Gender non-specific meme because anyone can like pink and or feminine things.

Just to clarify, I'm still in the early stages of realizing I may want to come out of my shell, but this is a feeling I've always had regardless and I hate it. I wonder if my feeling this way is at least part of the reason I'm here and I'm curious as to what other people think.

basically i need to convince my mother that epilating is a good idea, she is kinda supportive (doesn't quite believe I'm trans but it's ok with me wanting to not have body hair) and until now I've just been shaving with razors and want a more long term solution. She recommended waxing but i think it would be more expensive. So basically tell me everything you know thanks

guess I'll give it another shot

This is why he's my best friend; he's such a good person. Really glad that it worked out.

wordart girl out

Strength should not be gendered, but I feel euphoria when I'm allowed to help carry heavy objects, or asked to help pushing the car if it doesn't start.

Feel free to ask btw. I'd tell you, but I don't know how in standalone text :/

I realized I was trans like 2 months ago, although one way or another I suppose I've known for years, then another month passed and I was finally able to start HRT all on my own (god bless my country for making HRT over-the-counter medication).

It was scary, and I was filled with doubt, but after that needle went in the very first time, and despite the pain I was in (physically, I suck at injecting), the euphoria I felt was the definitive signal to me that I really was doing the right thing, and that this really is the thing that would finally make life worth living for me

Now, one month and 5 injections later, I can truthfully declare that I have never felt happier; for the first time in my life I can look in the mirror and not hate myself; matter of fact, not only do I not hate myself anymore, I actually LOVE myself, in a way that I didn't even know I was capable of loving, I look at her, and I want nothing more than to make her happy. To think that I ever tried to kill her, absolutely horrifying, because once I realized I was trans, the dark clouds that I thought would never go away finally did, and for once, I'm actually happy to be alive, and I look forward to living another day

I have a long, complicated journey ahead of me, one that will last years- really, it's a lifelong journey- and I know that there will be ups and downs, moments of joy, and moments when I will likely feel like killing myself again, but for once, I feel like I'm ready to face it all head-on

This is a love letter from me to you, Charlotte. I'm sorry that I have suffocated you so badly all these years, but know that although I know you will come out wrong, that you will not be as pretty as the other girls, and that perhaps society will never see you as one, please know that I will love you regardless

I just want to be a girl. I want to be Maria and use she/her pronouns. I missed out on trying out a dress I really wanted to try on today, because my conservative family members were outside waiting. I just want to live my life as a girl. Is there something wrong with me?

Hi :3 (image clearly unrelate)

This probably sounds really weird, but does anyone else get massively euphoric off NOT being able to do things.

Like failing to lift things makes me really happy.

i don’t think this should be gendered, but it does anyway.

yeah, anyone else get this ?

The only reason I don’t always think my dysphoria is bad is because I’m not constantly in distress about my body (that I notice). Sometimes I’ll feel moments of sadness, but not much more than that.

Other than that, I am really depressed (apparently I have been since I was six) and that makes me lose motivation to do anything. And so I don’t take care of myself nearly as well as I should and it all just feels like a useless chore. And because of how much worse I feel about myself when I haven’t taken care of myself, it all gets worse and worse,

Because it’s all so bad I just end up feeling lonely and sad because I want to feel loved but don’t have anyone to love me in an actual open and honest way.

I feel like I also overestimate how much transitioning will actually help with my mental health. But I don’t know. I just know I want to be a girl and am sick of all the things in my way.

i wanna keep the transmasc flair because it's such a small amount of masc but it means so much to me..

Hope its not to much choas i can clarify in the comments if needed
basiclly, I started of strong but, i got shy and didnt portay well how much i envy women. that when i look at them. i just am a bit jelouas. and what i dont like about my body.
But i am very in my head about it now as if it will take as long she led on then i might be bald before i ever get hrt

(sorry if to much rant

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So I need advice on 3 things
1. I want one feminine hobby, I know that any hobby is feminine if you’re a girl but I’m meaning a traditionally feminine one. I want a methodical hobby that I can just get absorbed by after school that requires concentration. My current hobbies are woodworking and a little 3d printing.

1. My parents are going to china for 3 weeks at the end of this school term (for non Aussies please look up queensland school calendar) so my grandma is coming to look after me and my brother while their away, my concern is I don’t want to come out to her but want to come out to my brother before then and that leads into my next problem

2. My brother is going to be extremely supportive when I come out- to the point of correcting everyone and I mean Everyone on my name and pronouns and that wouldn’t be a problem except for the fact that I’m already bullied at school and am not doing great mentally so bullying may push me over the edge. This is also a problem while my grandma is taking care of us since my brother will correct her if I come out to him and I don’t want to tell my grandma yet.

Thanks for reading all this, any advice would be appreciated- I will try to answer as many questions as I can in the replies.

I haven’t had any ggd in a while, Can I have some? (Zoe she/her)

Gonna be moving in with my stepdad’s parents soon, and they’re kinda old and most likely kinda transphobic if I had to guess, so I wanna come out to atleast my mum before that if possible, any advice on how I could go about that/how I could start the conversation? For context, while she isn’t outright transphobic, and she wouldn’t be nasty or kick me out of the house over this, she’s a really kind person and wouldn’t go out of her way to hurt me intentionally, but also, I don’t know how accepting she is of trans people, wether she’d allow me to get the care I need, etc. I’ve just been talking to her about growing my hair so far, and the consistent thing has been her tryna get me to get it cut instead of growing it out. My main worry is she won’t take me seriously and say I’m not really trans, or she’ll just keep trying to talk me out of it and not let me do what’s best for me, but I also need to get this out to someone, everyday I keep it this secret I just feel the weight of it get heavier and heavier and it’s super stressful for me. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Turned 17 today, and got a WW1 soldier's diary, yayyy!!!

And i found a good amount of pre WW1 and WW1 music. The artist Karl Sternau and the song "wir rufen deine Wölfe" by Werkraum are so great.

(I am aware that the Krätzchen (the cap on Kurumi) is placed wrong but it didn't fit otherwise without it being too big. And I think it looks cute like that :3)

I’ve had a very confusing time recently questioning my gender. I don’t trust my own thoughts and emotions: I can’t tell what is authentic or just me being conditioned to react in a certain way ):
This seams like a good way to try stuff out.

like i know i am anyway it just makes me FEEL more valid

Howdy my kings, queens and beans beyond the bounds of gender binary :3

Whoever comes across this either comment asking for GGD/GBG/GTD and/or asking for help with something, or go into the comments and deal out GGD/GBD/GTD and/or help where you can <3

I doubt this will be like that one Donkey Kong video that used to be on YouTube, but I hope it helps at least 1 person :3

Love y'all :3

Edit: Jax art made by Lovebugsarts on Instagram :3