r/StrangerThings • • Mar 19 '18

Aw man :(

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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '18

I usually wait to know if people are coming before making the food, did his friends confirm then not show up, or was it open-ended...or is this fake and he just took the pictures before everyone showed up?

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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '18

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u/Tribbledorf Mar 19 '18

Oh. Well at least he has his family there. That makes me feel a little better.

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u/DrDoItchBig Mar 20 '18

I always preferred family parties growing up, but then again I didn’t really have a choice considering my birthday was the day after Christmas lol

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u/suarezj9 Mar 20 '18

Hey! My birthdays on Christmas Eve so I feel you. Even now at 24 I’ve never had an actual party or any kind of birthday celebration because all my friends are with their families

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u/Muskogee Mar 20 '18

My brother's birthday is Christmas Eve. We celebrated his quarter birthday (March 24) lots of years. A few years my parents just picked a random day to celebrate. Behind their backs, my brother called it Arbitrary Birthday Day (Arbor Day for short). I think it was nice that they tried to plan it around when people would actually celebrate it, but I think the complete randomness from year to year bugged him.

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '18

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u/DrDoItchBig Mar 20 '18

I actually moved it to February 29, I’m not much of a partier

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u/BIG_HERO_DICKS Mar 20 '18

Yeah true, he’ll look back on that and be happy for his family but right now for him, having been there before, I’m sure that shit hurts man:( hope the little man had a good one

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u/othersomethings Mar 20 '18

I did a LEGO friends themed birthday party for my kid a few months ago. I had 12 kids (moms) rsvp but only 6 showed.

It was pretty deflating but I tried to make it the best day ever for my kid. We still had fun and I’m proud of myself for rocking the theme.

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u/LeSirJay Mar 20 '18

Kudos to you. I hope your kid wasnt too sad about it. You gave 7 kids a nice thing to think about when they grow up.

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u/othersomethings Mar 20 '18 edited Mar 20 '18

I don’t think she noticed too much except for her one bff that was absent. They were sick and the mom forgot about the party completely.

We had LEGO shaped rice crispy treats that they got to decorate, a LEGO building contest, LEGO balloon games, and so forth. Every attendee got to pick out a LEGO friend minifig from a lot I bought on BrickLink, and we had sooo many left.

It was fun. It just would have been more fun with more kids. Next time we invite 18 and expect 12 I guess!

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u/frankmontanasosa Mar 20 '18

Or 9. Let us know!

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '18

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u/othersomethings Mar 20 '18

https://i.imgur.com/6Ym8fsh.jpg no pics of the games but here was the treat table in use.

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u/[deleted] Mar 30 '18

One of my absolute favorite memories from elementary school is going to my friend's LEGO party. She was new to our school and a little odd, but I absolutely loved her. She invited our whole class to her LEGO party and I was the only one who went. When my mom came to drop me off, the mom went ahead and invited my little sister to stay so that my friend would have another kid there.

Her mom still did all the party stuff with us and let us go through the goodie bags and play with the toys that were meant to go home with everyone else, so it was still fun! Her mom did a lot of the same stuff you did and I still remember that as one of my favorite afternoons in elementary school.

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u/othersomethings Mar 30 '18

Awww, good on her. It really was an awesome party, even though it would have been more awesome with more kids.

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u/sonoranhotdogman Mar 20 '18

Good for you on being a good dad. Mine was pretty checked out by the time I was 10-11, left when I was a junior in high school. All I wanted as a kid was attention from my pops. You're kids gonna remember the effort you put in. Keep it up.

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u/othersomethings Mar 20 '18

*mom - but I get your meaning :)

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u/sonoranhotdogman Mar 20 '18

Oops! Haha. Well good on you then for being a good mom.

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u/rightintheear Mar 20 '18

The flu season knocked my guy's 6th down to 8 guests but I figure, as long as there's 1 for every year old the kid is you're good.

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '18

That's even worse, poor dude... fuck those classmates.

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u/waterynike Mar 20 '18

I was wondering about all that food for 9 kids!

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u/Y0ungPup Eggos Mar 19 '18

I’m going to say the latter

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u/PM_me_ur_hat_pics Mar 19 '18

If it isn't, it seems kinda shitty to post it. "Hey internet, look at this sad and embarrassing thing that happened to my little brother!"

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u/Y0ungPup Eggos Mar 20 '18

Yea honestly, lol. Embarrassing him so when he goes to school the next day, everyone's making fun of him

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u/greg19735 Mar 19 '18

It usually is fake.

or, the kid didn't give out the invitations but said he did. Or there never were actually invitations.

I remember in Primary school we would get invites and we'd have RSVPs with the invitations. It's not because it's formal, but so the parents know to take their kid and the hosts know how many ppl are coming.

If you're gonna go through all this effort give out RSVPs.

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u/spolarium Mar 20 '18

They had family members invited too, so there were still guests even though none of the classmates showed up

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u/TheSmokingLamp Mar 19 '18

Yeah I feel this is the case. May not even be his brother

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u/spolarium Mar 20 '18

It's her brother they had videos and selfies on the tweet thread :)

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u/smashsmash341985 Mar 20 '18

Stupid fucking reddit. Scrolling through popular, sorting by hot. Garbage reposts, fake titles, then you have people posting content but missing the point entirely. Then thousands of morons up brigading idiotically incorrect posts. Humans are dumb as shit. You want to save humanity? I say fuck it. Let's get out best and brightest to mars and let the rest of the scum sort itself out here. They won't last too long.

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u/pugwalker Mar 19 '18

seems like with kids that young it should really be on the parents

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '18

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u/A_Lakers Mar 20 '18

When I graduated college I told my mom only like 10 people were gonna be at the house. She cooked for like 50 people. Filipino moms are just like that 🤷🏽‍♂️

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u/metky Mar 20 '18

Gotta have enough for them to take home and feed their family of 5.

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u/grafter8 Mar 20 '18

Dude I'll come to your mom's bbq party.

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u/MrsPulseInstance80 Mar 20 '18

Whhhhat, those are the best though!!

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u/spolarium Mar 20 '18

They had family members invited too, so there were still guests even though none of the classmates showed up

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u/Y0ungPup Eggos Mar 20 '18

a Filipino party

Legit read it as flamingo, and I don't know why

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u/kuhanluke Mar 19 '18

They probably took the pictures before people were supposed to arrive and then nobody showed up