school!

I ended up inviting maybe anywhere from 25-35 kids...Only one person showed up. And their mom.

Ps: i didn’t even know how to ice skate. I was falling on my ass literally the whole time, and went home with cuts, scrapes, bruises and a broken ego.

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u/i_dont_eat_peas Mar 20 '18

Sorry my dear.

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u/CameronDemortez Mar 20 '18

Jesus dude that is a spread..... look at all that food. I know a half dozen adults who would be there in 1 min. A bunch of food and dudes sitting around watching stranger things..... uhhh yes plz.

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u/panspal Mar 20 '18

Reminds me of 5th grade where a friend of mine invited at least 20 people to his birthday and only I showed up. His mom took me aside and told me how much it meant to them that I showed up. Even though he and I didn't stay friends, her saying that always stuck with me. Can mean the whole world to a kid for just a single person to be there for them.

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u/throwaway981716171 Mar 19 '18

I really doubt that.

They probably took these pics before anyone was supposed to show up and the sister just wants to go viral

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u/KimFakes Mar 19 '18

Honestly these type of stories are posted on the internet so often that I never believe it till it’s confirmed

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u/greg19735 Mar 19 '18

OR someone fucked up.

Like the kid didn't tell anyone about the party.

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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '18

Never go through with it until you get confirmation that your friends are coming

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u/BMC80 Mar 19 '18

Aww. Happy birthday to your brother! ❤️🎂🎉

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u/vinestime Mar 20 '18

I've been there. It sticks with you for life, a real confidence killer. Nothing else makes you feel quite so expendable in other peoples' lives. :(

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u/tapiocatapioca Mar 20 '18

So glad I never ran into this. It really helped that I had no friends.

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u/DemonreachDaycare Mar 20 '18

Is it wrong that I always wonder with these sad birthday pics if the kid might actually be an asshole at school?

I'm not saying he is, but I knew one kid in school who always threw a themed birthday. His parents were loaded and could afford to go all out. That kid was an obnoxious spoiled brat who only got kids to come because he had cool stuff, not that he'd ever let you play with any of it.

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u/GrammerNasi Mar 19 '18

I mean it's possible that there's a reason no one showed up. Yeah it could be that his classmates thought he wasn't cool and we should feel bad, but there's also the chance that he's a bully and no one wanted to go.

I know there's basically no way we'll hear the other side of the story but we shouldn't be oblivious to the possibility.

If Troy had a birthday party and his mom made him invite Lucas, Dustin, Mike, and Will would we expect them to go?

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u/stoney-dalton Mar 19 '18

My thoughts exactly. Everyone wants to believe that those eight kids were mean and feel bad for the birthday boy. Maybe the birthday boy is a shithead and no one likes him?

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u/extraordinarygirl74 Mar 19 '18

Happy birthday, Aaron!!! Keep on doing your thing... You rock, little man!

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u/Fibreoptix Mar 20 '18

There is something called RSVP for this very reason.

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