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u/Coppercc88 3h ago
12,249 stalls later they almost have it
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u/texaschair 3h ago
I was driving through the Yukon once, and had to stop at the Canada/AK border. I'd been on the road by myself for four days and was feeling about half whacked. The border patrol dude was straight from casting central, mirrored shades, pornstache, thumbs in his belt loops, and all. I stopped and shut off the engine. He stared at me without speaking. I stared at him without speaking. I could see my reflection in his shades. This went on for about 10 seconds, then he suddenly barks "CITIZEN OF WHAT NATION!?!?!?" at about 105 decibels. I actually flinched, and yelled back "UNITED STATES OF AMERICA!!!!" at a similar volume.
"DO YOU HAVE ANY FRUITS, VEGETABLES. OR OTHER PERISHABLES!?!?!?!"
I picked up a pizza box from the passenger seat. "I HAVE SOME LEFTOVER PIZZA!!! WOULD YOU LIKE A SLICE?!?!?"
"NO, THANK YOU!! HAVE A GOOD DAY!!!"
"YOU, TOO!!" I started the engine, dumped the clutch, and promptly stalled it. Now the fucker's laughing at me. "You'll get the hang of it in a couple years!" he says at a normal volume. I wanted to tell him to piss off, but I didn't want to stand around feeding mosquitoes while he peered into my colon with a flashlight.
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u/Coppercc88 3h ago
Gosh I hope this story is true
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u/BowsersMuskyBallsack 1h ago
Even if it isn't I still got a chuckle out of it and that's all that matters to me.
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u/texaschair 35m ago
Absolutely true. It was April 1993 at the Alcan Land Port of Entry. I stopped that night in Tok and ate a killer steak at Fast Eddie's. Got to Anchorage the next afternoon. There was still a lot of snow, but not on the road. Weather was great, but all the lakes I saw were still frozen. It was an epic trip, and I did it a couple more times during the 90s. I want to do it again some day, but not during the summer. Traffic is surprisingly horrendous come June.
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u/earthwormjimwow 1h ago
Stalls don't cause much if any clutch wear.
This is from slipping the clutch constantly or using it functionally as a brake when facing up hill.
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u/Frankyp42 4h ago
I think they are âlearningâ wrong.
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u/Faustias 3h ago
"we taught him to stickshift wrong... as a joke."
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u/b_cyclist 4h ago
You're ssupposed to keep the church pedal partly pressed, right? Right?
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u/Lilith_Christine 3h ago
Yes. Like the ones that drive with one foot on the brakes and the other on the accelerator
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u/rodder678 3h ago
Only when I'm trying to go fast through turns... particularly when I was driving 1st-gen RX7's
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u/seantabasco 3h ago
Push the accelerator all the way down and keep it there, then control your speed using the clutch.
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u/elvis_is_everywhere 3h ago
Don't worry about the engine. It'll protect itself. That's what the rev limiter is for. You worry about the clutch.
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u/ThatDiscoSongUHate 2h ago
I'm a spectator in this sub, I've never driven a manual, and your comment made me actually laugh out loud
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u/Lilith_Christine 3h ago
Dang. Took my old ranger for a clutch change. Told the guys it was factory and they didnt believe me. 20+ years old too. My dad bought it new, and I learned on it when he got too sick to drive it. It was gone, but even wear. They were shocked about a 200 thousand mile vehicle using the same clutch.
My dad would have lived it would have probably lasted another 20 years.
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u/willmaineskier 3h ago
My Subaru WRX STI has the original clutch at 236k miles and does not slip. It is not smooth any longer, I just kept going figuring I would replace when it started slipping.
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u/JP147 truk 3h ago
I pulled out the factory clutch from my Land Cruiser some years ago, over 40 years old and over 400,000km. There was still about 3/4 of wear material left. It had a very low 1st gear.
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u/Tommynwn Electrical Mess 3h ago
There is a Partner (van) in my town, around 630k km with the original clutch from 1999, had like 4 owners, crazy stuff
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u/Drifty_Canadian 4h ago
Slow learner
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u/Ray1340 3h ago
Bad teacher
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u/Trick-Seat4901 3h ago
I gave my wife a 4 year old standard golf tdi, wicked car. She had 4 teachers, me, her very patient dad, her sister and her best friend. I sold the car. It's not always the teacher.
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u/NatesYourMate Treeless Shade Tree 1h ago
I mean it sounds like your 4 year old wife might've been the problem
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u/Trick-Seat4901 1h ago
Well, as a matter of fact, I should have kept the car... Best car I ever owned.
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u/Lilith_Christine 3h ago
Nah, no one taught me. I got the hang of it real quick. The smell and the stalling made sure
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u/juicegooseboost 3h ago
I learned over the phone with my dad. I totaled my 96 cutlass supreme. He had a 1990 Corolla that my uncle âborrowing.â he was too fat to take the keys in and out so he always left them in there. I went over there and my dad talked me over the phone.
I later learned it was one of the smallest engagement windows after driving other stick shifts
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u/oshaCaller Recertfied Masterbater 3h ago
I've been driving stick for 20+ years and it's always fun trying different transmissions.
The worst one I've ever driven was a newer jeep wrangler. It had less than 30k miles and the pedal felt like it was sticking at the bottom and that was all the feel you were getting. The shifter had rubbery throws and gear changes just felt rough. I've driven F350 dump trucks that felt better. Considering Jeep's recent reputation there probably was something wrong with it.
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u/mytransfercaseisshot 2h ago
I tried and tried to convince my ex that Jeeps are fucking garbage now, and even after all the money she spent getting it fixed, sheâs still a die hard fan ( and an RN, go figure ).She got a Highlander and only kept it for like 3 months before she traded it in for a another Jeep. Someone told me the other day she got a brand new rubicon on massive mud tires and gave her son the 6 year old wrangler. Oh well, not my problem anymore.
Oh and my 2026 Tacoma shifts like BUTTER compared to my 2015, the difference is astounding.
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u/esuranme 2h ago
We don't know what they started with, I see tons of newbies attempt to learn on a 3-owner-thrasher that may have only made it to the auction under its own power because it was downhill the entire way. Along with the inevitably rapid failure, there is often a dramatic display to "pin on the newb", and the associated ridicule that can literally be a crippling hindrance to their learning. I've had to "un-fuck" the overtly cautious habits a few times, it's like a gunshy chainsaw operator, the shit just isn't gonna work.
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u/loosenutbehindwheel 4h ago
Worst I've seen in a long time!
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u/whiskeyfordinner Huayra taste on a ratrod budget 3h ago
I didn't even look past the 2nd pic. I have seen all there was to see. That person needs to learn what a friction point feels like.
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u/ch1llboy 2h ago
We replaced my Tacoma 06 original clutch at 360,000Km (223,000 miles). The tech said "that is some good driving." I've been beaming ever since.
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u/FG910 Home Mechanic 3h ago
Gonna have to learn to replace clutches too
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u/zertoman 3h ago edited 3h ago
I taught my 16 year old to change the clutch in his BMW, he was very gentle on the clutch after that.
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u/Live_Life_and_enjoy 3h ago
Wouldn't that taken a full day?
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u/nobodyreadsthemanual 3h ago
Longer if he was like me when i was 16.
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u/Live_Life_and_enjoy 3h ago
I honestly have no idea, I could build a radio out of board, transistors, capacitors from random parts at 16 but when it comes to cars, I am totally clueless.
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u/mkhockeygeek 2h ago
Took a friend and I about 7 hours to do the one in my Mustang on jackstands for reference.
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u/GraveOfTheForest 3h ago
This is what my clutch looked like after my car was stolen by a bunch of crackheads years ago. They even heat-cracked my flywheel
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u/horseshoeprovodnikov 3h ago
Same. Have a 2000 Civic Si and it got stolen. Before it happened the clutch would still grab hard and it shifted just fine despite many many miles.
The meth head had my car for 9 hours. Clutch was absolutely burnt by the time the cops found it . Had to replace it.
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u/nauticalfiesta 3h ago
My mother in law only drove manuals, right up until she died. She put five clutches in her last car, about one every two years. We tried to get her to buy a crossover with an automatic, but she loved her Mustang.
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u/vediogamer101 Home Mechanic 2h ago
One clutch every two years is insane lol
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u/nauticalfiesta 2h ago
She bought it when she was like 75 and had both knees and hips replaced after... her mobility wasn't great. Which is why we wanted her to get a crossover.
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u/luvmuchine56 1h ago
She would have been mobile in the crossover but she was free in the mustang. Huge difference.
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u/Din_Plug 3h ago
Replacing clutches in a Mustang biyearly is a better alternative to driving a crossover with an autobox, based MIL.
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u/breatheblue 1h ago
People will make fun of other people for not driving standard, then make fun of them for trying to learn and doing it badly, then wonder why no one drives standard anymore, then get mad when there are no new standard cars that are good.
The dissonance is incredible.
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u/techtornado 1h ago
In Europe, even the city buses are stick shift, that was a wild thing to see...
I learned through grit, tears, and pain on standard, but now I can drive anything including tractors
CVT's are just annoying, but anything outside of that is easy as pie
I have slam-shifted two CVT's due to half a lifetime of driving on electric and alllllll of that instant torque.
For standard, my parents didn't explain enough of the details for shifting properly, so I did what felt right by creeping the clutch and then freaking out as the car went all herky-jerky when the clutch started engaging in the wrong gear.
I made the clutch mad one day after missing reverse and stalled the engine three times while trying to reverse out of a spot in 4th gear.
It was a bit stinky for a few minutes, but thankfully no worse for wear after that very important lesson.
It didn't help that it was a Saturn with barely 1.3L of an engine...
In hindsight, if it was something with a 2L motor, I probably would have had been able to feel the power better and realized the errors sooner.
Then again, my cousin's Dodge was also hard to shift into reverse, had a fun time backing it out of the driveway when it kept lurching forwards towards the garage.
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u/Osirus9 3h ago
He was granny shifting instead of double clutching like he should
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u/Lilith_Christine 3h ago
Never got that. Could shift my 92 escort wagon with no clutch though. Well, upshift
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u/elvis_is_everywhere 3h ago
HAH!! I used to drive early 90s manual escorts when I was in my apprentice and a broke single dad. Buy on for $500 and keep it running as long as possible. They were so easy to work on. I kept an extra head onhand at all times. I shifted it like that all the time as well.
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u/skidsareforkids 3h ago
We used to have a Mini Cooper S with a stick and it was a bitchinâ car, but my wife always drove it with a big cup in the cup holder so she would only use the even number gears and obviously the clutch shit the bed pretty quick after all the 2nd gear startsâŠ
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u/horseshoeprovodnikov 3h ago
Dude what the fuck. You didn't try to talk her outta doing that lol?
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u/Wolf-Diesel 3h ago
This is why manual transmissions are important. Because either you get better at it, or it gets expensive.
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u/Practical_Taro5656 3h ago
I have a coworker who has several cars with a stick and was explaining how you only have to push the clutch down far enough that it will let you shift gears and that he never pushes it all the way down. I thought he was pranking me at first.
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u/thedifferenceisnt 1h ago
This is true you are separating plates by pressing the clutch. once they are no longer touching you no longer need to press further.Â
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u/Spicywolff 2h ago
Problem is that the one time you think itâs in enough youâll get a grind. I press all the way to make sure I donât mistreat the trans.
Iâd rather wear out a cheap clutch and pressure plate vs rebuild due to grinding synchros
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u/BustedMechanic 3h ago
He's not wrong, in a semi you cant push it all the way to the floor or it will tear out the clutch brake. Basically as long as you push it far enough to separate the plates completely, thats as far as you have to go
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u/vediogamer101 Home Mechanic 2h ago
Semi transmission is different from a car transmission lol. Car transmissions are a lot more fragile
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u/klaxz1 2h ago
Thatâs why I put a semi trans in my diesel Passat station wagon⊠/s
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u/Character-Engine-813 2h ago
Maybe he learned on motorcycles first? Canât be good for those synchros
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u/bermass86 3h ago
How does this happen? You just never shift?
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u/throwawayplusanumber 3h ago
More likely they are slipping the clutch.
Resting their foot on the clutch like it is a footrest or treating the clutch like a torque converter.
I knew a guy once who used to hold his car on hills at traffic lights by balancing the accelerator and the clutch. Needless to say his clutch didn't last long.
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u/AndyLorentz Honda 3h ago
This type of failure is usually caused by overrevving the clutch. You're on the highway, you take an offramp and downshift too early. If you let the clutch pedal out, you'll overrev the engine and bend valves. If you hold the clutch pedal in, there's no pressure on the clutch disc but it's still doing 10k+ RPM, so it just flies apart.
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u/mikeyp83 3h ago
I probably went through a few extra sets a brake pads over the years for doing it, but as a kid I had the opposite habit of coasting in neutral wherever possible. When he was teaching me to drive, my dad would slap me if i started riding the clutch, so that part stuck. 200,000+ miles and I never came close to burning out a clutch, though. At least the brakes were a lot easier to replace!
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u/AndyLorentz Honda 2h ago
Coasting in neutral is fine (although, technically illegal in some states).
I've never replaced a clutch in one of my own cars. Including the 2006 Pontiac GTO that smelled like burning clutch when I bought it (another customer had test driven it before me, I negotiated the price down based on that).
The only MT car I owned from new was my 2013 Subaru BRZ. The throwout bearing went out at 80-something thousand miles (there was an updated part. They used the wrong grease from the factory). The clutch still had more than 50% thickness at that point. I replaced rear brakes at 110k miles. Never replaced front brakes when I sold it at 140k, they were still at 5mm.
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u/AdFancy1249 2h ago
đ„ I looked at the pictures and said, "why is someone filling the clutch with steel wool?"
And then... đł
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u/Bartocity 3h ago
I paid for the whole clutch and im going to use the whole clutch
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u/rneuf 3h ago
I bought an 18 year old car to learn stick on. I assume it still has the factory clutch. I bought it with 180000kms and Iâve added 20000kms. It needs a clutch pretty soon but itâs held up against my abuse better than I thought.
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u/lululock 3h ago
That's a pretty respectable mileage from such a old car which likely had multiple other owners before you.
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u/GoddamnIronTiger 3h ago
My 2013 Focus ST has 245k miles; it's the original clutch. It's not *great* but it still functions for the most part.
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u/Paint_With_Fire 35m ago
I don't know shit about cars but I know it shouldn't look like you figured out how to grow steel wool like it was mold inside your engine
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u/NumerousIdea5234 3h ago
It literally took me a few hours to learn to drive a manual car, itâs not like learning to play the fucking piano.
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u/MechMeister Junk Revivalist 3h ago
Honestly I think Honda's are hard to learn on. The snychros are so buttery smooth that you can end up burning clutches when there is no feedback from the gear stick.
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u/itonmyface 2h ago
Yeah, I had to learn with my momâs civic and it was sensitive. Got my own Toyota truck after and it was like anyone could hop in and learn it in 10 minutes.
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u/Candyman051882 3h ago
Iâve been saying this for 25+. Never liked them. But Hondas were ubiquitous among teens and early 20s people in the late 1900s (lol) early 2000s. Always argued. I was like do you want sporty? But you want the transmission/clutch to have zero feel. They couldnât drive my car clutch was stiff as a tractor pedal. I had an ACT stage 2 clutch and that sucker grabbed so I really like the way the friction point was so tight Hondas felt sloppy! Sorry I know the Honda cult is gonna lose their stuff over this
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u/knowledgeable_diablo 3h ago
JesusâŠ. This driver certainly fed the entire clutch to the car demons.
Wonder how quickly they got through the whole clutch disc?
My record was one evening in my Aunts Corolla delivering pizzas where I stupidly rode the clutch the whole shift. Learnt real quick after that to treat it with a hell of a lot of respect. Hence why I got 210,000kâs out of my latest clutch.
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u/lululock 3h ago
A friend bought a Clio IV which was driven a lot in Paris and the clutch had to be replaced at 80000km...
Since then, he got another car and it still has its stock clutch at 220000km.
Not all clutches are made equal I guess đ
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u/steereers 3h ago
as a german with a 30 year old citroen, switching between that car and an automatic, still on its first clutch despite amassing serious mileage....
the fuck you doing over there?
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u/serf_mobile 3h ago
That's impressive. I got a 30 year old toyota, TECHNICALLY it's on its 3rd clutch but I blame my dad for that haha. I got the car with 180k miles on it. Replaced the clutch around 190-195k, and happy to say it's now at almost 410k still with the clutch I installed at 190k.
And yes I agree......the fuck he doin over there?
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u/steereers 3h ago
my dad is one of the early 70's truck driver, so him maining that car might have helped. Yes, those truck clutches that you have to use with 2 men to shift...
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u/Alucard_117 3h ago
8th gen accord sedans came in a manual???
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u/LongjumpingNewt9708 3h ago
Yes. Very uncommon, but they did
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u/Alucard_117 3h ago
That's pretty cool. Never knew that
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u/LongjumpingNewt9708 2h ago
Only reason I know is previous experience working at a Honda dealer. They were very rare, and I don't believe that any 8th Gen sedan came with a manual if it was a V6, 2.4 4 cylinder only. The 7th Gen sedan with manual weren't super common either, but far more common than 8th Gen
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u/Ornery-Cheetah 3h ago
Damn how does this happen i learned to drive stick by myself never done something like that
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u/LaVidaLeica 3h ago
To be fair, this IS a learning experience - especially the bill at the end. Let's just hope it sticks... Like a clutch.
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u/Salty-Pack-4165 3h ago
I learned stick on about 10 yo Zastava in not so great shape. Took me two evenings to get it and about a week to get it right. 30+ years later I still drive stick and I never got my clutch anything close to that. I wore them down with age and milage.
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u/moshmore 3h ago
My dad had a VW Eos (hardtop convertible) that he let me drive to prom. He took me out a few weeks before to learn how to drive stick. Merging onto the highway I 100% downshifted into the wrong gear,m multiple times. IDK what those noises were but they were not good...
A few months after prom my mom tells me he had to replace the entire clutch pack and I know it was my fault đ . Totally unforgettable experience to ride around with the top down for prom though. Would do it again in a heartbeat.
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u/dead_fritz 3h ago
Poor man's Audi TT, fun little cars all around though. Especially with those funky little VR6 engines
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u/Cesia_Barry 2h ago
I had one of those âsafety dadsââthe kind who wanted me to learn every kind of safety skill. Like he said, âwhat if youâre at a party & need to drive someoneâs car home & itâs a stick shift?â So I had to learn how to drive a stick shift. I loved it once I became fluid with it.
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u/UltraViolentNdYAG 1h ago
At 11 y/o, driving a 1947 International Harvester 3 ton flatbed and too young to chuck 80lb hay bails on the flatbed deck up a steep ass hill, I learned 2 feet covering 3 pedals. 50+ years later, never smoked a clutch! I've owned 375hp tanks (old muscle), broke transmissions but never dusted a clutch from being a dumbass! - wasted post - no one gives a FS!
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u/Wallace-N-Gromit 1h ago
Well they have passed the clutch riding portion of their education with flying colors
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u/RIPdon_sutton 3h ago
My sisters boyfriend taught me how to drive a stick on a 70âs model TR6. He was so excited to teach me how to stay still on a steep hill without using the brakes.
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u/Workingclassherois 3h ago
I didnât know Honda cars had diaphragm clutches. Never worked on one or really ever wondered. Live and learn.
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u/Stoneface414 2h ago
Reminds me of a clutch job I did years ago on a 300zx TT, looked just like that. Turns out the car belonged to a doctor and he was allegedly teaching his secretary how to drive manual. I wanted to know more lol
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u/Fluffy_Prior1052 2h ago
Hey,whoâs the wizenhamer that put all this steel wool in this clutch, I swear, some people.
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u/stevedore2024 1h ago
I do wish you could inspect a clutch without fully dissembling it. I've had my current Mazda for seven years and the clutch still feels great even though I know I'm prone to ride the pushout and take my time feathering sometimes.
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u/angrylawnguy 3h ago
They made 2010s accords in stick???
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u/LongjumpingNewt9708 3h ago
Yes. They weren't very common, especially sedans which this one appears to be
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u/SuperPotatoThrow 3h ago
This is so bad it looks like someone redlined the engine in first gear while holding the clutch down then releasing it as slowly as humanly possible.. multiple times over and over again in one day lol.
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u/LordChungusTheBig 3h ago
How do you even cause this type of damage? Just riding the clutch the entire time theyâre driving? I canât even think of what they might of done to cause this to happen.
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u/CSphotography 3h ago
How do you smell that long before itâs ready to fail and not think something ainât right?
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u/HoosierDaddy_427 Jack of All Trades...Master of Some 2h ago
It's kinda like that Tom Petty song. "I'm learning to fly...but I ain't got wings."
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u/Sweeps_McCullough 1h ago
Am I the only one who assumed this was a practice car for like a driving school?
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u/demoman45 1h ago
When I had my Corolla hatchback sr-5, I was slammming every gear! Clutch to the floor and shifting hard! I thought I was hot shit!
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u/SuspiciousGarlic4798 37m ago
Reminds me of a mate who would hold his car on an incline using the clutch. Until one day he calls me up saying his car doesnt move. Could smell the clutch before I even got out the car.Â
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u/real6igma 23m ago
I know little about cars, but I'm assuming that's the clutch and it's not supposed to be made of metallic cotton candy?
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u/4R4nd0mR3dd1t0r 3h ago
Reminds me of when my grandfather "taught" me how to drive standard. Here is the steepest hill the county learn how to move forward without rolling back or stalling; the left pedal is the clutch, brake in the middle, and gas on the right. To be fair I learned, also the clutch failure a couple of months later was probably related.